lol... OP doesnt care that she's reading this, and he just wants someone to hug.

must be super awkward for his "gf" to see that her "bf" is posting relationship advice while she's right there reading it.

i dont know what to say to that. it's like he ignored all the advice here.

it sounds like he already knows what to do, and he just wants someone to agree with him. maybe so that he can say someone else told him to do so.

ibutoss

Australia341 Posts

April 20 2009 06:51 GMT

#182

On April 20 2009 14:57 29 fps wrote:
i dont know what to say to that. it's like he ignored all the advice here.

She has boobs, how can he take our advice while shes shaking them at him? When the boobs are out of the picture he'll realize everything said here is actually good advice with humor on top.

I still think he should place a trojan on her pc before he leaves so he can monitor her 'activities' closely.

HamerD

United Kingdom1922 Posts

April 20 2009 17:08 GMT

#183

I think I'm going to leave this alone actually. Thanks to everyone who gave advice. Fanat I still think you're a douche.

Hyperbola

United States2539 Posts

April 21 2009 02:58 GMT

#184

There were webcam convos my best friend admitted too (btw he is now completely out of my life forever).

What the shit is this? Cutting off your friendship with your best friend over some cyber bimbo? Honestly, that girl is not worth it. There are millions of fish out there in the sea and you get all up tight about a little girl who can't help but take her clothes off for everyone on the internet. Take a couple days to chill and then rethink the situation without all of the adrenaline pumping into your brain.

minus_human

4784 Posts

April 21 2009 11:56 GMT

#185

My dear Hamerd, after reading this whole thread, I personally came to the conclusion that your girlfriend is a lying immature attention whore and hypocrite, and that you fit PERFECTLY at the side of such a person.

I have nothing personal with you nor do I know/like/dislike you, so please try not to take this as an insult or attack, but my honest opinion is that you two are both slightly delusional about the reality in which you live.

Good luck.

minus_human

4784 Posts

April 21 2009 11:58 GMT

#186

If you really want to make a clear decision, take a few days COMPLETELY away from her, and jack-off or have sex with somebody like three times (exaggeration) before trying to think.

Railxp

Hong Kong1313 Posts

April 21 2009 18:24 GMT

#187

taking a spin on perspectives:

"internet cheating" could actually be more disturbing than IRL cheating. With IRL cheating, at least theres the motivation of the flesh that you can understand: "i was really fucking horny and i couldnt satisfy myself with a cucumber

" But with echeating, she actually longs to be intimate mind to mind, soul to soul with someone else too.

Personally i would be more troubled if my girlfriend spent many late nights chatting away, sharing her most intimate details with a person online, and getting to really "know" (re: old english use) the other person than if it was just a drunken rush of passion.

OmgIRok

Taiwan2699 Posts

April 22 2009 03:52 GMT

#188

On April 20 2009 08:53 fanatacist wrote:

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Lol, I was fortunate enough to be realistic/cynical (depends on your perspective) to just "profit" from it instead of paying to go see them, which one of them did to see me. In other words I'm the Mischy and they were the HamerD, with gender reversed. So my advice is best imo.

4chan pics please and what a douche omg