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disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-02-13 01:30:43
July 17 2009 16:09 GMT
#1
and so am I

***
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
nttea
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Sweden4353 Posts
July 17 2009 16:11 GMT
#2
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:12 GMT
#3
As long as it's not yours, don't fret too much. It's her choice, to keep the baby.
Peace~
JWD
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States12607 Posts
July 17 2009 16:20 GMT
#4
Try to be friendly and supportive, but don't get too involved. This is really between her and her new boyfriend...I foresee danger if you get too close and let yourself fall for her again.
✌
PluS
Profile Joined January 2005
United States80 Posts
July 17 2009 16:20 GMT
#5
ITS NOT URS TILL THE DNA TEST BRO
Go Fuck Yourself
citi.zen
Profile Joined April 2009
2509 Posts
July 17 2009 16:23 GMT
#6
Definitely stay away from giving any "advice" to her, one way or another. These are VERY hard choices, which she may come to regret later - best she make them herself.

Other than that... fanaticist is right: don't fret too much :-)
Aut viam inveniam, aut faciam.
Nyovne
Profile Joined March 2006
Netherlands19135 Posts
July 17 2009 16:24 GMT
#7
With all due respect but, dodged that bullet dude.
ModeratorFor remember, that in the end, some are born to live, others born to die. I belong to those last, born to burn, born to cry. For I shall remain alone... forsaken.
KH1031
Profile Blog Joined April 2003
United States862 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 16:36:12
July 17 2009 16:36 GMT
#8
Gift ideas:
If I did It - OJ Simpson

It wasn't Me - Shaggy

That should send a clear signal...or not.
Marradron
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Netherlands1586 Posts
July 17 2009 16:37 GMT
#9
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo
Kgosi
Profile Joined July 2009
Iceland79 Posts
July 17 2009 16:37 GMT
#10
On July 18 2009 01:24 Nyovne wrote:
With all due respect but, dodged that bullet dude.


QFT
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:38 GMT
#11
On July 18 2009 01:37 Marradron wrote:
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo

Girls use you as a shoulder to cry on, they feel good about the fact that a guy they haven't spoken to in over a year is willing to hear their shit. That's how they raise their self-esteem.
Peace~
MrHoon *
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
10183 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 16:42:37
July 17 2009 16:42 GMT
#12
man thread titles these days are so misleading
I was hoping for some huge irl drama

But yeah disciple, stay away from her at all costs. Keep making your awesome banners and try to forget that this ever happened. Oh right but don't be a dick to her but at the same time not so nice
dats racist
deathgod6
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States5064 Posts
July 17 2009 16:42 GMT
#13
On July 18 2009 01:20 JWD wrote:
Try to be friendly and supportive, but don't get too involved. This is really between her and her new boyfriend...I foresee danger if you get too close and let yourself fall for her again.

The unfolding of a real life Korean drama?
4.0 GPA = A rank 5.0 GPA = Olympic --------- Bisu, Best, Fantasy. i ♥ oov. They can get in my BoxeR anyday.
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 16:47 GMT
#14
Which city is she in?
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:54 GMT
#15
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.
Peace~
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
July 17 2009 16:54 GMT
#16
lol I'm not the father for sure, and I'm not planning to make any effort to rebuild any sort of relationship with her. To think about it right now, its a cool thing that she personally let me know about this but on the other hand I wouldn't do the same for her. I respect her a hole lot, but I dont want to be part of her life. If she invites to a wedding or smth I will go, but no more.

I told her she has my support and going home is the right thing to do, so I guess I did just fine in the situation. Btw she is in Stuttgart atm, I'm in Freiburg
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
ghostWriter
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3302 Posts
July 17 2009 16:55 GMT
#17
On July 18 2009 01:12 fanatacist wrote:
As long as it's not yours, don't fret too much. It's her choice, to keep the baby.


Yea seriously. A baby so early in your life could just ruin the rest of it.
Supporting her is nice, but ultimately, it is not your problem.
Sullifam
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 16:56 GMT
#18
On July 18 2009 01:54 fanatacist wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.


