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Try and keep it on the political/societal/cultural end of the discussion. This deals not only with gay rights but also the larger issue of looking at the interaction of religious groups within secular society, their rights and their influence, in contrast with the privileges of other groups. Which religion, if any, is right is irrelevant and arguments of that nature will be moderated. |
On December 12 2012 04:20 KwarK wrote:Show nested quote +On December 12 2012 04:17 dAPhREAk wrote: you are infringing their right to practice their religion as long as its an actual belief of the church Would you support a church refusing to marry interracial couples on the basis of religious beliefs? I would, yes. Even speaking as someone who has no particular religious beliefs and a dislike of organized religion, I think it's fine for the church to believe whatever silly stuff they want to, and that it would be wrong to force them to open up their churches for the use of things which are specifically against their religion, such as gay marriage.
I find it interesting that it's really a discussion though. Why would a gay couple even want to get married in a place where they know they're disliked and unwelcome other than to specifically taunt/piss off the church?
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On December 13 2012 09:02 ampson wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2012 08:34 dAPhREAk wrote: what is "religious marriage?" i have never heard of that before. as far as i know, if the gov't (U.S.) doesnt approve of the marriage (i.e., marriage certificate, witnesses, etc.), its not a marriage. The way I'm using it it is simply a marriage recognized and performed by a church.
Which is seperated in a lot of countries. As an example you can marry 10 times here after a divorce but only 1 time in the church.
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Congrats to UK and its people. Hope my state follows its example.
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While reading this thread, I caught myself thinking, "Maybe religions should be excluded from having to marry gay people; I mean there are people whose religion is their whole life, and the scriptures are fundamental to them and the way in which they lead their lives..."
But: the more I think about it, the more the bakery example holds true and this causes many problems if you are religious. A bakery refusing to serve black customers and a religion refusing to marry two men are equivalent positions. The only way someone will be able to defend such a position from a religious standpoint is through revelation or something similar.
I feel that the real point here is that in order to be logically and morally consistent one is forced to conclude that there is no place in society for a religion which would have reservations about performing gay marriages.
Should a bakery should be allowed to refuse to serve someone on the basis of their race? I think if you are sane you fall into one of two camps:
1) No 2) Yes, but only because society will flush the toilet on the bakery without the need for the government interference.
Without getting too sidetracked, either answer works because the end result is the same: the racist baker is out of business one way or the other. And we are happy.
Why are religions against homosexuality and gay marriage? It basically boils do to outdated, morally reprehensible and indefensible viewpoints. Just as we do not exclude a person from a religion because they are black, and the same person shouldn't be excluded because they are gay. It is just really unfortunate (for major religions) that they have explicitly stated their barbaric positions on homosexuality in a way that means followers either have to accept that their major teachings are open to interpretation (a can of worms) or are inflexible (a can of worms).
A point that is made over and over again is that religion has a monopoly on marriage and "the definition of marriage". Even if the history of marriage was linked to religion, we place an emphasis on "getting married" through culture and as a result it would still be fair game to claim it for wider society.
All in all, I am happy that our LGBT brothers and sisters are finally able to get married, but would have much rather preferred for there not to be a "quadruple lock" protecting religious freedom; I think that a church should not have the power to reject a gay couple from getting married and issues like gay marriage are the final nails in the coffin for religion.
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On December 13 2012 06:50 koreasilver wrote: I like how so many of you simply have not read the OP at all. The theme of this topic isn't about a nonexistent law that will force churches to may gay couples. It's about the implementation of a law that would make it illegal for gay marriage to occur under certain religious establishments.
The main problem I have with this is that the secular law can serve as a weapon for whatever internal camp of a religious sect that wields the most political power at the given moment. It's completely inaccurate and seriously asinine to think that any of the Christian sects in the present day UK does not have debates and dissent when it comes to some of the more popular social questions like gay marriage or the ordination of women. The question of gay marriage, women clergy, and gay clergymen have been such a huge point of debate, dissent, and even division within the Anglican Church all throughout the period of Rowan William's time as Archbishop of Canterbury (he is retiring at the end of this year). So what this law would do is give pretty much complete power to the conservatives and utterly stifle any dissent that may come from the progressives and the liberals. Not only would their dissent be viewed as contrary opinion that can be opposed through orthodoxy, but also something that can be brought to secular court if they go as far as to marry a gay couple as it would be illegal under the law of the nation - and this is just absurd. Imagine how insane it would be if we go back to when that Catholic bishop ordained a number of women as priests and the aftermath of this heresy wasn't only the prompt excommunication of the bishop and the women, but also prosecution for breaking secular law. It's just insane.
edit: You guys are fucking silly "debating" the same tired polemic, ignorant, dumb "talking points" about religion instead of actually looking and discussing the actual goddamned case that has been presented to us in the OP.
