EPTSerious, some advice or opinion needed - Page 5
| Blogs > HamerD |
|
dronebabo
10866 Posts
| ||
|
HamerD
United Kingdom1922 Posts
I still haven't really seen an answer to: do any tech people know of ANYTHING out there which allows someone to record a cam stream (say from michelle to me) then play it back using MSN as if it were a normal cam? Sounds completely impossible to me. Though I know some crazy stuff can be done with msn and such. | ||
|
Elian
United States129 Posts
Either way - if we're being serious - I'm under the impression she is lying. Which is a shame, because I think if she told the truth and just said yeah I did these things everything would be a lot easier. So, in the end you have two decisions in my mind: 1) You can forgive her, tell her so, and maybe ease your mind about the whole e-cheating.com business. This is reasonable, but as someone said previously, you have to forgive her otherwise you're just playing games with yourself, and it'll hurt later. This is a risky business, but it can be fulfilling if you really believe you have something. (Particularly in real life... because if marriage is your end goal, I don't think you do that in a terminal, real life is actually very important here) 2) You can leave becasue she betrayed you and you thought she was worth more than that, and your foundation isn't strong enough to actually have stuff like this go on. This is equally reasonable. A lot of people choose choice A because it delays the heartbreak and might save things. Based on her crazy reaction either she's a good actor or she's definitely upset. Her parents never seeing her cry is weird, but I'll sweep that under the rug (I'm guessing they meant past maturity Inc lol). But choosing this isn't a bad way to go either... if anything, all it means is there is another e-fish in the internet pond that you need to find... or one in real life. Whichever you prefer. As for the rest, I REALLY don't think she had a friend come over and like cyber sex some random guys on her computer. I REALLY don't. I also really don't think anyone can forget that junk, so the mind suppression thing seems like a weak excuse to me (basically one of those things you tell yourself to ease your mind when you have a huge faith in someone). You have the chat logs, how much of it is complete? Did she break down in the middle? Or did she finish what she was doing. How long did their relationships last? ETc. These are good indicators that a) NOT A FRIEND, and b) NOT TRAUMATIZED TO FORGET. Lastly, I don't understand the point that a ton of people have brought up here, and that is, why were you snooping on her computer in the first place? What was the just cause of that? If there is one, I think you should be rethinking the entire business, because you're not telling us the entire story... so... Option B sounds cleaner than Option A. But really, bottom line, the decision is yours and is none of ours to make. Your heart probably already knows what's actually right to begin with. Edit: If this is actually authentic, and I hope so, this post isn't as awkward.  Otherwise, I just got rocked haha. | ||
|
fusionsdf
Canada15390 Posts
| ||
|
Salv
Canada3083 Posts
On April 18 2009 04:35 HamerD wrote: I still haven't really seen an answer to: do any tech people know of ANYTHING out there which allows someone to record a cam stream (say from michelle to me) then play it back using MSN as if it were a normal cam? Sounds completely impossible to me. Though I know some crazy stuff can be done with msn and such. I'm sure it's possible, but you really think that's what's going on? | ||
RaGe
Belgium9952 Posts
On April 18 2009 04:35 HamerD wrote: Thanks NotSupporting. I still haven't really seen an answer to: do any tech people know of ANYTHING out there which allows someone to record a cam stream (say from michelle to me) then play it back using MSN as if it were a normal cam? Sounds completely impossible to me. Though I know some crazy stuff can be done with msn and such. Programs like StudioPro/Camtasia can make a 'virtual webcam' and stream that on MSN. | ||
|
inertinept
Bangladesh1195 Posts
this is relatively odd lol, especially with HamerD's posting history so idk on this one. | ||
|
yubee
United States3826 Posts
| ||
|
Purind
Canada3562 Posts
Maybe she has a twin that you don't know about, and this Amanda character set up the twin to talk to your best friend. In fact, the twin might even be dead, and this Amanda character channeled the twin's spirit into her body. Your best friend, not knowing of the existence of this twin, thought he was actually talking to Michelle. This explains all of the contradictions: a) The evidence that she talked to a couple of guys. It was indeed her twin, and you can't tell them apart via a camera b) Michelle not knowing anything about those convos I'm not sure how Amanda factors into this, but my explanation explains everything. So what will you do? Believe me Raise an Objection | ||
|
KwarK
United States44401 Posts
Ultimately it doesn't matter either way. You've been given a guilt free excuse to get out of that relationship and try and find an equally stimulating one in the same continent. Take it. It's not like you'll ever be able to trust her again anyway, especially given the distance. That said, if you're staying there for a bit because of your plane then wait it out because hotels are a lot of effort. Also when you leave it'd be useful to burn your bridges to avoid regressing so I recommend you say you believe her, engage in a lot of rough guilt sex and then leave a note saying it's over when you go. Also <3 inc. | ||
