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do girls hold grudges?

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t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-24 15:04:13
October 22 2008 15:44 GMT
#1
I interviewed this girl for a position, and then when we rejected her she called me, crying, and told me she hated me (wtf?)

I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads. Fuck. Do girls hold grudges?

EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...

EDIT #2: Eh, just a little background on this girl--she's from the same college as I am, two years younger, I found out she was involved in triad stuff a long time ago (like when I was a junior in college).

She's hyperambitious even though her family is rich as hell (and believe me, my friends tell me her family owns entire fucking apartment blocks in HK).

What hurts tho is we were (kind of) friends before this, but now she blocked me IM, FB... won't answer my calls, etc.

EDIT #3: Flew back to see some younger college friends and tried to take her out for dim sum; she refused but her fridge was empty so I ordered some shui jing xia jiao (crystal shrimp dumpling? dkno how to say it) which is her favorite food and left them with her when we got back from dim sum. hopefully she's ok now...

EDIT #4: She's ok now--just sent me an email thanking me for all my guidance, etc. Apparently she found a job with another bank, so I guess her emotions are ok now. Still, with an attitude like that I doubt she'll do well there... eh, w/e not my problem now.

***
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
fusionsdf
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
Canada15390 Posts
October 22 2008 15:45 GMT
#2
yes

girls hold grudges

you = fucked
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HotZhot
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Colombia677 Posts
October 22 2008 15:47 GMT
#3
Yes, many of them do. Send her chocolates, or maybe not
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_Grazze_
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
834 Posts
October 22 2008 15:51 GMT
#4
flee the country!
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 15:53 GMT
#5
I'm in the United States. But I have a lot friends from Hong Kong and I would like to visit them if I have the chance.
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
October 22 2008 15:53 GMT
#6
yeah they're gonna shoot you full of holes because of some dumb hysterical bitch

.....

grow a pair
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
October 22 2008 15:54 GMT
#7
On October 23 2008 00:53 t_co wrote:
I'm in the United States. But I have a lot friends from Hong Kong and I would like to visit them if I have the chance.


your friends are already dead
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
October 22 2008 15:55 GMT
#8
ps. she isnt involved with the triads at all you're just very gullible
Falcynn
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
United States3597 Posts
October 22 2008 15:56 GMT
#9
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads.
Do you know this for a fact? Sometimes when people get pissed off they make threats and false claims that they have connections to gangs/the mafia/hitmen/whatever. If she told you that, then it's probably safe to say that she's bluffing.
XCetron
Profile Joined November 2006
5226 Posts
October 22 2008 15:59 GMT
#10
dude wtf, now theyre gonna find out that you go to TL and all of us are in trouble now. Thx a lot douche.
LightRailCoyote
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
United States982 Posts
October 22 2008 16:01 GMT
#11
hahahahahahahahaha.

oh god, are you ever fucked. The girl probably doesn't have said connections, but yes. She will use her womanly ways to make your life miserable. Cause that's just what chicks do.
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LordWeird
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States3411 Posts
October 22 2008 16:09 GMT
#12
Short answer: Fuck yes.
Chains none
Hot_Bid
Profile Blog Joined October 2003
Braavos36375 Posts
October 22 2008 16:11 GMT
#13
just get the town to lynch her, and just in case get the paramedic to cover ur ass
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t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 16:13 GMT
#14
LoL she told me she had connections before she got pissed at me.

Now I'm just like
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
ShmotZ
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States581 Posts
October 22 2008 16:19 GMT
#15
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
I interviewed this girl for a position, and then when we rejected her she called me, crying, and told me she hated me (wtf?)

I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads. Fuck. Do girls hold grudges?

EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...


oh silly you, sounds more like shes on her period
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MrHoon *
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
10183 Posts
October 22 2008 16:21 GMT
#16
one time my girlfriend and I found a mousetrap on a 4 star hotel.
We got pissed and I went to the manager and said

"DO YOU KNOW WHAT KIND OF PERSON I AM IN KOREA? DO YOU FUCKING KNOW? DO YOU KNOW WHAT CAN HAPPEN?"

Needless to say, they gave us a suite room and free breakfast.

