EPTI got her a Plan B 2 hours ago, but she's still freaking out on me.
EDIT:
Her last period started on April 24th.
condom broke
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t_co
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I got her a Plan B 2 hours ago, but she's still freaking out on me. EDIT: Her last period started on April 24th. | ||
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BreaK
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...Wait and see?! I mean, what else can you do? Other than telling her to calm down. | ||
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NarutO
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What exactly is Plan B? OO! Does she take anti birth control pills? If not.. you should get emergency contraception for her. | ||
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SK.Testie
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tell her to stfu. and condoms break? wtf gtfo L2condom. | ||
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TheFoReveRwaR
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But ya what else do you think you can do besides getting the morning after pill? Theres no secret no pregnancy rituals sorry. | ||
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TheFoReveRwaR
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On May 07 2009 15:06 G.s)NarutO wrote: Uhm.. I'm not exactly sure but since I've four sisters I can tell periods are not always exactly on the day they should be.. and not for exactly a week etc. What exactly is Plan B? OO! Does she take anti birth control pills? If not.. you should get emergency contraception for her. Plan B is a pill the female takes which contains a large amount of hormones that quickly act in hopes of preventing the egg from implanting into the uterus. It is not an abortion pill. | ||
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vx70GTOJudgexv
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On May 07 2009 15:15 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: Theres no secret no pregnancy rituals sorry. Shit really? :p But, yeah dude, not much more you can do. | ||
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Hurricane
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On May 07 2009 15:05 ZaplinG wrote: falcon punch your problems away ![[image loading]](http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y287/Venrae/Funny/1167526357611zn8.jpg) | ||
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paper
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On May 07 2009 15:06 G.s)NarutO wrote: Uhm.. I'm not exactly sure but since I've four sisters I can tell periods are not always exactly on the day they should be.. and not for exactly a week etc. What exactly is Plan B? OO! Does she take anti birth control pills? If not.. you should get emergency contraception for her. lol. | ||
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AttackZerg
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On May 07 2009 15:17 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: Plan B is a pill the female takes which contains a large amount of hormones that quickly act in hopes of preventing the egg from implanting into the uterus. It is not an abortion pill. you just restated what he said. He is just not a native english speaker .... He just used different terms to discribe the same thing ... | ||
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Thats all you gotta do. | ||
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Jayme
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She's probably just late, it happens. Get her on birth control. The chance for conception among humans is REALLY low, that's why we have sex year round.... and it feels good but whatever. If she's pregnant well.. grats on your kid dude. Life is only ruined. P.S. Link charges one fist and punches with the other? WHY. | ||
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Tekin
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Xiberia
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On May 07 2009 15:33 Jayme wrote: Stop buying cheap condoms. She's probably just late, it happens. Get her on birth control. The chance for conception among humans is REALLY low, that's why we have sex year round.... and it feels good but whatever. If she's pregnant well.. grats on your kid dude. Life is only ruined. P.S. Link charges one fist and punches with the other? WHY. That's just the sun shining in the background. | ||
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fanatacist
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Here is some stuff you should look out for / how to explain it to her: 1. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: In the next few days she might get spotting (light blood flow). This is a sign of implantation (not good for you). WHAT YOU SAY: This is a normal side-effect of Plan B and should not be considered a pregnancy symptom. 2. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: Oh noes my period is late I am pregnant. WHAT YOU SAY: This is a side-effect of Plan B because it is a hormonal drug and it messes with your cycle, it could be up to 2-3 weeks late and still be normal. 3. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: I really think I'm pregnant I am getting cravings and morning sickness! WHAT YOU SAY: If it has been 2 weeks since "conception" we can get a pregnancy test. 4. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: THE TEST IS POSITIVE WTFFF WHAT YOU SAY: Coathanger? | ||
