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The last few weeks I've been talking with a Korean girl. We're both students, although in different classes, and she comes almost daily to my room, where she hangs out with her girlfriend and my roomate; I strongly suspect this is, at least in part, because she is somewhat interested in me. Anyhow, we kinda hit it off and we've flirted a lot. You know, yeah, the usual, I'm pretty sure im not reading this the wrong way. I've hanged out with her and her friends and they also seemed to think that we've got something going on.
Last night she came, with my room mate and the other girl I mentioned, at two A.M. after going clubbing for a bit, and asked me to go to another room with them for some drinking rounds. Long story short we found ourselves at 5 A.M. in my room, her friends left (after a lot of Korean gossiping that I think had to do with some 'tension' between her and me), and my roomate is cruising in deep sleep now. Knowing that she had chosen to stay, and that she came at 2 A.M. to drag me elsewhere, and that we had been flirtatious for two weeks, and that she repeatedly told me that she liked me on QQ, I decided to pull her close and kiss her.
Wrong move. I was met with a pair of cold lips and a complete desire to ignore that this had just happened. I mean, she acted like it really hadn't happened, all the while acting flirtatious and what not. So I'm getting mind fucked at that point, completely at a loss at what is going on, and I ask her what is up. She tells me, in no particular order that: My roomate is there, that in Korea you "can't do that", that it was too sudden, that she isn't sure. I, being a bit drunk, and actually a bit pissed off that this is happening start telling her that I don't think its fair to act in such an unambigous manner and then bail out and that well, it is my problem, but that I'd like to know where she stands on this whole thing; I finish with a literal "this is bullshit", which is OK since her english is poor (we talk in chinese). Please understand that for me its natural to assume that a girl is intersted when she spends so much time around, flirting, and comes to my room at late hours to drag me for some drinks.
So I just say "fuck this" and ask her to leave the room, thinking that well, this is it. Well, wrong again. I wake up today to find her in the room, again. Now my mind is really breaking into little pieces, and to add insult to injury I'm hungover and really god damn tired. I was pissed off and just ignored her, told her I was sorry for being a bit of a dick (although I think being upset was justified). Next thing I know there are three more korean girls in my room and I think that the issue has been raised between them. I just wouldnt show up at some one's room after the very akward moment of "making the move" and getting rejected. On either side, really. If she wasn't into me I really don't get why she'd come, and I certainly wouldnt seek her out. Now I think she's confused (and upset) as to why I'm pissed off, which is even more confusing. It's like the ball is back in my court, when I was pretty convinced that wasn't the case anymore.
The trouble is, and this is the real trouble, that I actually like this girl. I mean, I like her because she is kind, funny, cute, if a bit naive, and because im intrigued by her.
Really, what is going on?
 
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51449 Posts
well for one thing, at least you posted at the perfect site for issues such as this.
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On November 12 2011 18:15 GTR wrote:
well for one thing, at least you posted at the perfect site for issues such as this.
Literally LOLed.
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It's not so much about girls in general but wether I'm missing a crucial piece in regards to Korean dating culture, or whatever. Maybe I just wanted to vent.
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Osaka27149 Posts
If there is anything to know about university, it is that time goes by way too fast to spend more than a couple days on any one particular drama.
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it didnt go like her korean dramas
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
this has nothing to do with her being korean or not
you were tested, and you failed the test
not all hope is lost though, and next time this happens just roll over and go to sleep instead of getting mad
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"Koreans girls"... way to overgeneralise with this title.
Anyway, good luck.
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I guess.
If I failed the test then her coming today was just a plain dick move.
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On November 12 2011 18:22 TheBeardedWonder wrote:
it didnt go like her korean dramas
This. 
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Osaka27149 Posts
If she comes over after that, just walk around in your underwear until she leaves, or asks her friends to leave. That is an easy way to know whether you pass or fail. Either way you get laid or you get starcraft playing time.
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Try dating, I hear it does wonders to kindle relationships and actual one-on-one encounters instead of relying flirtatious moments and socializing amongst friends.
I swear, does no one date anymore? Dinner, movies? no?
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tl blogs never fail to make me lol.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On November 12 2011 18:36 Torte de Lini wrote:
Try dating, I hear it does wonders to kindle relationships and actual one-on-one encounters instead of relying flirtatious moments and socializing amongst friends.
I swear, does no one date anymore? Dinner, movies? no?
he's in college man...
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you fucked up dude, like really hard. She didn't outright reject you, she said she wasn't sure yet. maybe she didn't even want to sleep with you yet, maybe she wanted to date or something first. I wouldn't call this a lost cause, but it's definitely set you way back.
