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itachisan
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
Canada109 Posts
June 20 2011 05:30 GMT
#1
I always see inter-racial relationships all around, quite noticeably in my social circle as well. I mean, I don't have anything against it really, but rather I don't mind as long as the two likes each other. But traditionally I guess my parents are somewhat against it. I came from a strict Chinese household, so when it came to the whole issue of finding a girlfriend my parents were very strict and controlling when I was still in high school (pretty understandable but I still had a few ladies here and there ). Now that I'm in university they have been much more lenient.

So I'm a major kpop freak and I went to a high school where there were a lot of Koreans around. I must say it would be damn fine and a beautiful life if I can get a Korean girl whose within the K-pop celeb standards.I've seen some REALLY pretty Korean girls in my life, and I don't know what most of you guys think, but here is what I have observed.

All in all, what I would call "fob" koreans; these korean girls are only interested in their own kind, as in korean guys. But for the whitewashed ones, it doesn't really matter. I don't know the reasoning behind it, and not to brag or anything, but in my personal opinion I'm a great looking guy with a nice personality, however when I try to strike a conversation with one of these "fob korean girls", they display NO INTEREST whatsoever; it's as if they are not even remotely attracted to any non-korean guys no matter how good they look :/

Anyways, my mom and dad currently have this stereotype that I should find a korean girlfriend, because apparently korean girls are very tidy and love to clean the house and make good kimchi. As I finished my second year at university, this being-single situation has had its problems. Sure I may have more cash to spend on myself and more gaming time, this consistent lecture from my parents and my family friends on how I should IMMEDIATELY get a girlfriend is extremely annoying.

I find that under most circumstances, the girls who are interested in me, I am not remotely into them whatsoever (hence, consequently and inevitably I treat them rather cold and they just quit), or the fact is that I become fond of a girl, but she is not interested (OR one of my friends becomes interested in her as well out of the blue and being the "Bros before Hoes" guy that I am, I just let it go).

/endrant
I was just wondering if you guys want to share similar experiences or insightful ideas into this.
:/




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Probulous
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Australia3894 Posts
June 20 2011 05:33 GMT
#2
Girls you say?

As some sort of friend?

So, the prophecy was true...

They do exist. Mmmm I'm going to have consult the oracle on this one.
"Dude has some really interesting midgame switches that I wouldn't have expected. "I violated your house" into "HIHO THE DAIRY OH!" really threw me. You don't usually expect children's poetry harass as a follow up " - AmericanUmlaut
itachisan
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
Canada109 Posts
June 20 2011 05:35 GMT
#3
On June 20 2011 14:33 Probulous wrote:
Girls you say?

As some sort of friend?

So, the prophecy was true...

They do exist. Mmmm I'm going to have consult the oracle on this one.



Lol what? You lost me completely.
Lemonwalrus
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States5465 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-20 05:38:19
June 20 2011 05:37 GMT
#4
Since when is Chinese-Korean interracial?

Edit: And please don't read racism/hatfulness into my question, that isn't how I mean it to be taken.
n.DieJokes
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States3443 Posts
June 20 2011 05:39 GMT
#5
You are a very deep man, good luck in your endeavours
MyLove + Your Love= Supa Love
Manifesto7
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Osaka27146 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-20 05:40:16
June 20 2011 05:39 GMT
#6
- You want to get a Korean girl who looks like a pop star because you like kpop.
- Those girls look right through you despite how awesome you think you are.
- Your parents want you to marry a maid.
- You friends cut in on girls you like, but bros before hoes amirite.

I think you may need to reevaluate how you approach the opposite sex.
ModeratorGodfather
itachisan
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
Canada109 Posts
June 20 2011 05:42 GMT
#7
On June 20 2011 14:39 Manifesto7 wrote:
- You want to get a Korean girl who looks like a pop star because you like kpop.
- Those girls look right through you despite how awesome you think you are.
- Your parents want you to marry a maid.
- You friends cut in on girls you like, but bros before hoes amirite.

I think you may need to reevaluate how you approach the opposite sex.


Well who doesn't want a kpop star standard gf?
And yeah that's whats happening, but it doesnt matter to me much though. If i see a girl that i like, i'll pursue.
Terrakin
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States1440 Posts
June 20 2011 05:42 GMT
#8
this is quite possibly the worst girl blog I have ever read.... so far
Fame was like a drug. But what was even more like a drug were the drugs.
Turbovolver
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia2393 Posts
June 20 2011 05:42 GMT
#9
On June 20 2011 14:37 Lemonwalrus wrote:
Since when is Chinese-Korean interracial?

Edit: And please don't read racism/hatfulness into my question, that isn't how I mean it to be taken.

You do realise all the different breeds of Asian also have lots of varying opinions about each other, right?


And OP, if you want to get the "fob" girls, you have to either yeah, be their race or a very good approximation of it... or just be stupidly boneheadedly aggressive and persistent. Seems to work for lots of outmatched white guys, anyway, and I don't think that's really down to skin colour.

Though "fob" is a stupid word anyway. I do know what you're communicating though.
The original Bogus fan.
ESPRITsc
Profile Joined April 2011
200 Posts
June 20 2011 05:43 GMT
#10
On June 20 2011 14:39 Manifesto7 wrote:
- You want to get a Korean girl who looks like a pop star because you like kpop.
- Those girls look right through you despite how awesome you think you are.
- Your parents want you to marry a maid.
- You friends cut in on girls you like, but bros before hoes amirite.