Moral of the story: stop being paranoid
dats racist
DwmC_Foefen
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
Belgium2186 Posts
October 22 2008 16:25 GMT
#17
OH oh oh oh, dude...

Girls are even worse then guys when it comes to grudges, seriously. You know the feeling when you hate someone with the burning intensity of a thousand desert suns? Well for girls multiply it by 1000

You = dead like some guy before me said ^^

No serious, it would suck if that happend:p
minus_human
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
4784 Posts
October 22 2008 16:28 GMT
#18
Girls usually take grudges on another level. It's really fucked up in their immature, emotionally fragile heads (on often occasions).

You may be really fucked.
minus_human
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
4784 Posts
October 22 2008 16:30 GMT
#19
On another note, what kind of question is that? Have you had no interraction with girls until now?

And secondly, the best part about most of the girls is that when they're under really strong emotional pressure, they tend to say things (in anger) they don't really mean, but they believe it momentarily. It's a little worse than with guys, on your mediocre stereotypical situation.
minus_human
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
4784 Posts
October 22 2008 16:32 GMT
#20
And LOL about the mafia part, if she/her family was actually involved I'm sure you wouldn't have had a clue, and she most definitely would not have threatened you with it.
aTnClouD
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Italy2428 Posts
October 22 2008 16:32 GMT
#21
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...

Of course not. When a girl starts to hate you it's for the whole eternity
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TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 22 2008 16:33 GMT
#22
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
I interviewed this girl for a position, and then when we rejected her she called me, crying, and told me she hated me (wtf?)

I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads. Fuck. Do girls hold grudges?

EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...

what are you scared of? scared of triads coming to attack you?
hahax relax.. :D

even triads are reasonable..its like imagine the *triad boss* goes to the bank to get a loan from the bank and is rejected, and he calls the manager bank guy, telling him that he hates the bank.

The triad boss wont like go attack the bank the next day with his clan just because of being rejected..

besides, how will she know where you live..?

But we girls do bear grudges lolXD
strawberries~
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 16:47 GMT
#23
On October 23 2008 01:33 TimeShifter wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
I interviewed this girl for a position, and then when we rejected her she called me, crying, and told me she hated me (wtf?)

I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads. Fuck. Do girls hold grudges?

EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...

what are you scared of? scared of triads coming to attack you?
hahax relax.. :D

even triads are reasonable..its like imagine the *triad boss* goes to the bank to get a loan from the bank and is rejected, and he calls the manager bank guy, telling him that he hates the bank.

The triad boss wont like go attack the bank the next day with his clan just because of being rejected..

besides, how will she know where you live..?

But we girls do bear grudges lolXD


Well still, how do I get her not to hate me? haha I really don't like to have enemies, I'm too young for that shit
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
lololol
Profile Joined February 2006
5198 Posts
October 22 2008 16:49 GMT
#24
Just to get this clear, I'm not a friend of yours(so angry girl don't have me killed, pls!)
I'll call Nada.
GHOSTCLAW
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States17042 Posts
October 22 2008 16:50 GMT
#25
I'm sure that you'll be fine.
maybe.
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Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6771 Posts
October 22 2008 16:50 GMT
#26
Seduce her, obviously.
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lololol
Profile Joined February 2006
5198 Posts
October 22 2008 16:53 GMT
#27
On October 23 2008 01:50 Xeofreestyler wrote:
Seduce her, obviously.


That works! Until you break up.
I'll call Nada.
SayaSP
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Laos5494 Posts
October 22 2008 16:55 GMT
#28
Asian girl too right? Damnnnnn
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Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6771 Posts
October 22 2008 16:55 GMT
#29
Yeah then you're fucked
guess you're best off marrying this girl!

have a nice life
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.kaz
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
1963 Posts
October 22 2008 16:55 GMT
#30
Where do you work that you think someone who has enough familty ties with the mafia to get a random person killed would want to work? Mafia are rich ez, she needs no job.
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TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 22 2008 17:03 GMT
#31
On October 23 2008 01:47 t_co wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 23 2008 01:33 TimeShifter wrote:
On October 23 2008 00:44 t_co wrote:
I interviewed this girl for a position, and then when we rejected her she called me, crying, and told me she hated me (wtf?)

I'm scared, apparently her family is involved in the HK triads. Fuck. Do girls hold grudges?