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PH
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But they got the pill, and she's fine. | ||
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Jayme
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On May 07 2009 15:48 Forgottenfrog wrote: what is the pill? morning after pill? or birth control pill? Kinda late to take a birth control pill after the sex so yes... morning after. | ||
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NarutO
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On May 07 2009 15:17 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: Plan B is a pill the female takes which contains a large amount of hormones that quickly act in hopes of preventing the egg from implanting into the uterus. It is not an abortion pill. Plan B is the same as "emergency contraception" then. At least the dictionary says it.. ._.! | ||
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m4gdelen4
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but seriously be a MAN. thats all you can do now. gl | ||
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On May 07 2009 15:49 Jayme wrote: Kinda late to take a birth control pill after the sex so yes... morning after. Actually there are birth control pills which are not driven off by forgetting it once or something. Just take 2 the next day. PS: Just to make sure I don't get fucked because some idiot reads this and says "that guy said etc": WARNING: DO NOT DO THIS ON PURPOSE AND IT DOESNT WORK IF YOU NEVER TOOK THE PILL BEFORE. -__-; ALSO "IT CAN WORK" DOESNT MEAN IT WILL WORK. | ||
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renegade_zerg
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On May 07 2009 15:38 fanatacist wrote: I've been in this situation. Plan B is step in the right direction. Here is some stuff you should look out for / how to explain it to her: 1. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: In the next few days she might get spotting (light blood flow). This is a sign of implantation (not good for you). WHAT YOU SAY: This is a normal side-effect of Plan B and should not be considered a pregnancy symptom. 2. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: Oh noes my period is late I am pregnant. WHAT YOU SAY: This is a side-effect of Plan B because it is a hormonal drug and it messes with your cycle, it could be up to 2-3 weeks late and still be normal. 3. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: I really think I'm pregnant I am getting cravings and morning sickness! WHAT YOU SAY: If it has been 2 weeks since "conception" we can get a pregnancy test. 4. WHAT SHE WILL SAY: THE TEST IS POSITIVE WTFFF WHAT YOU SAY: Coathanger? haha... brutal. | ||
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chobopeon
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Myxomatosis
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On May 07 2009 15:05 ZaplinG wrote: falcon punch your problems away ahahahahahaha dude i've been playing way too much brawl. | ||
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eMbrace
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what brand? | ||
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dangots0ul
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foeffa
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Hahaha.  Hadn't seen that one before. Nothing to do but wait I guess, can't say I've been there. Always buy high quality condoms. ^_^ | ||
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igotmyown
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Faraday
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Anyway...pill was a good idea.All you can do now is talk with her,it helps a lot, and show her that u r there 4 her no matter what happenz. | ||
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TheFoReveRwaR
United States10657 Posts
On May 07 2009 16:00 G.s)NarutO wrote: Plan B is the same as "emergency contraception" then. At least the dictionary says it.. ._.! Yes it is the same. | ||
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TheFoReveRwaR
United States10657 Posts
On May 07 2009 17:55 Faraday wrote: I love it how smartasses talk shit when this guy is asking for advice...it just goes to show how each and everyone who said something derogatory about this has shit 4 brainz and were probably violated when they were young...by their alcoholic fathers...sry couldn't help myself.Maby all your mothers should have been falcon punched after you were conceived...then again maby they were...q.e.d. Anyway...pill was a good idea.All you can do now is talk with her,it helps a lot, and show her that u r there 4 her no matter what happenz. Why do you type like an angry 13 year old? Edit: OHHHH I just looked at your birthday, you really ARE an angry 13-14 year old. It all makes sense now. | ||
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TheFoReveRwaR
