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On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here  .
I don't think she got her shit back together, it's more like she had to settle for her fall back plan.
I have a friend who went to see his girlfriend who was studying in another city on his birthday, and the girl dumped him during dinner, apparently completely forgotten it was his birthday.
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I would never trust to be in a relationship with a religious person. Not to make this a rant against religion, but believing in God is not exactly rational and this might mean there could be a pattern of irrationality.
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On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here .
I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues.
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On February 19 2013 00:49 Grumbels wrote:
I would never trust to be in a relationship with a religious person. Not to make this a rant against religion, but believing in God is not exactly rational and this might mean there could be a pattern of irrationality.
-.- .... Women are already irrational. Being religious isn't going to strengthen that. If anything, it's going to make her not want to cheat on you.
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On February 19 2013 00:50 GhostLink wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here . I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues.
You did good, Ghostlink. I fully agree with your logic. A lesser man would have caved in. You taught her a valuable lesson, hopefully she took it to heart.
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On February 19 2013 00:50 GhostLink wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here . I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues.
It's funny how you keep talking about other guys beeing assholes while the only asshole in this story we know about for certain is you :D
Also this whole revenge thing... Are you 16 or something? lol
So you wasted 2 years for what exactly? Imo you should think about therapy or something, gl anyway
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On February 19 2013 00:58 nRoot wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:50 GhostLink wrote:On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here . I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues. It's funny how you keep talking about other guys beeing assholes while the only asshole in this story we know about for certain is you :D Also this whole revenge thing... Are you 16 or something? lol So you wasted 2 years for what exactly? Imo you should think about therapy or something, gl anyway
Anyone who dates a girl you like is an asshole in your eyes, even if he's a perfect gentleman.
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On February 19 2013 00:49 Grumbels wrote:
I would never trust to be in a relationship with a religious person. Not to make this a rant against religion, but believing in God is not exactly rational and this might mean there could be a pattern of irrationality.
As much as atheist i am. I believe they have the right to chose there belief, I would be content to have a religous GF but not to the extent where everything goes before god, in moderation yes of course. Just matter there extent of dedication (i know thats not the right word but brain has went numb)
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On February 19 2013 00:58 nRoot wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:50 GhostLink wrote:On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here . I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues. It's funny how you keep talking about other guys beeing assholes while the only asshole in this story we know about for certain is you :D Also this whole revenge thing... Are you 16 or something? lol So you wasted 2 years for what exactly? Imo you should think about therapy or something, gl anyway
I agree that revenge is kind of silly, but I don't see how taking the girl would work out in anyway. Maybe he should moved on 2 years earlier and get over it, but meh.
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On February 18 2013 13:22 SolidMotion wrote:
Enter my fucked up story:
So my first experience ever falling for a girl was when I was 16... I wasn't nerdy but I had some of the best grades in my year, wasn't awful at sports either, just didn't excel at them, look wise I'd say slightly above average but nothing special. So i meet this girl at the beginning of the year who's new to town and I just have "the love on first sight" kinda thing, and I had never experienced that before. She wasn't insanely beautiful or anything either but everytime she smilled it just sparked something in me that I couldn't explain and I just wanted to be with her. Fate, being as funny as it is, also decided that she was going to be in almost all my classes. In hindsight, I probably was the first guy that talked to her at the school. Anyway... moving on.
So the first few months of the school year pass everything is going great, we're really good friends at that point as well... Fate strikes again but this time in a terrible way: both of her parents die in a freak car accident during christmas break. School starts again and then she just turns into somewhat of a ball of hate from that point on, losing all her friends and people start looking at her as a weirdo. She deals a lot of painful emotional shit to me as well at this point but I just can't seem to bring myself to let her down and I keep trying and talking to her to see if I can help, like a good friend would right ?
So not too long after that I somehow manage to get to her and she realizes she's lost almost all her friends and that even after all of this I'm still the only one around... I don't want to stay around here too much but suffice to say we get together not long after this, being really grateful for all I've done and all of that... From that point on until the last two months of school, I'm basically in paradise, all is going well, my life is great... and best of all I finally someone with whom I feel like I can share anything... appearances then also indicate that seems to be mutual. Then shit starts hitting the fan...
