Dating: How's your luck? - Page 2

I was on a second date with a girl who I met through work. She had quite the crush on me and the first date actually went pretty well - a long walk around the lake and then back to my place. The second date was at a coffee shop a few blocks from my apartment. We get to talking and it starts becoming clear that she's a bit immature for her age. She was mid-20's, and she boldly announced that she didn't have the energy or responsibility for a full-time job. She then related to me a story about how her mother controls every aspect of her life, so much so that she cannot even have a lock on her bedroom door. And then, in the same vein, she tells me that she has a really big secret, and whispers in my ear "I'm not a virgin." Uh, yeah. Good for you, but that's not exactly a secret when you're coming up on 30. I politely try to break it off, but end up having to fake being sick as she was following me back to my apartment (she lived in the complete opposite direction).

I'll share 2 bad experiences with women, there are more that aren't so bad and kinda funny how shittty my luck is but thats ok lol.

My last girlfriend I had was completely broke because she never felt like working so i ended up spending money and driving her places, which was fine because i wouldn't spend jack shit and hardly hang out with her as a result. She slowly makes minor signs that she isn't really intrested but i dont pick up on them because they're very sudtle.(we chilled a lot in my car listening to music watching planes fly in at the airport parking lot, so one day she said she likes being in my car listening to music, but never said she liked being with me doing it.) One night i pick her up and she is drunk as shit, im mad because she has an inflammed liver and drinking is the last thing she should be doing. We dont say much and she goes home without a kiss. Few days she leaves me with a 5 letter text, i say fine guess its goodbye. I find out through facebook that she adds her bestfriend as a boyfriend a few days later. im pissed. i find out a little bit later from friends that she was seeing him while we were dating, what the fuck. Naturally i just want to call up my friends and get both those fuckers beat up but i held back.

Next story is the girl i knew and liked for 3 years. This girl is really special to me because we are so very similar its scary. when i first met her she was dating someone (a person i'd never want to cross) but she flirted with me hardcore about how our kids could look ect... I didnt even know she was dating someone so i thought about asking her out until it slipped out one day. She apologized and i was left confused. In the last 3 years i've made a lot of progress with women so i couldn't exactly make sense of the fact that iwas being teased. fast forward about 3 years about 3 months ago. We had a huge fight because i got pissed of with her disrespecting me, lasts about a year. right before we got into that fight she had broken up with her bf and was single ever since. (suprising since she bf hoped for almost 7 years) Her birthday arrives and she invites me to come. All my old feelings come back and i say yes. It was a simple outting to the movies with her friends so we didnt talk much, but i was dettermined to make my last attempt to start a relationship.

In the past i made a habit of beating around the bush and never really asking a girl out which i slowly cured over in the year i was appart from her. We're both big on electronic dance music and got to raves often but this time around i started taking her hands and dancing with her. She loved it. Unfortunately she started doing some of those things with other guys when i wasn't around to. I was annoyed but not done yet. Then i took her out swimming, literally went to her house and told her we're swimming. She was reistant and didnt want to but i got her there. She had a blast i was throwing her around int he water, the whole speal. Everytime i talked to her afterwards she wanted to go swimming. That very day i told her that i liked her for the full 3 years i met her and i've never liked a girl like you, that i wanted to start something with you. Her response? "damnit why didnt you say something sooner? I just started dating someone." "damnit damnit damnit" I'm not mad im actually happy, i didnt expect a yes at all, i kind've expected a no, but i got hope. I knew the guy she just started dating and i knew it was doomed for failure so this gave it hope. Ofcourse i find out 2 days later from her best friend she broke up with him. I'm all excited waiting for her to call. She never does. I quite positive the girl i liked didnt tell her best friend about me because we all know eachother and she usually doesnt share information about guys, so im quite sure it wasnt a game plan to get me to ask again. The next time i see her im out with her best friend and we met up with her at some guys house, shes drunk and cuddling with this dude. I'm fucking pisssed right the fuck off. me and her friend leave after watching a movie leaving her there drunk with this fucking guy. Im really pissed off, but it gets wierder. a week later we go to two raves back to back. I hardly even acknowledge her the first night and she's with her ex boyfriend the whole night, not looking like shes having a good time. I'm sober this night because im driving for my best friend that night. the second night me and my best friend switch roles so he drives i drink. Then it gets wierd. She starts taking shots with me with her friends, ex bf, ect.. and eventually out of the blue she just grabs my hand and pulls me to the dance floor. Im drunk and just say fuck it lets have some fun. We get to the front of the rave close to the dj (ferry corsten yeye) and just start grinding. My mind was completely blown at that point, not that she was the best girl that i grinded with, but because this is the first time i've ever seen her grind in the whole 3 years i knew her. She didnt even do it with her boyfriends. She's grabbing my neck, im sliding my hands up her legs, shes doing the same. Even wasted i felt so much emotion. Finally the night comes to an end with us dancing and the dj closes it up. She does something stupid and books it back stage to try and get an autograph, idont risk it because the bouncers wouldn't hesitate to beat my ass and let her go. Meet up with her out side and she pretends like nothing happened. We've talked once since and it wasn't really about much other then what we've been doing. she doesnt invite me out anywhere and doesnt really talk to me. I feel that i already put myself out there and she just shit all over me so im trying to completely tie it off.

Jesus that was a long write. I got tons of other minor ones about bad my luck is with picking up women but w/e lol