EDIT: If I tell her it's because of the shitty economy, will she be reasonable...

what are you scared of? scared of triads coming to attack you?
hahax relax.. :D

even triads are reasonable..its like imagine the *triad boss* goes to the bank to get a loan from the bank and is rejected, and he calls the manager bank guy, telling him that he hates the bank.

The triad boss wont like go attack the bank the next day with his clan just because of being rejected..

besides, how will she know where you live..?

But we girls do bear grudges lolXD


Well still, how do I get her not to hate me? haha I really don't like to have enemies, I'm too young for that shit

call her and tell her you are sorry and explain why, and encourage her to try again possibly in the future..and nothing about the economy hahax..

that will probably work:D

PS: and apologize after the call again..
strawberries~
Zuries
Profile Joined May 2008
United Kingdom156 Posts
October 22 2008 17:07 GMT
#32
tell her it's the LHC, the credit crunch, or global warming
FUCK SALT
IzzyCraft
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States4487 Posts
October 22 2008 17:08 GMT
#33
On October 23 2008 00:45 fusionsdf wrote:
yes

girls hold grudges

you = fucked

took my answer =)
I have ass for brains so,
even when I shit I'm droping knowledge.
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 17:10 GMT
#34
Eh, just a little background on this girl--she's from the same college as I am, two years younger, I found out she was involved in triad stuff a long time ago (like when I was a junior in college).

She's hyperambitious even though her family is rich as hell (and believe me, my friends tell me her family owns entire fucking apartment blocks in HK).

Thanks for the advice TimeShifter. Haha, what hurts tho is we were (kind of) friends before this, but now she blocked me IM, FB... won't answer my calls, etc.
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 17:11 GMT
#35
At least I know she's mature. That thought gives me comfort when I sleep at night.
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 22 2008 17:18 GMT
#36
On October 23 2008 02:10 t_co wrote:
Eh, just a little background on this girl--she's from the same college as I am, two years younger, I found out she was involved in triad stuff a long time ago (like when I was a junior in college).

She's hyperambitious even though her family is rich as hell (and believe me, my friends tell me her family owns entire fucking apartment blocks in HK).

Thanks for the advice TimeShifter. Haha, what hurts tho is we were (kind of) friends before this, but now she blocked me IM, FB... won't answer my calls, etc.

send her a message on cell?

Bad Body language/speaking tone is responsible for like 50% of relationship problems..but lol i think you can type a proper, warm, comforting apology message:D

PS:you have a crush on her?rofl?hahax
strawberries~
karbon
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada137 Posts
October 22 2008 17:26 GMT
#37
lol she was probably expecting you to hook her up since you guys are acquaintances... and to get turned down from that, damn....

anyways, why did you turn her down?

was she hot?
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 22 2008 17:36 GMT
#38
we turned her down because she went on and on about how the place she interned at last summer didn't exist anymore and how she felt so bad about the people that got fired etc etc
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
Mooga
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States575 Posts
October 22 2008 18:36 GMT
#39
Yes, why do you care?
Mastermind
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Canada7096 Posts
October 22 2008 18:46 GMT
#40
Dont be woried about the triads, but to answer your question, yes girls are really bad with holding grudeges. FAR FAR worse than guys when it comes to that.
lilsusie
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
3861 Posts
October 23 2008 08:31 GMT
#41
AHahah this thread is awesome, how'd i miss this?

Yes, girls hold grudges. FOREVER.

Your fault for mixing friendship and business tho...
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NarutO
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
Germany18839 Posts
October 23 2008 08:57 GMT
#42
Better question would be: Are there girls who don't hold grudges!?
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geometryb
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
United States1249 Posts
October 23 2008 09:51 GMT
#43
being "kind of" friends doesn't count for shit. hire the more qualified one! getting an interview should be good enough! you should be mad at her for expecting special treatment!
Elvin_vn
Profile Blog Joined March 2004
Vietnam2038 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-23 13:51:02
October 23 2008 10:31 GMT
#44
blame it on someone/something else = problem solved
do not agrue with idiots, they will pull you down to their level and beat you with their experiences
[X]Ken_D
Profile Blog Joined May 2005
United States4650 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-24 01:46:58
October 24 2008 01:43 GMT
#45
On October 23 2008 01:13 t_co wrote:
LoL she told me she had connections before she got pissed at me.