Nonsense. I'm certain that a Sino-Bulgar child has never existed in history.
indecision
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Germany818 Posts
July 17 2009 16:58 GMT
#19
what kinda difference does a Chinese father make?
MrHoon *
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
10183 Posts
July 17 2009 17:01 GMT
#20
On July 18 2009 01:58 indecision wrote:
what kinda difference does a Chinese father make?

must... resist... bad chinese... joke... UHGGG
dats racist
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 17:03 GMT
#21
The child will probably be beaten into a regimented and unhappy childhood, and grow up with a dearth of imagination and wit. In that case I would advise the prospective mother to remain in Germany after all.
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 17:08:12
July 17 2009 17:07 GMT
#22
On July 18 2009 02:03 MoltkeWarding wrote:
The child will probably be beaten into a regimented and unhappy childhood, and grow up with a dearth of imagination and wit. In that case I would advise the prospective mother to remain in Germany after all.

hahaha I'm completely sure nothing like that will happen, at least from a financial point of view she wont have any problems taking care of 5 kids, if thats the only problem with it. Besides I have no idea how she will make it in here, taking care of new born in a foreign country. If she is in Bulgaria at least the grandmother could change the dippers while she is getting drunk in the disco
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 17:10 GMT
#23
On July 18 2009 01:56 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:54 fanatacist wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.


Nonsense. I'm certain that a Sino-Bulgar child has never existed in history.

I would like you to provide evidence to support this certainty which you state so plainly, when it is evident that any combination of races can reproduce at any time with the advent of the internet and airfare.
Peace~
ForTheSwarm
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States556 Posts
July 17 2009 17:17 GMT
#24
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


Lol. She wanted you to come over and punch her stomach as hard as you can.
Whenever I see a dropship, my asshole tingles, because it knows whats coming... - TheAntZ
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 17:20 GMT
#25
On July 18 2009 02:10 fanatacist wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:56 MoltkeWarding wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:54 fanatacist wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.


Nonsense. I'm certain that a Sino-Bulgar child has never existed in history.

I would like you to provide evidence to support this certainty which you state so plainly, when it is evident that any combination of races can reproduce at any time with the advent of the internet and airfare.


My evidence is that I've never seen one or heard of one. Apart from that, logical induction tells me that no Bulgar would marry a Chinaman.
BloodyC0bbler
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
Canada7876 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 17:25:13
July 17 2009 17:24 GMT
#26
On July 18 2009 02:17 For_The_Swarm wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


Lol. She wanted you to come over and punch her stomach as hard as you can.


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EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
July 17 2009 17:27 GMT
#27
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.
Moderatorhttp://carbonleaf.yuku.com/topic/408/t/So-I-proposed-at-a-Carbon-Leaf-concert.html ***** RIP Geoff
piratebay
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States399 Posts
July 17 2009 17:28 GMT
#28
hahahahahaha falcon PUNCH!

but yeah dude, it aint your problem.
just tell her good luck and send her on her merry way in ruining her future.

u dodged a bullet yo
Naib
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Hungary4843 Posts
July 17 2009 17:29 GMT
#29
This blog serves two purposes:

1, laughing at another 'logical' Moltke comment (Jesus, could you be more pretentious?)
2, teaching disciple that even though "hole" and "whole" are pronounced in a similar way, they are different words.

I.e. "this whole situation" etc.

This isn't flamebait, I love your banners disciple, and as a fellow Bisu zealot you have my full support in whatever you do!
Complete the cycle!
piratebay
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States399 Posts
July 17 2009 17:30 GMT
#30
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


i personally think she was really nervous and wanted some reassurance she was doing the right thing. i mean the guy was with her for years right(the poster on here)?

maybe she wanted to hear she was making a mistake or something, but most likely, she just needed some reassurance on a big blind leap into a different path of life.
NintendoPrincess
Profile Joined July 2009
United States50 Posts
July 17 2009 17:34 GMT
#31
okay she said you were the second person to know n her mother was the first well when in the hell did she find time to tell the babys daddy or is she going to spring it on him.. let me be honest from the way it sounds he doesnt know so the probably ended it he moved away and nows she's nocked up and know's that you are such a sweet guy u prbably wouldn't let her fall on her on face but she still afraid to ask you to take her back ......... dude stay away from that its bad juju she messed her life up dont let her mess yours up 2 run man run ....