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Does everyone think that a kiss means "I want to sleep with you now?"
ETA: Although, on second thought, if that is what she thought I wanted.. well.. I can see why she'd be confused. The leap from kiss to sleep, though, seems rather clear cut for me.
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Katowice25012 Posts
I'm with Rek and/or Mani. Whatever is going on here is dumb, don't dwell on any of this.
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United Kingdom38255 Posts
On November 12 2011 18:41 night terrors wrote:
Does everyone think that a kiss means "I want to sleep with you now?"
A bit drunk, at 5am, and in your room?
Eh, I know what I'm thinking if I make a move in that scenario.
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You dont want to shut the door as hard you did, nothing to do with korea...you just failed
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Girls flirt for many reasons. Apologize like a gentleman for misreading her intentions. Move on.
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you know she could have just been shocked and just uncertain and nervous in general
have u seen that republican vid? that guy's mouth started spewing bonkers when he was nervous
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Remember, love is just a game, like Starcraft.
You need to retreat, macro up, get the right upgrades and composition, and go for a 200/200, 3/3/3 timing attack.
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get drunk again, kiss her again and keep on kissing.
always work
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what?? koreans seems to take it slow. i wonder how often koreans gets sex then..
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On November 12 2011 19:44 Piste wrote:
what?? koreans seems to take it slow. i wonder how often koreans gets sex then..
Koreans don't have sex — They are actually descendants of mega fighter crabs, thus they lay eggs instead. Any resemblance to the human race is purely coincidental.
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On November 12 2011 18:15 GTR wrote:
well for one thing, at least you posted at the perfect site for issues such as this.
Well played, good sir, well played.
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On November 12 2011 18:12 night terrors wrote:
Last night she came, with my room mate and the other girl I mentioned, at two A.M. after going clubbing for a bit, and asked me to go to another room with them for some drinking rounds.
Tobias Fünke is that you?
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On November 12 2011 19:47 DNB wrote:Show nested quote +On November 12 2011 19:44 Piste wrote:
what?? koreans seems to take it slow. i wonder how often koreans gets sex then.. Koreans don't have sex — They are actually descendants of mega fighter crabs, thus they lay eggs instead. Any resemblance to the human race is purely coincidental.
LOL wtf, that was the most random thing I've read in a while, congrats.
As for the OP, go for the "wearing underpants around" option.
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I'd assume you'll be having night terrors after this event
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Just get her drunk or stoned.
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girls who play games like these might not be good for your health
however, on the plus side, i'm betting that she's still intrigued by you, especially since you're angry/ignoring her.
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Date first. Kissing second, stop skipping bases bro!
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On November 12 2011 18:34 Manifesto7 wrote:
If she comes over after that, just walk around in your underwear until she leaves, or asks her friends to leave. That is an easy way to know whether you pass or fail. Either way you get laid or you get starcraft playing time.
QFT
This is the only way to ensure a win/win for yourself.
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On November 12 2011 21:02 Wrongspeedy wrote:
Date first. Kissing second, stop skipping bases bro!
...?
Is korea still in the 7th grade?
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Well you're definitely right about one thing OP, you don't get it. So many things gone wrong there i don't even know where to begin. I suggest you start reading up on Pick Up material. Real Social Dynamics is a solid place to start. Invest a couple of years into this and that convo u just had will be a cakewalk to plow through.
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On November 12 2011 21:09 Perseverance wrote:Show nested quote +On November 12 2011 21:02 Wrongspeedy wrote:
Date first. Kissing second, stop skipping bases bro! ...? Is korea still in the 7th grade?
Do people in Japan kiss each other before a first date? Didn't think that was that unusual. Seriously? If he has the balls to just kiss her, he has them to ask her out as well. Obviously there are exceptions and some people are more comfortable with things than others, but its not exactly the "7th grade" thing to do (asking her out), where just kissing her and expecting her to like you is something I would expect from someone in the 7th grade.
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On November 12 2011 21:21 King.Crimson wrote:
Well you're definitely right about one thing OP, you don't get it. So many things gone wrong there i don't even know where to begin. I suggest you start reading up on Pick Up material. Real Social Dynamics is a solid place to start. Invest a couple of years into this and that convo u just had will be a cakewalk to plow through.
The PUA thread people are spilling out into the girl blogs now. Must you try to ruin everything?
