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Chinminy
New Zealand41 Posts
I feel like shit and don't know who to talk to about this. Never even saw it coming, fucken wish I could've done something to prevent this. Who's gonna river me now in poker u sack. Always drew that 3 outer on me. I miss you bro! Hope things are better on the other side RIP my friend  | ||
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VonLego
United States519 Posts
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Rainmaker5
United States1027 Posts
RIP | ||
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101TFP
420 Posts
What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo. RIP | ||
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don_kyuhote
3006 Posts
The thing with friend commiting suicide is, I learned, you are completely blindsided by it. You think your friend is just fine, but then, BOOM, for no reason whatsoever (to unsuspecting friends) they commit suicide. It really is "wtf dude, why didn't you talk your problems out with us?" RIP | ||
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SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
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Renoir_scII
Canada112 Posts
On January 21 2011 21:26 101TFP wrote: I had the same happening to me 2 years ago. What got me through it was to start hating the person who killed himself. Suicide is just about the most selfish act of all imo. RIP I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out. Sorry for your loss and keep your head up. | ||
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hifriend
China7935 Posts
sorry man and RIP :| | ||
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s.a.y
Croatia3840 Posts
Do you have any idea why he did it? | ||
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Osmoses
Sweden5302 Posts
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Scaipax
Netherlands54 Posts
Condolences and RIP. | ||
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Grettin
42381 Posts
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Redunzl
862 Posts
Don't ever blame yourself for their weaknesses or misgivings. Support your friends as best as you can and try to remember the good times but do not dwell or get overly sentimental. Life ... goes... on. | ||
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Scorcher2k
United States802 Posts
On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote: I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out. Sorry for your loss and keep your head up. Everyone copes in their own way and in a situation like this it is far better to just state your own view if you need to but not to contradict someone else imo. Losing someone close to you means you basically get to feel whatever you want. I'm very sorry you lost your friend. | ||
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Soda
United States66 Posts
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DNB
Finland995 Posts
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101TFP
420 Posts
On January 21 2011 21:54 Renoir_scII wrote: I don't want to be disrespectful to the OP and cause trouble in this thread but I have to say that 'hating the person who killed himself' is a very bad way of going about this. It's a very complicated issue and I think to call it 'the most selfish act of all' is a bit obtuse. Most people that kill themselves cannot cope with their situation and the only thing they can think about is a way out. Sorry for your loss and keep your head up. Exactly. They look for a way out. A way out for themselves. But if there are people who love you and you think about killing yourself, you shouldn't think about what the suicide does for you (because it obviously rids yourself of all problems you ever had, currently have, or would have in the future). You should think about what it does to the people around you. | ||
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PaPoolee
Netherlands660 Posts
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Issor
United States870 Posts
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Cpt.beefy
Ireland799 Posts
RIP | ||
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Garnet
Vietnam9030 Posts
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sammler
United Kingdom381 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + Suicide is not selfish. Selfish is a word that, day-to-day, describes petty human action. Suicide is not petty. It is the ultimate decision, and consider the deep suffering that person was experiencing as they personally chose to say goodbye, forever, to everyone they love. If I had a friend who was suffering that much, and it could not be solved, then I would not want him/her to stick around just to please me. | ||
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MiniRoman
Canada3953 Posts
On January 22 2011 00:08 101TFP wrote: Exactly. They look for a way out. A way out for themselves. But if there are people who love you and you think about killing yourself, you shouldn't think about what the suicide does for you (because it obviously rids yourself of all problems you ever had, currently have, or would have in the future). You should think about what it does to the people around you. My immediate blood family would be the only deterrants to suicide. If I offed myself and my friends started hating me cause I didn't whine to them about it fuck em. I'll fuck up their imacs before going to hell. Suicide has to be scary and painful, anyone who does it is pretty damn sure they want out. They don't exist to be a blip in their friends lives. | ||
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Licmyobelisk
Philippines3682 Posts
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darklordjac
Canada2231 Posts
RIP | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
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Chinminy
New Zealand41 Posts
TL really is a great community, guess I'll try to move on for now. Hopefully one day I'll understand why this happened. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
I lost a friend back in November, but due to my irregular sleeping patterns; I didn't find out until December, thus missing the funeral. Died in a car accident. He was the only friend I truly cherished during my racist-heavy high-school where no one took me seriously or gave me an ounce of respect. He just started Starcraft when I saw him after a long time of being apart. I'm sorry for your loss. | ||
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NIIINO
Slovakia1320 Posts
(family troubles, no alcohol) RIP | ||
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LazyMacro
976 Posts
 RIP | ||
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Z3kk
4099 Posts
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Mr. Wiggles
Canada5894 Posts
I hope you do ok, and that you can deal with this tragedy in your life. RIP | ||
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