People should read this post, or the OP.
This is not an advancement for gay rights in the UK. This does not benefit gay people.
This legislation is designed to protect churches from the courts. Specifically, once this has passed there will be no chance in the future for british churches to face discrimination lawsuits in european courts.
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On December 13 2012 13:36 hzflank wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2012 06:50 koreasilver wrote: I like how so many of you simply have not read the OP at all. The theme of this topic isn't about a nonexistent law that will force churches to may gay couples. It's about the implementation of a law that would make it illegal for gay marriage to occur under certain religious establishments.
The main problem I have with this is that the secular law can serve as a weapon for whatever internal camp of a religious sect that wields the most political power at the given moment. It's completely inaccurate and seriously asinine to think that any of the Christian sects in the present day UK does not have debates and dissent when it comes to some of the more popular social questions like gay marriage or the ordination of women. The question of gay marriage, women clergy, and gay clergymen have been such a huge point of debate, dissent, and even division within the Anglican Church all throughout the period of Rowan William's time as Archbishop of Canterbury (he is retiring at the end of this year). So what this law would do is give pretty much complete power to the conservatives and utterly stifle any dissent that may come from the progressives and the liberals. Not only would their dissent be viewed as contrary opinion that can be opposed through orthodoxy, but also something that can be brought to secular court if they go as far as to marry a gay couple as it would be illegal under the law of the nation - and this is just absurd. Imagine how insane it would be if we go back to when that Catholic bishop ordained a number of women as priests and the aftermath of this heresy wasn't only the prompt excommunication of the bishop and the women, but also prosecution for breaking secular law. It's just insane.
edit: You guys are fucking silly "debating" the same tired polemic, ignorant, dumb "talking points" about religion instead of actually looking and discussing the actual goddamned case that has been presented to us in the OP. People should read this post, or the OP. This is not an advancement for gay rights in the UK. This does not benefit gay people. This legislation is designed to protect churches from the courts. Specifically, once this has passed there will be no chance in the future for british churches to face discrimination lawsuits in european courts.
While many people are arguing incorrectly about a hypothetical law against churches. I think to say this isn't an advancement for gays in the UK is wrong. They no longer are joined in a civil union, but now in marriage. While their rights as partners don't necessarily change, they are no longer deal with the whole "separate but equal" issue. Its by no means a huge win (assuming the law passes as discussed), but it does benefit the LGBT community in the UK.
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How is changing 'civil union' to 'marriage' an advancement? its the same thing.. Such a sad sad world we live in when things like abortion an gay marriage are apparently the only things people discus. Wonder how many people are starving to death in Britain or how many foreign wars they are involved in right now, how about peoples rights to not get shot and mugged on the street. What about BBC World being a piece of shit pedaling agendas for and financed by the foreign ministry? But no, lets go around in circles about gay marriage one more time
EDIT: What I'm trying to say is that Britain has much much bigger problems than 'gay marriage' and that someone obviously has a lot to gain from going around in circles about pointless 'problems' rather than really get down and solve/bring to light to the real problems. This is true not only for Britain but about every country and is a real problem we all face
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On December 13 2012 12:28 The Irate Turk wrote: But: the more I think about it, the more the bakery example holds true and this causes many problems if you are religious. A bakery refusing to serve black customers and a religion refusing to marry two men are equivalent positions. The only way someone will be able to defend such a position from a religious standpoint is through revelation or something similar.
I feel that the real point here is that in order to be logically and morally consistent one is forced to conclude that there is no place in society for a religion which would have reservations about performing gay marriages.
Should a bakery should be allowed to refuse to serve someone on the basis of their race? I think if you are sane you fall into one of two camps:
1) No 2) Yes, but only because society will flush the toilet on the bakery without the need for the government interference.
Without getting too sidetracked, either answer works because the end result is the same: the racist baker is out of business one way or the other. And we are happy.