luv ya byebye >
unknown.sam
Profile Joined May 2007
Philippines2701 Posts
July 17 2009 17:38 GMT
#32
wow that's pretty weird...i guess the reason she told you is because of the years you guys spent together. USUALLY when 2 people are together for that long they know each other inside out and feel extremely comfortable in whatever situation. so that's pretty much my guess...it seems to me you're still the 'go-to' guy (but i have been wrong before).
"Thanks for the kind words, but if SS is the most interesting book you've ever read, you must have just started reading a couple of weeks ago." - Mark Rippetoe
Ingenol
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1328 Posts
July 17 2009 17:40 GMT
#33
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.

This is interesting, but also interesting is that biologically men tend to respond more strongly to stress/emotional symptoms. Consequently, their stress hormones/responses become more easily agitated and they are less able to deal with emotionally intense situations, leading to a man's greater propensity to "walk away" from a situation or to take some time to cool off.

There's a study where a group of 6-year-olds were presented with a two-way baby monitor on the other end of which was a crying baby. The boys were much more likely to turn the monitor off, whereas the girls would try to calm the baby down; however, rather than being disinterested or unable to sympathize with the baby, the boys had markedly higher levels of stress hormones than the girls, leading them to be unable to stand the situation and thus turn the monitor off.

Sorry for the rambling, but I think OP's situation shows that women are a lot more likely to reach out for emotional support in troubling times, whereas men try to ignore it, and it's curious that there seem to be fundamental biological reasons for this.
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 17:40 GMT
#34
On July 18 2009 02:20 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 02:10 fanatacist wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:56 MoltkeWarding wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:54 fanatacist wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.


Nonsense. I'm certain that a Sino-Bulgar child has never existed in history.

I would like you to provide evidence to support this certainty which you state so plainly, when it is evident that any combination of races can reproduce at any time with the advent of the internet and airfare.


My evidence is that I've never seen one or heard of one. Apart from that, logical induction tells me that no Bulgar would marry a Chinaman.


Logical induction tells me that no first-hand experience is not an appropriate candidate for classification as "evidence," and that you have a hard time accepting the fact that people of an ethnicity do not have to follow the general trends of the culture from which they originate. If there are both Western and Eastern Europeans traveling to Asian nations for both business and leisure on a daily basis, there can easily be a non-traditionalist Bulgar who finds love in China. Your sinophobia is markedly humorous but also transparently false in both its tenacity and subliminal voracity.
Peace~
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 17:43:06
July 17 2009 17:41 GMT
#35
On July 18 2009 02:29 Naib wrote:
This blog serves two purposes:

1, laughing at another 'logical' Moltke comment (Jesus, could you be more pretentious?)
2, teaching disciple that even though "hole" and "whole" are pronounced in a similar way, they are different words.

I.e. "this whole situation" etc.

This isn't flamebait, I love your banners disciple, and as a fellow Bisu zealot you have my full support in whatever you do!


I am doing a presentation on Anglo-Hungarian relations next week. Mind if I use your post to exhibit the differences between English and Hungarian humour?
NintendoPrincess
Profile Joined July 2009
United States50 Posts
July 17 2009 17:41 GMT
#36
RUN !!!!!!!
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 17:45:35
July 17 2009 17:41 GMT
#37
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.

There are lots of things motivating people to do things both consciously and unconsciously. This is easily one of the reasons, but I think like I said before, the idea that you can call a boyfriend from years ago and have them care about you is a comfort and an ego-booster.
Peace~
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 17:47:27
July 17 2009 17:43 GMT
#38
having the baby and going back home has nothing to do with him. She just wanted to tell me that she will have the child no matter what, even if he has smth against it. I'm just guessing she will marry the guy, cause thats what I would do.

and I really really want to be taken as a person and not as a banner / wallpaper guy... I'm doing gfx stuff for the community, because I'm enjoying it, I dont see it as a work or service...
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 17:45 GMT
#39
Marry*

No one thinks of anyone on this site as just a machine cranking out useful things (except konadora maybe). I think most people on TL are mature enough to realize there are real people with real people at the keyboard behind the alias. It's just that it's easy to associate people with what they are known for. Konadora is a forum whore/translator. I am an asshole. You do graphics.

