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On October 04 2008 15:11 Chill wrote:
lol you bring a girl back from the bar. what fair warning are you supposed to give? in fact, id add there should be no fair warning. if i show up in our room with a girl, you drag your ass to the couch no questions asked, because thats how men roll.
Provided your awake when the roommate gets back, or wake up before said event happens, waking up to them having sex is bm, as at that point they should have been nice enough to keep it down 
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I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice.
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On October 04 2008 15:29 Salv wrote:
I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice.
BUT HAVING TEH SEX IS THE HOULIEST OF GRALES. YUO MUST STOP EVERYTING FOR SEX
That's kind of what I'm getting from a lot of the posts here. Good roommate relations > random drunken bar sex
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On October 04 2008 15:43 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 15:29 Salv wrote:
I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice. BUT HAVING TEH SEX IS THE HOULIEST OF GRALES. YUO MUST STOP EVERYTING FOR SEX
LOL OH THANKS FOR CLEARING IT UP.
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cock, block, and drop it
cock, block, and drop it
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On October 04 2008 15:43 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 15:29 Salv wrote:
I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice. BUT HAVING TEH SEX IS THE HOULIEST OF GRALES. YUO MUST STOP EVERYTING FOR SEX That's kind of what I'm getting from a lot of the posts here. Good roommate relations > random drunken bar sex as much as you may be kidding, i truly feel like the OP and a lot of people in this thread are underestimating how important sex is. it's definitely outweighs the few hours of lost sleep that your roommate has to endure
and of course it's not just "bro rule" to leave, and that you would owe your roommate, it's just assumed he doesn't make a big fucking deal wah wah wah you had sex with a girl when i had class tomorrow boohoo, and it can be expected that you would pay him back, probably by following a bro rule when his turn comes up for some sexxx
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On October 04 2008 07:15 Frits wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 06:40 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:
I don't think it's proper for one person to disturb his roommates sleep.
It's like having a party, if your friends get too loud, of course the neighbors will call the cops who then tell you to be quiet.
Therefore, you should tell the RA because it's your right to have a good night's rest. can't stop laughing the odds of you ever having sex are probably as high as you resolving a conflict directly, better go tell on him wahhh wahh
Maybe you'd laugh harder if your roommate did the same.
Sure, the chance of "your roommate having sex (not "you having sex" since we're not talking about the OP but his roommate here)" might be small, but the OP said his roommate might do it again. Therefore, doing nothing about it will only make his roommate think this kind of behavior is okay. Now the guy will probably have sex more often and the OP gets less sleep. This, in turn, could affect his performances in class because so many aspects of a human brain suffer due to lack of proper rest.
Maybe that is funny to you?
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On October 04 2008 03:35 Quesadilla wrote:14 year-old response from a big internet kid. Piss on his pillowcase, thats disgusting enough to equal him out.
9 year-old response from the real big internet kid.
Pissing on his pillowcase are we? Can't be mature enough to just confront him about it that you have to get back at him with juvenile tricks?
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On October 04 2008 17:28 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 07:15 Frits wrote:On October 04 2008 06:40 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:
I don't think it's proper for one person to disturb his roommates sleep.
It's like having a party, if your friends get too loud, of course the neighbors will call the cops who then tell you to be quiet.
Therefore, you should tell the RA because it's your right to have a good night's rest. can't stop laughing the odds of you ever having sex are probably as high as you resolving a conflict directly, better go tell on him wahhh wahh Maybe you'd laugh harder if your roommate did the same. Sure, the chance of "your roommate having sex (not "you having sex" since we're not talking about the OP but his roommate here)" might be small, but the OP said his roommate might do it again. Therefore, doing nothing about it will only make his roommate think this kind of behavior is okay. Now the guy will probably have sex more often and the OP gets less sleep. This, in turn, could affect his performances in class because so many aspects of a human brain suffer due to lack of proper rest. Maybe that is funny to you?
yeah it is pretty funny that he is going to report him to the RA and try to get him kicked out for waking him up once while hooking up with a girl, on the mere possibility of it happening again (just the possibility, no definitiveness) and passive aggressively doing it without confronting or talking to his roommate about it. this action, in combination with refusing to leave, have to be among the pussiest non-manly things a guy could do
i mean reading through these posts, its like you guys have never been inconvenienced or sacrificed something to help out another person or friend before. talk about being self-centered and self absorbed. heaven forbid a few hours of discomfort! he woke you up!??! how DARE he!? big fucking deal. get over it and move on. if you're getting pissed at shit like this what are you going to do when the world throws real challenges and true injustice at you?
