Girl Issue - Page 4

On January 12 2010 19:22 [DUF]MethodMan wrote:


I stopped reading here. There are very few women who don't do just about everything on purpose, yours obviously isn't one of those. I hope next time you remember this.

On January 12 2010 20:18 ThunderGod wrote:

Hint: This should be you right now.

On January 12 2010 18:56 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
Have some fucking self respect dude.

This girl has cheated on you. You have forgiven her.

You expressed that you are uncomfortable with her texting of her ex-boyfriend (DUH, WHAT THE FUCK?) so she goes around and changes the method of communicating to him so she can sleep at night WHILE still deceiving you.

You find out she lied about cheating on you again but the lie is a semi-admittance to a problem so yet again she can sleep at night.

She has absolutely no respect for you. I know this is odd coming from a person you've never met who has simply read your blog but pretend for a second that human beings all have fairly similar experiences OR CAN experience fairly similar things.. in fact some have experienced more and have wisdom to pass on: dump her asap.

And I don't mean "hey, yeah sorry, I think we should break it off." I'm talking a "Hey, I'm coming over. Yeah it'll only be a minute." *Click* then you stone cold stare her in the face with a half smile and tell her it is over. When she trembles and asks why you snort and say, who the fuck do you think I am?

Make it burn so that maybe she can learn that in the future being a two-timing lying bitch with 0 respect but all the spineless ability to drag someone through shit doesn't pay off.

If you can't do it give me her number and I will do it for you. I have no problem telling a girl like that off.

On January 12 2010 19:22 [DUF]MethodMan wrote:


I stopped reading here. There are very few women who don't do just about everything on purpose, yours obviously isn't one of those. I hope next time you remember this.

On January 12 2010 17:39 Marimokkori wrote:
Fuck an ultimatum. If this is the second offense you seriously need to get out now, and get out fast. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be.



Agreed. Target everything. You don't need her anywhere in your life. Destroy all possible contact, IMO.

Drop the bitch.


Edit after reading more replies:



Sorry if I offend you, but this really aggravates me. This viewpoint of cheating being mildly acceptable is part of why it seems so common.

"It just happens."

Did you read the op? This did not just happen. This is her SECOND offense! Cheating NEVER "just happens."

It's sounds to me like you know what it's like to be the one doing the cheating and can therefore sympathize with his girlfriend who obviously treats him like trash. I think you need a morality check, to be honest.

This kind of shit is not OK, should not be so easily forgiven, if forgiven at all.

"Forgiving is not a weakness. Shutting your mouth is, but forgiving is what people who have a brain and a heart can do. Raging and insulting your gf is just stupid dumbfuck reaction."

Having the capacity to forgive is important. So is having the ability to tell people who walk on you and use you to fuck off. Cheating is a stupid dumbfuck thing to do and not raging about it will only allow her to walk on you more.

Allow me to reiterate:

This is her second offense and she's been lying to you.

Drop the bitch.


If you really want to give her an ultimatum, demand a threesome with another girl, then leave her anyway.

On January 12 2010 23:57 Biff The Understudy wrote:

It does just happen. It did happen to me to fall in love with someone else and to forget everything. If it can't happen to you, good for you. It does happen to lot of people, sometimes amazing persons. Two of my best friends are a couple, and the girl cheated three time at the guy. And everytime he got hurt, and everytime it was a big shit. But they are still together and they are amazing. And they love each other.

You don't know the girl. You don't fucking have any fucking right to call her a bitch. And you don't have to judge her.

If I was OP I would slap you in the face.

Judgemental douche.

On January 13 2010 00:00 Revolt wrote:


everything you said was just irrational, love is irrational; it's fear of never finding happiness and looking else where (in another human being) it's for the week, imo.
Every human being desires happiness. this guy needs to ditch this bitch.
oh, btw she is a bitch and every negative word that can describe a bitch in this situation.