Keep on rolling.
Peace~
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
July 17 2009 17:48 GMT
#40
ah fuck... I'm in the uni and for whatever reason the browser is not fixing my typos. This is how bad my english actually is
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
Ronald_McD
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada807 Posts
July 17 2009 17:50 GMT
#41
On July 18 2009 01:42 MrHoon wrote:
man thread titles these days are so misleading
I was hoping for some huge irl drama

This.

I had a friend who broke up with his ex and found out a few months later that she was pregnant. He has a 2 or 3 year old daughter now. The dumb ass didn't wear a condom. Or even at least pull out lol.

Anyways, this blog is a lot less dramatic than I was suspecting. It's not really your problem, but I guess she was just reminding you as a friendly concern just in case it at least matters to you at all
FUCKING GAY LAGS
citi.zen
Profile Joined April 2009
2509 Posts
July 17 2009 17:52 GMT
#42
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote: He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why?


Not well integrated socially in Germany & lonely. This may be why she got pregnant on vacation in Bulgaria too I guess...
Aut viam inveniam, aut faciam.
Klive5ive
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United Kingdom6056 Posts
July 17 2009 18:02 GMT
#43
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.

That's a gem of a post ETT. I hope the OP reads it.

My humble take is that she's probably very scared at this point. If she was going to raise the child she would need support. A part of her (however small) wanted to ring you, just in case you would meet her and maybe get back together. She knew it was a ridiculous long shot, but I guess she still trusts you more than this other guy.
Everything has now changed for her.
Don't hate the player - Hate the game
Boonbag
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
France3318 Posts
July 17 2009 18:04 GMT
#44
On July 18 2009 01:20 JWD wrote:
Try to be friendly and supportive, but don't get too involved. This is really between her and her new boyfriend...I foresee danger if you get too close and let yourself fall for her again.

meegrean
Profile Joined May 2008
Thailand7699 Posts
July 17 2009 18:05 GMT
#45
yeah.. what does she expect you to say..? heh.
Brood War loyalist
NintendoPrincess
Profile Joined July 2009
United States50 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 18:18:00
July 17 2009 18:15 GMT
#46
On July 18 2009 02:43 disciple wrote:
having the baby and going back home has nothing to do with him. She just wanted to tell me that she will have the child no matter what, even if he has smth against it. I'm just guessing she will marry the guy, cause thats what I would do.

and I really really want to be taken as a person and not as a banner / wallpaper guy... I'm doing gfx stuff for the community, because I'm enjoying it, I dont see it as a work or service...





okay i'm not trying to be mean but if you already knew all of this why are you making this blog and asking everyone why you think she called when you really don't care in the first place i feel that you might have some misplaced issues with this young woman that might have never really had disovled.
foeffa
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Belgium2115 Posts
July 17 2009 18:23 GMT
#47
Not your burden to bear bro.
觀過斯知仁矣.
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
July 17 2009 18:30 GMT
#48
I care a lot about her, it was just so that we could'nt 'just be friends'
This doesnt mean, that I have no interest in whats going on with her. As I said, I respect her a lot, but I really dont know how to help or to support her right now, cause I'm not part of her life for a very long time now. Therefore I dont understand why she called me in first place. I'm just a long good memory thats all
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
Klive5ive
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United Kingdom6056 Posts
July 17 2009 18:37 GMT
#49
On July 18 2009 03:30 disciple wrote:
I care a lot about her, it was just so that we could'nt 'just be friends'
This doesnt mean, that I have no interest in whats going on with her. As I said, I respect her a lot, but I really dont know how to help or to support her right now, cause I'm not part of her life for a very long time now. Therefore I dont understand why she called me in first place. I'm just a long good memory thats all

