Yesterday after work I called my friends to get as drunk as humanly possible, it was friday afterall. So we headed to a bar in downtown. While there, friend B appeared and I decided it was time to end all my worries and answer all my questions. I called him and we began talking.
Me: Hey man, how are you? He: I'm fine, and you? Me: Not so much, I have a serious question for you... He: About? Me: So... i'm sorry to say, but it's about girl B He: No problem man, I already told you, i'm fine now Me: But you know... we're attracted to each other... He: Oh, so that's it? Me: Yeah... but, if you aren't okay with that i won't do anything He: Hmmm, no problem man, I am happy that you came here to talk to me and ask what I think though. It shows how much you value our friendship. But i must warn you, that girl is a bitch. Me: Oh, thanks... but yeah, that's it. I'm happy you understand. He: No problem, as I said I'm already dating someone else Me: Yeah, you told me... so man, when will you show her to us? He: She's coming here, just wait and you'll met her.
And so i waited. I was already happy that my friends understood my attraction for girl B. Everything was fine now... and plus, I would find if he was gay or not. Five minutes passed and then she appeared, the girl my friend was talking about. She was pretty and nice.
They acted like a normal couple so I was pretty sure that he wasn't gay, but after 15 minutes or so she left and he stayed. And so i asked him.
Me: She already left? He: Yeah, she has things to do Me: Oh I see. You know, i'm happy that you found a nice girl like her. He: Yeah... yeah, hey man, c'mon here a second
And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He: I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
And so we headead back to bar to drink more. After we were drunk as hell I decided it was time to nail the girl. I called her.
Me: What are you doing? SHe: Nothing Me: Wanna go out? SHe: Aren't you afraid of your friend finding out? Me: Not anymore. SHe: Yay! (Yeah... she said YAY).
And after a date, i had sex with her at my place. I took her home and we did it again. Now, listing my conclusions:
- My friend is indeed gay, he just doesn't know yet - She didn't lie, but told me something she wasn't supposed to. - I can't fully trust her, so I'll be carefull - I don't mind if she's a bisexual, it may be be fun - I don't give a fuck about the other dude she was supposedly dating.
Right now i've got a nice sex friend, and i'm happy about it. I'll just have fun and see what happens next.
That's not where I thought this was going at all. I saw a pretty clear train wreck on the horizon, but I'm glad I was wrong.
You should still definitely be careful, though. You're friend has no reason to lie to you about her being a liar/cheater/general bitch. He clearly has no interest in her, and doesn't have any reason to lie about the reasons for their split, now that he's come out about his sexual orientation.
A sex buddy is great, but watch out in case it starts to become something more. You probably can't trust this girl.
Was waiting for it and it happened. Ofc you should still be a bit careful I guess. Not gonna lie but I thought your friend was gonna make a move on you lmao
On June 03 2012 01:03 Gleen wrote: And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He:I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
I KNEW IT! I had my suspicions, but I don't think that she would be lying because it just didn't feel right that a younger girl would be making up lies about older men, it's more likely she'd do that with people of her age and younger. If she did that with older people, she'd just seemed childish. I know the evidence was not there, but my hunch was correct.
On June 03 2012 01:03 Gleen wrote: And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He:I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
I KNEW IT! I had my suspicions, but I don't think that she would be lying because it just didn't feel right that a younger girl would be making up lies about older men, it's more likely she'd do that with people of her age and younger. If she did that with older people, she'd just seemed childish. I know the evidence was not there, but my hunch was correct.
I dunno. When I read that girl blog, I thought the girl was lying. I'm really surprised that the friend was actually gay and that the girl was telling the truth that time. This drama is just unfolding in such a weird and unexpected way.
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