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winlessplayer
Profile Blog Joined November 2018
43 Posts
March 01 2020 11:58 GMT
#1
I don't know what a conversation is.

In the office no one talk to me.
Sometimes, I go to the pub. Nobody talk to me there.

I know, I have to approach them, but I don't know how.

I was trying online dating. No matches.

My spot in society is to stay at home and do nothing.
It's a bit boring.

I'm not asking for advice, I just needed to let it out.
I'm not unique, lots of people go through this.
Often it happens at a later stage in life.
Some people grow out of it, so there is hope.

I've tried therapy, but they don't focus on my issue.
They see my isolation as a great issue, but my mind is working toward isolating myself more and more.

I'm not sad or bitter, I just wish I could relate a little.
I know people like me are out there.



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JoinTheRain
Profile Blog Joined September 2018
Bulgaria408 Posts
March 01 2020 13:42 GMT
#2
On March 01 2020 20:58 winlessplayer wrote:
I know people like me are out there.

I can relate, I used to be like the way you describe.

On March 01 2020 20:58 winlessplayer wrote:
I don't know what a conversation is.

Alright, get acquainted with this first. Read some books about it. I can recommend Cicero's De Oratore. You can learn to speak as well as write from it.

On March 01 2020 20:58 winlessplayer wrote:
I know, I have to approach them, but I don't know how.

Are you scared of rejection? What is your issue? The faster you get used to being said "No" to, the better. You can approach a girl/boy in a polite and cheerful manner. If they decline, move on, there's nothing wrong.

On March 01 2020 20:58 winlessplayer wrote:
I was trying online dating. No matches.

Yeah, this is heavily influenced by the quality of your photos. I had a friend who's not a pro, but is decent at taking pictures. He did some photos of me in different environments and boom - Tinder girls matches left and right. And I do not mean profane poses of even partial nudity. Everyone who knows how to take a picture will understand when you ask for a decent photo.

On March 01 2020 20:58 winlessplayer wrote:
My spot in society is to stay at home and do nothing.
It's a bit boring.

I am alone most of the time as well. Instead of boring, I am calling it serenity and tranquility. And I use this time to lurk TL (obviously) but also to read something and improve my mind in some way. My curiosity for knowledge is insatiable so I rarely lack topics to educate myself into. I even think that this desire for knowledge is inseparable from the good and happy life I am aiming for.
The subject-matter of the art of living is each person's own life.
linestein
Profile Blog Joined June 2018
United States210 Posts
March 01 2020 18:45 GMT
#3
The key is to be a professional. If you approach people with a purpose then your time with them will have a point. Ask things of people. If you want a girlfriend talk about sex. Girls are naturally sexual creatures and are very receptive to hot guys hitting on them. If you don't feel confident about yourself it might be time to join a gym or get a physical fitness hobby.
"You can wish to be rich, you can wish to be tall. You can wish away the haters, you just gimme a call" ---Will Smith & DJ Khaled "Friend Like Me (End Title)"
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
March 01 2020 19:13 GMT
#4
just an FYI there are plenty of social outlets online, they are healthy and beneficial and can help you become a better person
Ej_
Profile Blog Joined January 2013
47656 Posts
March 01 2020 19:26 GMT
#5
Step is not to seek advice on a fucking Starcraft forum.
"Technically the dictionary has zero authority on the meaning or words" - Rodya
Dantak
Profile Joined January 2006
Czech Republic648 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-03-01 21:04:59
March 01 2020 21:04 GMT
#6
On March 02 2020 04:26 Ej_ wrote:
Step is not to seek advice on a fucking Starcraft forum.


YES! Because otherwise you might get responses that are wrong on so many levels like that one:

On March 02 2020 03:45 linestein wrote:
The key is to be a professional. If you approach people with a purpose then your time with them will have a point. Ask things of people. If you want a girlfriend talk about sex. Girls are naturally sexual creatures and are very receptive to hot guys hitting on them. If you don't feel confident about yourself it might be time to join a gym or get a physical fitness hobby.

"Life of lively to live to life of full life thx to shield battery." - f33red k0r34n z3rg
winlessplayer
Profile Blog Joined November 2018
43 Posts
March 01 2020 22:22 GMT
#7
I'm not seeking advice, I'm venting...
WombaT
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Northern Ireland24891 Posts
March 01 2020 22:22 GMT
#8
On March 02 2020 07:22 winlessplayer wrote:
I'm not seeking advice, I'm venting...

Vent away good sir, TL is as good a place as any in my book
'You'll always be the cuddly marsupial of my heart, despite the inherent flaws of your ancestry' - Squat
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