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The RA is just going to give your friend high-5.
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On October 04 2008 18:07 HeadBangaa wrote:
The RA is just going to give your friend high-5.
Lol, that would be so awesome.
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Fight fire with fire. Its your turn to get laid. Bring someone back and you have sex with her when your roommate is like studying.
On a more serious note, I've lived in the dorms for 2 years. I personally got to know people in my dorms and let everyone know that if some1 has sex and nothing is going on in my room to sleep in my room and suggested the floor do the same. Have like an alarm clock on your cell and use that to wake you.
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On October 04 2008 17:16 yubee wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 15:43 Jibba wrote:On October 04 2008 15:29 Salv wrote:
I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice. BUT HAVING TEH SEX IS THE HOULIEST OF GRALES. YUO MUST STOP EVERYTING FOR SEX That's kind of what I'm getting from a lot of the posts here. Good roommate relations > random drunken bar sex as much as you may be kidding, i truly feel like the OP and a lot of people in this thread are underestimating how important sex is. it's definitely outweighs the few hours of lost sleep that your roommate has to endureand of course it's not just "bro rule" to leave, and that you would owe your roommate, it's just assumed he doesn't make a big fucking deal wah wah wah you had sex with a girl when i had class tomorrow boohoo, and it can be expected that you would pay him back, probably by following a bro rule when his turn comes up for some sexxx
Yeah, but I'm saying you gotta do the heads up thing. Bringing her back at 4AM when he's already asleep is pretty annoying. I think I'd get pissed cause I'm never thinking straight when I get woken up. We all agree the RA thing is ridiculous.
Good scale - Shit faced one night stand
I found a penny |------x---| Threesome with Megan Fox and Megan Fox
Bad scale - Pissing off roommate
Someone stole my penny |-------x--| Someone pissed on my pillow
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On October 04 2008 15:11 Chill wrote:
lol you bring a girl back from the bar. what fair warning are you supposed to give? in fact, id add there should be no fair warning. if i show up in our room with a girl, you drag your ass to the couch no questions asked, because thats how men roll.
I said "if possible". If it's not possible, then it can't be helped.
Also, things change depending on the situation at hand. For example:
1) It's the first time the guy has brought back a girl, you're friends with the guy, etc. Sure, I'd get out of there and give the guy the room. Probably give him that "high five" you mentioned the following morning provided she wasn't ugly as fuck. And he didn't fuck on any of my stuff, that's BM.
2) The guy is some random guy that you haven't gotten to know yet, I feel like he should have some decency not to try to fuck some girl while some guy he's just met is a few feet from you trying to sleep. That's just weird to me, perhaps not to you. I'd probably still get out anyway.
3) The guy brings back different girls every other night. If that happens, fuck that. One night of rest I can give up now and then. If this becomes a regular thing, he should have the decency to find some place else or something.
Other factors come into play obviously, like if you've got an exam the next day. You don't fuck over your roommate by waking him him at 4am because you couldn't control your dick. Of course, there are always exceptions. Like if it's a friend of yours that you'd never expect to get any ass in his life and he brings back some really hot girl. Unless it's a really important exam, I'll cut him some slack as that is something he'll probably thank me for for the rest of his life.
The bottom line is that both sides should be understanding and communication is key whenever possible. These weird "bro" rules seem to put pussy on a pedestal and always hos before bros, which I don't agree should always be the case. Sex is great, no argument there. But it's not the end all be all of your existence. That's only the case for virgins still fantasizing about having it one day.
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On October 04 2008 18:00 Hot_Bid wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 17:28 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:On October 04 2008 07:15 Frits wrote:On October 04 2008 06:40 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:
I don't think it's proper for one person to disturb his roommates sleep.
