Yesterday after work I called my friends to get as drunk as humanly possible, it was friday afterall. So we headed to a bar in downtown. While there, friend B appeared and I decided it was time to end all my worries and answer all my questions. I called him and we began talking.
Me: Hey man, how are you? He: I'm fine, and you? Me: Not so much, I have a serious question for you... He: About? Me: So... i'm sorry to say, but it's about girl B He: No problem man, I already told you, i'm fine now Me: But you know... we're attracted to each other... He: Oh, so that's it? Me: Yeah... but, if you aren't okay with that i won't do anything He: Hmmm, no problem man, I am happy that you came here to talk to me and ask what I think though. It shows how much you value our friendship. But i must warn you, that girl is a bitch. Me: Oh, thanks... but yeah, that's it. I'm happy you understand. He: No problem, as I said I'm already dating someone else Me: Yeah, you told me... so man, when will you show her to us? He: She's coming here, just wait and you'll met her.
And so i waited. I was already happy that my friends understood my attraction for girl B. Everything was fine now... and plus, I would find if he was gay or not. Five minutes passed and then she appeared, the girl my friend was talking about. She was pretty and nice.
They acted like a normal couple so I was pretty sure that he wasn't gay, but after 15 minutes or so she left and he stayed. And so i asked him.
Me: She already left? He: Yeah, she has things to do Me: Oh I see. You know, i'm happy that you found a nice girl like her. He: Yeah... yeah, hey man, c'mon here a second
And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He: I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
And so we headead back to bar to drink more. After we were drunk as hell I decided it was time to nail the girl. I called her.
Me: What are you doing? SHe: Nothing Me: Wanna go out? SHe: Aren't you afraid of your friend finding out? Me: Not anymore. SHe: Yay! (Yeah... she said YAY).
And after a date, i had sex with her at my place. I took her home and we did it again. Now, listing my conclusions:
- My friend is indeed gay, he just doesn't know yet - She didn't lie, but told me something she wasn't supposed to. - I can't fully trust her, so I'll be carefull - I don't mind if she's a bisexual, it may be be fun - I don't give a fuck about the other dude she was supposedly dating.
Right now i've got a nice sex friend, and i'm happy about it. I'll just have fun and see what happens next.
That's not where I thought this was going at all. I saw a pretty clear train wreck on the horizon, but I'm glad I was wrong.
You should still definitely be careful, though. You're friend has no reason to lie to you about her being a liar/cheater/general bitch. He clearly has no interest in her, and doesn't have any reason to lie about the reasons for their split, now that he's come out about his sexual orientation.
A sex buddy is great, but watch out in case it starts to become something more. You probably can't trust this girl.
Was waiting for it and it happened. Ofc you should still be a bit careful I guess. Not gonna lie but I thought your friend was gonna make a move on you lmao
On June 03 2012 01:03 Gleen wrote: And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He:I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
I KNEW IT! I had my suspicions, but I don't think that she would be lying because it just didn't feel right that a younger girl would be making up lies about older men, it's more likely she'd do that with people of her age and younger. If she did that with older people, she'd just seemed childish. I know the evidence was not there, but my hunch was correct.
On June 03 2012 01:03 Gleen wrote: And so he dragged me out of the bar to a quiet place, and begun telling me that since i valued our friendship, he could tell me. His relationship wasn't going so well because he didn't felt physically attracted with her. I knew where this was going... and so i asked.
Me: Why? He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He:I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: Oh, I see. Man, I don't know how to help you but i'm sure you need to pursue your happiness, may it be with girls or guys. He: I think you're right man, Thanks.
I KNEW IT! I had my suspicions, but I don't think that she would be lying because it just didn't feel right that a younger girl would be making up lies about older men, it's more likely she'd do that with people of her age and younger. If she did that with older people, she'd just seemed childish. I know the evidence was not there, but my hunch was correct.
I dunno. When I read that girl blog, I thought the girl was lying. I'm really surprised that the friend was actually gay and that the girl was telling the truth that time. This drama is just unfolding in such a weird and unexpected way.
You should ask your friend for more details on why exactly he thinks she's a bitch. I'm disappointed that you didn't push the issue there. You can even write another blog about it!
On June 03 2012 04:27 babylon wrote: You should ask your friend for more details on why exactly he thinks she's a bitch. I'm disappointed that you didn't push the issue there. You can even write another blog about it!
Dude. He already told us, that his friend thinks she's a bitch because: She dated 2 other guys while she was still his gf.