So during that time we were dating she was doing well again and started getting more social, especially with the people that were considered to be the "populars". Now, the popular people from the year I was in were kind of fucked up, and I had heard stories about the weird "games" and notion of fun they had but had never really payed attention to it, and in hindsight since my gf starting hanging out with them, I really should have... Man, I really wish I had...
During that time she started changing as well, she was slowly becoming like them and the stuff she sometime would say scared me, we got into a few fights over that as well... So we hit a point where she decides we have to take a break while she thinks things out, I get really bummed out but being really in love I decide to stay calm and let her do it, the fights and that all happened within a week, that should have been my first warning sign...
During the next 2 weeks we don't talk much, and then she calls me out to meet her at a local restaurant during the week-end. That restaurant is in front of my school, right next to the school there was wood, the wood basically served as a barrier between my school and the college right next to it. Suffice to say it was big enough that people could go into it and not be seen from the outside. So we eat, she seems to be normal, or at least her last two months normal and we talk over, when we're done eating we decide to go for a walk in said wood, which we usually did. So we do that... Going on that walk was one of the biggest mistakes of my life, and in hindsight, I don't know if there was anything I could have done about it.
So when we enter the wood we keep walking and then she stops making sense at starts screaming at me, I don't really remember much of what it was about but an arguement started and that led to one of the worst moment of my existence... Out of nowhere someone hit me in the back of the head with something really heavy, don't even know what it was, all i know is that it was painful and I felt I was bleeding. I think I lost consciousness there for a bit. When I came back to a few moments later, don't know how long it was, I was seeing her laughing with all of her friends... they were these "popular kids", guys and girl alike were there, all just laughing and yelling shit at me. My ex then just starts kissing the guy that was holding a baseball bat, which is basically the guy who hit me... Turns out they'd been together for a while now and no one seemed to have told me... I felt like a fucking fool... I won't go much into what happened next because I don't think I can write it down without breaking down... I'll just end it at "I was lucky enough to fall unconscious pretty fast".
I woke up two weeks later in the hospital and was told I had suffered two skull fracture, all my ribs were broken and yadi yada that they pretty much didn't know how the fuck I made it out alive... Nice wake up call huh ?
I managed to get back to school on the 2nd week of the last month... My life was hell for the next two weeks... Everyone knew what happened, they even got away with it. No one would talk to me, they made sure of it. Her bf and his gang would wait for me at the end and beat me up for the fun of it, I was still healing at that point too, which made it extremely painful...
Last week of school comes and I'm basically about go mentally breakdown... Last gym class of the year comes... I happen to walk behind him while he's bending over in his locker... I had a baseball bat in my hands at that point and I just couldn't take it anymore... I flipped out and I started hitting him... He was down and not moving after two hits but I was just so scared he was going to get up and start beating the shit out of me... So I just kept swinging and swinging... Some people finally tried stopping me... apparently it took 3... I don't have much memory from there, probably my brain shutting it down in hindsight...
I got a case out of it, but the judge knew of what happened so thats all I got, I was allowed to take the end of year exams that were the week after but I was basically banned from that school and had to move out after that...
The only satisfaction I hold from all of this is that this guy is now stuck in a wheelchair for the rest of his life... Call me a monster but that's one of the only things that looking back makes me really happy...
I really feel like shit now, I don't even want to write the second story... it's just so much worst... I don't know what happened to her after that and the least I know the better... As I heard after that they had been dating for the last 2 months before that happened, making fun of me within their circle... I just hope I don't see her again because the actions I commit if I do might not end up being pleasant for her... The second accident pretty much fucked my life up so bad that I don't think shit can be worst than they are now anyway...
I'm done...
As someone who was bullied through middle school and high school, when I read that you beat him, I felt happiness. Mostly because justice seem to have been served, which is something that I never got.
