"She starts to playfully hit me when I tease her."
Wtf.
This is starting to become a pet-peeve of mine.
This is supposed to be a pre/mid puberty manifestation of "i like you but don't know how to express this feeling i have so my brain panics and decides to tease/push/hit you instead". You know?
The fact that this sort of underdeveloped behavior persists all the way into Uni and beyond is such a mystery to me, even if it's you've never learned, why can't you at least try to emulate observed behavior?
I'd stay away from her as she's not ready for a relationship (which i believe is what you need), she just needs to experiment and have her romantic illusions dispelled.
As for the topic: "girls" - the standing advice is as always - be successful at something, whatever it is, even if it's a video game - if you're not an unhygienic mess: girls will be drawn to the confidence that stems from your success.
On October 24 2009 06:39 Thrill wrote: "She starts to playfully hit me when I tease her."
Wtf.
This is starting to become a pet-peeve of mine.
This is supposed to be a pre/mid puberty manifestation of "i like you but don't know how to express this feeling i have so my brain panics and decides to tease/push/hit you instead". You know?
The fact that this sort of underdeveloped behavior persists all the way into Uni and beyond is such a mystery to me, even if it's you've never learned, why can't you at least try to emulate observed behavior?
I'd stay away from her as she's not ready for a relationship (which i believe is what you need), she just needs to experiment and have her romantic illusions dispelled.
As for the topic: "girls" - the standing advice is as always - be successful at something, whatever it is, even if it's a video game - if you're not an unhygienic mess: girls will be drawn to the confidence that stems from your success.
i agree 200% on the beeing successful at something part. beeing passionate about something is also quite a turner.
On October 24 2009 07:28 Perguvious wrote: I thought good relationships were based on a strong friendship
Like Eddie Muphy said you gotta make a woman come really hard and then she'll be yours forever. And I'm pretty sure he's better with women than me so ;/
On October 24 2009 07:28 Perguvious wrote: I thought good relationships were based on a strong friendship
Like Eddie Muphy said you gotta make a woman come really hard and then she'll be yours forever. And I'm pretty sure he's better with women than me so ;/
i randomly remembered some movie where he was chilling with his best friends girl and tried to get closer, she said "we are friends" to what he replied "friends can have sex" and started making out with her
I would have just been honest and said "I thought you meant me!" That way you make her feel guilty and can flirt with her/take the attention away from the spandiard or whatever.
Being friendzoned is not as bad as it seems. If you have alot of friends that are girls its only better for you because eventually you will date someone and then they get jealous and realize you are the shit and will want to be with you. Plus they have hot friends.
On October 24 2009 08:45 Hypnosis wrote: Being friendzoned is not as bad as it seems. If you have alot of friends that are girls its only better for you because eventually you will date someone and then they get jealous and realize you are the shit and will want to be with you. Plus they have hot friends.
ROFL. hahahaha You got friend-zoned. The only way to get out of this zone is to tell her how you feel. Watch this Part 1:
Oh man, when i read the op it was like looking into a mirror. About 4 years ago i really liked this girl. I did all the right things. But, i got into the dreaded friend zone. Even worse, she liked my brother. Ok, even worse than that my bro didnt like her and she still liked her. So, after awhile of being down on myself what i did was said "screw it" and told her how i felt. Even then she didnt like me. So, i just said whatever and moved on, but always keeping her in the back of my mind. So i basically kept the relationship completely cut and dry. Sentences short, polite but not overly nice. Then i became semi involved with a girl. The girl i liked started getting jealous. Then guess what..... she started liking me. But, instead of melting like butter in a microwave i stayed the way i was (of cours i broke it off completely with the other girl). I told the girl i liked that im kinda interested. i think what helped was the semi ignoring. She missed the relationship we had before, and after experiencing what being with another guy while thinking of me was like, she ended up wanting a relationship after all. Im not saying this happens all the time, or even 50%. But, you have nothing to lose. And if you just keep doing things to take you're mind off her than the pain will pass. As a side note, i ended up not wanting her and am happily married to the perfect girl.
EPT