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On November 12 2011 18:34 Manifesto7 wrote:
If she comes over after that, just walk around in your underwear until she leaves, or asks her friends to leave. That is an easy way to know whether you pass or fail. Either way you get laid or you get starcraft playing time.
Sick words of wisdom from mani.
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wake up today to find her in the room, again.
how did she get in the room without your permission or keys?
Next thing I know there are three more korean girls in my room
So what happened when those 3 other girls came into your room?
Maybe you mistakenly percieved it as flirting when in fact, it was just her being the cheery playful girl that is her personality and not a subtle message of getting 'deeper'.
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On November 12 2011 19:47 DNB wrote:Show nested quote +On November 12 2011 19:44 Piste wrote:
what?? koreans seems to take it slow. i wonder how often koreans gets sex then.. Koreans don't have sex — They are actually descendants of mega fighter crabs, thus they lay eggs instead. Any resemblance to the human race is purely coincidental.
This is racist and so wrong... Just because they are descendants of mega fighter crabs and lay eggs doesn't mean they don't have sex for the fertilization, do your research.
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1. Kissing her was not the wrong move.
2. Your reaction to her reaction to the kiss was the wrong move and the wrong reaction.
3. Perhaps she holds a view that foreigners kiss -> sex every time. This could be what made her nervous, considering your roommate was still there.
4. Always try to make sure you're alone for your first kiss. That way if shit hits the fan, you can at least handle it without anyone around.
5. She still likes you. Move past your mistake and start a few steps back from where you think you are.
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Sounds like your roommate being there was the most important reason for such reaction. Seek complete privacy next time. Him being asleep or not, she would see this situation as public, not private.
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On November 12 2011 18:12 night terrors wrote:
The last few weeks I've been talking with a Korean girl. We're both students, although in different classes, and she comes almost daily to my room, where she hangs out with her girlfriend and my roomate; I strongly suspect this is, at least in part, because she is somewhat interested in me. Anyhow, we kinda hit it off and we've flirted a lot. You know, yeah, the usual, I'm pretty sure im not reading this the wrong way. I've hanged out with her and her friends and they also seemed to think that we've got something going on.
Last night she came, with my room mate and the other girl I mentioned, at two A.M. after going clubbing for a bit, and asked me to go to another room with them for some drinking rounds. Long story short we found ourselves at 5 A.M. in my room, her friends left (after a lot of Korean gossiping that I think had to do with some 'tension' between her and me), and my roomate is cruising in deep sleep now. Knowing that she had chosen to stay, and that she came at 2 A.M. to drag me elsewhere, and that we had been flirtatious for two weeks, and that she repeatedly told me that she liked me on QQ, I decided to pull her close and kiss her.
Wrong move. I was met with a pair of cold lips and a complete desire to ignore that this had just happened. I mean, she acted like it really hadn't happened, all the while acting flirtatious and what not. So I'm getting mind fucked at that point, completely at a loss at what is going on, and I ask her what is up. She tells me, in no particular order that: My roomate is there, that in Korea you "can't do that", that it was too sudden, that she isn't sure. I, being a bit drunk, and actually a bit pissed off that this is happening start telling her that I don't think its fair to act in such an unambigous manner and then bail out and that well, it is my problem, but that I'd like to know where she stands on this whole thing; I finish with a literal "this is bullshit", which is OK since her english is poor (we talk in chinese). Please understand that for me its natural to assume that a girl is intersted when she spends so much time around, flirting, and comes to my room at late hours to drag me for some drinks.
So I just say "fuck this" and ask her to leave the room, thinking that well, this is it. Well, wrong again. I wake up today to find her in the room, again. Now my mind is really breaking into little pieces, and to add insult to injury I'm hungover and really god damn tired. I was pissed off and just ignored her, told her I was sorry for being a bit of a dick (although I think being upset was justified). Next thing I know there are three more korean girls in my room and I think that the issue has been raised between them. I just wouldnt show up at some one's room after the very akward moment of "making the move" and getting rejected. On either side, really. If she wasn't into me I really don't get why she'd come, and I certainly wouldnt seek her out. Now I think she's confused (and upset) as to why I'm pissed off, which is even more confusing. It's like the ball is back in my court, when I was pretty convinced that wasn't the case anymore.
The trouble is, and this is the real trouble, that I actually like this girl. I mean, I like her because she is kind, funny, cute, if a bit naive, and because im intrigued by her.
Really, what is going on?
The behavior the Korean girl exhibited is common for girls. Just continue, don't make any stupid staff and you will reap the results (profit).
