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Just found out a friend committed suicide
I feel like shit and don't know who to talk to about this.
Never even saw it coming, fucken wish I could've done something to prevent this. Who's gonna river me now in poker u sack. Always drew that 3 outer on me.
I miss you bro!
Hope things are better on the other side
RIP my friend
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Best wishes man, keep your head up and don't do anything to hurt yourself during your grief.
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Suicide is always hard because it can just sandbag you. There's nothing shows the gap between people as much as it.... In the end, people are the ones with the power over their lives and we can just love them till they go.
RIP
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I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.
What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.
RIP
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This almost happened to me like few weeks ago. The thing with friend commiting suicide is, I learned, you are completely blindsided by it. You think your friend is just fine, but then, BOOM, for no reason whatsoever (to unsuspecting friends) they commit suicide. It really is "wtf dude, why didn't you talk your problems out with us?"
RIP
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On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote: I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.
What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.
RIP
I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out.
Sorry for your loss and keep your head up.
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fuck that's gotta suck...
sorry man and RIP :|
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rip.
Do you have any idea why he did it?
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Happened to me too a few years back. I just don't think about it, you can never really know what's inside someone else's head. Obviously, it still sucks.
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I know how it feels man, a friend of mine also suicided.
Condolences and RIP.
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I've had several friends die or kill themselves in these past few years. Don't ever blame yourself for their weaknesses or misgivings. Support your friends as best as you can and try to remember the good times but do not dwell or get overly sentimental. Life ... goes... on.
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On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote:Show nested quote +On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote: I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.
What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.
RIP I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out. Sorry for your loss and keep your head up. Everyone copes in their own way and in a situation like this it is far better to just state your own view if you need to but not to contradict someone else imo. Losing someone close to you means you basically get to feel whatever you want.
I'm very sorry you lost your friend.
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This happened to me almost exactly a year ago. Try not to think about what you could have done, that's all I can say.
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I don't get it why people say that suicide is a selfish act. Why should someone continue living his/her miserable life just because their existence provides comfort for someone else?
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On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote:Show nested quote +On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote: I had the same happening to me 2 years ago.
What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo.
RIP I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out. Sorry for your loss and keep your head up.
Exactly. They look for a way out. A way out for themselves. But if there are people who love you and you think about killing yourself, you shouldn't think about what the suicide does for you (because it obviously rids yourself of all problems you ever had, currently have, or would have in the future).
You should think about what it does to the people around you.
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that must suck, sorry bro! may he rest in peace =(.
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Been there. It'll take a while to get through, but it'll happen. Condolences, man.
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My Heartfelt sorrow brother. The end of any life is a tradegy. Don't blame yourself and live a life for you both.
RIP
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