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On May 07 2009 15:20 AttackZerg wrote: you just restated what he said. He is just not a native english speaker .... He just used different terms to discribe the same thing ... What? He asked what plan B was and I answered him. What is your problem? | ||
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poisongirl
Australia12 Posts
On May 07 2009 15:00 t_co wrote: What should I do? I got her a Plan B 2 hours ago, but she's still freaking out on me. EDIT: Her last period started on April 24th. Plan B should work if it is taken within 72 hours of the condom breaking and semen entering her uterus, the later you take it within that 72 hours the less chance of it taking effect, it will not work after 72 hours. Also, you can take a peestick pregnancy test after 7days of conception, or wait 11days to do the peestick. The peekit from the pharmacy or whereever you buy from is generally accurate if instructions are followed correctly and the urine is not contaminated by other things such as tap water/cleaning detergent (if the "cup" she urinated in has just been cleaned etc). IF she tests positive on the peestick test, you can both go to the local GP so she can get a blood test which will definitively show whether or not she is pregnant. It measures the hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin hormone) levels in the blood, IF she is pregnant hCG levels are in the 50-100+ mIU/ml, hCG under 5 mIU/ml is not pregnant. In general the hCG levels will double every 48-72 hours. The level will reach its peak in the first 8 - 11 weeks of pregnancy and then will decline and level off for the remainder of the pregnancy. hCG is made by cells that form the placenta, which nourishes the egg after it has been fertilized and becomes attached to the uterine wall. All you and your partner can do is wait for her period to come for this month after trying the above. addit: Also, I think she should go on the regular pill thats taken daily and for you to buy more durable condoms (maybe don't get thin condoms if thats what you use) don't buy them cheap. Make sure she doen't worry about it worrying increases stress which can make her period become late. Stress, weight loss, increased exercise, diet changes, anemia are some things that can cause late periods. BTW IF she is pregnant you have other options like keeping it, adoption, abortion. BUT you will need to stick it out with her every step of the way. Don't be a bastard and let her deal with it on her own. | ||
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Smorrie
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1) a missed period (DUH): this may take several weeks to know whether your period is just late or if you've missed it completely; and you won't have another period until after the child is born -could also be a result of tension, stress, changes in birth control (pills or injections), excessive gain/loss of weight, fatigue 2) constant tiredness or fatigue: its a result of the pregnancy hormones pumping through your body, usually appears 1-6 weeks after conception -could also be a result of tension, stress, depression, poor diet, flu, lack of exercist, poor sleep, or lack of sleep 3) Nausea or Queasyness: "morning sickness", though it can occur anytime during the day or night; again, as a result of those happy pregnancy hormones, usually occurs 2-8 weeks after conception -could also be a result of food poisoning, tension, infection, gall bladder problems, flu, or other problems 4) frequent need to pee: especially as the baby grows, your bladder is pushed down upon and you need to pee more and more frequently; its also a result of those happy pregnancy hormones, usually occurs 6-8 weeks after conception -could also be a result of urinary tract infections, drinking diuretics (things that dehydrate you, sodas for example), tension, diabetes, or drinking of excess fluids 5) painful breasts: sore/swollen, like one would get right before their period, except worse; usually occurs 1-2 weeks after conception -could also be a result of bodily adjustments to birth control pills, begining of your period, or fibrocystic breast conditions 6) darkening of the nipple: breasts are for breast feeding, so they're gonna go through some changes; usually begining 1-14 weeks after conception -could also be a result of a hormonal imbalance (birth control pills or other) 7) bleeding or "spotting": blood is usually pink or brown, its a result of the egg implanting; occurs about a week or so after ovulation -could also be a result of the begining of your period, or body adjustments to starting some method of birth control 8) backaches/headaches: can start within a few days of conception -could also be a result of dehydration, caffine withdrawl, back problems, mental stains, eye strain, or other problems. 9) food cravings: usually last the entire pregnancy, but specifically in the first trimester -could also be a result of poor diet, stress, depression, or imminent menstration 10) mood swings: results from the sudden change in hormones -could also be a result of hormone level changes from starting/stopping birth control, PMS, or other new medications 11) increased vaginal discharge: could be a change in the amount, to consistency, to color -could also be a result of yeast or other vaginal infections, or imminent menstration | ||
Plexa
