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On June 30 2011 15:08 pandaBee wrote:
i guess chinese girls just aren't enough for you are they Mr. Itachi?
i mean really evaluating korean culture as being equivalent to kpop.... there's really a problem with your sense of interpretation. there's just a lot more to it. and besides if kpop-esqueness is the only thing attracting you to these girls you just see them as bags of skin and meat. if you are serious about dating korean women start by studying our customs and traditions and working on yourself a bit more before you plunge in. because it is "interracial" in the first place it is going to be harder for you but it shouldn't be so bad since u do not live in korea itself
What are you talking about? That's total bs. Look at American girls. How are they not like Lady Gaga, Rihanna, and Taylor Swift? To suggest kpop, the cultural product of Koreans, is not representative of actual Koreans is just insanity.
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I know it has been said again and again, but seriously ILOVEKITTENS your post is just too god damn awesome.. open a blog of life coaching or something because I really want moaaaaar
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I don't need a girlfriend, i have my computer and the internet, everything is fine this way.
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On July 01 2011 10:00 mbr2321 wrote:
Is it just me, or did anyone else think of "black/white" when they saw "inter-racial"?
As someone in a "black/white" interracial relationship and the product of a "black/hispanic" interracial marriage, I thought the same thing.
And props to the author of the "How to get the Korean Girls" guide. Pure genius.
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ILOVEKITTENS is awesome. =D
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Not to derail the conversation or anything.
But as for the discussion on racism and inter-Asian dating. Looking at it from a cultural perspective, there's significant differences between people of different ethnicities.
To bunch up all Asians in one category is essentially putting all racial cultures into a few separate groups. It's like saying Germans, Americans, Canadians, British have the same culture and are essentially the same people. These countries I mentioned all have related histories but their own specific cultures have developed differently.
Not to mention technically South-East Asians, Russians as mentioned by another poster should be categorized with Asians too depending on how you look at it. And looking at the thread and the way most posters are talking about it, when they discuss Asian they mean Far East Asians. E.G - Chinese/Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese, etc.
None of these countries even speak the same language. Though most of Taiwan speaks Mandarin, they also have their own language - Taiwanese Hokkien. The food, cultural beliefs, values and religious beliefs all differ within these countries.
They all have varying views on each Nation and it's people, and they would see themselves as different as night/day.
I'm baffled as to how people would categorize all Asians in the same group and not be able to see the cultural variations and differences between the groups.
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On July 02 2011 03:54 Eps wrote:
Not to derail the conversation or anything.
But as for the discussion on racism and inter-Asian dating. Looking at it from a cultural perspective, there's significant differences between people of different ethnicities.
To bunch up all Asians in one category is essentially putting all racial cultures into a few separate groups. It's like saying Germans, Americans, Canadians, British have the same culture and are essentially the same people. These countries I mentioned all have related histories but their own specific cultures have developed differently.
Not to mention technically South-East Asians, Russians as mentioned by another poster should be categorized with Asians too depending on how you look at it. And looking at the thread and the way most posters are talking about it, when they discuss Asian they mean Far East Asians. E.G - Chinese/Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese, etc.
None of these countries even speak the same language. Though most of Taiwan speaks Mandarin, they also have their own language - Taiwanese Hokkien. The food, cultural beliefs, values and religious beliefs all differ within these countries.
They all have varying views on each Nation and it's people, and they would see themselves as different as night/day.
I'm baffled as to how people would categorize all Asians in the same group and not be able to see the cultural variations and differences between the groups.
Right, but the word people were actually contradicting was "interracial"
Just take England and France. They're next to eachother, but does not share the same food, music, culture, language or general opinion on pretty much anything. Yet I wouldn't say a Frenchman marrying an English girl an interracial marriage.
Race = skin colour.
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On June 27 2011 19:48 ProbeYourSCV wrote:
It might be just me but...can you really tell the difference between korean & chinese girls?
It's not always clear, like some Chinese girls will look Korean or some Chinese girls will look Vietnamese. China is huge, after all. You can differentiate in these cases by fashion, but if you still get it wrong you will have to resort to recognizing what language she's speaking). Mostly it's not difficult, though.
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rule 1 in getting a korean gf: get the hair all koreans have right now, its not hard to know what I'm talking about^^ 2: girls are really picky and hard to talk to, its just a fact, no matter what race...
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Dear OP, I'd like a progress report!
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On July 03 2011 09:35 Euronyme wrote:Show nested quote +On July 02 2011 03:54 Eps wrote:
Not to derail the conversation or anything.
But as for the discussion on racism and inter-Asian dating. Looking at it from a cultural perspective, there's significant differences between people of different ethnicities.
To bunch up all Asians in one category is essentially putting all racial cultures into a few separate groups. It's like saying Germans, Americans, Canadians, British have the same culture and are essentially the same people. These countries I mentioned all have related histories but their own specific cultures have developed differently.
Not to mention technically South-East Asians, Russians as mentioned by another poster should be categorized with Asians too depending on how you look at it. And looking at the thread and the way most posters are talking about it, when they discuss Asian they mean Far East Asians. E.G - Chinese/Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese, etc.
