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Garnet
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Vietnam9021 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-11-22 11:11:56
September 16 2014 06:44 GMT
#1


*
Shebuha
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
Canada1335 Posts
September 16 2014 06:54 GMT
#2
Please don't make the mistake of putting some girl before your career. Love is a beautiful thing, but you shouldn't put your life on hold waiting on somebody.
Pangpootata
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
1838 Posts
September 16 2014 08:25 GMT
#3
Dude, you were 10. She's probably changed a lot since then, and you won't know how she's like now. You're in love with your idea of her, or your fantasy of her, not what she really is.

You should just go and find someone else. Seriously.
Rathwirt
Profile Joined January 2011
United States42 Posts
September 16 2014 09:26 GMT
#4
^this.
Split.
Profile Joined September 2011
Switzerland234 Posts
September 16 2014 09:35 GMT
#5
Yeah just go on with your life and maybe when the opportunity arises talk to her and get to know her again. But since it's been so long I'd suggest not prioritizing her over other things.
nunez
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Norway4003 Posts
September 16 2014 09:47 GMT
#6
silently wait for her in your cave, there is still hope.
conspired against by a confederacy of dunces.
ilovezil
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States4143 Posts
September 16 2014 09:48 GMT
#7
Logically, I agree with the other posts regarding the fact that it's been so long and that realistically, you're probably in love with this image you built of her since then, and throughout the years.

However, I do think that's quite amazing also that you've held this love for such a long time. I honestly didn't even think people could hold such affections for that long of a time. I'd say that you should make an active effort to at least reach out to this person. Whether or not you decide to pursue your feelings, I think you should at least come to a conclusion, since it's clear you've held onto these feelings for such a long time. So confess your feelings, have a good talk with her, something to close this matter. Of course, in the off chance it does work out, it would turn out to be quite a love story as well, one that a small part of me is hoping would work.
Pangpootata
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
1838 Posts
September 16 2014 11:00 GMT
#8
On September 16 2014 18:48 ilovezil wrote:
Logically, I agree with the other posts regarding the fact that it's been so long and that realistically, you're probably in love with this image you built of her since then, and throughout the years.

However, I do think that's quite amazing also that you've held this love for such a long time. I honestly didn't even think people could hold such affections for that long of a time. I'd say that you should make an active effort to at least reach out to this person. Whether or not you decide to pursue your feelings, I think you should at least come to a conclusion, since it's clear you've held onto these feelings for such a long time. So confess your feelings, have a good talk with her, something to close this matter. Of course, in the off chance it does work out, it would turn out to be quite a love story as well, one that a small part of me is hoping would work.

Err, she's already in a relationship. Shan't want to go around wrecking other people's lives.
Garnet
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Vietnam9021 Posts
September 16 2014 11:34 GMT
#9
On September 16 2014 18:48 ilovezil wrote:
Logically, I agree with the other posts regarding the fact that it's been so long and that realistically, you're probably in love with this image you built of her since then, and throughout the years.

However, I do think that's quite amazing also that you've held this love for such a long time. I honestly didn't even think people could hold such affections for that long of a time. I'd say that you should make an active effort to at least reach out to this person. Whether or not you decide to pursue your feelings, I think you should at least come to a conclusion, since it's clear you've held onto these feelings for such a long time. So confess your feelings, have a good talk with her, something to close this matter. Of course, in the off chance it does work out, it would turn out to be quite a love story as well, one that a small part of me is hoping would work.

Like poster above said, she's already in a relationship. But yeah if I see her I will make an active effort to talk to her, see if she's still that girl from my childhood or has become someone else.
JD.
Profile Joined September 2014
Australia250 Posts
Last Edited: 2014-09-16 12:15:06
September 16 2014 12:11 GMT
#10
You're a Haruki Murakami (1Q84) novel now, well done.

I'm kind of in the same boat, actually. In love with someone I met when I was... 14, but through the years we were friends (14-18) I never really realised it despite how close we were (+ The opportunities that did happen I brushed off thinking I wasn't worth + had a lot going on). Now 24 and she recently became friends with some of my close friends, so maybe lifes throwing another chance at me.
ZenithM
Profile Joined February 2011
France15952 Posts
September 16 2014 16:44 GMT
#11
Still a cute story. But yeah, it's time to move on man.
Topin
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Peru10077 Posts
September 16 2014 18:03 GMT
#12
time to move on. GL
i would define my style between a mix of ByuN, Maru and MKP
krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
September 16 2014 18:25 GMT
#13
--- Nuked ---
SteelSinger
Profile Joined July 2012
21 Posts
September 16 2014 18:52 GMT
#14
On September 16 2014 15:44 Garnet wrote:
Seeing her like this reminds me (again) about my shitty life. I'm still stuck in college (to raise my GPA to 2.5), work random tutoring jobs that are barely enough to buy gas and food, have some friends but no close one. She is just way out of my league (not that this matters, if she didn't have a bf I might actually go for one last try).