Why are religions against homosexuality and gay marriage? It basically boils do to outdated, morally reprehensible and indefensible viewpoints. Just as we do not exclude a person from a religion because they are black, and the same person shouldn't be excluded because they are gay. It is just really unfortunate (for major religions) that they have explicitly stated their barbaric positions on homosexuality in a way that means followers either have to accept that their major teachings are open to interpretation (a can of worms) or are inflexible (a can of worms).
A point that is made over and over again is that religion has a monopoly on marriage and "the definition of marriage". Even if the history of marriage was linked to religion, we place an emphasis on "getting married" through culture and as a result it would still be fair game to claim it for wider society.
All in all, I am happy that our LGBT brothers and sisters are finally able to get married, but would have much rather preferred for there not to be a "quadruple lock" protecting religious freedom; I think that a church should not have the power to reject a gay couple from getting married and issues like gay marriage are the final nails in the coffin for religion.
The bakery example does not hold true. To sell food is a secular service, which means that you have to follow secular rules of discrimination. Marriage in a church however is a religious service, which means that by our religious freedom, the church should be allowed to decide who to offer their services to.
Anyway. You claim that the church doesn't accept gay marriage, simply because it's outdated, just because you think so. That's your opinion, don't act like it's a fact. Get off your high horses ppl. There's so many faux liberals here. True liberalism is about accepting other ppl's ideas as equal to your own. The church should never be allowed to judge over secular matters like burglary, murder or even secular marriage, but they should have a right to discriminate when it comes to their own services, like religious marriage. Whoever disagrees with me here, clearly doesn't believe in freedom of religion. Don't get me wrong, I don't assume that everybody is willing to accept all concepts of freedom, but that's what I believe in anyway.
Anyway, I don't get some of you guys here. You say that the state never forced the church to accept gay marriage, but at the same time, you very clearly criticize the law because it didn't lead to that, that it didn't lead to the church being forced to accept gay marriage.
Don't let the secular courts judge matters of faith and religion. It doesn't work, and for that reason, religious institutions should have the right to judge matters of faith, but their power should be restricted to inclusion and exclusion. In other words, a church should have the right to exclude members if they don't accept their rules, and they should also be allowed to deny marriage between parties who don't accept their rules.
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On December 13 2012 13:36 hzflank wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2012 06:50 koreasilver wrote: I like how so many of you simply have not read the OP at all. The theme of this topic isn't about a nonexistent law that will force churches to may gay couples. It's about the implementation of a law that would make it illegal for gay marriage to occur under certain religious establishments.
The main problem I have with this is that the secular law can serve as a weapon for whatever internal camp of a religious sect that wields the most political power at the given moment. It's completely inaccurate and seriously asinine to think that any of the Christian sects in the present day UK does not have debates and dissent when it comes to some of the more popular social questions like gay marriage or the ordination of women. The question of gay marriage, women clergy, and gay clergymen have been such a huge point of debate, dissent, and even division within the Anglican Church all throughout the period of Rowan William's time as Archbishop of Canterbury (he is retiring at the end of this year). So what this law would do is give pretty much complete power to the conservatives and utterly stifle any dissent that may come from the progressives and the liberals. Not only would their dissent be viewed as contrary opinion that can be opposed through orthodoxy, but also something that can be brought to secular court if they go as far as to marry a gay couple as it would be illegal under the law of the nation - and this is just absurd. Imagine how insane it would be if we go back to when that Catholic bishop ordained a number of women as priests and the aftermath of this heresy wasn't only the prompt excommunication of the bishop and the women, but also prosecution for breaking secular law. It's just insane.
edit: You guys are fucking silly "debating" the same tired polemic, ignorant, dumb "talking points" about religion instead of actually looking and discussing the actual goddamned case that has been presented to us in the OP. People should read this post, or the OP. This is not an advancement for gay rights in the UK. This does not benefit gay people. This legislation is designed to protect churches from the courts. Specifically, once this has passed there will be no chance in the future for british churches to face discrimination lawsuits in european courts. it only applies to the Church of England (church made up by the state) and the law affects England and Wales (it excludes Scotland, (N)Ireland and what else you have there)
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Treating people as equals - Thats good! Legalized descrimination - thats bad.
