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I used to have a crush on a subway girl too! she worked at the subway inside the big box store i worked at. Never got free subs.. how beta does that make me?
This is probably really bad advice but i'm a sappy nostalgic fuck... so, for the clothing, err on the side of too formal rather than too casual. The reason is that one time i had a date/ hangout (unclear) and she looked really cute but i thought i was the cool guy and tried to play it off like i was too cool to care much. I regret that.. I think people dig it if you're not afraid to show some pride in your grooming, even if you don't end up looking like ryan gosling, it's charming.
You don't have to pay. I don't think girls are assuming that the guy pays anymore. It could be a nice gesture but it could also make things kind of awkward because it makes the statement "hey this is totally traditional guy girl" So it depends how things go. Most likely separate tabs in my opinion, but if you're feeling nice then of course
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If you find out you don't like her, remember she still works at Subway. Tread lightly, you don't want to lose those discounts!
In all seriousness, just have fun at the tavern and be yourself.
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Screw you man, I would love to be barely 6 foot 
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What you have to do is actually quite easy:
Step 1: Think about what James Bond (that one by Sean Connery ofc) would do.
Step 2: Substract 'going to bed with a girl on a first date' from that mental image.
Step 3: Apply the result and you can never go wrong.
But in all seriousness, if she gave you discounts while barely knowing you and asked you out first, she's sooo into you. So unless you have one-digit IQ, I can't think of any way to screw this up on your part. Just be the guy she met and liked. And enjoy yourself!
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I got to know a girl before she even contemplated working at Subway. But once she moved across the country (CA to NY), and we spent a weekend together, I truly knew her. Then she wound up, a couple months later, with an aunt in Ohio and began to work at a Subway. By the end of that year, she was back in CA with her latest bf but I had been satiated I think.
Although now, sadly, I rarely actually eat at Subways in my city anymore.
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What I realized in my last year is that you could talk and say almost anything and girls will pick it up through your state of mind. It's scientifically proven that girls are a lot better than guys at reading emotional states and body language and if you work on that and you are comfortable she will feel comfortable. Whatever you want her to feel you have to feel it yourself.
For example a guy above said don't talk about ex girl/boyfriends. That could work if you still have some negative emotions left behind, but I found that talking about ex and break ups can be a very stimulating conversation for both (as long as it's a short one) and says a lot about the person you are speaking to and what she is into.
Communication is less verbal than most people think, that's why you have to force and convince yourself in a state of mind where you understand this interaction could go wrong at every second so it's not worth worrying about it too much. This will automatically convey to her the message that you are not desperate for her approval. But at the same time value your own time so try to make the best out of it and have the best possible experience you can get.
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On August 27 2013 05:18 aTnClouD wrote:
What I realized in my last year is that you could talk and say almost anything and girls will pick it up through your state of mind. It's scientifically proven that girls are a lot better than guys at reading emotional states and body language and if you work on that and you are comfortable she will feel comfortable. Whatever you want her to feel you have to feel it yourself.
For example a guy above said don't talk about ex girl/boyfriends. That could work if you still have some negative emotions left behind, but I found that talking about ex and break ups can be a very stimulating conversation for both (as long as it's a short one) and says a lot about the person you are speaking to and what she is into.
Communication is less verbal than most people think, that's why you have to force and convince yourself in a state of mind where you understand this interaction could go wrong at every second so it's not worth worrying about it too much. This will automatically convey to her the message that you are not desperate for her approval. But at the same time value your own time so try to make the best out of it and have the best possible experience you can get.
The reason I said that is because OP doesn't want the girl to think that they aren't over their ex (or at least I wouldn't). Honestly, it depends on the seriousness of the conversation at hand and the length of the past relationship and other factors.
I don't think it needs to come up on the first date.
I dated my ex for a really long time (over 5 years), so eventually, I had to explain the situation with my current girlfriend. It would have been really awkward to talk about it on the first date.
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Oh, and in the 1/100'000'000 chance, Subway Girl, you find and read this blog. text me, so I can explain I'm not some weirdo creeper!
If you found the girl who asks you out herself AND reads random girl blogs on Team Liquid... There would be no explanation necessary. You would have reached a new plane of existence and ascended to enlightenment.
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On August 27 2013 03:01 Ikidomari wrote:
I'm like, a 6/10 on a good day, I'm skinny as a rake, only barely 6 foot tall (wearing shoes), so white I'm almost translucent, and my hair is.. well, it looks fine but it's the hair of a beta virgin, not the hair of Chad Thundercock, alpha pimp extraordinary.
I'm a uni student, I work in a grocery store part time, I play games for more hours a day than Flash and Mvp combined.
Have we met?
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She wants the five dollar footlong.
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this isnt a tranny thread. 1/5 for false advertising. ;-)
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This thread is the perfect example of why people should take a serious pinch of salt when consider 'alpha' and 'beta' and pickup concepts in general. Fact is that HOWEVER you are, there are people out there who will be far more into you than to who you think and expect. Some girls are literally attracted to unattractive guys because they got bored of pretty men after their friends constantly talked about them. You denigrate yourself with your description but that could very well be the exact look she digs.
A lot of guys could do with just meeting more girls because I feel a lot of people meet a few, get turned down or rejected, and then immediately assume all other girls are going to do the same. Just chill and keep getting around because there are always girls who would have more of a natural affinity to your features than others.
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You're finnnnnnnne. Don't worry too much, enjoy your time and be honest.
Honesty in this case doesn't mean telling her how madly and deeply in love you are but being honest with the way you act around her. Feel free to keep up some physical contact and shizzle - you don't want to be her buddy after all. =)
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I totally went "HAH!" when I finshed the part where she finally asked you out.
I want to read the next chapter in this story. And of course the ending where you bury her in your backyard.
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On August 27 2013 06:24 Jerubaal wrote:
She wants the five dollar footlong.
You can save one dollar and give her the six-inch and a soft drink!
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On August 27 2013 09:28 MountainDewJunkie wrote:You can save one dollar and give her the six-inch and a soft drink!
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God i hope this works for you bro!
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Without a pic, I will assume subway girl is actually a dude who thought the same!
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On August 27 2013 10:44 Rollin wrote:Show nested quote +On August 27 2013 09:28 MountainDewJunkie wrote:On August 27 2013 06:24 Jerubaal wrote:
She wants the five dollar footlong. You can save one dollar and give her the six-inch and a soft drink!
That's an actual deal from Subway right now, you know
You get six inches less meat (so to speak) but get about 12 cents worth of carbonation and corn syrup
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