It's like having a party, if your friends get too loud, of course the neighbors will call the cops who then tell you to be quiet.
Therefore, you should tell the RA because it's your right to have a good night's rest. can't stop laughing the odds of you ever having sex are probably as high as you resolving a conflict directly, better go tell on him wahhh wahh Maybe you'd laugh harder if your roommate did the same. Sure, the chance of "your roommate having sex (not "you having sex" since we're not talking about the OP but his roommate here)" might be small, but the OP said his roommate might do it again. Therefore, doing nothing about it will only make his roommate think this kind of behavior is okay. Now the guy will probably have sex more often and the OP gets less sleep. This, in turn, could affect his performances in class because so many aspects of a human brain suffer due to lack of proper rest. Maybe that is funny to you? yeah it is pretty funny that he is going to report him to the RA and try to get him kicked out for waking him up once while hooking up with a girl, on the mere possibility of it happening again (just the possibility, no definitiveness) and passive aggressively doing it without confronting or talking to his roommate about it. this action, in combination with refusing to leave, have to be among the pussiest non-manly things a guy could do i mean reading through these posts, its like you guys have never been inconvenienced or sacrificed something to help out another person or friend before. talk about being self-centered and self absorbed. heaven forbid a few hours of discomfort! he woke you up!??! how DARE he!? big fucking deal. get over it and move on. if you're getting pissed at shit like this what are you going to do when the world throws real challenges and true injustice at you?
Actually dorms have rules. If people don't obey them, they deserve punishment. And I honestly don't think anyone would support roommates being noisy when it's time for sleep. Maybe when it's 9:00 PM, when most should not be sleeping yet, his roommate can be a little noisy; clear not case here. Honestly if you think people will just put up with everything they endure, their lives will be better, or the world in that matter? If injustice isn't thwarted in any way, it will continue. It's a simple concept, if no one shows any disapproval of your behavior, you'll think it's okay and therefore feel free to repeat the same behavior later. And I didn't tell him to kick out roommate out, don't put words in my mouth please. Maybe a warning or such could at least stop this.
Yes, it is funny to see injustice happening over and over when it should and could be stopped.
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This happened to me all the time freshman year, only my roommate was worse because he was an all around dick in every aspect of the rest of our time rooming as well.
He'd blast his shitty ass country music and rap all fuckin day every day at high volume. I literally wanted to kill him by the end of the year, tho I pulled some nasty pranks on him that he probably doesn't even realize.
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On October 04 2008 18:00 Hot_Bid wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 17:28 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:On October 04 2008 07:15 Frits wrote:On October 04 2008 06:40 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:
I don't think it's proper for one person to disturb his roommates sleep.
It's like having a party, if your friends get too loud, of course the neighbors will call the cops who then tell you to be quiet.
Therefore, you should tell the RA because it's your right to have a good night's rest. can't stop laughing the odds of you ever having sex are probably as high as you resolving a conflict directly, better go tell on him wahhh wahh Maybe you'd laugh harder if your roommate did the same. Sure, the chance of "your roommate having sex (not "you having sex" since we're not talking about the OP but his roommate here)" might be small, but the OP said his roommate might do it again. Therefore, doing nothing about it will only make his roommate think this kind of behavior is okay. Now the guy will probably have sex more often and the OP gets less sleep. This, in turn, could affect his performances in class because so many aspects of a human brain suffer due to lack of proper rest. Maybe that is funny to you? yeah it is pretty funny that he is going to report him to the RA and try to get him kicked out for waking him up once while hooking up with a girl, on the mere possibility of it happening again (just the possibility, no definitiveness) and passive aggressively doing it without confronting or talking to his roommate about it. this action, in combination with refusing to leave, have to be among the pussiest non-manly things a guy could do i mean reading through these posts, its like you guys have never been inconvenienced or sacrificed something to help out another person or friend before. talk about being self-centered and self absorbed. heaven forbid a few hours of discomfort! he woke you up!??! how DARE he!? big fucking deal. get over it and move on. if you're getting pissed at shit like this what are you going to do when the world throws real challenges and true injustice at you?