My thoughts:
If the church is treated like a corporation, which is treated legally like a person, then they should have to follow the laws just as the common man, or lose their stupid tax exemptions.
but hey, if the church's only power is pretending to know whats best for gay people, i think we've come a long way. soon enough it will be a silly memory of mysticism people once had.
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As it is in every society, it's a morality choice. You either believe gay marriage is right or wrong. It's hard to have a middle ground position.
For the US, it has to do with our Tax code and money in the end. There are some nice benefits if you could file Married Jointly and not just single (which currently, gay couples are considered single). So, for the UK, I have not noticed anything like this (or maybe I missed it?).
And it's a fine line of "pushing one's belief on others" when it comes to putting things into Law.
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Anything that encourages legal rights no matter what is an improvement  I hope some day everyone will have equal rights no matter their religion, race, sexuality or political interests
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ninini, the issue I am having is why secular law doesn't apply to religion in a secular society. It's no stranger to say that baking law should apply to bakeries than religious law to apply to religions. If they are to be granted exemptions from laws that apply to every other group, be it a political party, business, private club or anything else then it must be justified beyond different treatment because they're different. A bakery is different to a political party but it's still held to the same law. Furthermore the convictions of people in political parties are just as strongly held and it is much easier to argue why political affiliation should be unrestricted.
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On December 13 2012 19:42 ninini wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2012 12:28 The Irate Turk wrote: But: the more I think about it, the more the bakery example holds true and this causes many problems if you are religious. A bakery refusing to serve black customers and a religion refusing to marry two men are equivalent positions. The only way someone will be able to defend such a position from a religious standpoint is through revelation or something similar.
I feel that the real point here is that in order to be logically and morally consistent one is forced to conclude that there is no place in society for a religion which would have reservations about performing gay marriages.
Should a bakery should be allowed to refuse to serve someone on the basis of their race? I think if you are sane you fall into one of two camps:
1) No 2) Yes, but only because society will flush the toilet on the bakery without the need for the government interference.
Without getting too sidetracked, either answer works because the end result is the same: the racist baker is out of business one way or the other. And we are happy.
Why are religions against homosexuality and gay marriage? It basically boils do to outdated, morally reprehensible and indefensible viewpoints. Just as we do not exclude a person from a religion because they are black, and the same person shouldn't be excluded because they are gay. It is just really unfortunate (for major religions) that they have explicitly stated their barbaric positions on homosexuality in a way that means followers either have to accept that their major teachings are open to interpretation (a can of worms) or are inflexible (a can of worms).
A point that is made over and over again is that religion has a monopoly on marriage and "the definition of marriage". Even if the history of marriage was linked to religion, we place an emphasis on "getting married" through culture and as a result it would still be fair game to claim it for wider society.
All in all, I am happy that our LGBT brothers and sisters are finally able to get married, but would have much rather preferred for there not to be a "quadruple lock" protecting religious freedom; I think that a church should not have the power to reject a gay couple from getting married and issues like gay marriage are the final nails in the coffin for religion.
The bakery example does not hold true. To sell food is a secular service, which means that you have to follow secular rules of discrimination. Marriage in a church however is a religious service, which means that by our religious freedom, the church should be allowed to decide who to offer their services to. Anyway. You claim that the church doesn't accept gay marriage, simply because it's outdated, just because you think so. That's your opinion, don't act like it's a fact. Get off your high horses ppl. There's so many faux liberals here. True liberalism is about accepting other ppl's ideas as equal to your own. The church should never be allowed to judge over secular matters like burglary, murder or even secular marriage, but they should have a right to discriminate when it comes to their own services, like religious marriage. Whoever disagrees with me here, clearly doesn't believe in freedom of religion. Don't get me wrong, I don't assume that everybody is willing to accept all concepts of freedom, but that's what I believe in anyway. Anyway, I don't get some of you guys here. You say that the state never forced the church to accept gay marriage, but at the same time, you very clearly criticize the law because it didn't lead to that, that it didn't lead to the church being forced to accept gay marriage. Don't let the secular courts judge matters of faith and religion. It doesn't work, and for that reason, religious institutions should have the right to judge matters of faith, but their power should be restricted to inclusion and exclusion. In other words, a church should have the right to exclude members if they don't accept their rules, and they should also be allowed to deny marriage between parties who don't accept their rules.
