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disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9071 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-02-13 01:30:43
July 17 2009 16:09 GMT
#1
and so am I

***
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
nttea
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Sweden4353 Posts
July 17 2009 16:11 GMT
#2
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:12 GMT
#3
As long as it's not yours, don't fret too much. It's her choice, to keep the baby.
Peace~
JWD
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States12607 Posts
July 17 2009 16:20 GMT
#4
Try to be friendly and supportive, but don't get too involved. This is really between her and her new boyfriend...I foresee danger if you get too close and let yourself fall for her again.
✌
PluS
Profile Joined January 2005
United States80 Posts
July 17 2009 16:20 GMT
#5
ITS NOT URS TILL THE DNA TEST BRO
Go Fuck Yourself
citi.zen
Profile Joined April 2009
2509 Posts
July 17 2009 16:23 GMT
#6
Definitely stay away from giving any "advice" to her, one way or another. These are VERY hard choices, which she may come to regret later - best she make them herself.

Other than that... fanaticist is right: don't fret too much :-)
Aut viam inveniam, aut faciam.
Nyovne
Profile Joined March 2006
Netherlands19141 Posts
July 17 2009 16:24 GMT
#7
With all due respect but, dodged that bullet dude.
ModeratorFor remember, that in the end, some are born to live, others born to die. I belong to those last, born to burn, born to cry. For I shall remain alone... forsaken.
KH1031
Profile Blog Joined April 2003
United States862 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 16:36:12
July 17 2009 16:36 GMT
#8
Gift ideas:
If I did It - OJ Simpson

It wasn't Me - Shaggy

That should send a clear signal...or not.
Marradron
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Netherlands1586 Posts
July 17 2009 16:37 GMT
#9
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo
Kgosi
Profile Joined July 2009
Iceland79 Posts
July 17 2009 16:37 GMT
#10
On July 18 2009 01:24 Nyovne wrote:
With all due respect but, dodged that bullet dude.


QFT
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:38 GMT
#11
On July 18 2009 01:37 Marradron wrote:
I agree with nyovne.

Why would she contact you after 14 months of no contact.
If you had become friends after the relation it might have been difrent.
But now just stay out of it imo

Girls use you as a shoulder to cry on, they feel good about the fact that a guy they haven't spoken to in over a year is willing to hear their shit. That's how they raise their self-esteem.
Peace~
MrHoon *
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
10183 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 16:42:37
July 17 2009 16:42 GMT
#12
man thread titles these days are so misleading
I was hoping for some huge irl drama

But yeah disciple, stay away from her at all costs. Keep making your awesome banners and try to forget that this ever happened. Oh right but don't be a dick to her but at the same time not so nice
dats racist
deathgod6
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States5064 Posts
July 17 2009 16:42 GMT
#13
On July 18 2009 01:20 JWD wrote:
Try to be friendly and supportive, but don't get too involved. This is really between her and her new boyfriend...I foresee danger if you get too close and let yourself fall for her again.

The unfolding of a real life Korean drama?
4.0 GPA = A rank 5.0 GPA = Olympic --------- Bisu, Best, Fantasy. i ♥ oov. They can get in my BoxeR anyday.
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 16:47 GMT
#14
Which city is she in?
fanatacist
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
10319 Posts
July 17 2009 16:54 GMT
#15
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.
Peace~
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9071 Posts
July 17 2009 16:54 GMT
#16
lol I'm not the father for sure, and I'm not planning to make any effort to rebuild any sort of relationship with her. To think about it right now, its a cool thing that she personally let me know about this but on the other hand I wouldn't do the same for her. I respect her a hole lot, but I dont want to be part of her life. If she invites to a wedding or smth I will go, but no more.

I told her she has my support and going home is the right thing to do, so I guess I did just fine in the situation. Btw she is in Stuttgart atm, I'm in Freiburg
Administrator"I'm a big deal." - ixmike88
ghostWriter
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
United States3302 Posts
July 17 2009 16:55 GMT
#17
On July 18 2009 01:12 fanatacist wrote:
As long as it's not yours, don't fret too much. It's her choice, to keep the baby.


Yea seriously. A baby so early in your life could just ruin the rest of it.
Supporting her is nice, but ultimately, it is not your problem.
Sullifam
MoltkeWarding
Profile Joined November 2003
5195 Posts
July 17 2009 16:56 GMT
#18
On July 18 2009 01:54 fanatacist wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:47 MoltkeWarding wrote:
Which city is she in?

We must gather information to make certain that the supposed father of this child is not of Chinese descent.


Nonsense. I'm certain that a Sino-Bulgar child has never existed in history.
indecision
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Germany818 Posts
July 17 2009 16:58 GMT
#19
what kinda difference does a Chinese father make?
MrHoon *
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
10183 Posts
July 17 2009 17:01 GMT
#20
On July 18 2009 01:58 indecision wrote:
what kinda difference does a Chinese father make?

must... resist... bad chinese... joke... UHGGG
dats racist
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