EPTJust do it. If it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. No regrets.
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stafu
Australia1196 Posts
Just do it. If it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. No regrets. | ||
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Cloud
Sexico5880 Posts
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andiCR
Costa Rica2273 Posts
If not Question #2. Why havent you told her you like her? The girl im with, was a girl i blogged earlier this year. I was after her, and never gave up.. finally she ended up seeing my real side (lol just when i decided i wasnt going to try anymore) and im with her. I then showed her the blog i made about 2 months later... she laughed and was very moved by it. I sincerely hope you can do something about it. Try not to feel discouraged, toughen up, and be a man. She told you what she thinks.. you tell her what you think. Once the words are coming out, its not that hard. Good luck PS: im listening to some Kings of Convenience music right now... this was exactly what i was listening to when i wrote my blog, so if i sound a bit imaginitive blame the music  http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=85883 | ||
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dekuschrub
United States2069 Posts
fucking stupid girls. OH I THOUGHT WE WERE JUST FRIENDS yeah like i need any hot just for friends girls GET SERIOUS | ||
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caldo149
United States469 Posts
In other words, don't become friends with a chick if you want to date her. | ||
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MoltkeWarding
5195 Posts
So yeah. Any ideas how I could have prevented that? Suggestions how I should deal with her now would be also welcomed, since I don't have a clue. Become stoic or buddhist? Anyhow does the mighty heart of the Teutonic race not pride itself on the passions evoked by sadness? Du versuchst, o Sonne, vergebens, Durch die düstren Wolken zu Scheinen! Der ganze Gewinn meines Lebens Ist, ihren Verlust zu beweinen. | ||
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
On October 24 2009 04:03 MoltkeWarding wrote: Become stoic or buddhist? Anyhow does the mighty heart of the Teutonic race not pride itself on the passions evoked by sadness? Du versuchst, o Sonne, vergebens, Durch die düstren Wolken zu Scheinen! Der ganze Gewinn meines Lebens Ist, ihren Verlust zu beweinen. Wow, Moltke posting in a blog about girls. I'm going to rate this 5/5 | ||
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JadeFist
United States1225 Posts
If she had any feeling for you, she would never have told you she liked another guy. Once you are a "friend" that's it. I understand it is horrible but that's reality. In fact, my roommate told a girl he likes that he had feelings for her. And this girl clearly all along did not have feelings for him. She just gave some lame excuse like, "you're like all my other boyfriends from high school and I don't want to date someone like that." Girls are great at rationalizing.  | ||
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
She likes this guy more than you, shitty deal. You'll have to get over it though. I wouldn't try to force a relationship with her or anything. | ||
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Urth
United States1250 Posts
but not literally | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
On October 24 2009 04:22 Urth wrote: fuck girls but not literally Wait, what? | ||
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
On October 24 2009 04:22 Urth wrote: fuck girls but not literally Why not ? | ||
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biomedical
235 Posts
a) are you in her spanish class/was she talking about you? b) reflect on yourself and her and figure out why she might not find you attractive. this could be a range of reasons and you might not be able to figure it out until you've known her for longer. c) do something about it if you feel that you are lacking some positive qualities that is causing your failings d) realise that if she doesnt respond well to qualities you think are positive then perhaps you don't honestly see eye-to-eye with one another. the girl isn't always right e) tbh your op was so well-written i begin to think it was fabricated hehe f) you dont have to "confess" to her but probably will if you're an emotional reject. if you do this then its likely that you'll set yourself back 6 months with her. instead just wait until you have a good night, a little tipsy, and shes laughing at something....THEN try it on. you gotta wait for the right moment man!!!!!! | ||
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Urth
United States1250 Posts
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aTnClouD
Italy2428 Posts
And well some people when drunk are very susceptible to change their mind. If you are one of them get drunk with someone to who you can speak about her and end up insulting her or the female gender with him. Or try to force yourself to see her as an object rather than a person. It helps in the short terms even if you somehow have a deep respect for women. | ||
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Julmust
Sweden4867 Posts
http://www.topcultured.com/where-exactly-is-the-friend-zone/ | ||
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://www.majhost.com/gallery/Rail/STURF/friendzone.png) --- humor at your expense aside, the metaphor remains, the MOMENT you detect you are in the friend zone orbit, you must put Full Throttle On and try to break out with your Drill That Pierces the Heavens. If you wait too long it will be too late. The longer you wait the more fubar things get. The next time you see her, suit up, arm yourself with a bouquet of roses, ready a limo, and abduct her to lunch at a casual cafe. Or something less dramatic that still gets the message across. | ||
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
condoms | ||
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Artisreal
Germany9235 Posts
On October 24 2009 03:34 KlaCkoN wrote: *Shrug* just from reading your post it sure sounds like you need a true friend much more than a relationship anyway, and she definitely seems like someone who could become one. Don't worry so much about her gender and just be with her and have fun? Though if you are already hopelessly "in love" I guess it might be too late for that :/ This seems kind of a good advice. At least you may think about it, if you can handle the "being friends". It might turn out to be an awesome friendship, I would not take this out of consideration. Being friends with a girl you really like and somehow LIKE can be frikkin wearing for the first few weeks and maybe months, especially seeing "them" together, but on the other hand, you're in danger of loosing someone you simply share a lot and can have a shitload of good times together. You may also decide if you tell her or not. Having what you wrote, I cannot judge if you should or not. Will she distrust you afterwards, thinking you do all the stuff "just to get her" or because you feel comfortable around her and feelings are developing. Its not just allin and either he gets her or you, keep that in mind. I've failed to state clearly what was on my mind and quite clearly am pretty happy with my friends and - here comes the sad part - mostly got to know the girl and diddnt like her anymore. haha crap. good luck dude. | ||
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Archaic
United States4024 Posts
This chain was almost as good as Moltke's post. | ||
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