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Baa?21244 Posts
On May 06 2015 05:22 Seuss wrote: Actually it's extremely American. If you're in management, finance, or other parts of business where social status and networking are critical to advancement that kind of thing is as basic as it gets.
Trust me, it's so much more extreme in Asia than in America.
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On May 06 2015 05:09 Slayer91 wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:07 TheYango wrote: The "social courtesy" of exchanging gifts is actually just a game where the person who receives the better gift is actually the loser and loses face.
Just like the social courtesy of offering to pay the bill at a restaurant where the person who ends up paying is actually the winner. I'm with you on the second one yango in that you increase social status but decrease financial status I really don't get the first one wtf are you saying if I wrap up a turd for my gift I am automatically the alpha male?
The person who gave the better gift made a supposedly greater sacrifice, and thus demonstrated their selflessness more, gaining more social respect.
It's all bullshit. I don't even write thank you cards. A "thanks a lot" upon receiving the gift is enough.
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I only give/receive gifts within my family. Friends we just hang out or go drinking. No one actually buys someone a gift unless it's a bottle of alcohol to drink together. We always split all our meals unless someone can't pay today then we cover and he plays next time. Always baffled how people seem to have such problems with restaurant bills.
Is this only a thing when you trying to impress some associate?
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United States47024 Posts
On May 06 2015 05:15 wei2coolman wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:07 TheYango wrote: The "social courtesy" of exchanging gifts is actually just a game where the person who receives the better gift is actually the loser and loses face.
Just like the social courtesy of offering to pay the bill at a restaurant where the person who ends up paying is actually the winner. That's so asian.
On May 06 2015 05:22 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:22 Seuss wrote: Actually it's extremely American. If you're in management, finance, or other parts of business where social status and networking are critical to advancement that kind of thing is as basic as it gets. Trust me, it's so much more extreme in Asia than in America. Cheep and wei2 get it.
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On May 06 2015 05:22 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:22 Seuss wrote: Actually it's extremely American. If you're in management, finance, or other parts of business where social status and networking are critical to advancement that kind of thing is as basic as it gets. Trust me, it's so much more extreme in Asia than in America. This, watching my parents interacting with other family members and friends when it comes to gift giving is pretty lulz. or them fighting over who pays the check for a meal.
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On May 06 2015 05:23 jcarlsoniv wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:09 Slayer91 wrote:On May 06 2015 05:07 TheYango wrote: The "social courtesy" of exchanging gifts is actually just a game where the person who receives the better gift is actually the loser and loses face.
Just like the social courtesy of offering to pay the bill at a restaurant where the person who ends up paying is actually the winner. I'm with you on the second one yango in that you increase social status but decrease financial status I really don't get the first one wtf are you saying if I wrap up a turd for my gift I am automatically the alpha male? The person who gave the better gift made a supposedly greater sacrifice, and thus demonstrated their selflessness more, gaining more social respect. It's all bullshit. I don't even write thank you cards. A "thanks a lot" upon receiving the gift is enough.
oh i misread it I think it makes sense its just worded in a really bad way its whoever gives the best gift is the winner standard leave it to the womenfolk i always say
jk i never said that it would trigger me
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On May 06 2015 05:22 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:22 Seuss wrote: Actually it's extremely American. If you're in management, finance, or other parts of business where social status and networking are critical to advancement that kind of thing is as basic as it gets. Trust me, it's so much more extreme in Asia than in America. It is super extreme.
I was smuggling in iPads as gifts for my relatives just for a few weeks stay, plus monies and other gifts.
Gift-giving is ridiculously important in East Asian societies.
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On May 06 2015 05:36 ComaDose wrote:hmm not very flattering.
I just scrolled through the pictures and dam those are some terribly messy rooms. Kids need to learn how to clean up and own a laundry basket so you don't just have dirty clothes lying all over the floor. Just basic human hygiene geez.
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On May 06 2015 05:35 TheYango wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:15 wei2coolman wrote:On May 06 2015 05:07 TheYango wrote: The "social courtesy" of exchanging gifts is actually just a game where the person who receives the better gift is actually the loser and loses face.
Just like the social courtesy of offering to pay the bill at a restaurant where the person who ends up paying is actually the winner. That's so asian. Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:22 Carnivorous Sheep wrote:On May 06 2015 05:22 Seuss wrote: Actually it's extremely American. If you're in management, finance, or other parts of business where social status and networking are critical to advancement that kind of thing is as basic as it gets. Trust me, it's so much more extreme in Asia than in America. Cheep and wei2 get it.
Not being asian, I will cede to those with superior knowledge.
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On May 06 2015 05:36 ComaDose wrote:hmm not very flattering.
If half of this is still currently the case they need to get a real manager who actually takes care of them. Maybe not even a manager but like a House Mom or Dad to make sure they eat and live proper. At this rate it looks like they are a month or two away from pulling a TSM scurvy. I do like the idea of a living facility and then a practice facility thou so that's good.
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Czech Republic11293 Posts
On May 06 2015 05:44 Numy wrote:I just scrolled through the pictures and dam those are some terribly messy rooms. Kids need to learn how to clean up and own a laundry basket so you don't just have dirty clothes lying all over the floor. Just basic human hygiene geez. having a laundry basked doesn't stop dirty clothes from lying all over the floor trust me
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Watermelon Arizona cocktail is...odd, good, but odd.
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On May 06 2015 05:45 Parnage wrote:If half of this is still currently the case they need to get a real manager who actually takes care of them. At this rate it looks like they are a month or two away from pulling a TSM scurvy. I do like the idea of a living facility and then a practice facility thou so that's good. That was only Oddone, because his diet was something like Snapple and Ramen or Subway.
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If you guys think those rooms are scandalously messy I don't know what to tell you. Like, I see maybe two days' worth of clothes on the floor at most.
I mean look at the sink. You can see the sink.
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On May 06 2015 05:48 Gahlo wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:45 Parnage wrote:On May 06 2015 05:36 ComaDose wrote:hmm not very flattering. If half of this is still currently the case they need to get a real manager who actually takes care of them. At this rate it looks like they are a month or two away from pulling a TSM scurvy. I do like the idea of a living facility and then a practice facility thou so that's good. That was only Oddone, because his diet was something like Snapple and Ramen or Subway.
Obviously I don't expect them to actually get scurvy but it can't be good for them and they deserve better looking after. I mean I can understand the untidy stuff but no actual food in the place? That just ain't good living on presumably take out and the like.
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On May 06 2015 05:51 Seuss wrote: If you guys think those rooms are scandalously messy I don't know what to tell you. Like, I see maybe two days' worth of clothes on the floor at most.
I mean look at the sink. You can see the sink.
The only reason you can see the sink is because no one there cooks any food. Seem to have a diet of fast food, chips and energy drinks. When will gamers realize that having a healthy body lets you compete better? Just because a room can be messier doesn't mean that those aren't. I'll never understand the whole super messy room. Why would you want to live like that?
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On May 06 2015 05:52 Numy wrote:Show nested quote +On May 06 2015 05:51 Seuss wrote: If you guys think those rooms are scandalously messy I don't know what to tell you. Like, I see maybe two days' worth of clothes on the floor at most.
I mean look at the sink. You can see the sink. The only reason you can see the sink is because no one there cooks any food. Seem to have a diet of fast food, chips and energy drinks. When will gamers realize that having a healthy body lets you compete better? Cause shitty food often tastes good, is cheap, and makes companies that dump money into the gaming scene a lot of money.
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