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Yep. I did apologize twice. I wasn't proud of taking it the way I did. Even if she was flirting and what not she was in all her right to change her mind, and my reaction was pretty dickish. The reason I was/am confused is that she showed up again this morning... Otherwise I would have thought it to be the end of it.. I certainly didn't want to pursue anything else, for I thought she probably felt creeped out as it was.
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On November 12 2011 21:21 King.Crimson wrote:
Well you're definitely right about one thing OP, you don't get it. So many things gone wrong there i don't even know where to begin. I suggest you start reading up on Pick Up material. Real Social Dynamics is a solid place to start. Invest a couple of years into this and that convo u just had will be a cakewalk to plow through.
OP is already way better off than you are because he doesn't need the pickup material to get close to a woman without her calling cops. Imo hes fine but you better keep reading because you definitely need help bro.
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And OP, you dont need to be manly and cocky in this story to sound cool and carefree. We know you care so just use 'utterly confused' and 'smitten emotionally on the verge of breaking down' rather than 'told bitch to gtfo' and 'unforgivable'.
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I know your in college and everything, but a good tip is also to kiss a girl you really like not for the first time at 5AM drunk with a passed out friend nearby. If it is just some random girl you wanna have sex with its fine.
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Koreans girls are a strange sub-species of an alien life form called 'women'. Wiki says their behavior is eratic, cock-tease worthy and also that they want relationships to move slow to 10000000000mph in the space of 3 months.
Do what will make you happy...you wanna be with her do it....she'll drive you fucking nuts but guess they're worth it....
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On November 12 2011 22:40 night terrors wrote:
Yep. I did apologize twice. I wasn't proud of taking it the way I did. Even if she was flirting and what not she was in all her right to change her mind, and my reaction was pretty dickish. The reason I was/am confused is that she showed up again this morning... Otherwise I would have thought it to be the end of it.. I certainly didn't want to pursue anything else, for I thought she probably felt creeped out as it was.
Your handling it fine then : )
You don't need TL to give you love advice, just try and be reasonable (yes thats meant to sound easier than it really is).
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Dude, I think she likes your roommate.
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On November 12 2011 22:49 discodancer wrote:Show nested quote +On November 12 2011 21:21 King.Crimson wrote:
Well you're definitely right about one thing OP, you don't get it. So many things gone wrong there i don't even know where to begin. I suggest you start reading up on Pick Up material. Real Social Dynamics is a solid place to start. Invest a couple of years into this and that convo u just had will be a cakewalk to plow through. OP is already way better off than you are because he doesn't need the pickup material to get close to a woman without her calling cops. Imo hes fine but you better keep reading because you definitely need help bro.
What's with the hostile attitude broski? I gave him a harsh criticism because he clearly appears to be a newbie in this and then gave him a genuine source of knowledge on how to improve himself in this aspect.
You act based on your skewed opinion that one must not learn how to attract and deal with women on a superior level, that you should just use what feels natural. This is fine. 90% of the mediocres in this world think like this. I merely gave him a pathway to another alternative.
And you're right about one thing. A lot of the shit i've done with and to some girls, if u would have done the same thing to them, they would have called the cops on you :-) if you frame it right though, they will love you for it.
Cheers
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United States22883 Posts
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man.
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GL in your endeavor getting the korean girl ^_^
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you really fucked up big time. you'll never get a date or a girl ever again and you'll turn old and scaly and into a bug just like franz kafka
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Korean girls are a lot friendlier than most girls when they perceive you as a friend... Not unusual for them to randomly cook you dinner, spend a lot of time together etc smile laugh while still being friends. I think you're just horrible at reading girls and situations and have no idea what you're talking about
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On November 12 2011 19:47 DNB wrote:Show nested quote +On November 12 2011 19:44 Piste wrote:
what?? koreans seems to take it slow. i wonder how often koreans gets sex then.. Koreans don't have sex — They are actually descendants of mega fighter crabs, thus they lay eggs instead. Any resemblance to the human race is purely coincidental.
Dear sir, you shed the truth on this topic!
On a more relevant note, OP, you seem to handle the situation quite well. I'd advise to keep seeing her if you're still interested. Perhaps she wants to take it real slow.
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She likes you.
She wasn't completely comfortable to go to the next level in that particular setting.
You reacted harshly.
imo She STILL likes you, and probably realizes how her actions from the previous night provoked you to react the way you did, that's why she came back.
No other reason to come back: your intentions are surely clear, and she obviously wants to play her part in the story, but she's unsure of what exactly is the right way. I'm guessing she's a bit shy and/or inexperienced and that you'll need to take the foot off the gas a little and be patient with her.