The best thing to do right now, is work on yourself, invest in yourself. Cause that's the only thing that's constant, the only thing that you bring along everywhere you go is you. It's what I've been doing for the past couple months, after what 7 years of neglect?

Don't accept this negative bullshit that surrounds you. Fight it! Whenever you meet resistance it's where you need to go.

You have a shitty life. OK. Think about who you are now to become who you want to be. You have a low GPA. OK. Hang around 5 intelligent people that are in your classes. You work at random tutoring jobs. OK. Maybe talk to those intelligent people (or others) for more job opportunities. She's just way out of your league. OK. I mean. Bullshit. Don't accept that, after awhile of investing in yourself.. you'll realize you aren't the "lucky one" anymore, and now she's the "lucky one".
FFGenerations
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
7088 Posts
September 16 2014 19:35 GMT
#15
people get divorced all the time man
hang in there
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SFDuality
Profile Joined December 2012
United States1318 Posts
September 16 2014 20:53 GMT
#16
On September 17 2014 04:35 FFGenerations wrote:
people get divorced all the time man
hang in there

That's very supportive, but probably in a bad way.

I kind of know what you're going through. I took a long time to get over my 6th grade crush. But then (seemingly serendipitously) I met her after a decade and realized that we had absolutely nothing in common anymore. We tend to build up our first "love", especially if it was unrequited, to unrealistic ideals which very rarely match the truth. As others have suggested, you should talk to her. Not romantically, but just in an old-friends-catching-up kind of way. It'll give you some closure, and you'll probably realize that she and the image in your head aren't really the same person at all.

Good luck, man. Not just with the girl, but with college and everything.
LockeTazeline
Profile Blog Joined June 2012
2390 Posts
September 16 2014 22:50 GMT
#17
There's absolutely no reason for you to even be thinking about his person. You don't know who she is in the slightest. Fantasizing about someone who you don't even have a friendly relationship with is just setting yourself back. You should move on and try to forget about her and eventually the feelings will fade.
BigFan
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
TLADT24920 Posts
September 16 2014 23:31 GMT
#18
I'm gonna echo what everyone else said. This was over 10 years back when you weren't even teenagers yet. That's such a long time back that it feels odd to me that you would have such a strong emotion from back then especially considering that you haven't talked to her since. Anyways, she's likely a totally different person than you imagine since you don't know much about her and likely just have your own thoughts on what she is like etc...

I would just focus on getting your GPA up and achieving your dream then after life is going well, you can start looking around. If it bothers you that much that you can't forget about her, shooting her a message to catch up and then you'll see that she's different than you imagined which should help. Best of luck!
Former BW EiC"Watch Bakemonogatari or I will kill you." -Toad, April 18th, 2017
DoctorHelvetica
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States15034 Posts
September 17 2014 00:14 GMT
#19
On September 16 2014 20:34 Garnet wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 16 2014 18:48 ilovezil wrote:
Logically, I agree with the other posts regarding the fact that it's been so long and that realistically, you're probably in love with this image you built of her since then, and throughout the years.

However, I do think that's quite amazing also that you've held this love for such a long time. I honestly didn't even think people could hold such affections for that long of a time. I'd say that you should make an active effort to at least reach out to this person. Whether or not you decide to pursue your feelings, I think you should at least come to a conclusion, since it's clear you've held onto these feelings for such a long time. So confess your feelings, have a good talk with her, something to close this matter. Of course, in the off chance it does work out, it would turn out to be quite a love story as well, one that a small part of me is hoping would work.

Like poster above said, she's already in a relationship. But yeah if I see her I will make an active effort to talk to her, see if she's still that girl from my childhood or has become someone else.

Ten years later? Dude, you don't even know her at this point. Why would you want her, an adult woman, to be the same as she was as a kid? You gotta move on and try to fight the oneitis.
RIP Aaliyah
DepressedOne
Profile Blog Joined September 2014
United States190 Posts
September 17 2014 01:23 GMT
#20
I don't think true love exists or there's just someone who's perfect for you in the world. I mean, sure you meet someone who you're totally into and think you could never be with anyone else but those feelings subside. They've lasted 16 years with you though so. Hum. Strange case.
Me sad.
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