EPTPersonally, I wouldn't even bother, she probably has a real cliche and shitty introverted personality developed culturally anyways.
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QuietIdiot
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Personally, I wouldn't even bother, she probably has a real cliche and shitty introverted personality developed culturally anyways. | ||
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LonelyMargarita
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Carefree
United States1571 Posts
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New Zealand6138 Posts
On August 31 2008 05:51 Mastermind wrote: Your parents are racist pieces of shit. Thats not defendable. I completely agree, but at the same time you have to realise this is pretty much par for the course for any asian parents. | ||
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SiegeTanksandBlueGoo
China685 Posts
On August 31 2008 06:45 Carefree Me wrote: masami.sc has got it right. You have to see the reasoning behind their "racism". Sure, it looks racist to our modern day (western) standards, but there's very legitimate concerns with multi-racial marriages. It's not bad with third generation immigrants (i.e. all of the family speaks English), but when you have first or second generation immigrants, there may be foreseeable communication problems. The way Asian cultures and western cultures handle marriages are completely different, and Asian parents have a legitimate fear here. Sometimes the marriage can play out fine, but other times, the miscommunication can really cause problems and arguments in the future. Also, imagine what it feels like for them to not be able to speak to their grandchildren... I agree too. Culturally speaking, there are so many differences, it takes a lot of love, patience and even some luck to make interracial marriages work. I know of some Chinese guys who married a white girl, and when his parents got old and sick, he had them moved to his house so he could take care of them. I know that this is acceptable and even expected in East Asian cultures, but the girl just adamantly refused, telling him to be "a man". They had a divorce over this. Marriages are hard enough, bringing in something that makes it even harder is not what I would want to do. But if I, or someone else found someone they really love, then I suppose it's ok, because love conquers all right? kekeke. As for childern, my school has a couple of Eurasian kids the girls are prettier than normal. :D) but they don't really fit in well in either groups of people. The asians think that they're too white, and the whites think they're too asian. I always try to go out of my way to help them, but I feel real sorry for them sometimes. They just don't have a group that they can identify themselves with. It might be ok in the future, but for right now, multiethnic kids still have it a lot tougher than single ethnic kids. Just my 2 cents. :D | ||
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kpcrew
Korea (South)1071 Posts
awesome feeling thanks capo i dunno, if it was the 2nd day u knew her, thats ur fault. gotta get to know a girl before u can just ask her out, even if her reply was racist and a bit stupid or maybe she just doesnt want to date you? | ||
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kpcrew
Korea (South)1071 Posts
On August 31 2008 04:38 micronesia wrote: Lol... put her on the spot and ask her to explain. Say you looked on a map and saw a North and a South. micronesia... not good advice | ||
micronesia
United States24740 Posts
Yes obviously I was giving srs advice. I mean srs business. (But if you really wanted to know why she meant that, I guess that would be one way to draw it out of her) | ||
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clazziquai
6685 Posts
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clazziquai
6685 Posts
On August 31 2008 06:13 masami.sc wrote: It's racist but what are you going to do about it? I bet most Asian parents are like that. The fact is, most Asian parents (who have immigrated) wouldn't know what to do in a mixed race family. Communication would be incredibly difficult and not to mention, stifling; miscommunication and lack of dialogue between the in-laws would make for awkward family relationships, and ultimately, Asian parents (and probably most other immigrant parents) don't see the worth in having an interracial family if it's going to cause so much unacquainted confusion. Well said. Seriously I couldn't agree more with this man! | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On August 31 2008 06:45 Carefree Me wrote: masami.sc has got it right. You have to see the reasoning behind their "racism". Sure, it looks racist to our modern day (western) standards, but there's very legitimate concerns with multi-racial marriages. It's not bad with third generation immigrants (i.e. all of the family speaks English), but when you have first or second generation immigrants, there may be foreseeable communication problems. The way Asian cultures and western cultures handle marriages are completely different, and Asian parents have a legitimate fear here. Sometimes the marriage can play out fine, but other times, the miscommunication can really cause problems and arguments in the future. Also, imagine what it feels like for them to not be able to speak to their grandchildren... Uh... I don't think communication is the first thing on their mind. My dad speaks perfect Japanese and my grandparents gave my mom a bottle of mace when they first started dating. I think you just have to admit that most of the east asian countries are extremely homogeneous and as a result if you grow up in that environment, you became a bit racist. A kid growing up in America should be able to move past that and if they hold entirely steadfast under the concepts of their parents, I probably wouldn't want to date them anyways. | ||
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grobo
Japan6199 Posts
On August 31 2008 04:36 Rev0lution wrote: she defended herself saying "it's not racist, it's just the way I am" That, my friend, is fucking hilarious. Stay away from her lol | ||
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Duke
United States1106 Posts
On August 31 2008 06:22 QuietIdiot wrote: Traditional and generic Korean families are really conservative, like 1950's white American conservative. Personally, I wouldn't even bother, she probably has a real cliche and shitty introverted personality developed culturally anyways. this. you didn't laugh in her face? ~_~ | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
Agreed. This won't win me any fans, but I can't stand most "azn" girls (or guys.) The ones who only hang out with other asians and get perfect SAT scores but are still fucking stupid and clueless in the real world. | ||
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kpcrew
Korea (South)1071 Posts
On August 31 2008 07:44 micronesia wrote: Yes obviously I was giving srs advice. I mean srs business. (But if you really wanted to know why she meant that, I guess that would be one way to draw it out of her) just cause you reply like a douchebag from 4chan doesnt change the fact that there are stupid people out there | ||
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fight_or_flight
United States3988 Posts
I'd say you have a challenge here. | ||
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XDawn
Canada4040 Posts
and my parents used to say all that "marry a korean girl" and shit but now they don't care as long as I'm happy and it works out well lol But imho, I'd rather marry a Korean girl too It's just.... more comfortable.. or something - I really don't know how to describe it in words. | ||
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slained
Canada966 Posts
korean chicks dig that | ||
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Kletus
Canada580 Posts
On August 31 2008 09:27 slained wrote: Just say "But I have 200+ apm?" korean chicks dig that Or say the magic words: "How would you like to take a ride on my battlecruiser?" | ||
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