On March 28 2012 23:50 OpticalShot wrote:
Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu.
Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu.
I never thought I'd hear you say this.
Anyways, you got my TLMS support, gogo cake!
E: PS opshot work harder
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JonsaBoy
Denmark457 Posts
On March 28 2012 23:50 OpticalShot wrote: Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu. I never thought I'd hear you say this. Anyways, you got my TLMS support, gogo cake! E: PS opshot work harder | ||
OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On March 28 2012 23:57 Enderbantoo wrote: TLMS HWAITING. OPShot #1 Girl blog neverworking extraordinaire. On March 28 2012 23:57 JonsaBoy wrote: Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 23:50 OpticalShot wrote: Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu. I never thought I'd hear you say this. Anyways, you got my TLMS support, gogo cake! E: PS opshot work harder You guys will only know when you get an office job... Also, cake, is her name Cheryl? LOL | ||
English
United States475 Posts
On March 28 2012 16:45 Lyter wrote: Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 14:48 EMIYA wrote: movies are a crap date because you don't get to actually talk and close the gap between you and your interest. good luck. Maybe for an adult yea, but at 14, a girl getting getting taken to the movies is like her fucking dream date LOL win | ||
Arnstein
Norway3381 Posts
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
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DemonDeacon
United States158 Posts
as for asking her out... you just need to be confident and act like its not a big deal-even if it is a huge deal in your head. just ask her straight up if she wants to go out and if she says no just remember its not the end of the world. don't freak out, just say ok that's cool let's just be friends then. girls respect that a lot more than you think; when you convey confidence it doesn't matter what the outcome is just save face so she doesn't tell all her friends how creepy you acted when she said no, she'll say he was actually really cool about it and you might have a chance to ask her out again later as you get to know each other better. | ||
Nub4ever
Canada1981 Posts
On March 29 2012 00:04 OpticalShot wrote: Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 23:57 Enderbantoo wrote: TLMS HWAITING. OPShot #1 Girl blog neverworking extraordinaire. Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 23:57 JonsaBoy wrote: On March 28 2012 23:50 OpticalShot wrote: Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu. I never thought I'd hear you say this. Anyways, you got my TLMS support, gogo cake! E: PS opshot work harder You guys will only know when you get an office job... Also, cake, is her name Cheryl? LOL Lol, no. Cheryl's a friend but no its not her. How the hell do you even know that name o.o? | ||
OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On March 29 2012 05:01 Nub4ever wrote: Show nested quote + On March 29 2012 00:04 OpticalShot wrote: On March 28 2012 23:57 Enderbantoo wrote: TLMS HWAITING. OPShot #1 Girl blog neverworking extraordinaire. On March 28 2012 23:57 JonsaBoy wrote: On March 28 2012 23:50 OpticalShot wrote: Be realistic - she's NOT going to be your waifu. I never thought I'd hear you say this. Anyways, you got my TLMS support, gogo cake! E: PS opshot work harder You guys will only know when you get an office job... Also, cake, is her name Cheryl? LOL Lol, no. Cheryl's a friend but no its not her. How the hell do you even know that name o.o? Just looked up your wall on Facebook. =) Okay GLHF | ||
Bigtony
United States1606 Posts
On March 28 2012 22:24 JWD wrote: Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 21:43 Bigtony wrote: Just be friends. Romantic relationships are a waste of time/energy/money at your age. You're not missing out on anything at all except getting annoyed by nonsensical relationship problems and hormones. This is terrible advice. Trying out dating is the only way to figure out how to eventually stop making it a waste of time and energy. And dates are fun (even at 14)! If I never went out with any girls at ages where my relationships consumed time, energy, and money, sometimes annoyed me, and exposed me to nonsensical problems and hormonal frustrations, I'd still not have been on a single date by now (at age 24). This is great advice, from someone who works with kids every day and sees the stupid bullshit that "having a boyfriend/girlfriend" causes. The only upside/benefit to romantic relationships (at that age) is making out and sex, neither of which I think are good ideas (again, at that age). You can have tons of fun with a lot less stress as just friends. You can learn to be supportive as a friend. You can learn to put the needs of someone else in front of your own (a key part of being in a relationship) as just friends. You can learn to deal with someone elses mood swings as just friends. There's plenty of time to "learn how to have a relationship" when you are older and your brain/body is more mature. Hell, at that stage of most people's lives they don't even know how to be a good friend, let alone a serious boyfriend/girlfriend. If he wants to go for it, I wish him the best of luck and good times, but if he's asking for advice (and he is) then my non-cynical yet totally honest advice is "just be friends, it's just as much fun with a lot less bullshit." | ||
babylon
8765 Posts
On March 30 2012 05:28 Bigtony wrote: Show nested quote + On March 28 2012 22:24 JWD wrote: On March 28 2012 21:43 Bigtony wrote: Just be friends. Romantic relationships are a waste of time/energy/money at your age. You're not missing out on anything at all except getting annoyed by nonsensical relationship problems and hormones. This is terrible advice. Trying out dating is the only way to figure out how to eventually stop making it a waste of time and energy. And dates are fun (even at 14)! If I never went out with any girls at ages where my relationships consumed time, energy, and money, sometimes annoyed me, and exposed me to nonsensical problems and hormonal frustrations, I'd still not have been on a single date by now (at age 24). This is great advice, from someone who works with kids every day and sees the stupid bullshit that "having a boyfriend/girlfriend" causes. The only upside/benefit to romantic relationships (at that age) is making out and sex, neither of which I think are good ideas (again, at that age). You can have tons of fun with a lot less stress as just friends. You can learn to be supportive as a friend. You can learn to put the needs of someone else in front of your own (a key part of being in a relationship) as just friends. You can learn to deal with someone elses mood swings as just friends. There's plenty of time to "learn how to have a relationship" when you are older and your brain/body is more mature. Hell, at that stage of most people's lives they don't even know how to be a good friend, let alone a serious boyfriend/girlfriend. If he wants to go for it, I wish him the best of luck and good times, but if he's asking for advice (and he is) then my non-cynical yet totally honest advice is "just be friends, it's just as much fun with a lot less bullshit." Oh god, this brings back memories ... This one guy at my school asked out one of my friends. She said yes, but decided a few days later (less than a week!) that she didn't want to be in a relationship, and while she was breaking this news to him, he said he loved her and tried to guilt-trip her into not breaking up with him. It's like, wtf, you've talked to her for a few days and you already "love" her? Gimme a break! She was already suffering from major depression at the time too; let me tell you, this "break-up" didn't help one bit. This other guy asked out another one of my friends for a couple months, but he'd gone out with another girl earlier who just wouldn't let go. Guy ended up cheating on her; he and the other girl went to a movie theater, and she gave him a blowjob there and told my friend about it later. (Other girl was kind of a bitch, can you tell?) My friend and the guy separated on bad terms. (Luckily, he was already graduating anyways, so it didn't matter regardless.) I have like three or four more really dumb HS relationship stories, but guess I'll just stop there. It's really kind of a waste of time, IMO, and you can use your energy more productively (studying, sports, writing, reading, etc.). But good luck to OP anyways; just remember to have fun. | ||
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