|
Malongo
Chile3479 Posts
On April 18 2009 04:38 fusionsdf wrote: I'm convinced this is a troll i join this club. | ||
|
RaGe
Belgium9952 Posts
| ||
|
MasterReY
Germany2708 Posts
On April 18 2009 04:35 HamerD wrote: Thanks NotSupporting. I still haven't really seen an answer to: do any tech people know of ANYTHING out there which allows someone to record a cam stream (say from michelle to me) then play it back using MSN as if it were a normal cam? Sounds completely impossible to me. Though I know some crazy stuff can be done with msn and such. i don't think so. the recording would be done from the computer she was on at the same time you do the video chat, so she would need to record it herself or its impossible | ||
|
DreaM)XeRO
Korea (South)4667 Posts
third anyhow~ this thread has done nothing but reaffirm : a) my love for real girls... b) my love for my friends c) my love for Teamliquid d) my love for InC e) my love for the whole tl.net staff | ||
|
n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
On April 18 2009 02:50 {88}iNcontroL wrote: The answer is pretty clear, she is a scoundrel. A dirty liar and she deserves the worst punishment possible via internet relationships.. we will get to that in a second. But first, lets wallow in your sadness so we can best understand it. You lent her your trust. Probably gave her access to your private photobucket account so she could see those dirty pictures of your naked body. She witnessed your bare flesh and now you feel ravaged. Taken advantage of. How many people have access to your private photobucket account? Exactly. One (two if you include yourself). You stayed up, despite the time difference to hold intimate MSN conversations. Full of such emoticons as "kissing faces" and "smiling faces with hearts raising up." These aren't just average run of the mill emoticons.. these are fucking intimate love emoticons. Reserved for internet girlfriends, mothers, little boys or anyone Testie is talking to. You probably spilled your guts to her in a passive internet kinda way. Making long blog posts about your love for this wonderful internet person and then leading her to them in a indirect kind of way. You told her you cried (when you probably didn't) and she responded in kind (probably not). What were all those "lol" ? Now you begin to question.. did she actually laugh? Was it even "outloud?" Was she ever "away from the keyboard" or was she actually MSN'ing that fag best friend of yours in another MSN window... oh she did didn't she? That bitch had the audacity to open both windows at the same fucking time. She didn't even have the compassion.. to do as little as wait until your window had been closed to open the other one with your best friend. That bitch. Here is the punchline though: You took the internet relationship to the furthest reaches.. beyond cyber sex or amazon.com purchases delivered to her door.. you bought a ticket to go visit a person you know is real because the webcam told you so. You hip-thrusted at logic and said "damn it, I am a man, and this world is my playground." You got out of your parents basement and ventured across the pond to bring this relationship past type based sex and web cam kissy faces... you saw her. And what does she do? Her computer (after some extensive searching) reveals chat logs with 2 men. TWO men from your very country ONE of which is your "best friend." Wow. That bitch? After all those movies you guys watched together and commented on via skype. After all those fucking MSN conversations.. you even changed your wallpaper for her. She turns around and engages in internet adultery. She probably fucking sent him the same emoticons... Heres what we do buddy.. does the technology exist to get a webcam to record information that had already been shown? No. Not yet. Would a lie detector test be a bit much? Yes. But people probably said that about you flying to America to meet a girl you had never actually met in person... and that didn't stop you did it? Tell her if she really loves you she will rig up a mobile webcam / wifi connection and march herself to the local lie detector test place and have on taken with 2 witnesses (internet or real) and have the results streamed live to your desktop. If she passes this crisis can be averted and in fact she has an evil friend who went through the necessary steps to hack mischy's desktop to fake conversations with 2 men to spite her.. We will decide what to do with her later! But first the test. Let us know how it goes. May capricorn be with you. ROFl, incontrol wins the thread | ||
|
HamerD
United Kingdom1922 Posts
| ||
|
NotSupporting
Sweden1998 Posts
On April 18 2009 05:07 HamerD wrote: Thanks to all of you especially Kwark and the guy who said Maury (ofc). Thanks to the tech ppl as well. Everyone has a different slant but interesting to see other perspectives. I really don't care about sex though so can ppl stop telling me 'JUST GREASE ER UP AND GIT IN THUR BOY' Ok, you sound like you have made up your mind. So how are you going to act? | ||
|
Zozma
United States1626 Posts
| ||
|
Osmoses
Sweden5302 Posts
| ||
|
HamerD
United Kingdom1922 Posts
| ||
| ||
