EPTcondoms will save you from aids usually, but only reduces the risk of many common stds, the only safe answer is abstinence
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Urth
United States1250 Posts
condoms will save you from aids usually, but only reduces the risk of many common stds, the only safe answer is abstinence | ||
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Gnabgib
United States381 Posts
Okay, maybe its just one thing. | ||
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ZpuX
Sweden1230 Posts
On October 24 2009 04:46 Urth wrote: condoms will save you from aids usually, but only reduces the risk of many common stds, the only safe answer is abstinence what planet are you from exactly? | ||
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Jonoman92
United States9105 Posts
You could just keep being friends with her and at least have that. Or alternatively you could gradually distance yourself from her, increase your physical attractiveness and get a girlfriend to make her uber jealous. | ||
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Urth
United States1250 Posts
perhaps not abstinence, but avoid promiscuity | ||
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ZpuX
Sweden1230 Posts
On October 24 2009 05:01 Urth wrote: perhaps not abstinence, but avoid promiscuity no... I meant what kind of std's doesen't condoms protect you from? On topic, no need to worry, if you are able to, keep your friendship with her, otherwise it's not really a big deal. I mean, everything happens when you least expect it, so there's really no need to stress things! | ||
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axel
France385 Posts
I think she felt u like her and because she did not want to hurt you when you would ask her to go out with you , she said this. Life is hard . | ||
cgrinker
United States3824 Posts
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Jonoman92
United States9105 Posts
On October 24 2009 05:14 cgrinker wrote: She's actually talking about you dude. Well unless this guy has no ability to read social cues wouldn't he have been able to decipher that from the way she asked him? I guess it wouldn't hurt for him to say something like "just tell the guy how you feel," and then if she really does like the OP she can say so. | ||
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cgrinker
United States3824 Posts
She's obviously very comfortable around you right? So why would she need to go finda boy that she actually can't talk to in order to be in s relationship? Sounds a little fishy to me.... Try this: her-"Blah Blah Blah Spanish class dude" you- <smiling in your teasing joking manner> "Oh come on don't do that" her- "Do what?" you- "That thing where girls tell boys whom they actually like being around that there's some unatainable boy somewhere else. Its not fitting of you." Then get up and walk the fuck away, mysterious Kenniget style | ||
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Kazius
Israel1456 Posts
Relevant to the future - if there is one lesson to be learned here, it is that when you have an opening with a girl, go for it. Always. Don't wait for things to happen, because they don't (with few exceptions, but basing life on luck is foolish). Being alone makes depression worse, and having someone around can only make it better (as well as sex being a basic human need, just as much as eating and sleeping - only instead of draining your body not having it drains your soul). You get better with practice, and that is always good for self-esteem issues ( - you're doing well at the expressive side of things, that means you have talent for this). And women get used to them and attraction lessens if not acted on over time, it puts you in the friend-zone which is a place that SUCKS ASS unless the chick is cool and sets you up with her hot friends all the time (rare, but happens). Last but not least - even in the worst case, failing doesn't fuck with you the way not trying does (as you probably know by now). This is a rule you should adopt for life, and it is never to early (or late) to see how much simpler things are when you follow it. The first thing for this specific case: don't give her much time anymore. Look elsewhere for social life. In this case, your chances are slim to nonexistent for any positive outcome, and if those chances exist, she will come to you when the distance you create settles in. In general, tunneling your feelings into physical exertion (jogging, gym workouts, etc) helps your feeling more than anything else. And nothing helps in getting over a chick like another one. ----- Oh, and Urth, the best way to not get STDs is not have sex with someone that has them. Abstinence is nice and all of that (actually, no, it's living hell, but hey, to each his own), and some catholic priests can prove that it's not always practical. | ||
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BuGzlToOnl
United States5918 Posts
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3 Lions
United States3705 Posts
wow this is so ironic given his name haha | ||
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iNcontroL
USA29055 Posts
Sorry you had to experience that. But no, there is no avoiding it. Better luck next time <3 | ||
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Ghardo
Germany1685 Posts
 you have to decide if you want to be friends with her and if that's "enough" for you. if not, you can still try to tell her your feelings and see what happens - it wouldn't matter anyways if you couldn't stand being together with her only as friends now. but that's bad and asshole advice, she's probably a wonderful person and still a good friend - so see what compromise you can make with your feelings. | ||
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BalliSLife
1339 Posts
I'm bringing sexy back Them other boys don't know how to act I think it's special what's behind your back So turn around and i'll pick up the slack. Take em' to the bridge [Bridge] Dirty babe You see these shackles Baby I'm your slave I'll let you whip me if I misbehave It's just that no one makes me feel this way Take em' to the chorus [Chorus] Come here girl Go ahead, be gone with it Come to the back Go ahead, be gone with it VIP Go ahead, be gone with it Drinks on me Go ahead, be gone with it Let me see what you're working with Go ahead, be gone with it Look at those hips Go ahead, be gone with it You make me smile Go ahead, be gone with it Go ahead child Go ahead, be gone with it And get your sexy on Go ahead, be gone with it Get your sexy on Go ahead, be gone with it [X6] Get your sexy on [Verse 2] I'm bringing sexy back Them other boys don't know how to act Come let me make up for the things you lack Cause your burning up I gotta get it fast Take em' to the bridge [Bridge] [Chorus] [Verse 3] I'm bringing sexy back Them other boys watch while I attack If that's your girl you better watch your back Cause she'll burn it up for me and that's a fact Take em' to the chorus | ||
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DeathSpank
United States1029 Posts
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Probe.
United States877 Posts
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Integra
Sweden5626 Posts
On October 24 2009 06:00 DeathSpank wrote: You've invested too much into a girl without any real signs that she's interested. The trick with women is to not care. That way you don't focus on just one girl while blocking out the entire sea of potential ladies who may like you. I've learned the hard way that when you invest emotion into girls like that, that it really rarely works out. You also have to be upfront with them about your intentions or you WILL get friend zoned and that is never good. I see so many guys doing this. Golden advice right here! Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't go after just one girl, try to be friends with many girls and see how it goes with each one. The thing with women is that they are very competitively against eachother, why the hell do you think they spend so much time making their face, their hair and cloths? Not to impress men thats for sure, if that was the case all they needed to do was to walk around naked. They are doing because they are competing against other women! If a girl sees a guy with allot of female friends they can't help but feel an attraction for that guy. If one particular girl becomes the girlfriend of a guy that already has allot of female friends that girl has "won" over the other girl pack. | ||
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neutralstate
Singapore51 Posts
On October 24 2009 06:00 DeathSpank wrote: You've invested too much into a girl without any real signs that she's interested. The trick with women is to not care. That way you don't focus on just one girl while blocking out the entire sea of potential ladies who may like you. I've learned the hard way that when you invest emotion into girls like that, that it really rarely works out. You also have to be upfront with them about your intentions or you WILL get friend zoned and that is never good. +1 | ||
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