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O.O
care to tell us what happened between them, or is it too personal?
seriously, good luck with that, i do not envy you. i really hope you get out of that trailer, and that nobody gets really hurt...
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Damn... That's got to suck. Hope your 13 yo brother didn't get seriously hurt or anything.
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man that sucks hardcore dude, I had no idea.
try not to stress it too hard or you'll overflow, just chillax and read some xkcd. whatever gets your chakra going.
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On April 20 2010 13:58 mOnion wrote:
man that sucks hardcore dude, I had no idea.
try not to stress it too hard or you'll overflow, just chillax and read some xkcd. whatever gets your chakra going.
And listen to Nujabes, he calms the soul.
I fight with my brother but not as extreme as that.
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Canada18410 Posts
Thing is I don't even know what happened. I think it's related to the laptop they got last week. Last week my youngest two brothers put their money together(we're all pretty damn poor here) to buy a laptop to share, but they're constantly fighting over it and I know it because I can hear it the bitching and whining through the walls about "mommy!!!!! it's my turn on the laptop! tell _____ to get off!" "no it's not, he's lying!", etc. Sooner or later one is crying and I think the 16 yo got too pissed off and started attacking the 13yo for it.
Can't wait for the day I'm able to move out. Also, pleasantly surprised at the 5/5ing for a rant blog haha, thanks :3
going to play some emulated FFIX in the meantime
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If I had a house and was in Canada I would totally let you move in.
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On April 20 2010 14:03 Grobyc wrote:
Thing is I don't even know what happened. I think it's related to the laptop they got last week. Last week my youngest two brothers put their money together(we're all pretty damn poor here) to buy a laptop to share, but they're constantly fighting over it and I know it because I can hear it the bitching and whining through the walls about "mommy!!!!! it's my turn on the laptop! tell _____ to get off!" "no it's not, he's lying!", etc. Sooner or later one is crying and I think the 16 yo got too pissed off and started attacking the 13yo for it.
Can't wait for the day I'm able to move out. Also, pleasantly surprised at the 5/5ing for a rant blog haha, thanks :3
going to play some emulated FFIX in the meantime
just picture Freya tonguing Garnet. all will be healed.
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Well, what can I say, doesn't seem the least pleasant.
Best of luck to you and your family~
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Honestly, living in such a tight area will do that to people. Everyone needs space and a private area they can relax in.
As for the laptop solution. They should switch off every day. Person 1 gets it for Monday and person 2 gets it for Tuesday, so forth.
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Or you could work and get the 16 yo a new laptop for his birthday, w/e.
Seems like that's the cause of the trouble, yeah?
Don't get the 13 yo a new one, it'll cause the 16 yo to be jealous, you don't want the guy who has more strength to be jealous.
(then explain it all in secret to your little bro, while telling the 16 yo to leave the kid alone.)
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On April 20 2010 14:30 sArite_nite wrote:
Or you could work and get the 16 yo a new laptop for his birthday, w/e.
Seems like that's the cause of the trouble, yeah?
Don't get the 13 yo a new one, it'll cause the 16 yo to be jealous, you don't want the guy who has more strength to be jealous.
(then explain it all in secret to your little bro, while telling the 16 yo to leave the kid alone.)
That is basically rewarding his 16yo brother for beating his 13yo brother by giving him a new computer.
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On April 20 2010 14:30 sArite_nite wrote:
Or you could work and get the 16 yo a new laptop for his birthday, w/e.
Seems like that's the cause of the trouble, yeah?
Don't get the 13 yo a new one, it'll cause the 16 yo to be jealous, you don't want the guy who has more strength to be jealous.
(then explain it all in secret to your little bro, while telling the 16 yo to leave the kid alone.)
lol really?
And btw I know people living in better conditions that absolutely could not afford a laptop almost on a whim like that.
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I feel for you bro, not much of a different situation here
Talking form experience though, I can tell you to fucking deadlock the laptop in some sort of metal crate and let the little dicks know who makes the rules on when they can use it. Seriously. If somebody doesn't do that this problem will last damn long while.
Good luck brother.
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Yeah... I still owe friends money from paying for my tuition lol, couldn't afford that if I wanted to.
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Fucking rough eh... Where in Canada are you?
I've never been close to my brothers, but its never been cutthroat like that.
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Kelowna, BC
want to move back to vancouver ._.
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Things can be tough in life man..... but what your doing is a VERY noble and altruistic thing.
Just try to keep the good thoughts in and the bad thoughts out
Keep pushing strong because there is light at the end of the tunnel man.
PL coming up soon. i hope the team you support ass rapes its opponent for your sake
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It's crazy because I'm in the opposite situation. My brother is awesome. He moved to Toronto to work (I live in Winnipeg) and he can only get so much time off work to come visit. Family is amazing if you work at it (and get lucky that your relatives reciprocate).
Even though I'm not in your situation, I still think I can offer some advice. It sounds like you're closing off your world from your family. Sounds like you have one bedroom that you escape to and the rest live in the common area. I think you need to take an active part in helping out your family sort out it's problems rather than complain about it and try to move out. As I said, a healthy family is an invaluable asset.
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On April 20 2010 14:52 Grobyc wrote:
Kelowna, BC
want to move back to vancouver ._.
Nice, I'll be out in Kelowna in mid July. Hopefully it gets better for you guys... your mom sounds like she's having a time of it.
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