Now I'm just like


LOL. She told you that so she would get the job.

[image loading]


YOU ARE FUCKED
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karbon
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada137 Posts
October 24 2008 01:57 GMT
#46
On October 23 2008 02:36 t_co wrote:
we turned her down because she went on and on about how the place she interned at last summer didn't exist anymore and how she felt so bad about the people that got fired etc etc


lol well.. her fault for not knowing how to do an interview i guess..

On October 23 2008 03:36 Mooga wrote:
Yes, why do you care?


because i do. good enough an answer?
Rayzorblade
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
United States1172 Posts
October 24 2008 02:01 GMT
#47
you're fucked lol
TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 24 2008 03:40 GMT
#48
On October 24 2008 10:43 [X]Ken_D wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 23 2008 01:13 t_co wrote:
LoL she told me she had connections before she got pissed at me.

Now I'm just like


LOL. She told you that so she would get the job.

[image loading]


YOU ARE FUCKED
D: not that bad t_co, its not that bad..
strawberries~
CapO
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
United States1615 Posts
October 24 2008 03:41 GMT
#49
are you dead yet? XD
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Chuiu
Profile Blog Joined June 2003
3470 Posts
October 24 2008 04:05 GMT
#50
LMAO I was just wondering the same thing when I saw this thread bumped.
♞
koreakool
Profile Joined January 2008
United States334 Posts
October 24 2008 04:32 GMT
#51
if girls hold grudges... does hillary hate obama?
EtherealDeath
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States8366 Posts
October 24 2008 06:20 GMT
#52
dang you're not fucked. calm down lol :-D
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
October 24 2008 07:07 GMT
#53
Girls dont hold grudges as much as men do. Any grudge a female may have is likely to randomly dissipate at any point of time depending on her emotional flow. Time erodes on the grudges of females much faster than on those of men.

Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume.

Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster.
why so 진지해?
Klockan3
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
Sweden2866 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-24 13:08:08
October 24 2008 13:04 GMT
#54
Girls trust their feelings more than they trust logic. If you want to get on good terms with her make her feel good instead of trying to reason with her.

Or in other words, lie to her and say that it were not your decision to not hire her, tell her that she is the best and that she would probably end up with a better job anyway etc. Thats how girls handle these things among themselves.

"You can't handle the truth!!" is the mindset you should have every time you talk with most women.

Edit: And if you do not act quickly you will be branded "That asshole which fucked up that job opening for me" by her for the rest of your life.
TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 24 2008 13:52 GMT
#55
On October 24 2008 22:04 Klockan3 wrote:
"You can't handle the truth!!" is the mindset you should have every time you talk with most women.
nono..this is very bad
strawberries~
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
October 24 2008 14:37 GMT
#56
Short answer: Yes.

Long answer: Girls are fickle. You can expect a girl to act like you've destroyed her life for a 3 days, and then be completely over it. It's actually pretty ironic that people think guys are the ones to let go of things easily, when I've met so many who can't stop talking about their high school 'fiancée.' Okay, it's just the one, but it's gotten really fucking annoying 3 years after he's graded.

You need to translate their actions properly, or you're going to end up confused as hell, and wanting to get rid of them all together. In general, shit storms will happen occasionally, even frequently. It's just a matter of knowing that this person in particular lacks strong self-control in tough times. Let them learn the lesson on their own when you don't pay any attention to their whining.

Rekrul's advice is pretty good. But they aren't going to come back running and apologising unless you're either attractive, have lots of money, and/or are in some way extremely above average valuable (in their view, ofc). They're just sort of going to pretend everything is normal, and hope you do too.
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TimeShifter
Profile Joined October 2008
Singapore235 Posts
October 24 2008 15:23 GMT
#57
On October 23 2008 17:57 G.s)NarutO wrote:
Better question would be: Are there girls who don't hold grudges!?

very rarely..its like girls who dont hold grudges are as many as = guys who dont watch PORN
haha..all you guys watch porn lol.. =X
strawberries~
Klockan3
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
Sweden2866 Posts
October 24 2008 15:55 GMT
#58
On October 24 2008 22:52 TimeShifter wrote:
Show nested quote +
On October 24 2008 22:04 Klockan3 wrote:
"You can't handle the truth!!" is the mindset you should have every time you talk with most women.
nono..this is very bad

