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On April 18 2009 05:09 NotSupporting wrote:Show nested quote +On April 18 2009 05:07 HamerD wrote:
Thanks to all of you especially Kwark and the guy who said Maury (ofc). Thanks to the tech ppl as well. Everyone has a different slant but interesting to see other perspectives. I really don't care about sex though so can ppl stop telling me 'JUST GREASE ER UP AND GIT IN THUR BOY' Ok, you sound like you have made up your mind. So how are you going to act?
I am personally rooting for the lie detector option, imagine some dude walking into a building asking if he could please use their lie detector for internet drama.
Like, what are you even going to ask? "Please answer the question with yes or no. Did you or did you not partake in virtual adultery? And did you or did not you write the words "oh baby baby I am so turned on rite now? Please note that you are under oath here."
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Calgary25986 Posts
Shouldn't the stars have seen this coming?
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HamerD,
I read all the posts here and your responses and still I don't get it.
You really think her and her friend both have the same 'english' fetish and are sharing a computer to 'stream' with not only you but your best friend?
Sorry man you're learning a lesson we americans learned about our own women a long time ago, they are fucking nutts. You've met a weirdo attention whore. You sound like a weird but nice guy who is either trolling us or trolling himself. I'm just hoping that you realize the type of women who engages in 'imaginary' or exotic relationships might just be insane enough to not be above crying and what not to try and overcome accusations.
Ok now that I pointed out the obvious. Grow a dick man, if I found out my REAL life girlfriend was cheating on me .... textually with someone from england, I would just parlay that into more blowjobs. Dude seriously put your relationship in check. Go fuck her, go layout the rules of "You and Me" and give her an option. This or That she'll say this and you'll do that and prit for prat you'll both get sacked. I'm dead serious btw, if you really like this chick give her the option of growing out of her weird fetish. Approach her as if you know it is a fact because it is. Don't encourage the entire world to lie to you man, face the facts that you clearly fucking know.
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they probably did- I know for sure at least Bruce Willis, Ashton Kutcher and Keith 'Cheggers' Chegwin did.
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United States43180 Posts
On April 18 2009 05:17 Chill wrote:
Shouldn't the stars have seen this coming?
They can't predict events, that'd be fucking ridiculous. Any idiot knows that.
The stars just map out the personality traits of an individual in great detail based upon where they were (damn those vast distances), relative to each other, thousands of years before their birth. Then the highly trained experts make predictions based on how an individual with the star sign in question will react to known events.
There's no need to be all retarded about this astrology stuff.
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OH MY GOD GAINESVILLE GEORGIA THATS LIKE ONE HOUR AWAY
ROFL
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i'm on team amanda here, can you get me amanda's number? She sounds like an awesome chick lol
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On April 18 2009 05:12 HamerD wrote:
No I haven't made up my mind but I have been very carefully thinking about the things some ppl here have said. There are a LOT of conflicting opinions. Like I said before this ain't an open and shut case. I'll make a blog pt. 2 if there are any major revelations. And btw this isn't a troll. I have always been meaning to make a troll post but never got around to it lol. I will eventually.
i really doubt any troll post could hold muster to the real thing
anyway i am going to burn in hell for how hard i laughed at this thread
then i searched your post history and laughed some more
oh god i can't stop
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Calgary25986 Posts
On April 18 2009 05:25 Ack1027 wrote:
OH MY GOD GAINESVILLE GEORGIA THATS LIKE ONE HOUR AWAY
ROFL
Please go scout them out. Please.
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if michelle agrees to become your sex slave, then she is telling the truth.
if not, rape her.
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On April 18 2009 05:25 Ack1027 wrote:
OH MY GOD GAINESVILLE GEORGIA THATS LIKE ONE HOUR AWAY
ROFL
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On April 18 2009 02:56 micronesia wrote:
That's a good point... you can't disown your friend and then keep your gf.
As you know tl is big on 'bros before hoes' so I guess you are stuck.
i don't think bros before hos applies if your bro is fucking your girl..
"Oh its cool, she was just my wife of 3 years.. but i mean, you.. you're my bro!" *high fives and shotguns a beer*
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United States24720 Posts
On April 18 2009 05:51 Steelflight-Rx wrote:Show nested quote +On April 18 2009 02:56 micronesia wrote:
That's a good point... you can't disown your friend and then keep your gf.
As you know tl is big on 'bros before hoes' so I guess you are stuck. i don't think bros before hos applies if your bro is fucking your girl.. "Oh its cool, she was just my wife of 3 years.. but i mean, you.. you're my bro!" *high fives and shotguns a beer*
Yeah, because he was fucking her!