Anyways, what happened is truly terrible, but I'm glad that you got back at him, which is something that I too, should have done.
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On February 19 2013 01:18 ragz_gt wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:58 nRoot wrote:On February 19 2013 00:50 GhostLink wrote:On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here . I can understand why you would think that. But I'd hate myself if i didn't do what i did. After all, that was the plan from the beginning. I've committed myself to being her friend for 2 years while watching her date other guys. Sure, I could have just taken the easy way out and started dating her, but then all that effort was to go to waste. For once i listened to my brain. I'd wager that if i did say yes and start dating her, she'd dump me soon enough for some other asshole, because i wasn't cool, or gym-pumped, so owned a nightclub. Then that person would dump her, and she'd come back crying to me, and so the cycle continues. It's funny how you keep talking about other guys beeing assholes while the only asshole in this story we know about for certain is you :D Also this whole revenge thing... Are you 16 or something? lol So you wasted 2 years for what exactly? Imo you should think about therapy or something, gl anyway I agree that revenge is kind of silly, but I don't see how taking the girl would work out in anyway. Maybe he should moved on 2 years earlier and get over it, but meh.
Who talked about' taking the girl' ? Just be a grown up about it and move on, this is just stupid and tells more about him than anything else
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I have a friend who broke up with his girlfriend after a long night of arguing. They lived in the same apartment, so neither person had a place to go to get away from eachother, and her immediate reaction was to consume as much alcohol/drugs as she possibly could, and then lay into my buddy again. She ended up having an emotional freakout and walked out into the street, down to a bridge that's about 30 feet above a low river, and jumped. She broke her leg and had a massive gash on her forehead. This was right in the beginning of winter too, so it was pretty cold outside. The screams she was making from the river (which was a foot or two deep at most) as we were attempting to get her out while rescue personnel were on the way will be something I won't ever forget. That's the worst breakup I've ever seen.
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lol i got warned for sympathising with one of the people who told their stories and was told to "think about my life"
are you fucking kidding me. dunno who tl mods think they are that they can just tell someone to think about how they want to live their own life.
the story teller got sent to hospital. multiple ribs broken etc etc. beat up to the point of near death. if i had a chance id return the favour, regardless of what the possible outcome might be. dunno whats so unfair about that
User was temp banned for this post.
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This thread is a gold mine.+ Show Spoiler + Insert Samsung quote here (ye did good lad)
I was invited to go to a haunted forest with a good friend of mine and his gf and her friend. Well his "girlfriend" had been texting me like non stop for the past 3 months even though I told her to chill it out. I told my friend but he didn't do anything about (not that I no of)
So back to the haunted forest, im having a good time, my mates girl friend and her friend are pretty nice and my friend seems to be having a good time too.
Fast forward to the drive home.
I was sitting in the back next the girlfriend and her friend their talking and stuff, and my friend is sitting in shotgun seat. The girlfriend keeps on talking to me and out of nowhere the girl friend texts me,
Texts
+ Show Spoiler +
gf: Srry to bother you even when im 2 feet away, but you saw them holding hands right?
me: Yea. I think your friend had taking. A liking to ***** #2feetaway
gf: I think I might break up with him. That's why i'm so quiet.
me: akwarrrrdd
gf: ya.... sorry for bothering you
me: np
gf: I don't want to hurt ***** but he's gonna deny it or pull away. It's happened before but i let it slide.
me: just talk to him le draw le lines.
gf: I can't stand it.
me: you get out what you put in. Le try
gf: true... le try?
me: le try.
gf: and that means...
me: work!!!
gf: :'(
me: le unhappy face
tl dr: gf breaks up with a good friend of mine, IN THE CAR WITH HIM, after he took her to a place an hour and half drive away and basically act like nothings happened.
Aftermath
The ex then goes back to texting me. Since I didn't really want anything to do with her, ( am I an awful person?) I ignore her. well i'm hanging at my friend's house and lo and behold she texts me. my friend picks up my phone and realizes she texting me. I tell him that I don't want to talk to her and if he wants to text her on my phone then he can do so. Need less to say he does. She stops texting me for a few months and just recently began texting me again. Well, I will have nothing to do with it and continue my vow of silence. I hope to god and all things holy that I don't run in to her. That'd be so bad man.
tl dr: ignoring the ex, gave friend phone to text her blah blah blah.