Btw. I watched the whole OOOOOH-vid and now I can't keep myself from OOOOHing all the time T.t
Fuckin' beautiful ending to all this. I really like it a lot, actually, it really mirrored how a fictional story would go, what with the increasing tension and then the awesome conclusion. I hope the best for you and that girl, and I am so glad that your friend sorta came out to you, that's really great. God what a great fuckin' blog. Five outta five, <3
My day composed of having a choir rehearsal and seeing the movie "Finding Neverland", but the point of the day which evoked the most emotion in me was actually finally getting to read the ending of this very exciting tale.
Hey, thanks for sharing, and reporting in after all of the events! I was holding my breath the whole day, until I finally got to take part of the final piece. A very good closure!
Film material, imo (or maybe symphonic material would be better suiting for me, no? )
FUCK YEAH I FUCKING CALLED IT! Told you he was gay and she was okay (I see what I did there)
Oh glorious drama I wish you could've been dragged out more to make us long for that sweet taste even more but this is awesome as well. Some show should make an episode based on this..
You do realize that while you're happily writing a girl blog on TL about how you nailed a cute chick and all was well in your world, your friend B went home and wrote a blog on Gay&Proud.com about how he finally worked up the courage to confess his feelings of gayness for you and you absolutely, 100%, cold clocked him in the jaw with a rejection.
This is how he saw things going in his head:
He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He: I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: *Pulls him close and kisses him passionately on the mouth.* It doesn't have to be that complicated, B. Sometimes, all it takes is a kiss. *Kisses him again* He: *Melts into your arms* You're right, Gleen! I AM gay! For you! *Proceed to grind on each other at the club, have an amazing night of man 2 man dancing, and then go back to his place for mindblowing gay sex.*
This is how things really happened:
He: I think I'm gay. Me: Oh, holy fuck. GTFO! Go be gay somewhere else!
Suffice to say, friend B did not get any e-pats on the back after the night was done
Summary: You're a bad friend, Gleen! A bad friend!
On June 03 2012 14:00 StorkHwaiting wrote: NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Gleen WTF?!
You do realize that while you're happily writing a girl blog on TL about how you nailed a cute chick and all was well in your world, your friend B went home and wrote a blog on Gay&Proud.com about how he finally worked up the courage to confess his feelings of gayness for you and you absolutely, 100%, cold clocked him in the jaw with a rejection.
This is how he saw things going in his head:
He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He: I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: *Pulls him close and kisses him passionately on the mouth.* It doesn't have to be that complicated, B. Sometimes, all it takes is a kiss. *Kisses him again* He: *Melts into your arms* You're right, Gleen! I AM gay! For you! *Proceed to grind on each other at the club, have an amazing night of man 2 man dancing, and then go back to his place for mindblowing gay sex.*
This is how things really happened:
He: I think I'm gay. Me: Oh, holy fuck. GTFO! Go be gay somewhere else!
Suffice to say, friend B did not get any e-pats on the back after the night was done
Summary: You're a bad friend, Gleen! A bad friend!
LOL also congrats Gleen, what a bauss! =) good luck in the future hopefully you'll meet more crazy girls and blog about them
I read all your blogs. Lol. What a story. It really did put a smile in my face. This doesn't have to be the last of your girl blogs you know. It's a happy ending and all, but if something drastic happens I'm sure many would like to hear about it :D
On June 03 2012 14:00 StorkHwaiting wrote: NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Gleen WTF?!
You do realize that while you're happily writing a girl blog on TL about how you nailed a cute chick and all was well in your world, your friend B went home and wrote a blog on Gay&Proud.com about how he finally worked up the courage to confess his feelings of gayness for you and you absolutely, 100%, cold clocked him in the jaw with a rejection.
This is how he saw things going in his head:
He: Can i tell you a secret? Me: Of course. He: I think i'm gay, I don't know man. I feel attracted to men but i'm afraid of going out with one to find out if i'm really gay or not Me: *Pulls him close and kisses him passionately on the mouth.* It doesn't have to be that complicated, B. Sometimes, all it takes is a kiss. *Kisses him again* He: *Melts into your arms* You're right, Gleen! I AM gay! For you! *Proceed to grind on each other at the club, have an amazing night of man 2 man dancing, and then go back to his place for mindblowing gay sex.*
This is how things really happened:
He: I think I'm gay. Me: Oh, holy fuck. GTFO! Go be gay somewhere else!
Suffice to say, friend B did not get any e-pats on the back after the night was done
Summary: You're a bad friend, Gleen! A bad friend!
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