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On April 18 2009 05:23 AttackZerg wrote:
Ok now that I pointed out the obvious. Grow a dick man, if I found out my REAL life girlfriend was cheating on me .... textually with someone from england, I would just parlay that into more blowjobs. Dude seriously put your relationship in check. Go fuck her, go layout the rules of "You and Me" and give her an option. This or That she'll say this and you'll do that and prit for prat you'll both get sacked. I'm dead serious btw, if you really like this chick give her the option of growing out of her weird fetish. Approach her as if you know it is a fact because it is. Don't encourage the entire world to lie to you man, face the facts that you clearly fucking know.
Unfaithfulness is absolutely inexcusable and unforgivable in a serious relationship. How could you possibly ever love a girl again after she has acted like a whore behind your back with someone else? It's downright disgraceful, man. I would never tolerate shit like that. Just make the girl understand what she is: a pathetic little slut. Tell her that she is a poor excuse for a woman. Then walk away and never speak to her again. Move on.
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So your formerly virtual, now real girlfriend was interested of other guys, or atleast talked to them via msn, when you two were virtually dating, but not yet in a relationship? Alright, that's not unheard of, really.
Now that things have gotten more serious with you two, she has cut ties with these 'flings' that she had while you two were still just talking online. What she didn't remember to do, was to delete the probably automatically saved chatlogs, and the pictures she had captured.
This is when you find them out, and raise hell about the situation. The girl, so madly in love with you, or atleast incredibly happy to have someone real next to her instead of the virtual characters from around the big Atlantic pond, is absolutely crushed because she realizes that this might be the end of her dream.
Judging from your reaction, she, in panic, decides to vehemently deny everything, and steps into the path of the Lie. Her friends and family know how much You mean to her, so they lie for her. Just to make possible the dream of their friend/daughter.
Sadly though, they are not computer sawwy enough to know that what they suggest to have happened is really not plausible -- it's possible, but not realistic in any common scenario, and not doable by your regular cybergirls -- but instead insist on continuing with the lie.
Now, you've got some possible choices, as always. What I'd recommend is that:
1. You try to understand that it's not a big thing if she flirted with people on the internet while you were 'internet dating'. Hell, it's not a big deal even if she had fucked people all the time until you came into the country. You're both young - no need to live in abstinance. Things were different when you weren't in the country. Understand it.
2. Once you've gotten over your huge mental anguish and manned up enough to realize that what happened doesn't matter at all, you need to confront her and tell her just that. You need to make her understand that you're not going to throw a fit about this like a little kid who didn't have his way the exact way he wanted to.
3. Now that the neccessary steps have been taken, you're going to tell her that she doesn't have to continue with the lie. You'll understand what happened, and why she tried to do what she did. Then ask her to tell the whole story - this time without the lies. Including what she asked her friends/familty to do - or what they offered to do for her.
4. Get over it, man up, forgive her, and continue to live the dream which you had fantasized about for THREE years while being thousands of miles away. Btw. There will be other things that you wont like too (things that you didn't neccessarily witness through your cybersessions), so it's quite neccessary to man up before continuing any further.
That, or GTFO like a coward. Can't base a relationship on a lie, sorry.
Ps. You should've had contact with women too while you were cybering for three years, might've made things a bit easier. That's why you're so angry, I guess. Since you were so naive to think that you'd be the Only Male she ever talks to. Heh.
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That was a pretty excellent post, thanks.
TBH if she came clean I might think about taking her back. If she let me fuck like 5 girls and have a break in our relationship. But I don't fucking know, everyone here is very on about being a man, 'manning up'. I am a fucking sensitive guy who finds it REALLY hard to let people into my life. I would like to think there are girls out there who can be in a relationship with me from any distance and not cyber with a load of guys...well basically not fuck around behind my back.
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She's hysterical because you caught her. Girls need attention and when you weren't giving it to her someone else did. Now that you decided she's so cool that you want to go visit her, she "knows" that you're not just some internet name and she's scared.
Ezpz solution: Go home. Don't talk to her again.
Hard solution: Frame your best friend for her murder.
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On April 18 2009 06:11 Fzero wrote:
She's hysterical because you caught her. Girls need attention and when you weren't giving it to her someone else did. Now that you decided she's so cool that you want to go visit her, she "knows" that you're not just some internet name and she's scared.
Ezpz solution: Go home. Don't talk to her again.
Hard solution: Frame your best friend for her murder.
rofl 4chan agony aunt to the rescue
Srsly though that's very plausible, the top bit.
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On April 18 2009 06:09 HamerD wrote:
TBH if she came clean I might think about taking her back. If she let me fuck like 5 girls and have a break in our relationship. But I don't fucking know, everyone here is very on about being a man, 'manning up'. I am a fucking sensitive guy who finds it REALLY hard to let people into my life. I would like to think there are girls out there who can be in a relationship with me from any distance and not cyber with a load of guys...well basically not fuck around behind my back.
Don't listen to these fools who equate accepting whore-like behavior with "manning up". A true man would simply move on and find a better girl.
Staying with her because you simply don't want to be alone is the coward's way.
She doesn't deserve you.
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