dude. you gotta lower than that. fuck if you don't have any idea just say 19 or 20. cuz yes, they know you are bullshitting but they can't really get mad at you because it is like a compliment.

The best way to say it is like this:

Her: How old do you think I am?
You: You look soooooooooo young. omg omg, you LOOK like a 19-20 year old!

The key phrase is, "you look like". Not, "I think you are". If you say, "you look like", you can friggin say 18 and she will get all bubbly and giggly inside.

Then she asks: No really. How old do you really think I am?
You: Omg omg you look soooooo young! I can't tell! Impossibru!

bam. she will give you her virginity on a plate right there. okay she probably won't but she will be flattered nonetheless. im korean and korean women REALLY take this shit seriously but I have yet to have my tires slashed nor have i received an ugly haircut. gl

Jerubaal

United States7684 Posts

January 25 2012 04:33 GMT

#25

I say you say screw the hair and make a pass at her anyway.

It will surprise her if she screwed up your hair on purpose and you still go up to her all friendly like.

Tektos

Australia1321 Posts

January 25 2012 04:44 GMT

#26

Always dodge that question!

If you get asked that question take one of two approaches:

Joke about it before you answer regarding how it is such a loaded question and that if you pick her age or above she gets offended for you thinking she's old or if you answer too young she gets offended because she thinks you're lying to her.

Or tell her that age is meaningless because it doesn't matter if someone is 20 or 40 they can still be attractive and that the most attractive thing a woman can do it be secure with who she is and her age. (This involves a subtle attack at her for asking such a stupid question and implying she's insecure - she likely wont get offended but wont press you for a number).

Besides, if she's asking that question - and getting offended by the answer - she's probably not a person you want to date anyway. It just sucks about the haircut though, fortunately it grows back.

ZenobiaTalon

Canada35 Posts

January 25 2012 04:52 GMT

#27

1. Did she ever say how old she actually was? Because if she's 23 then stfu you whinny bitch.

2. If a girl asks you to guess her age, don't answer, say that you don't know and aren't good at guessing ages.

3. If your wavy hair really bothered you that much that you would get it cut short, but you like long hair better, you should have tried product. I know guys have an issue with using product, but it works and it makes your hair smell delicious, and it feels so soft. If you do grow your hair out again then take my advice: Don't use volumizing shampoo, if you don't already use conditioner, use it! Conditioner makes a huge difference. Use a creamy shampoo, not a clear one, it's good for dry hair if your hair is getting frizzy towards the end of the day. If none of that works then you can always chemically straighten it.

4. Seriously, picture of the hair.

CrazyF1r3f0x

United States2120 Posts

January 25 2012 05:53 GMT

#28

Still waiting for those photos... @_@

synapse

China13814 Posts

January 25 2012 05:57 GMT

#29

+ Show Spoiler +

Pics or it didn't happen

What's wrong with 24? o_O
...for anyone younger, that would be like "oh hey I look pretty mature" and anyone older "I guess I still have my youth shit goin on."

GohgamX

Canada1096 Posts

January 25 2012 06:16 GMT

#30

On January 25 2012 13:20 Ushio wrote:
If your hair looks like Jaedong's you are one fine ass man

I agree with Ushio.

forSeohyun

504 Posts

January 25 2012 08:59 GMT

#31

I think metal-dudes with long hair skips the schampoo and only washes it with hot water and then uses conditioner to get super-straight hair, but I can't guarantee it.

If the hair on the sides are cut short you will get less volume in the hair, even if the hair on top is longish (think MMA), maybe that is a good thing for you?

TheSwamp

United States1497 Posts

January 25 2012 09:30 GMT

#32

You always answer 21. Even if they look 150.

[sc1f]eonzerg

Belgium6413 Posts

January 25 2012 11:10 GMT

#33

lol

eRROr

We Are Dormin

25 Posts

January 25 2012 17:03 GMT

#34

As someone who has the roughly the same kind of hair as you (according to your description, at least), I would recommend just cutting your losses and getting a buzz just so you can start from scratch. I did that a couple years ago and have since found a nice balance in terms of length. I looked pretty terrible with a buzz while I had one, but I think the temporary sacrifice was well worth it. Your call, though.

Also, don't take the experience with that girl to heart. In my opinion, that is a question that nobody should ever use on another person. I mean, I can't think of anything positive that could come from asking it, so the fact that she did makes me question her reasons for doing so.

Cedstick

Canada3336 Posts

January 25 2012 17:15 GMT

#35

Fuckin' girl blog out of no where, sick-nasty trojan you got here.

Hair-wise, what I like to do -- I have hair that poofs out after a shower, too -- is immediately put my touque on for roughly an hour to keep it pressed just enough. That's my simple fix without using styling product -- dear god, am I fucking afraid of styling product. Don't know how to use that shit efficiently.

Aelonius

Netherlands432 Posts

January 25 2012 18:48 GMT

#36

I never dodge the question.
The way I approach it, is with "feigned" uncertainty. Especially when they look older I tend to do this :

Me: I do not know, I look at you and you look young, but then I look at the way you come across as person and that looks more mature.

Her : Tell me! (Or any reasonably close reply)

Here I put emphasis that she comes across older than she looks, so she doesn't feel too hurt if I am too high.