You know any woman who really wants to hear the truth?
CFDragon
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States304 Posts
October 24 2008 16:11 GMT
#59
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-565024/Gang-girls-blew-house-home-bomb-row-boy.html

Yes, yes they do.
Frits
Profile Joined March 2003
11782 Posts
October 24 2008 16:13 GMT
#60
On October 24 2008 16:07 Rekrul wrote:
Girls dont hold grudges as much as men do. Any grudge a female may have is likely to randomly dissipate at any point of time depending on her emotional flow. Time erodes on the grudges of females much faster than on those of men.

Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume.

Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster.


I dont know man Ive seen chicks who were friends for years never even talk to eachother again over something retarded.

I mean guys fight it out and that's basically it no hard feelings.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-25 03:16:19
October 25 2008 03:14 GMT
#61
On October 25 2008 01:13 Frits wrote:
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On October 24 2008 16:07 Rekrul wrote:
Girls dont hold grudges as much as men do. Any grudge a female may have is likely to randomly dissipate at any point of time depending on her emotional flow. Time erodes on the grudges of females much faster than on those of men.

Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume.

Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster.


I dont know man Ive seen chicks who were friends for years never even talk to eachother again over something retarded.

I mean guys fight it out and that's basically it no hard feelings.


hmm true but thats not really a grudge thats just two dumb hoes who each think they are the shit
why so 진지해?
artofmagic
Profile Blog Joined March 2005
United States1951 Posts
October 26 2008 07:59 GMT
#62
gosh when she find this post.. she will force all admins to life-ban you.
evolve or die
t_co
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States702 Posts
October 26 2008 19:58 GMT
#63
hahahaha *gulp*
"Look, don't congratulate us when we buy a company, congratulate us when we sell it. Because any fool can overpay and buy a company, so long as there is money to buy it." --Henry Kravis
Jonoman92
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States9103 Posts
October 27 2008 01:31 GMT
#64
Yes, and they never forget.
KOFgokuon
Profile Blog Joined August 2004
United States14893 Posts
October 27 2008 02:10 GMT
#65
girls need to learn to let it go
seriously
Spike
Profile Joined October 2003
United States1392 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-10-27 04:16:54
October 27 2008 03:22 GMT
#66
On October 24 2008 16:07 Rekrul wrote:
Girls dont hold grudges as much as men do.


What? I got to disagree.
Girls hold grudges just as much, if not more than guys.

As long as I'm stereotyping, yay, stereotypes!
Girls get into much more petty arguments/fights than men do for sure.
Through sheer volume of supposed "drama", some of the petty shit brew and foster into grudges.

This is not to say that men don't hold grudges; the difference is that men usually handle the situations directly while women are more passive aggressive in their vindictive streak.

However, this

Any grudge a female may have is likely to randomly dissipate at any point of time depending on her emotional flow.

and this
Time erodes on the grudges of females much faster than on those of men.

hold relatively true for the most part.

If a guy is holding a grudge for a long time, it's usually more difficult to change his mind; i.e. men are more hardheaded.
Girls can be friends one day, enemies the next, then friends again the day after.

Although, you can make an argument that when a guy holds a grudge, it's usually for a good reason because they don't get involved in petty arguments/fights as much as women. Not sure about this one though


Dont sweat it bro, shes probably just going through a stressful time due to other factors so this is just compiling on it. She`ll get over it and apologize to you pretty soon I assume.

Do not make excuses or anything, tell her the truth on why she was rejected. It will make it better faster.

this is pretty spot on.
H
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
New Zealand6138 Posts
October 27 2008 04:15 GMT
#67
do girls hold grudges?


DEAR FUCKING GOD
[iHs]HCO | のヮの | pachi & plexa ownz | RIP _
spetial
Profile Blog Joined January 2007
United States688 Posts
October 27 2008 07:58 GMT
#68
short answer: you better fucking believe they do.
metal_survive @ uswest
Roxen000
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
1226 Posts
October 27 2008 09:05 GMT
#69
imo, kill yourself.
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