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igotmyown
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States4291 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-17 23:18:56
July 17 2009 23:16 GMT
#61


"So watcha gonna do?"
Patriot.dlk
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Sweden5462 Posts
July 17 2009 23:31 GMT
#62
She probably don't have alot of friends because she moved away and had a boyfriend for so long. She picked up her phone thinking "im gonna call someone"

she had nobody to call who was better to speak to then you... When she moves back she will reconnect with old friends and you will probably hear very little from her. Ignore this call
GreEny K
Profile Joined February 2008
Germany7312 Posts
July 17 2009 23:34 GMT
#63
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.
Why would you ever choose failure, when success is an option.
disciple
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
9070 Posts
July 18 2009 00:13 GMT
#64
On July 18 2009 08:34 GreEny K wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.

because when I say "I'll be there for you whenever you need me" I really mean it.
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beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
July 18 2009 00:36 GMT
#65
On July 18 2009 08:31 Patriot.dlk wrote:
She probably don't have alot of friends because she moved away and had a boyfriend for so long. She picked up her phone thinking "im gonna call someone"

she had nobody to call who was better to speak to then you... When she moves back she will reconnect with old friends and you will probably hear very little from her. Ignore this call


Wait, why should he ignore it? Maybe it should be more like "ignore your belief about her calling you because she wants to be with you again" lol?
So many ppl thinking with their dicks only
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CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
July 18 2009 01:45 GMT
#66
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


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On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
July 18 2009 02:48 GMT
#67
On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.

you sure you're not just jealous he's getting all this attention?
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
July 18 2009 03:04 GMT
#68
I don't get jealous of people IRL, why would that ever be the case with some stranger online?

Why would you think I was jealous btw?
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
udgnim
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States8024 Posts
July 18 2009 03:10 GMT
#69
On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.


it's a thread in the blog forum

people create blog threads about a whole variety of stuff (generally having something to do with themselves) because that's what it's meant for
E-Sports is competitive video gaming with a spectator fan base. Do not take the word "Sports" literally.
Malongo
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Chile3472 Posts
July 18 2009 03:13 GMT
#70
I think she just needs some emotional support. She called you because of your old relationship and because she didnt know how to tell the guy that he is actually a future daddy. I mean: the emphasis was that you are second to know about this (first is her mother), wich is a message from her about how much she still cares about you and how important is your opinion to her. She is expecting to get more support from you in the future and I guess you should have talked about her future as mother and her relation (or more simply why she didnt tell the guy first). As seems like you didnt I advice you to keep a nice friendship with her, she wasnt expecting more than support and a male point of view imo. I dont know about your relation, the girl, or her family but seems to me that what she needed the most was a father (or solid male opinion to trust) and in this case this figure is you.
Props to ETT that tried to solve your doubts and the only guy that noted that your main question is "why did she tell you first about this?", the rest of TL seems to be emotionally retarded :/
Help me! im still improving my English. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. M. G.
HeavOnEarth
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States7087 Posts
July 18 2009 04:06 GMT
#71
On July 18 2009 12:04 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't get jealous of people IRL, why would that ever be the case with some stranger online?

Why would you think I was jealous btw?

oh it's unrelated i guess.
was disappointed in your ex thread~ !
"come korea next time... FXO house... 10 korean, 10 korean"
Fen
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
Australia1848 Posts
July 18 2009 08:07 GMT
#72
She told you first because she would rather be in this situation with you than with the guy. She doesnt think the guy will react well to this news.

I think shes setting herself up for a failure. She is making sure that you're still there for her, so when her boyfriend flips out, she can come to you for emotional support.
Klockan3
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
Sweden2866 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-18 12:29:06
July 18 2009 12:28 GMT
#73
On July 18 2009 01:09 disciple wrote:
so I was just like 'Congrats! I'm happy for you!'.

That was what you did wrong, this is a huge thing! If she hasn't talked about wanting a baby before then most likely this is a very heavy period for her. Talking like that just made her feel bad, you should have gone a lot slower like "Oh, is that a good thing or a bad thing?" and let her talk about it instead of assuming that everything was flowery like you did.

