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Brett
Australia3820 Posts
Does your girlfriend live in a trailer by any chance? Might explain it. | ||
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Fen
Australia1848 Posts
On December 26 2008 16:54 Manifesto7 wrote: This blog brought to you by -WGT-Stars, whose other TL claims to fame were stealing pokemon cards and bragging about beating up homeless people with his friends. Shocky also is a graffiti artist who is forced to destroy property because he has nowhere else to paint. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/postmessage.php?quote=49&topic_id=84344 I know it's not ok to destroy some one's property but what other choice do we have? Also the sign got replaced within the next day so stfu. I think your an idiot. You should have left the house when you were asked. I disobeyed because they disrespected me You seem to think your some bigtime gangsta or something? However your really just an immature little shit who needs to learn how the real world works. Im glad you got a you got a girlfriend whos as big of an idiot as you (she brought all this shit on herself, and you sure as hell didnt help). Just do us all a favour and dont procreate. | ||
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
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haduken
Australia8267 Posts
Seriously dude, you want the real answer? Ditch your gf, she and her psycho family just ain't worth it. I don't know man, i have absolutely no respect for any adults older than me that can't speak politely in situation like this. This spells trouble, your gf is an emotional mess, i would jump off the train before it leaves right NOW. | ||
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diehilde
Germany1596 Posts
The fact that she is old enough to move out is irrelevant for the faulty of this logic. The logic "parents own house/pay for kid -> kid has to obey" is simply false. Imagine she would be 10, so the option to move out wouldn't be given. Do you really think her only choice is to behave like a fuckin slave and do everything and respect everything their parents tell her, even if they are religious nuts?? God, the extreme form of "respect elders" value in asian cultures certainly leads to some dubious concepts about human rights on an individual basis. If her parents tell her to say a prayer before eating and she doesnt want to cus shes atheist, would you guys say she has to obey? Does "obediance towards parents" overrule "freedom of religion/belief" for you? | ||
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zer0das
United States8519 Posts
Honestly, if you are 21 and want to do whatever you want, move and get your own apartment. Is it that hard? It's not like he asked for anything all that unreasonable. | ||
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sprawlers
Norway439 Posts
On January 21 2009 21:38 damenmofa wrote: The fact that she is old enough to move out is irrelevant for the faulty of this logic. The logic "parents own house/pay for kid -> kid has to obey" is simply false. Imagine she would be 10, so the option to move out wouldn't be given. But she isn't 10 she is 21. If she was 10 most here would understand her behavior, though we would still think her a brat. After she is 18 she has no right to live by her parents anymore, thus when they make a rule you either accept it, cause the inconvenience doesn't outweigh the financial gain of staying home, or you move out. You take a shortened statement, "parents house, parents rules" and then spin it out of context, ignoring the fact that in this case it was a reasonable rule, which is why is that statement get used instead of; "parents house, parents rule, unless parents rules are unreasonable and conflicting with human rights." No one would come into a thread about Josef Fritzl and say, "parents house, parents rule" because almost no one really thinks that that it is the rule, to be obeyed in front of all others. Your post just ignores what context the statement is posted in and then use it as basis for a rant about asian culture. You don't have to be asian to see that this girl is a psycho, and the issue you bring up, though interesting, have nothing to do with the case in this blog. | ||
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diehilde
Germany1596 Posts
Asian civilization was far ahead of western civilization a few hundred years ago, why do you think western civilization has caught up, if not surpassed all other civilizations (including asian)? Apart from geographical factors which encouraged strong competition on the governments side, the tradition of criticism plays a large role here. Criticism towards superiors/religion/cultural habits is a key value for any civilization and in that regard it saddens me to see that some people request strict obediance towards your parents as long as you live from their expenses. Sure these thoughts do not have much to do with the original topic directly, but why should this discussion stay on a low level if it can provide a basis for a much more prolific discussion? Denying someones right to criticize (disobediance is a form of criticism) because of hierarchical structures (financial dependence is just one example for such a structure) is just bad in general imo. | ||
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haduken
Australia8267 Posts
so you throw a shoe at your grandma for moral reasons? does she look like George Bush? Seriously, anyone who starts a fight over moral reason with their parents + over 18 is a fucking retard. The end. When you are old enough, you should have the ability to resolve the issue without resorting to screaming and calling cops. Move out if you can't stand living there anymore. Or stfu and put up with it. Life isn't fair, Grow up. | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
Geez I'm so surprised. | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
lol PM me when you're on Jerry Springer I wanna watch it. | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
Stealing pokemon cards, ughh seriously just go away forever from these forums. | ||
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29 fps
United States5718 Posts
