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i deeply thought about it and i realized that if i keep watching porn at this rate (once a day, perhaps more), my life will be virtually ruined. first of all, its ruining my relationship with God (Christianity is one of the only things i have right now) i can already see it affecting my social life in various ways which i would prefer not to get into, and i have to stop before its too late and i become like people i see on bnet or even tl.net
if anyone sincerely has tips, i need them badly becasue i haven't watched porn in ~36 hours and its getting harder and harder to stop myself knowing im home alone almost all day every day this summer
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more like your relationship with god is ruining your relationship with porn!!
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just slice of your penis and ur set?
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On July 03 2008 20:05 tube wrote: i deeply thought about it and i realized that if i keep watching porn at this rate (once a day, perhaps more), my life will be virtually ruined. first of all, its ruining my relationship with God (Christianity is one of the only things i have right now) i can already see it affecting my social life in various ways which i would prefer not to get into, and i have to stop before its too late and i become like people i see on bnet or even tl.net
if anyone sincerely has tips, i need them badly becasue i haven't watched porn in ~36 hours and its getting harder and harder to stop myself knowing im home alone almost all day every day this summer
so who here is mature...
another reason why im doing this is because im seriously interested in having a romantic and platonic relationship with a girl at my school
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get some self control, i dont see how porn can effect your outside life? i watch porn to wank then i switch it off and dont think about it anymore, i dont see how it can effect your outside life when u know its fake. im sure god doesnt mind you getting some pleasure
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i'm glad you can let external factors in life affect what your body apparently feels is natural.
how old are you?
how would porn affect your relationship with (omg!) a girl? unless you were watching gay porn and it would be very easy for her to find out? i really dont get it.
anyway you wanted some retarded advice so i would say play starcraft that'll get your mind off things?
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Just because if you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're going to have to or should stop masturbating. Frankly, she won't get you off all the time. Also watching porn doesn't affect that at all. I don't why you would even think that or what even caused you get that moronic idea into your head.
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Get a hobby, preferably one that doesn't have anything to do with computers. Get a job and work as many hours as they'll let you. If you believe in premarital sex, get a girlfriend and have sex. If you don't believe in premarital sex, avoid women unless you think you can ignore their physical appeal.
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more like quitting life for god. lol.
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On July 03 2008 20:18 Tadzio00 wrote: Get a hobby, preferably one that doesn't have anything to do with computers. Get a job and work as many hours as they'll let you. If you believe in premarital sex, get a girlfriend and have sex. If you don't believe in premarital sex, avoid women unless you think you can ignore their physical appeal.
burka?
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How exactly can masturbation ruin one's social life?
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On July 03 2008 20:23 Dknight wrote: How exactly can masturbation ruin one's social life?
cumstains are a bitch
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funny enough I'm abstaining from porn this week, and so far everything goes according to plan.
how about limiting the amount of porn you watch to once or twice a week? and if god wouldn't like you to watch porn he wouldn't have given humanity the internet, right?
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that kinda sucks since god doesnt exist
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On July 03 2008 20:17 PanoRaMa wrote: i'm glad you can let external factors in life affect what your body apparently feels is natural.
how old are you?
how would porn affect your relationship with (omg!) a girl? unless you were watching gay porn and it would be very easy for her to find out? i really dont get it.
anyway you wanted some retarded advice so i would say play starcraft that'll get your mind off things?
most of my friends have admittedly began watching porn around the age of 13-14 and we're 16 going into our junior year. i'm trying to stop as early as possible and i don't see how age will affect what you think in a constructive way seeing how all of your "advice" thus far was complete bullshit that seemed to have no purpose but to discourage me
if you honestly think watching porn won't affect your relationships in a negative way, you're either ignorant or in denial
its true, its almost like i was asking for retarded advice as soon as i posted this on tl knowing what fucktards existed on it like you nevertheless even if all i get from posting this is flame and "retarded advice" at least it will tell me more about the general populace's view on porn
also, i never said i was going to stop masturbating its a healthy part of our lives and i know it
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im trying 'quitting' or slowing down porn too.. for same reasons as you. it helps me to think about your girl when you are in need. It can help for some times.
You say you are christian. maybe you could get help from that.. i dunno what you doo with your religion.. but you could read the bible or pray if that helps you.
my problem is that i have pc's everywhere and some things just scream PORN.. which isnt always bad i should add. But its hard to slowdown or entirly quit.
So think about your girl and find strength in your religion if you can. And you could think about some internet porn filter on your website.. but its easy to deactivate that when you really are in need.
gl hf..
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On July 03 2008 20:30 tube wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2008 20:17 PanoRaMa wrote: i'm glad you can let external factors in life affect what your body apparently feels is natural.
how old are you?
how would porn affect your relationship with (omg!) a girl? unless you were watching gay porn and it would be very easy for her to find out? i really dont get it.
anyway you wanted some retarded advice so i would say play starcraft that'll get your mind off things? most of my friends have admittedly began watching porn around the age of 13-14 and we're 16 going into our junior year. i'm trying to stop as early as possible and i don't see how age will affect what you think in a constructive way seeing how all of your "advice" thus far was complete bullshit that seemed to have no purpose but to discourage me if you honestly think watching porn won't affect your relationships in a negative way, you're either ignorant or in denial its true, its almost like i was asking for retarded advice as soon as i posted this on tl knowing what fucktards existed on it like you nevertheless even if all i get from posting this is flame and "retarded advice" at least it will tell me more about the general populace's view on porn also, i never said i was going to stop masturbating its a healthy part of our lives and i know it
lolol chill the fuck out
although you not fapping does change some things (tbh your op implied that you would quit fapping, but who knows i guess im a a fucktard anyway), it's now just completely baffling that you're now quitting pornography for the worst reasons.
i mean i would understand if you made some claim like it was demeaning to women, that you were pro-abstinence, or anything legitimate, but your claims are just as retarded as the retarded advice you're asking for. (not to mention you had a direct attack on us in the OP, wtf? hahaa)
i asked how old you are because quite simply your perceptions of the world made it sound like you were 13. it was a legitimate question, and a legitimate observation. but whatever not like you're going to listen to me anyway, i'm just a godless tl.net poster.
going to sleep now, good luck.
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