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Seeing a lot of these stories leads me to think: What would you guys classify as a good breakup?
And vigilantism is pretty terrible, however much you feel the guy deserves it. The question you all failed to ask was why in the world the other guy was not the one who had to stand trial...
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On February 19 2013 00:40 LOveRH wrote:Show nested quote +On February 19 2013 00:31 GhostLink wrote:Wait... You kept her as a friend for over 2 years, still flirting tho, watching her get dumped by 3 guys. Then, she finally came to her senses and said she wanted to be with a decent man, a non-douche. This was when you experienced the biggest brainfart in human history, not only rejecting a "super hot" and "living embodiment of beauty" as a "lover", but also breaking an over 2 year long friendship? For what? Just to be a douche? Or what?
Something doesn't add up here.... I wanted revenge. And I had it. Yes I could have been with her now, but I still have no regrets. I was very hurt by what she did to me at the start, so... It felt quite good. I feel like you need to accept that people make mistakes. She finally got her shit back together, manned up and came back to you (which takes a lot of guts) and what do you do? You rejected her. Not to be mean but you kinda seem like the bad guy here .
It is just in hollywood movies that a hot girl that only dates hot douches settles for good for a decent man that she didn't want at first.
It wouldn't have lasted for sure. You could have had some good times, but it's sure she would have rejected you at some point. Don't be that guy that accepts everything (that a girl who knows you are attracted to her tell you all about her boyfriends, then wants to be closer to you when she has nothing else to do) just because a girl is hot.
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I've never had a break-up, as i've never had a girlfriend, only like, one night thingy's.
and im 18, feel kind of pathetic lol
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On February 19 2013 01:59 Garfailed wrote:
I've never had a break-up, as i've never had a girlfriend, only like, one night thingy's.
and im 18, feel kind of pathetic lol
Don't worry dude, you're still young. You got several years to hit up places and talk to girls. If they reject you, you'll likely not see them again and find new ones.
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On February 19 2013 01:59 Garfailed wrote:
I've never had a break-up, as i've never had a girlfriend, only like, one night thingy's.
and im 18, feel kind of pathetic lol
Yeah... like the gu above said that's not a bad thing...
You can see just from this thread that this shit can make you as happy as it can make you unhappy and in the extreme break you.
Eventually it'll happen, just gotta work for it and have a bit of luck...
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On February 18 2013 13:22 SolidMotion wrote:
Enter my fucked up story:
So my first experience ever falling for a girl was when I was 16... I wasn't nerdy but I had some of the best grades in my year, wasn't awful at sports either, just didn't excel at them, look wise I'd say slightly above average but nothing special. So i meet this girl at the beginning of the year who's new to town and I just have "the love on first sight" kinda thing, and I had never experienced that before. She wasn't insanely beautiful or anything either but everytime she smilled it just sparked something in me that I couldn't explain and I just wanted to be with her. Fate, being as funny as it is, also decided that she was going to be in almost all my classes. In hindsight, I probably was the first guy that talked to her at the school. Anyway... moving on.
So the first few months of the school year pass everything is going great, we're really good friends at that point as well... Fate strikes again but this time in a terrible way: both of her parents die in a freak car accident during christmas break. School starts again and then she just turns into somewhat of a ball of hate from that point on, losing all her friends and people start looking at her as a weirdo. She deals a lot of painful emotional shit to me as well at this point but I just can't seem to bring myself to let her down and I keep trying and talking to her to see if I can help, like a good friend would right ?
So not too long after that I somehow manage to get to her and she realizes she's lost almost all her friends and that even after all of this I'm still the only one around... I don't want to stay around here too much but suffice to say we get together not long after this, being really grateful for all I've done and all of that... From that point on until the last two months of school, I'm basically in paradise, all is going well, my life is great... and best of all I finally someone with whom I feel like I can share anything... appearances then also indicate that seems to be mutual. Then shit starts hitting the fan...