You and posters who have been arguing this line have been arguing that there are one set of rules (you call them secular.. I would rather name them rule of law principles) that apply to religious organisations an another for the rest. What I don't understand is how you have come to this conclusion, it would help me if you could cogently argue what makes religious organisations so 'special' that they should not be set against the same standards that we set the rest of society against (e.g. Discrimination laws).
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Sweet! Now I can marry my father.
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On December 13 2012 21:41 KwarK wrote: ninini, the issue I am having is why secular law doesn't apply to religion in a secular society. It's no stranger to say that baking law should apply to bakeries than religious law to apply to religions. If they are to be granted exemptions from laws that apply to every other group, be it a political party, business, private club or anything else then it must be justified beyond different treatment because they're different. A bakery is different to a political party but it's still held to the same law. Furthermore the convictions of people in political parties are just as strongly held and it is much easier to argue why political affiliation should be unrestricted.
You're free to choose the religion you want and to not marry at the Church. Moreover, there's no punition for apostasy in Christianity. So the core philosophical principle of secularism is totally respected.
From a pure legal point of view, as stated above, it's a non-issue. There's no law obliging the Church to open the religious marriage, a church institution, to homosexual couple. Making one would probably be against human rights and the right to freedom of association. Would that bother you, or are you the kind of guy who only promote human rights when they're used as a vector for your own agenda, and who only cares about churches when immigrants are expelled from them ?
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On December 13 2012 23:33 SiroKO wrote:Show nested quote +On December 13 2012 21:41 KwarK wrote: ninini, the issue I am having is why secular law doesn't apply to religion in a secular society. It's no stranger to say that baking law should apply to bakeries than religious law to apply to religions. If they are to be granted exemptions from laws that apply to every other group, be it a political party, business, private club or anything else then it must be justified beyond different treatment because they're different. A bakery is different to a political party but it's still held to the same law. Furthermore the convictions of people in political parties are just as strongly held and it is much easier to argue why political affiliation should be unrestricted. You're free to choose the religion you want and to not marry at the Church. Moreover, there's no punition for apostasy in Christianity. So the core philosophical principle of secularism is totally respected. From a pure legal point of view, as stated above, it's a non-issue. There's no law obliging the Church to open the religious marriage, a church institution, to homosexual couple. Making one would probably be against human rights and the right to freedom of association. Would that bother you, or are you the kind of guy who only promote human rights when they're used as a vector for your own agenda, and who only cares about churches when immigrants are expelled from them ? Yes there is in the UK, that's why they want the exemption. The church doesn't deal in civil partnerships but if it did it couldn't deny one to a couple on the grounds of their sexuality. If gays can get married and the church offers to perform marriages then they won't legally be able to discriminate on the grounds of sexual preference. That's why they want the . In the UK the legalisation of gay marriage will compel churches to perform gay marriage. I have no idea what you're talking about with human rights and immigrants.
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If all private organizations in the UK are not allowed to discriminate in their membership does that mean MENSA could be forced to allow lower-IQ people to join? Or a club for lesbians forced to allow male members? These examples may sound absurd but I'm not trolling- I think they do raise the question of where the line is (or should be) drawn with such legislation.
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On December 14 2012 00:16 tomatriedes wrote: If all private organizations in the UK are not allowed to discriminate in their membership does that mean MENSA could be forced to allow lower-IQ people to join? Or a club for lesbians forced to allow male members? These examples may sound absurd but I'm not trolling- I think they do raise the question of where the line is (or should be) drawn with such legislation.
Lesbian club would be prosecuted, MENSA would not (unless a person's discrimination was based on a disability, which is very feasible).
To quote the home Office website:
The act covers nine protected characteristics, which cannot be used as a reason to treat people unfairly. Every person has one or more of the protected characteristics, so the act protects everyone against unfair treatment. The protected characteristics are:
age disability gender reassignment marriage and civil partnership pregnancy and maternity race religion or belief sex sexual orientation
The Equality Act sets out the different ways in which it is unlawful to treat someone, such as direct and indirect discrimination, harassment, victimisation and failing to make a reasonable adjustment for a disabled person.
http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/equalities/equality-act/
It is only these characteristics that are protected, which does not include IQ.
EDIT: as a side note, it is feasible that MENSA could be accused of indirect discrimination do due, for example, age (as I recall it being studied that IQ diminishes with age).
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This is a complete non-issue and a great example of a first world problem.
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