Don't you think it has something to do with all her priorities changing?
Suddenly she realises she needs to be with someone that she can really trust, you're that person.
Even though she'd never admit it, I bet she wishes she was still with you right now.
Don't hate the player - Hate the game
Eatme
Profile Blog Joined June 2003
Switzerland3919 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 18:40:23
July 17 2009 18:40 GMT
#50
Well girls have weird memory so 14months is nothing. Girls I've had various forms of relationships with can drag up stories for an infinite time in the past. Yesterday a girl i hooked up with a few times for some unknown reason got mad at me and started talking about a girl I made out with at a party 7years ago. Havent seen that girl since that night so the logic for bringing that up is something a guy could never understand.
Women are like elephants, never forget anything.
I have the best fucking lawyers in the country including the man they call the Malmis.
StorrZerg
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States13919 Posts
July 17 2009 18:49 GMT
#51
On July 18 2009 01:38 fanatacist wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:37 Marradron wrote:
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo

Girls use you as a shoulder to cry on, they feel good about the fact that a guy they haven't spoken to in over a year is willing to hear their shit. That's how they raise their self-esteem.


Your an epitome of information on how to deal with women
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fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 19:03 GMT
#52
On July 18 2009 03:49 StorrZerg wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:38 fanatacist wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:37 Marradron wrote:
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo

Girls use you as a shoulder to cry on, they feel good about the fact that a guy they haven't spoken to in over a year is willing to hear their shit. That's how they raise their self-esteem.


Your an epitome of information on how to deal with women

Yea I have some know-how. I'm no Kennigit though.
Peace~
DivinO
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States4796 Posts
July 17 2009 19:15 GMT
#53
I think what you did was good.

You supported her, I suppose?
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freelander
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Hungary4707 Posts
July 17 2009 19:27 GMT
#54
On July 18 2009 02:41 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 02:29 Naib wrote:
This blog serves two purposes:

1, laughing at another 'logical' Moltke comment (Jesus, could you be more pretentious?)
2, teaching disciple that even though "hole" and "whole" are pronounced in a similar way, they are different words.

I.e. "this whole situation" etc.

This isn't flamebait, I love your banners disciple, and as a fellow Bisu zealot you have my full support in whatever you do!


I am doing a presentation on Anglo-Hungarian relations next week. Mind if I use your post to exhibit the differences between English and Hungarian humour?


Please don't take him as our representative
And all is illuminated.
Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
July 17 2009 19:33 GMT
#55
On July 18 2009 03:40 Eatme wrote:
Well girls have weird memory so 14months is nothing. Girls I've had various forms of relationships with can drag up stories for an infinite time in the past. Yesterday a girl i hooked up with a few times for some unknown reason got mad at me and started talking about a girl I made out with at a party 7years ago. Havent seen that girl since that night so the logic for bringing that up is something a guy could never understand.
Women are like elephants, never forget anything.

This is the opposite of my experiences. My ex doesnt remember shit whereas I vividly remember every detail. Ive always had a good long term memory though, and she always had a shitty one.
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 19:43 GMT
#56
On July 18 2009 04:33 Mastermind wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 03:40 Eatme wrote:
Well girls have weird memory so 14months is nothing. Girls I've had various forms of relationships with can drag up stories for an infinite time in the past. Yesterday a girl i hooked up with a few times for some unknown reason got mad at me and started talking about a girl I made out with at a party 7years ago. Havent seen that girl since that night so the logic for bringing that up is something a guy could never understand.
Women are like elephants, never forget anything.

This is the opposite of my experiences. My ex doesnt remember shit whereas I vividly remember every detail. Ive always had a good long term memory though, and she always had a shitty one.