So during that time we were dating she was doing well again and started getting more social, especially with the people that were considered to be the "populars". Now, the popular people from the year I was in were kind of fucked up, and I had heard stories about the weird "games" and notion of fun they had but had never really payed attention to it, and in hindsight since my gf starting hanging out with them, I really should have... Man, I really wish I had...
During that time she started changing as well, she was slowly becoming like them and the stuff she sometime would say scared me, we got into a few fights over that as well... So we hit a point where she decides we have to take a break while she thinks things out, I get really bummed out but being really in love I decide to stay calm and let her do it, the fights and that all happened within a week, that should have been my first warning sign...
During the next 2 weeks we don't talk much, and then she calls me out to meet her at a local restaurant during the week-end. That restaurant is in front of my school, right next to the school there was wood, the wood basically served as a barrier between my school and the college right next to it. Suffice to say it was big enough that people could go into it and not be seen from the outside. So we eat, she seems to be normal, or at least her last two months normal and we talk over, when we're done eating we decide to go for a walk in said wood, which we usually did. So we do that... Going on that walk was one of the biggest mistakes of my life, and in hindsight, I don't know if there was anything I could have done about it.
So when we enter the wood we keep walking and then she stops making sense at starts screaming at me, I don't really remember much of what it was about but an arguement started and that led to one of the worst moment of my existence... Out of nowhere someone hit me in the back of the head with something really heavy, don't even know what it was, all i know is that it was painful and I felt I was bleeding. I think I lost consciousness there for a bit. When I came back to a few moments later, don't know how long it was, I was seeing her laughing with all of her friends... they were these "popular kids", guys and girl alike were there, all just laughing and yelling shit at me. My ex then just starts kissing the guy that was holding a baseball bat, which is basically the guy who hit me... Turns out they'd been together for a while now and no one seemed to have told me... I felt like a fucking fool... I won't go much into what happened next because I don't think I can write it down without breaking down... I'll just end it at "I was lucky enough to fall unconscious pretty fast".
I woke up two weeks later in the hospital and was told I had suffered two skull fracture, all my ribs were broken and yadi yada that they pretty much didn't know how the fuck I made it out alive... Nice wake up call huh ?
I managed to get back to school on the 2nd week of the last month... My life was hell for the next two weeks... Everyone knew what happened, they even got away with it. No one would talk to me, they made sure of it. Her bf and his gang would wait for me at the end and beat me up for the fun of it, I was still healing at that point too, which made it extremely painful...
Last week of school comes and I'm basically about go mentally breakdown... Last gym class of the year comes... I happen to walk behind him while he's bending over in his locker... I had a baseball bat in my hands at that point and I just couldn't take it anymore... I flipped out and I started hitting him... He was down and not moving after two hits but I was just so scared he was going to get up and start beating the shit out of me... So I just kept swinging and swinging... Some people finally tried stopping me... apparently it took 3... I don't have much memory from there, probably my brain shutting it down in hindsight...
I got a case out of it, but the judge knew of what happened so thats all I got, I was allowed to take the end of year exams that were the week after but I was basically banned from that school and had to move out after that...
The only satisfaction I hold from all of this is that this guy is now stuck in a wheelchair for the rest of his life... Call me a monster but that's one of the only things that looking back makes me really happy...
I really feel like shit now, I don't even want to write the second story... it's just so much worst... I don't know what happened to her after that and the least I know the better... As I heard after that they had been dating for the last 2 months before that happened, making fun of me within their circle... I just hope I don't see her again because the actions I commit if I do might not end up being pleasant for her... The second accident pretty much fucked my life up so bad that I don't think shit can be worst than they are now anyway...
I'm done...
Those people are fucking disgusting.
I'm happy you knocked the guy in a wheelchair, payback is a bitch. The girl didn't get what she deserves yet but karma will catch up to her eventually.
I don't know you but I'm fucking proud of you.
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