I think you may need to reevaluate how you approach the opposite sex.

Exactly what I was thinking.
Lemonwalrus
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States5465 Posts
June 20 2011 05:46 GMT
#11
On June 20 2011 14:42 Turbovolver wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 20 2011 14:37 Lemonwalrus wrote:
Since when is Chinese-Korean interracial?

Edit: And please don't read racism/hatfulness into my question, that isn't how I mean it to be taken.

You do realise all the different breeds of Asian also have lots of varying opinions about each other, right?


I have varying opinions on people from wisconsin and indiana, but if I dated them it wouldn't be interracial.
jlim
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Spain943 Posts
June 20 2011 05:51 GMT
#12
On June 20 2011 14:30 itachisan wrote:
Anyways, my mom and dad currently have this stereotype that I should find a korean girlfriend, because apparently korean girls are very tidy and love to clean the house and make good kimchi.


making kimchi

bitches love making kimchi
MangoTango
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
United States3670 Posts
June 20 2011 05:51 GMT
#13
On June 20 2011 14:39 Manifesto7 wrote:
- You want to get a Korean girl who looks like a pop star because you like kpop.
- Those girls look right through you despite how awesome you think you are.
- Your parents want you to marry a maid.
- You friends cut in on girls you like, but bros before hoes amirite.

I think you may need to reevaluate how you approach the opposite sex.


lol, this. you've got your priorities all mixed up.
"One fish, two fish, red fish, BLUE TANK!" - Artosis
Darclite
Profile Joined January 2011
United States1021 Posts
June 20 2011 05:51 GMT
#14
On June 20 2011 14:33 Probulous wrote:
Girls you say?

As some sort of friend?

So, the prophecy was true...

They do exist. Mmmm I'm going to have consult the oracle on this one.


Yeah, they're like those things in banshees and medivacs except underpowered. My friend Lowkontrast told me that you open with chocolate and get flowers in the midgame. If it gets to late game, you research extended thermal lance and target her production facilities.

Regarding the OP, yeah that was pretty much the worst girl blog ever. "I'm hot and a great guy all around, but girls don't think so"

Like Manifesto said, reevaluate.
They're fools. You should eat them.
Turbovolver
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia2393 Posts
June 20 2011 05:55 GMT
#15
Definitely re-evaluate. If you think about girls as human beings, it unlocks a lot of these supposed "mysteries". What, the girls who don't really speak my language don't particularly want to be with me?

The guy has discovered that the non-"whitewashed" (as he puts it) girls are hotter to him. I probably agree with that. But the thing is, the non-"whitewashed" guys are cooler and hotter too, and this guy sounds pretty whitewashed.

Are you as hot as a K-pop star, OP? You say you are attractive, but maybe these K-pop star girls want K-pop star guys? Post a picture :3
The original Bogus fan.
Darkren
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
Canada1841 Posts
June 20 2011 06:00 GMT
#16
On June 20 2011 14:30 itachisan wrote:

Anyways, my mom and dad currently have this stereotype that I should find a korean girlfriend, because apparently korean girls are very tidy and love to clean the house and make good kimchi.



They dont want u to get a korean girlfriend, they want u to make a lot of money and get a korean girl house cleaner
"Yeah, I send (hopefully) helpful PM's quite frequently. You don't have to warn/ban everything" - KadaverBB
Turbovolver
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia2393 Posts
June 20 2011 06:03 GMT
#17
On June 20 2011 15:00 Darkren wrote:
They dont want u to get a korean girlfriend, they want u to make a lot of money and get a korean girl house cleaner

Yeah, so they are stereotypical Asian parents, I don't know why everyone is making such a big deal of this part.

Really the message is "don't just blindly listen to your parents", but the most makes it clear he already isn't doing that.
The original Bogus fan.
PaPoolee
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United Arab Emirates660 Posts
June 20 2011 07:01 GMT
#18
I agree with Manifesto dude, don't listen to your parents! they don't want you to get a girlfriend, they want you to get a maid! you'll find someone who is right for you, you don't need to have a Korean girlfriend who cleans the house and makes good Kimchi >.< besides, her APM would be too high you wouldn't be able to keep up !
Omigawa
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States1556 Posts
June 20 2011 07:25 GMT
#19
The first place you went wrong is asking TL for girl advice.

Also:
On June 20 2011 14:39 Manifesto7 wrote:
- You want to get a Korean girl who looks like a pop star because you like kpop.
- Those girls look right through you despite how awesome you think you are.
- Your parents want you to marry a maid.
- You friends cut in on girls you like, but bros before hoes amirite.

I think you may need to reevaluate how you approach the opposite sex.


You're in college. Don't listen to your parents, that's what college is about. If you meet a girl you like, and it's mutual, then date her. Simple as that. You don't go around telling yourself "I need to find a girlfriend" and then instantly get a girlfriend you're crazy into. That's not how life works. Let it happen organically.
Plexa
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
Aotearoa39261 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-20 07:27:26
June 20 2011 07:27 GMT
#20
On June 20 2011 16:25 Omigawa wrote:
The first place you went wrong is asking TL for girl advice.
TL gives excellent advice 99% of the time. The problem is no one listens to it.
Administrator~ Spirit will set you free ~
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