woahh ... thats awesome dude .. i am no expert but as far as i can tell she is into you .. this situation is already a win-win as long as you dont screw it up
she likes who you are so treat her like how you treat her in normal basis .. wear good,casual but non-flashy clothes .. and just make sure that the topic of your conversation is something she has knowledge or relate to somehow .. dont try to be too funny or to impress her .. ask her stuff about herself .. women love talking about themselves
GLHF ! lastly post another blog of whatever happens if you dont mind .. would love to know what happened
On August 27 2013 03:01 Ikidomari wrote: I'm like, a 6/10 on a good day, I'm skinny as a rake, only barely 6 foot tall (wearing shoes), so white I'm almost translucent, and my hair is.. well, it looks fine but it's the hair of a beta virgin, not the hair of Chad Thundercock, alpha pimp extraordinary. I'm a uni student, I work in a grocery store part time, I play games for more hours a day than Flash and Mvp combined.
Have we met?
Hah, I don't work in a grocery store. Your comparison is invalid.
On August 27 2013 03:01 Ikidomari wrote: I'm like, a 6/10 on a good day, I'm skinny as a rake, only barely 6 foot tall (wearing shoes), so white I'm almost translucent, and my hair is.. well, it looks fine but it's the hair of a beta virgin, not the hair of Chad Thundercock, alpha pimp extraordinary. I'm a uni student, I work in a grocery store part time, I play games for more hours a day than Flash and Mvp combined.
Have we met?
Hah, I don't work in a grocery store. Your comparison is invalid.
Brah, the only girls you hang out with are the female characters in World of Warcraft.
So, Team Liquid, I haven't been on a real date since high school, and I'll be damned if I know how to behave on a first date, with a person I know so little about, especially when she asked me on the date.
So how does this work? Should I offer to drive her, Do I meet her there at a set time? Do I pay the bill, or do we split it? Do I wear the dress-code appropriate to the university tavern, or do I wear the dress-code appropriate for the first date?
The person asking the questions is in control of the conversation, but don't really worry about that. Don't talk about menial standard shit. Ask her about stuff she might be interested in, or talk about stuff that you think might be interesting to her. IE; What are you doing here, why did you choose here, what is your goal, what's fun to do around here when you're not working/schooling. The line of questioning should flow together and eventually get into stuff that you both can input on and back and forth about (a class that sucks, a person that sucks, something silly that everyone thinks should change).
Generally the rule of thumb in these times is whoever asks the other person out is expected to pay and decide shit. If she didn't say anything call her (don't text her!) and playfully joke about "When are you going to pick me up?, should I wear my tux?, are you buying me a 3 course meal?" type of shit, it'll help you figure out if you should pay for your half or what. Definitely expect her to pay at least for half since she asked you out. And make sure she understands you are joking and you can get their on your own and pay your way if she is a little offput by the joking.
Just wear what is comfortable for the environment and for you. Considering the phone call tips I gave, after the tux talk you can tell her what you are gonna wear, because I guarantee she is having a harder time deciding- this will ease her into dressing according to you.