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I don't think you misread the signals, you just didn't analyze the situation. It was late, you were drunk, and you kissed her, what does she expect that the situations means -> dude is looking to score tonight. This was the first move you made on her, so she just expects that you want to git-n-go. Your action was poorly timed given that you had a sleeping roommate in the room, she could read that as kind of trashy. She said no, and you went batshit.
You manned up and apologized, and now you just have to learn from your mistake. Or you could just roll with it and pull Mani's underwear idea, I don't see a negative outcome coming from it.
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Zzz please stop thinking of this as random caucasian girl showing "signs" of interest. Korean girls generally in 99% of cases just treat everything as innocently as possible. It's the culture to be very friendly, and it's easy to misread or misunderstand intentions but most likely she only thinks of you as a friend. Also kissing her definitely wasn't a good first step. When dealing with people from another country/culture setting, think of their culture and their environments.
More stupid advice and suggestions are probably going to follow from people who have no idea, just gonna ignore blog
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On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man.
Holy shit, the billards of cross-blog commenting!
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On November 12 2011 18:29 Rekrul wrote:
this has nothing to do with her being korean or not
you were tested, and you failed the test
not all hope is lost though, and next time this happens just roll over and go to sleep instead of getting mad
This, girls will always test you..and yeah you fucked up
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On November 12 2011 23:52 Stijx wrote:
Dude, I think she likes your roommate.
Best comment in the whole thread imo.
Whether your anger was justified or not (which I don't think it was), never lash out like that. The situation's probably still salvageable, but you really got to consider a lot of things when you make your next move, because she's clearly not one of those slutty college girls that just wants to be banged. Even if things don't work out it's not a big deal; that's college for you.
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So you like this girl and kiss her at 5a.m. when your both drunk (which believe it or not implies sexy time) which if fine. However, she says shes not ready and your roommate is there so it couldn't be right, so instead of dropping the matter you get pissed and kick her out? I think you in the wrong this time. If you really do like her, then go win her back!
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If you actually like her and weren't looking for a one-off hook-up, why would you get drunk and kiss her at 5AM in the morning? That's the wrong way to go about it if you're actually looking for a relationship.
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Think twice before buying her that plane ticket.
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Osaka27149 Posts
On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man.
lololol, new girl blog meme forever.
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I read this one time that girls really want you to take them, but they have to keep "pretending" they don't wanna, but dun give into that shit, just take her. (Pretend she's the gold, can't just land your CC on her, need to grind down the rocks first).
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You should be focusing on what's important instead of a girl. Brood war.
STUDY STUDY STUDY STUDY STUDY!
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Dude you got off easy. You could be missing a headset.
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This exact thing happened to me last month... guess what happened
+ Show Spoiler +
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Wow, I just now got that joke.
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Wait wait, you guys are in Costa Rica and you and a Korean girl are communicating in Chinese? o.O
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On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. lololol, new girl blog meme forever.
Oh god ahahaha
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Just rolling with it will get you laid easier, but for a relationship it will mean you have to deal with and accept weird shit cropping up on a daily basis. Your call.
(What you see as "mixed signals" I'd personally mark up as "cultural differences". For some people that's a plus and others it's unacceptable. As I said, your call.)
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You need to get out of Plat to get with a Korean chick bro.
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Jesus christ, you're not very good at this are you.
Listen to Rek. That is all.
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1) it shouldnt matter what stupid shit SHE does if you are always cool either which-way :/ these are what ppl refer to as "tests" and passing them/being cool about it gets you points
2) if shes acting confused its probably because she is, she doesnt share the same head/mind as you
3) you said there was some heated gossip, it may have been you about you or another guy or anything really, either way then it may have left her feeling messed up and you didnt notice or werent able to notice. this happened to me - she was arguing with a guy and i didnt notice, then i later tried to be flirty with her (so to speak) and she took it all out on me -___-
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Just tell her you like her and want more than friendship.
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On November 13 2011 09:54 Toadily wrote:
Wait wait, you guys are in Costa Rica and you and a Korean girl are communicating in Chinese? o.O
Yeah this part didn't make sense to me as well.
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We're both studying abroad in Hunan, China. After I apologized she told me that she liked me, but that the whole thing was confusing. Im just stepping back now, the last thing I want to do now is to be pushy. I'll try and let her show me at what pace she'd like to move, if at any pace at all.
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On November 14 2011 08:35 Kabocha wrote:
pics or it didn't happen
I dont think the OP is trying to claim it did happen
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This was fail lawl.