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been here before hahaha it fucking sucks but there's not much you can really do =/ (above what you've already done) although you'd have to be pretty unlucky for her to get pregnant anyway, i know how paranoid girls can get about this shit anyway.. making sure she knows she'll still have you around even if shit happens will probably help (even if you dont want to stay) | ||
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Plexa
Aotearoa39261 Posts
On May 07 2009 19:12 disciple wrote: I think her getting pregnant is even less likely if shes worried as fuck about something (ie stressed out) and if she really doesn't want it. Not to say it can't happen, but chance should decrease. Relax mate, if your gf gets pregnant because of that you will be the most unlucky bastard ever, usually those types of things don't happen like that, it takes a lot more effort and countless hours of sex w/o condom or pills... | ||
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JohnColtrane
Australia4813 Posts
On May 07 2009 19:06 poisongirl wrote: Plan B should work if it is taken within 72 hours of the condom breaking and semen entering her uterus, the later you take it within that 72 hours the less chance of it taking effect, it will not work after 72 hours. Also, you can take a peestick pregnancy test after 7days of conception, or wait 11days to do the peestick. The peekit from the pharmacy or whereever you buy from is generally accurate if instructions are followed correctly and the urine is not contaminated by other things such as tap water/cleaning detergent (if the "cup" she urinated in has just been cleaned etc). IF she tests positive on the peestick test, you can both go to the local GP so she can get a blood test which will definitively show whether or not she is pregnant. It measures the hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin hormone) levels in the blood, IF she is pregnant hCG levels are in the 50-100+ mIU/ml, hCG under 5 mIU/ml is not pregnant. In general the hCG levels will double every 48-72 hours. The level will reach its peak in the first 8 - 11 weeks of pregnancy and then will decline and level off for the remainder of the pregnancy. hCG is made by cells that form the placenta, which nourishes the egg after it has been fertilized and becomes attached to the uterine wall. All you and your partner can do is wait for her period to come for this month after trying the above. addit: Also, I think she should go on the regular pill thats taken daily and for you to buy more durable condoms (maybe don't get thin condoms if thats what you use) don't buy them cheap. Make sure she doen't worry about it worrying increases stress which can make her period become late. Stress, weight loss, increased exercise, diet changes, anemia are some things that can cause late periods. BTW IF she is pregnant you have other options like keeping it, adoption, abortion. BUT you will need to stick it out with her every step of the way. Don't be a bastard and let her deal with it on her own. i'd like to add that, if she is pregnant, seriously consider abortion. if you are young a kid will probably fuck your life up. get her a blood test as soon as she is far enough along, so you have plenty of time to get an ultrasound and other medical examinations, because i know in some places theres a discount in the cost of the abortion if shes under a certain number of weeks. | ||
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JohnColtrane
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On May 07 2009 16:49 eMbrace wrote: condoms are really hard to break -- like even physically stretching them apart with your hands. what brand? i thought that if you cum into the little pocket thing and keep pushing in, it can break. ive broken one putting it on once, from the inside. but even if it breaks its unlikely shes preggers | ||
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MasterReY
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On May 07 2009 15:05 AmorVincitOmnia wrote: get the pill, it's free. lolwat? its not^^ | ||
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fanatacist
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It is if she says she got raped. Or if she is a member at a local planned parenthood. | ||
RaGe
Belgium9945 Posts
On May 07 2009 21:02 HamerD wrote: broken twice on me lol. Hate those fucking things. WIth the morning after pill you will very rarely get a pregnancy if you only broke the condom. I just hope that if shit fucks up she will get an abortion and not ruin both your lives ¬¬. shouldve dumped her man she e-cheated on you | ||
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fanatacist
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Lol it's one of those things that will follow him around forever on these forums. | ||
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Kennelie
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P.S. She was late on her period which led to me dumping her....Broad freaked me out what can i say. | ||
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Kennelie
United States2296 Posts
ROFL omg!!! I don't know why but I started to read through the thread backwards and read this. | ||
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kawoq