None of these countries even speak the same language. Though most of Taiwan speaks Mandarin, they also have their own language - Taiwanese Hokkien. The food, cultural beliefs, values and religious beliefs all differ within these countries.
They all have varying views on each Nation and it's people, and they would see themselves as different as night/day.
I'm baffled as to how people would categorize all Asians in the same group and not be able to see the cultural variations and differences between the groups. Right, but the word people were actually contradicting was "interracial" Just take England and France. They're next to eachother, but does not share the same food, music, culture, language or general opinion on pretty much anything. Yet I wouldn't say a Frenchman marrying an English girl an interracial marriage. Race = skin colour. Western countries all have damn similar cultures, if you compare them to any 3rdworldian country. Asians too have alot in common with each other when you don't specifically focus on the differences which obviously exist too.
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First how great your personality is ain't up to you to decide and you sound pretty egotistical. Second google interracial I doubt asian on asian will even make page 1000. Thirdly if you only care about looks google prostitution.
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On July 03 2011 09:35 Euronyme wrote:Show nested quote +On July 02 2011 03:54 Eps wrote:
Not to derail the conversation or anything.
But as for the discussion on racism and inter-Asian dating. Looking at it from a cultural perspective, there's significant differences between people of different ethnicities.
To bunch up all Asians in one category is essentially putting all racial cultures into a few separate groups. It's like saying Germans, Americans, Canadians, British have the same culture and are essentially the same people. These countries I mentioned all have related histories but their own specific cultures have developed differently.
Not to mention technically South-East Asians, Russians as mentioned by another poster should be categorized with Asians too depending on how you look at it. And looking at the thread and the way most posters are talking about it, when they discuss Asian they mean Far East Asians. E.G - Chinese/Korean/Japanese/Taiwanese, etc.
None of these countries even speak the same language. Though most of Taiwan speaks Mandarin, they also have their own language - Taiwanese Hokkien. The food, cultural beliefs, values and religious beliefs all differ within these countries.
They all have varying views on each Nation and it's people, and they would see themselves as different as night/day.
I'm baffled as to how people would categorize all Asians in the same group and not be able to see the cultural variations and differences between the groups. Right, but the word people were actually contradicting was "interracial" Just take England and France. They're next to eachother, but does not share the same food, music, culture, language or general opinion on pretty much anything. Yet I wouldn't say a Frenchman marrying an English girl an interracial marriage. Race = skin colour.
Your definition of race is very generalized. Basing on color is flawed at best.
Race = Genetics.
It would be a misconception to base it on skin color. Many Turkish people have tanned skin. Would you call them Asian? People from the province of Xingjiang in China have Slavic looks and slightly whiter skin. Would you call them European? No you wouldn't. Race is based on your genetic roots and how far you've moved from them. Koreans are not Chinese by genetic roots. Japanese are not Chinese by genetic roots. Singaporeans and Malaysians are supposedly Chinese. They may have similar skin colors but they are not the same race.
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You can make your own Kpop girl... all you need to do is go to a plastic surgeon and *POW* K-pop.
Myth - Korean girls all cook and clean... if you are in America then good luck with that.
spoiler: A majority of Koreans do not look a thing like the Koreans in entertainment. Unless they spend their own money instead of their managers dropping dime to get all sorts of plastic surgery done. If you think any woman that does all that will cook and clean for you, you are sadly mistaken.
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Im one of the more militant Asian-American guys I know and I will be the first guy to tell some guy to stfu if he thinks all Asians are the same, but I dont consider Korean-Chinese interracial. That would technically be "inter-ethnicity" rather than "interracial" (ethnicities being Chinese, French, German, Argentinian, Spanish, etc., and races being Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic, etc.). I know all the Asians in this thread are flexing their Asian Pride muscles ready to go after people saying it isnt interracial, but the fact is Korean-Chinese actually isnt interracial
Anyway itachisan, it just sounds like you need to be more assertive. If youre letting your parents get you down when you dont live with them at the moment, thats a problem. If youre letting your friends get the girls you want and rationalizing "bros before hoes" (when they sure as hell arent thinking that), thats a problem.
Oh and epic post by ILOVEKITTENS. That should be saved in the archives as a future reference
Edit: also why you only chasin fob girls lol?
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On June 20 2011 19:42 Gamegene wrote:
It's Korean tradition to hate on as many different levels as possible. According to a lot of Korean friends I know every non-Korean is whitetrash/thieves/losers/disgusting/dirty. They'll gossip and talk behind everyone's back and attack any vulnerability they can find. A lot of our humor is teasing/taunting people. We are the most stubborn, emotional, and proud people on the face of the planet. My parents have constantly told me that I am the product of nearly 800 years of proud Korean heritage, and that I have to continue a strong Korean bloodline. That I have to find a girl who can raise a household and bear children and all that crap (it gets 5000x worse for the girls).
They kicked me out of the house when I dated my white friend.
Do you really want to get into that kind of shit because of KPOP?
Just date whoever you want; whether she be White Black Middle-Eastern Mongolian Korean Polish whatever don't worry about stuff like that.
^^ Like a boss.
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