HB the wise. If you want to be a social outcast because you only think of yourself then live with your mother. It's not as if you have to give up a lot to sleep on a couch one night. Trick is to make sure he appreciates it and pays you back.
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On October 04 2008 17:16 yubee wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 15:43 Jibba wrote:On October 04 2008 15:29 Salv wrote:
I agree with most people in this thread who say that this guy is over-reacting, but this bro rule bullshit is annoying. I don't care if they are both men, he doesn't owe this guy anything. He doesn't need to drag his ass to the couch because his roommate wants to tag a drunk bitch, if he did i'd call it a favour. If he doesn't want to do said favour, that's his choice. BUT HAVING TEH SEX IS THE HOULIEST OF GRALES. YUO MUST STOP EVERYTING FOR SEX That's kind of what I'm getting from a lot of the posts here. Good roommate relations > random drunken bar sex as much as you may be kidding, i truly feel like the OP and a lot of people in this thread are underestimating how important sex is. it's definitely outweighs the few hours of lost sleep that your roommate has to endureand of course it's not just "bro rule" to leave, and that you would owe your roommate, it's just assumed he doesn't make a big fucking deal wah wah wah you had sex with a girl when i had class tomorrow boohoo, and it can be expected that you would pay him back, probably by following a bro rule when his turn comes up for some sexxx
Underestimating the importance of sex?
It isn't really that important. It's a want, not a necessity. Iunno maybe it's just nicer to have for college kids who are stressed from school work.
Sleep is a necessity. Lack of sleep can fuck up your entire day or week.
Lack of sex won't because you can still blow your load.
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On October 05 2008 00:58 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:Show nested quote +On October 04 2008 18:00 Hot_Bid wrote:On October 04 2008 17:28 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:On October 04 2008 07:15 Frits wrote:On October 04 2008 06:40 JustQuitWarcraftIII wrote:
I don't think it's proper for one person to disturb his roommates sleep.
It's like having a party, if your friends get too loud, of course the neighbors will call the cops who then tell you to be quiet.
Therefore, you should tell the RA because it's your right to have a good night's rest. can't stop laughing the odds of you ever having sex are probably as high as you resolving a conflict directly, better go tell on him wahhh wahh Maybe you'd laugh harder if your roommate did the same. Sure, the chance of "your roommate having sex (not "you having sex" since we're not talking about the OP but his roommate here)" might be small, but the OP said his roommate might do it again. Therefore, doing nothing about it will only make his roommate think this kind of behavior is okay. Now the guy will probably have sex more often and the OP gets less sleep. This, in turn, could affect his performances in class because so many aspects of a human brain suffer due to lack of proper rest. Maybe that is funny to you? yeah it is pretty funny that he is going to report him to the RA and try to get him kicked out for waking him up once while hooking up with a girl, on the mere possibility of it happening again (just the possibility, no definitiveness) and passive aggressively doing it without confronting or talking to his roommate about it. this action, in combination with refusing to leave, have to be among the pussiest non-manly things a guy could do i mean reading through these posts, its like you guys have never been inconvenienced or sacrificed something to help out another person or friend before. talk about being self-centered and self absorbed. heaven forbid a few hours of discomfort! he woke you up!??! how DARE he!? big fucking deal. get over it and move on. if you're getting pissed at shit like this what are you going to do when the world throws real challenges and true injustice at you? Actually dorms have rules. If people don't obey them, they deserve punishment. And I honestly don't think anyone would support roommates being noisy when it's time for sleep. Maybe when it's 9:00 PM, when most should not be sleeping yet, his roommate can be a little noisy; clear not case here. Honestly if you think people will just put up with everything they endure, their lives will be better, or the world in that matter? If injustice isn't thwarted in any way, it will continue. It's a simple concept, if no one shows any disapproval of your behavior, you'll think it's okay and therefore feel free to repeat the same behavior later. And I didn't tell him to kick out roommate out, don't put words in my mouth please. Maybe a warning or such could at least stop this. Yes, it is funny to see injustice happening over and over when it should and could be stopped.
This is not an injustice, and not everyone acts that way.
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