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StalinRusH
United States734 Posts
On October 24 2009 03:11 Sadist wrote: pretty much have to state your intentions immediately or you fall into this shitstorm you are in. Unless they have some secret crush on you first or something which isnt something thats good to bank on. STORY OF MY LIFE....gah.. | ||
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onihunter
United States515 Posts
So don't be depressed :D | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Nice guys finish last? Yeah right, nice guys that know when to push and pull will finish somewhere better... It's simple. You tell her how you felt and she'll might still slip away. You don't tell her how you felt, and she'll slip away for sure. If you like that girl, there's every right and even obligation to tell her that. Girl's are smarter than us men think they are - I'm pretty sure the girl picked up signs from you somewhere along the way, and she's acting in such ways now while being fully aware of how you feel towards her. Be a man (and do the right thing, lol) about it, tell her how you feel in a nice private place (sunset is the right time to do it) and don't even think about the "what happens after". Whatever happens after - you did the right thing for both yourself and the girl. | ||
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druj
137 Posts
I failed really hard at relationships in the past, I never cheated, but I always fucked up cause I could never decide on what I wanted out of it. | ||
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Headlines
United States482 Posts
Look, I know you like her, but if she likes someone else and that feeling you got is really, really, real! Wouldn't you care more about how she feels? If she likes this guy, you go and do your best to make her feel happy. Contributing towards someone else happiness is a very useful talent toi have. Be positive in your life. What has looking at life like a long-ass boring trail done for you? Man, first thing you got to do is figure out who you are. If you think your life on this planet is to be some downtrodden poor fool, then no one in the whole world is going to be able to appease you. But just from your post, I don't think you are that type of person. If one person can make you feel enthusiastic, why is it that you can't just be enthusiastic by yourself? I think it's because you're not willing to let yourself be happy. All wounds heal, even the worse ones, bro. You just work towards that one day. Just know that soon, very soon, you won't feel like dirt. Again, be positive! Dude. She's not the last person you'll have feelings for. You help her out now, and karma will kick ass later on. One thing about cool girls? They hang out with other cool girls. Most of them do. | ||
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meegrean
Thailand7699 Posts
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
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Sfydjklm
United States9218 Posts
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Ghost151
United States290 Posts
the long answer is a bunch of rationalizing bullshit ending up with it was never your fault because she was never gonna choose you. the short answer is: you took too long to do anything about it. sorry bro, you've just entered "the friend zone" + Show Spoiler + | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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theobsessed1
United States576 Posts
At least she's not GOING OUT with him yet dude. You still got a chance. Be around her more often and let her know you think of her more than a friend. | ||
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keV.
United States3214 Posts
Its not as hard as it looks. | ||
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Ota Solgryn
Denmark2011 Posts
As for the topic: "girls" - the standing advice is as always - be successful at something, whatever it is, even if it's a video game - if you're not an unhygienic mess: girls will be drawn to the confidence that stems from your success. Yes yes yes! | ||
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Cu(oCo)
Italy358 Posts
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bN`
Slovenia504 Posts
You'll probably hate yourself for a while after you start acting like a dick but it'll pass. Whether there's peace of mind down the road, where you might actually find a person around which you'll be able to do/say/think/express you desire, is not a given. Oh but if you do find her, ask her out before you get to know her since she'll think you like her body. ^^ | ||
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Quint
467 Posts
Concerning some of the questions in here: I am not the guy she was talking about, Spanish is one of the few classes we don't share. I had high hopes because she also wrote me a text when I was ill, saying that she missed me. The simple-hearted person that I am took it as sign of interest in me. God, this sucks. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Blyf
Denmark408 Posts
Tell her: "Hey, fuck that guy from spanish. Go out with me friday night, we'll do something fun". Don't do it in a way like you're begging her, just make it casual. As in "why not". She likes you, but she probably didn't think you were interested in her. She didn't necessarily write you off as boyfriend potential yet. Now is your time to show her that you can be an interesting lad. Best of luck - I am hoping you the best | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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7mk
Germany10157 Posts
On October 24 2009 18:15 Quint wrote: Thanks for your answers so far. I am still torn how to act around her. At the moment, I would prefer not seeing her at all, which is almost impossible since we share so many classes. We are going to do an assignment together, too, and I really dread that soon-to-be day. Concerning some of the questions in here: I am not the guy she was talking about, Spanish is one of the few classes we don't share. I had high hopes because she also wrote me a text when I was ill, saying that she missed me. The simple-hearted person that I am took it as sign of interest in me. God, this sucks. #1 reason for why you should tell her how you feel imo: Not because there's any realistic chance anythings gonna happen but because in my experience getting told by her that shes not interested is a big ass catalyst for getting over her. If you dont do it the pain will just drag on and on.. | ||
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