But if you never want to see her again you did the right thing
Commander-Zerg
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
Canada341 Posts
July 18 2009 20:55 GMT
#74
be happy it ain't yours. if it is, name him jesus but pronounce it as hay-seuss.
NastyMarine
Profile Blog Joined May 2006
United States1252 Posts
July 18 2009 22:15 GMT
#75
dont worry dude. I just saw my promdate for the first time in fours years - shes on her second child now. I always thought she was the one to get away. But now I realize that good thing she did. I dont want to be a dad right now. I got other shit i planned in my life.

But on your situation, it seems like shes scared and thinks she can confide in you. If your not taken back by her wanting to talk to you, you could probably be good support for her. Or maybe she just wants you, again. You'll never knows unless you take the plunge to ask her.
Treatin' fools since '87
The Storyteller
Profile Blog Joined January 2006
Singapore2486 Posts
July 19 2009 04:24 GMT
#76
On July 18 2009 02:03 MoltkeWarding wrote:
The child will probably be beaten into a regimented and unhappy childhood, and grow up with a dearth of imagination and wit. In that case I would advise the prospective mother to remain in Germany after all.


Yes, because the Germans are renowned for being jolly, unregimented, imaginative and witty.
EvilTeletubby
Profile Blog Joined January 2004
Baltimore, USA22258 Posts
July 19 2009 05:03 GMT
#77
On July 18 2009 12:13 Malongo wrote:
Props to ETT that tried to solve your doubts and the only guy that noted that your main question is "why did she tell you first about this?", the rest of TL seems to be emotionally retarded :/


Meh, I'm getting married in 6 days, so my vagina is already half-way finished.
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poilord
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
Germany3252 Posts
July 19 2009 08:39 GMT
#78
Like some of the other posters have already mentioned; to me it sounds like she needs somebody to talk to and who will listen to her, so she thought "hmmm why not call my ex? we have been very close before so he will listen to my problems." Especially if you hadn't had contact in over 14 months.
ReCharge
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Philippines505 Posts
July 19 2009 09:43 GMT
#79
On July 18 2009 09:13 disciple wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:34 GreEny K wrote:
On July 18 2009 01:11 nttea wrote:
I think she wanted your support (: my advice to her would be to "murder" the "baby" and continue with her studies, she can get another one later.


So murder a baby because why? She wants it let her have it and raise it. Also, guy with story hope it isnt yours lol, i dont see why she would be telling you all of this if you arent involved somehow.

because when I say "I'll be there for you whenever you need me" I really mean it.


Ughh... This is why I hate making promises
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Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-07-19 11:56:17
July 19 2009 11:54 GMT
#80
I've got to side with fanatacist on this one, but that's entirely dependent on the type of girl she is.

On July 18 2009 10:45 CharlieMurphy wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 18 2009 08:02 beetlelisk wrote:
On July 18 2009 02:27 EvilTeletubby wrote:
Pfffffft, damn, we need more females to post on here, because so far no one has got it right... everyone is just "thank god you're not the father", etc. Which yes, that's the right reaction for a guy, but...

He wants to know WHY she called him. After 14 months, why? Because she still cares about him, because they were just 'dating other people', and there was always the possibility that they could get back together, and maybe she secretly wanted that. That possibility, however small, was always there, so she never acted on it. With a baby on the way, that possibility is basically gone. Essentially, she was calling you to say the possibility of you and her being together was gone, and maybe she needed that closure to know for sure that you had moved on to. Or maybe she was hoping you'd put up your last stand and make a play for her. *shrugs* I bet she didn't know what she wanted herself, women never do. Women just hate not knowing what our feelings/thoughts are (even though we usually don't have any, they never believe us).

Anyways, that's my take on it, but my fiance actually says I'm wrong too, lol.


On July 18 2009 06:20 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I don't really see the point of this thread, her being pregnant has nothing to do with you lol./


They were together for 4 years right? And broke up only because they were in different cities.
I wouldn't say she had a feelings for him after breaking up for so long, more like she needed to tell that someone she has been close with and possibly edit2 hear some comfort? And nothing more?



No I understand why he would care, and why she would call him. What I don't understand is why this would warrant a thread. He made it seem like he slept with his ex and got her pregnant but then bait and switch and he hasn't seen her in over a year.
It's a fucking blog. You're the last person in the entire universe who should be criticizing other people's posting habits.
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