You obviously either

1. Cared more about her than her about you
2. Had a harder time moving on than she did (who left who, and on what circumstances)

or

3. You have a feminine romantic mind and she has a male one.
Peace~
Eatme
Profile Blog Joined June 2003
Switzerland3919 Posts
July 17 2009 21:02 GMT
#57
On July 18 2009 04:33 Mastermind wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 03:40 Eatme wrote:
Well girls have weird memory so 14months is nothing. Girls I've had various forms of relationships with can drag up stories for an infinite time in the past. Yesterday a girl i hooked up with a few times for some unknown reason got mad at me and started talking about a girl I made out with at a party 7years ago. Havent seen that girl since that night so the logic for bringing that up is something a guy could never understand.
Women are like elephants, never forget anything.

This is the opposite of my experiences. My ex doesnt remember shit whereas I vividly remember every detail. Ive always had a good long term memory though, and she always had a shitty one.

Well this girl is far from the only one doing stuff like that. Dragging up random girls they know about from my past. Dont even have to be one I've done anything with, could be an old classmate or whatever. As long as it is a girl that I know or knew it seems to fly. Sure I remember those girls too but I dont know what it would have to do with anything the girl and I are talking about at the moment.
Oddly enough they dont mention my past girlfriends. Maybe just havent happend yet.
I have the best fucking lawyers in the country including the man they call the Malmis.
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
July 17 2009 21:20 GMT
#58
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-18 00:31:39
July 17 2009 23:02 GMT
#59
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?
wwww
udgnim
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States8024 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 23:03:25
July 17 2009 23:02 GMT
#60
just in case

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igotmyown
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States4291 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 23:18:56
July 17 2009 23:16 GMT
#61


"So watcha gonna do?"
Patriot.dlk
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Sweden5462 Posts
July 17 2009 23:31 GMT
#62
She probably don't have alot of friends because she moved away and had a boyfriend for so long. She picked up her phone thinking "im gonna call someone"

she had nobody to call who was better to speak to then you... When she moves back she will reconnect with old friends and you will probably hear very little from her. Ignore this call
GreEny K
Profile Joined February 2008
Germany7312 Posts
July 17 2009 23:34 GMT
#63
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.
Why would you ever choose failure, when success is an option.
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
July 18 2009 00:13 GMT
#64
On July 18 2009 08:34 GreEny K wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.

because when I say "I'll be there for you whenever you need me" I really mean it.
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
July 18 2009 00:36 GMT
#65
On July 18 2009 08:31 Patriot.dlk wrote:
She probably don't have alot of friends because she moved away and had a boyfriend for so long. She picked up her phone thinking "im gonna call someone"

she had nobody to call who was better to speak to then you... When she moves back she will reconnect with old friends and you will probably hear very little from her. Ignore this call


Wait, why should he ignore it? Maybe it should be more like "ignore your belief about her calling you because she wants to be with you again" lol?
So many ppl thinking with their dicks only
wwww
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
July 18 2009 01:45 GMT
#66
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
July 18 2009 02:48 GMT
#67
On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.

you sure you're not just jealous he's getting all this attention?
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
July 18 2009 03:04 GMT
#68
I don't get jealous of people IRL, why would that ever be the case with some stranger online?

Why would you think I was jealous btw?
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
udgnim
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States8024 Posts
July 18 2009 03:10 GMT
#69
On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.


it's a thread in the blog forum

people create blog threads about a whole variety of stuff (generally having something to do with themselves) because that's what it's meant for
E-Sports is competitive video gaming with a spectator fan base. Do not take the word "Sports" literally.
Malongo
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Chile3472 Posts
July 18 2009 03:13 GMT
#70
I think she just needs some emotional support. She called you because of your old relationship and because she didnt know how to tell the guy that he is actually a future daddy. I mean: the emphasis was that you are second to know about this (first is her mother), wich is a message from her about how much she still cares about you and how important is your opinion to her. She is expecting to get more support from you in the future and I guess you should have talked about her future as mother and her relation (or more simply why she didnt tell the guy first). As seems like you didnt I advice you to keep a nice friendship with her, she wasnt expecting more than support and a male point of view imo. I dont know about your relation, the girl, or her family but seems to me that what she needed the most was a father (or solid male opinion to trust) and in this case this figure is you.
Props to ETT that tried to solve your doubts and the only guy that noted that your main question is "why did she tell you first about this?", the rest of TL seems to be emotionally retarded :/
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HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
July 18 2009 04:06 GMT
#71
On July 18 2009 12:04 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't get jealous of people IRL, why would that ever be the case with some stranger online?