Gotta test the waters before you get stranded out in sea.
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Estonia4644 Posts
underpants
always relevant
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On November 12 2011 18:41 night terrors wrote:
Does everyone think that a kiss means "I want to sleep with you now?"
ETA: Although, on second thought, if that is what she thought I wanted.. well.. I can see why she'd be confused. The leap from kiss to sleep, though, seems rather clear cut for me.
One thing I learned about Asian girls in general in the three months that I am here in China, is that they are very flirty but do not commit easily. For example, in China a kiss is extremely intimate and only done when both have a confirmed relationships. Hell, even holding hands is already a very close sign, that friends don't get to do due to the nature and culture of the people here. One gal is nuts about me, but unless I totally commit myself 100% to her (which I can't due to my feelings not being that strong thus not really able to form a solid relationship), she will not do anything.
Keep that in mind when you deal with women in Asia, their mindset is more traditional and reserved than outside.
Edit and offtopic : Hello to you from Xiamen. If you happen to be around Fujian before 1 february, hit me up on PM and we could hang out.
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Dude, her friends told her not to do anything to you by herself. Her mates just left to go and get some sex toys.
There is only only one reason 3 Korean girls would enter your room...... ORGY!!!!! THREESOME!!!
You are one lucky man, I'm so jealous.
EDIT: Hang on, if it's three girls including you.... that would be a foursome. Even more jealous!
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On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man.
looooooooool!!! My head almost exploded when I read this.
On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. lololol, new girl blog meme forever.
Oh please be....
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On November 14 2011 11:56 TheToast wrote:Show nested quote +On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. looooooooool!!! My head almost exploded when I read this. Show nested quote +On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. lololol, new girl blog meme forever. Oh please be....
Can someone explain the joke please? lol I totally don't get it...
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On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man.
Girl blogs never disappoint
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You guys are completely lost, fuck dont you know anything about koreans?
She forgot about her immense bush.
She went to shave it, then to return for sex...fuck this is supposed to be a korean-worshipping forum and you dont know this?
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Dude asian girls don't 'enjoy' it like white girls, get used to it.
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On November 14 2011 17:32 Die4Ever wrote:Show nested quote +On November 14 2011 11:56 TheToast wrote:On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. looooooooool!!! My head almost exploded when I read this. On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. lololol, new girl blog meme forever. Oh please be.... Can someone explain the joke please? lol I totally don't get it...
Don't know if the chatlog was taken down but
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=284741
You're welcome.
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On November 15 2011 00:11 JieXian wrote:Show nested quote +On November 14 2011 17:32 Die4Ever wrote:On November 14 2011 11:56 TheToast wrote:On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. looooooooool!!! My head almost exploded when I read this. On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?
Check your headset, man. lololol, new girl blog meme forever. Oh please be.... Can someone explain the joke please? lol I totally don't get it... Don't know if the chatlog was taken down but http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=284741You're welcome.
thread reminds me of my boy kyle in vegas, prostitute that ripped him off that he didn't know was a prostitute (drunk passed out and got robbed blind).
As for this thread...
you need to up the ante. You don't need to be pushy but you need to apply pressure to her. Find another girl to go out on a date with ???
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It's usually not a good idea to kiss a girl unless you now that she wants you to. There are a few ways you can figure out if she wants you to or not.
One good way is to touch her in a non-sexual way, like gently putting your hand on top of hers, or beside hers so it's just barely touching. If she pulls away it means she doesn't want to be kissed. If she just lets your hand sit there and doesn't move it away then she's probably okay with a kiss. Generally speaking if you like a girl you should try touching her in friendly ways, like putting your hand on her back when she walks through a door etc. See how she responds. If she seems to be comfortable with you touching her, then you can gradually work your way up to a kiss.
Another way is to lean up close to her, so you make her think that you might be about to kiss her. Then just stay there. If she moves away it pretty much means she doesn't want to be kissed. If she just sits there, awkwardly close, not moving, then she's probably good to go. If a girl actually wants you to kiss her then this kind of thing can be really funny because she has no idea if you're about to do it or not.
The advantage of these strategies is that you don't get into an embarrassing situation where you just kissed someone who didn't want you to. If you don't know how a girl responds to your touch or to physical closeness then you have no business trying to kiss her. If you do this kind of stuff a bit you can know 100% that a girl wants to be kissed before you actually do it. This makes going for the first kiss a lot easier!
I believe that this advice is applicable to all girls, not just Korean ones.
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