On January 21 2009 08:10 Chill wrote: LOL I JUST REALIZED WHO YOU ARE oh god it makes sense now anyone wanna explain this? im lost... maybe a little history on this guy might help explain things. | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
Why would she want someone like you hanging around and influencing her daughter? Seriously, are you in middle school or something? I suggest you find some new productive hobbies and act your age. | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
On January 21 2009 23:36 29 fps wrote: anyone wanna explain this? im lost... maybe a little history on this guy might help explain things. 2nd post on this page and the one below your post | ||
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sprawlers
Norway439 Posts
I just think you are reading a bit to much into a generic comment, and though it might be a better topic than discussing if stars girlfriend is psycho, it's not very relevant.  | ||
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food
United States1951 Posts
On January 21 2009 23:22 damenmofa wrote: Im not ranting about asian culture nor am I taking peoples statements out of context. People never gave said context. The people I was talking about merely did posts like "you live in someones house, you obey their rules, simple as that". I was just pointing out that it is not "simple as that". The connection to asian culture simply came up in my mind because most people who posted like that are asians. Coupled with recent reflections about the state of civilizations I had in philosophy it made me realize that this kind of thinking is still strong in asian culture although other values and traditions have proven more successful. Asian civilization was far ahead of western civilization a few hundred years ago, why do you think western civilization has caught up, if not surpassed all other civilizations (including asian)? Apart from geographical factors which encouraged strong competition on the governments side, the tradition of criticism plays a large role here. Criticism towards superiors/religion/cultural habits is a key value for any civilization and in that regard it saddens me to see that some people request strict obediance towards your parents as long as you live from their expenses. Sure these thoughts do not have much to do with the original topic directly, but why should this discussion stay on a low level if it can provide a basis for a much more prolific discussion? Denying someones right to criticize (disobediance is a form of criticism) because of hierarchical structures (financial dependence is just one example for such a structure) is just bad in general imo. pretty brave statement from a german thought you guys brought up to only criticize yourself ure being disobedient to the great german spirit i used to apply the knowledge i gained immediately and everywhere, mostly to stick out. But that was years ago, when i was a silly teenager who lacked attention. I grew up and it became unimportant. | ||
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food
United States1951 Posts
On January 21 2009 10:49 ShoCkeyy wrote: One time her father (which doesn't live with her) bought her a new car fully paid and everything. He was saving up for it for a while and then her mother and uncle decided to trick her into selling the car spilled my precious coffee all over the table this guy is so full of shit i cant believe it | ||
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Pengu1n
United States552 Posts
On January 21 2009 21:38 damenmofa wrote: tl.net is full of asian people and in asian culture the obediance towards your parents is extremely important. This totally shows in this thread. While its completely wrong for the guy to not leave, the daughter doesn't have to obey every single rule their parents set for her. Morals >> property rights. The police comes in your house if you molest children in it. It is because morals transcend property rights. The same logic can be applied for her daughter. If her parents try to enforce rules which she finds immoral or demeaning, she has all right in the world to refuse obediance. The fact that she is old enough to move out is irrelevant for the faulty of this logic. The logic "parents own house/pay for kid -> kid has to obey" is simply false. Imagine she would be 10, so the option to move out wouldn't be given. Do you really think her only choice is to behave like a fuckin slave and do everything and respect everything their parents tell her, even if they are religious nuts?? God, the extreme form of "respect elders" value in asian cultures certainly leads to some dubious concepts about human rights on an individual basis. If her parents tell her to say a prayer before eating and she doesnt want to cus shes atheist, would you guys say she has to obey? Does "obediance towards parents" overrule "freedom of religion/belief" for you? The only problem here is requesting him to be gone by 11pm is not "morally wrong". Its fair. It would be more morally wrong for him to stay. Also how can you compare this to fighting against child molestation? If the police came to the house because of child molestation then they would take away the parents, sure...but if the police came to the house in Shockeys situation then they are going to make him leave, even if hes the one who called himself they would still make him leave. Theres a large gap between simple house rules and freaking child molestation. im not azn btw but respect/obediance towards your parents is still important. If the daughter had a problem with her parents rules of course she could fight them, however there is a time and a place for this. She should have obeyed her parents that night and then talked it out in a peaceful manner the next day after all tension is settled down. This way she could have shown her parents that she obeyed them out of respect but didn't agree with their rule. Then maybe they could come to a compromise. Destroying the house and endangering granny doesn't exactly help her case any. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32026 Posts
Of course they want you out--who'd want their daughter dating some douchebag who wears eyeliner? You're lucky that the uncle didn't knock your teeth out. I really can't beleive that there's people here saying that he shouldn't have to leave. What the fuck.. | ||
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