Why would you think I was jealous btw?

oh it's unrelated i guess.
was disappointed in your ex thread~ !
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
Fen
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
Australia1848 Posts
July 18 2009 08:07 GMT
#72
She told you first because she would rather be in this situation with you than with the guy. She doesnt think the guy will react well to this news.

I think shes setting herself up for a failure. She is making sure that you're still there for her, so when her boyfriend flips out, she can come to you for emotional support.
Klockan3
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
Sweden2866 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-18 12:29:06
July 18 2009 12:28 GMT
#73
On July 18 2009 01:09 disciple wrote:
so I was just like 'Congrats! I'm happy for you!'.

That was what you did wrong, this is a huge thing! If she hasn't talked about wanting a baby before then most likely this is a very heavy period for her. Talking like that just made her feel bad, you should have gone a lot slower like "Oh, is that a good thing or a bad thing?" and let her talk about it instead of assuming that everything was flowery like you did.

But if you never want to see her again you did the right thing
Commander-Zerg
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
Canada341 Posts
July 18 2009 20:55 GMT
#74
be happy it ain't yours. if it is, name him jesus but pronounce it as hay-seuss.
NastyMarine
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States1252 Posts
July 18 2009 22:15 GMT
#75
dont worry dude. I just saw my promdate for the first time in fours years - shes on her second child now. I always thought she was the one to get away. But now I realize that good thing she did. I dont want to be a dad right now. I got other shit i planned in my life.

But on your situation, it seems like shes scared and thinks she can confide in you. If your not taken back by her wanting to talk to you, you could probably be good support for her. Or maybe she just wants you, again. You'll never knows unless you take the plunge to ask her.
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The Storyteller
Profile Blog Joined January 2006
Singapore2486 Posts
July 19 2009 04:24 GMT
#76
On July 18 2009 02:03 MoltkeWarding wrote:
The child will probably be beaten into a regimented and unhappy childhood, and grow up with a dearth of imagination and wit. In that case I would advise the prospective mother to remain in Germany after all.


Yes, because the Germans are renowned for being jolly, unregimented, imaginative and witty.
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22254 Posts
July 19 2009 05:03 GMT
#77
On July 18 2009 12:13 Malongo wrote:
Props to ETT that tried to solve your doubts and the only guy that noted that your main question is "why did she tell you first about this?", the rest of TL seems to be emotionally retarded :/


Meh, I'm getting married in 6 days, so my vagina is already half-way finished.
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poilord
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Germany3252 Posts
July 19 2009 08:39 GMT
#78
Like some of the other posters have already mentioned; to me it sounds like she needs somebody to talk to and who will listen to her, so she thought "hmmm why not call my ex? we have been very close before so he will listen to my problems." Especially if you hadn't had contact in over 14 months.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
July 19 2009 09:43 GMT
#79
On July 18 2009 09:13 disciple wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:34 GreEny K wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.

because when I say "I'll be there for you whenever you need me" I really mean it.


Ughh... This is why I hate making promises
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Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-19 11:56:17
July 19 2009 11:54 GMT
#80
I've got to side with fanatacist on this one, but that's entirely dependent on the type of girl she is.

On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.
It's a fucking blog. You're the last person in the entire universe who should be criticizing other people's posting habits.
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MamiyaOtaru
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States1687 Posts
July 19 2009 20:44 GMT
#81
On July 19 2009 13:24 The Storyteller wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 02:03 MoltkeWarding wrote:
The child will probably be beaten into a regimented and unhappy childhood, and grow up with a dearth of imagination and wit. In that case I would advise the prospective mother to remain in Germany after all.


Yes, because the Germans are renowned for being jolly, unregimented, imaginative and witty.

They are. Germany is the land of poets and thinkers (Dichter und Denker). You're thinking of Prussia.
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