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plus you said her last period was on abril 24th that is 2-3 weeks ago so there is no reason to worry yet. wait a couple more weeks and see if she get it, even if she doesnt it could be just a delay cause all the stress of the "I am pragnant" thing. If you still think she is pregnant take a blood test, they are best for this cause other tests looks for progesterone in the urine which wont be detectable until 2 or so months. Thanks the media for all the scare to get pregnant.. sure it MAY take only once to get pregnant for the chances are very slim...you should look for information about how the fertile cicle of women runs, you will be amazed... | ||
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minus_human
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On May 07 2009 22:07 konadora wrote: LOL | ||
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Klockan3
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On May 07 2009 16:55 t_co wrote: Um shit she just told one of her girlfriends... idiot And you just told the whole internet... Btw, the best solution to this is to not give your real name or number to the girl and always sleep at her place! You can use a card based phone and every time something fucks up you throw it away! | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
If you didn't nut and you got another condom or stopped or whatever what the hell are you worried about>? | ||
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AmorVincitOmnia
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i don't know how it is in Germany, but in the states you can just go to the free clinic for it. | ||
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fanatacist
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On May 08 2009 07:31 CharlieMurphy wrote: I'm sure this was asked already but, if the condom broke were you dumb enough to still finish up inside of her? You can usually hear and most definitely feel when a condom breaks. Or were you dumb enough to bust a nut and then keep the condom on until it broke? If you didn't nut and you got another condom or stopped or whatever what the hell are you worried about>? When it happened to me I didn't feel it or hear it (wtf?), it was just severed in two inside her vagina with my nut all over my penis. | ||
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Falcynn
United States3597 Posts
On May 07 2009 20:41 JohnColtrane wrote: I'm not the only one that shudders every time I hear the words "preggers" am I? I mean it's such an ugly and awkward sounding word...then again, in this usage I guess it works out fine, but I fucking hate the word "preggers" when used in any other situation =/i thought that if you cum into the little pocket thing and keep pushing in, it can break. ive broken one putting it on once, from the inside. but even if it breaks its unlikely shes preggers | ||
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Rekrul
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YPang
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On May 07 2009 15:05 ZaplinG wrote: falcon punch your problems away LOL | ||
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ShoCkeyy
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On May 08 2009 09:38 yesplz wrote: Plan C LMAO WOW YOU'RE BAD... This is worse than the falcon punch. | ||
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Brett
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On May 08 2009 09:38 yesplz wrote: Plan C Hahaha oh boy... | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
On May 08 2009 08:15 fanatacist wrote: When it happened to me I didn't feel it or hear it (wtf?), it was just severed in two inside her vagina with my nut all over my penis. When it happened to me the condom basically snapped a hole on the top side of the condom (and I faintly heard a 'thwick' type sound and it all the sudden felt better. I continued anyways and just pulled out and nutted and she was like wtf? | ||
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demo1
Canada145 Posts
but seriously, you gotta vacuum your swimmers outta her ASAP. | ||
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{CC}StealthBlue
United States41117 Posts
On May 07 2009 15:14 Kentor wrote: she needs to relax. she took the pill, nothing else to do. | ||
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rushz0rz
Canada5300 Posts
On May 08 2009 09:19 Rekrul wrote: condom broke OH NOES rofl americans are so miseducated hahahahaha shiet you say it like you're Korean now! | ||
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XDawn
Canada4040 Posts
On May 08 2009 09:38 yesplz wrote: Plan C I don't get it  | ||
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rushz0rz
Canada5300 Posts
push her down the stairs is what hes saying | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
....ummmmmm | ||
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Gray[FH
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that's a little insensitive | ||
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{CC}StealthBlue
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you must be new here. | ||
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Gray[FH
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lol haha yeah, i did laugh though... | ||
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