EPTused to watch it almost every day man
5-7 times a week
quitting porn for life - Page 3
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MarklarMarklar
Fiji1823 Posts
used to watch it almost every day man 5-7 times a week | ||
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kekekekyle
Canada32 Posts
– George Carlin, RIP | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
kill yourself. but seriously man dont be a pussy and just dont look at porn. If you have a gf or a girl you respect you will naturally feel bad to look at porn, which would be the best way. Just get to know her better first off then remember god doesn't exist and man up. Or make it all link to gay porn so you have to not watch it. unless your into that stuff. edit: Also RIP George Carlin | ||
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ulszz
Jamaica1787 Posts
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Jonoman92
United States9103 Posts
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suresh0t
United States295 Posts
and there is no god... masturbation wins... In all seriousness, porn / masturbation has absolutely 0 effect on relationships unless... A) You are a chronic masturbater and you can't even go on a date without whipping it out B) You think what goes on in porns should go on in the bedroom all the time Those problems are all mental problems, so the conclusion is you are mentally unstable, which since you think masturbation is bad, is case in point. GG sir | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
In all seriousness, porn / masturbation has absolutely 0 effect on relationships unless... I think that's a bit naive. Imagine your girlfriend looks at naked guys who are not you and masturbates to them. Suddenly that's not really that cool. Unless, I don't know, you're into that kinda thing... While you may think "I don't care if my girlfriend looks at porn, in fact, I think that's pretty cool and liberating," once you rephrase it as "I don't care if my girlfriend looks at other naked guys and masturbates, in fact, I think that's pretty cool and liberating" you see it's almost a matter of semantics on whether or not you feel totally comfortable with it. It's kinda like guys who fantasize about a threesome... Well would it be so cool if the third person was another guy using your girl? lol | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
On July 04 2008 06:01 PsycHOTemplar wrote: I think that's a bit naive. Imagine your girlfriend looks at naked guys who are not you and masturbates to them. Suddenly that's not really that cool. Unless, I don't know, you're into that kinda thing... While you may think "I don't care if my girlfriend looks at porn, in fact, I think that's pretty cool and liberating," once you rephrase it as "I don't care if my girlfriend looks at other naked guys and masturbates, in fact, I think that's pretty cool and liberating" you see it's almost a matter of semantics on whether or not you feel totally comfortable with it. It's kinda like guys who fantasize about a threesome... Well would it be so cool if the third person was another guy using your girl? lol when you a cool gf you dont need to look at porn, again to the OP, just stop it and get off the fucking computer | ||
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SpiritoftheTunA
United States20903 Posts
On July 03 2008 20:32 Jathin wrote: tube, RebelHart already beat you to this stupid shit. Go away attention whore. | ||
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suresh0t
United States295 Posts
There is a huge difference between watching porn and wanting to have someone else to sleep with, so maybe you are naive? However, if he wants to stop, then my advice is the same as everyone elses, just fucking stop. | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
There is a huge difference between watching porn and wanting to have someone else to sleep with, so maybe you are naive? I would say "You a bitch," if you were cool with your girlfriend looking at other naked guys while she masturbates. On the other hand, if you look at porn, you might feel like a boss because your girlfriend's your bitch because she doesn't complain. | ||
Harem
United States11390 Posts
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suresh0t
United States295 Posts
not a very good one though | ||
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OverTheUnder
United States2929 Posts
could you please point out some specific example of how it is hurting your life and relationships? | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
 sAviOr, and think about his bronze rib cage I get a massive boner. | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On July 04 2008 00:29 zer0das wrote: I know in my case I was around 10-12 and I found something my dad was looking at and I've been trying to throw it off ever since then. Ok, that's probably enough to make someone quit. | ||
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MTF
United States1739 Posts
On July 04 2008 06:01 PsycHOTemplar wrote: I think that's a bit naive. Imagine your girlfriend looks at naked guys who are not you and masturbates to them. Suddenly that's not really that cool. Unless, I don't know, you're into that kinda thing... My fiancee looks at porn occasionally, both guys and girls, though mostly couples. We watch it together from time to time, too. There's nothing wrong with it unless you're insecure or she does it more than she wants to do things with/to you, which works the same for both genders. Of course it can cause problems between couples, but like I said, it's only ever born out of insecurity, the same as jealousy, or addiction, in which case it's a problem with the person, not the porn. I think it would be more naive to say that you believe your girlfriend should only ever be sexually attracted to you. Anyway, on the main topic...Porn is (well, most of it) just crude imitation of real life sex and yeah, a lot of it objectifies people. But, so what? For starters, sometimes people like being objectified, being the object of undeniable lust for another. To follow that, anyone not able to go out into the world and tell the difference between porn and real life to the point where it damages their relationships is either completely inexperienced or just plain stupid. To have that same degree of intelligence, you must think that all cars in any wreck ever explode after having watched a series of Michael Bay movies. Inexperience is not a cause to stop, though, so long as you know as you're watching porn that you can still say that you know this isn't how it really is. It's just hot images and sounds, providing stimulation for you in the same way as a movie or book. It's not real, never will be, but you enjoy what it does for you. Now, giving it up because you don't wanna do it anymore is perfectly fine. Just quit, then. If you seriously need advice, go outside more, find more things to do, especially with other people. Keep yourself busy or stop hanging out by yourself so often. With that said, it is annoying to say that you need help doing it - if you're consistently going back to it, it means you want to do it still, but are being told by others that you shouldn't want it in the first place. To which I say, live your own life, though it is doubtful that one would in such a situation, because not having the willpower to stop most probably means you don't have the willpower to go against your current peers. | ||
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On July 04 2008 07:30 GeneralStan wrote: I don't think all porn objectifies women. The porn I enjoy shows women being full fledged partners in the enjoyment. I first read that as "full fledged panthers." I wanted to ask for a copy.  | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
There's nothing wrong with it unless you're insecure or she does it more than she wants to do things with/to you, which works the same for both genders. Of course it can cause problems between couples, but like I said, it's only ever born out of insecurity, the same as jealousy, or addiction, in which case it's a problem with the person, not the porn. Whatever you say ;P That arguments about as logical as me saying if you're looking at porn you're not sexually fulfilled by your I think it would be more naive to say that you believe your girlfriend should only ever be sexually attracted to you. Sure, but it's not what I said. | ||
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