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Well I guess shit like this happens all the time.
My girlfriend got raped, doesn't matter the circumstances the fact is that, and when she told it to me I really listened her very calmy, of course my first reaction was anger and well you know, "I'm going to find the sucker and kill him even if the world cracks down", but now I'm pretty calm and I think things like "then what?, will that really ease and remove the pain and suffering she's going through, and return happiness to her life?. It will not".
But I'm, well, she's having a hard time. I made her go to get an HIV test: one has to take one each 3 months, and if you suspect you may caught the infection in less than 48 hr, there's a treatment. She took it. Anyway, she's very very depressed, because she still has to take the tests and if one, only one says it's positive, she's screwed. I also convinced her to take other gynechological tests, to explore herpes, papilome, and other diseases. Moreover, her mind has been affected, and she will likely need to go to a psycologist.
I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all.
Thing is guys, I really don't know how to feal. It's tough very tough. And you know what. I don't know what I'm feeling now. I don't know if I want to cry or scream or be happy or kill or, I just don't know.
I just wanted to well, let go, scream some stuff and well, my plan from now and on is to be as supportive as I can. Well, try to bring her back the meaning of life and joy. She wants to go to church now and stuff (we've never been catholics), but my heart tells me that if she wants to go and if she feels it's important to her it is to me.
If you have any ideas to share, it would be greatly appreciated
Thanks.
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My only question is...
What map was it on?
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You just had to post something like that on TL.net. Unless you have 5000 posts or more there'll always be someone with something disagreeable to say.
EDIT: As the poster above.
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
heh
How was she raped?
Did someone kidnap her on the street, or threaten her, or attack her when she got home coming out of her car?
I'm glad you feel calm and not reckless, because going out and killing that guy who raped her is obviously a bad idea.
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wow i understand you a lot, this kind of shit suck
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I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all.
WTF Mate? that first line is messed up kiddo. Well best of luck to you and yours.
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gg_hertz i dont care about your posts, u r an idiot, do you have any idea how traumatic a situation like this is?
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
holy shit that was funny.
i laughed out loud ;D
p.s. this is very sad, go talk to both your parents and tell them, cops would be good too.
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On July 13 2005 18:30 PuertoRican wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
holy shit that was funny. i laughed out loud ;D
i did not
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Like you said: try and be supportive. Sometimes she will need you: to talk to her, to listen to her, or to be there to comfort her. Obviously get the cops involved and find out who did this. Do you have any leads (ie what he looks like, semen, etc). Maybe it would be helpful to have some shared psychologist classes together, so you can empathize more with her situation and be a better part of the healing process.
I don't really believe in your Humanism perspective on life; but that is neither here-nor-there.
Best of luck!
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
ROFL >
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I guess you are being very cool and acting good with this situation, however im pretty sure I would search for that guy til I found him :o
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The fact that you don't know what to feel says much about how your feelings toward her.
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I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all.
Either you are making this whole thing up, or you are an evil person.
I'll go with the first, because I don't see how anyone could not care that his girlfriend got FUCKING RAPED (you even sound content about it).
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She got dishonered. Kill your gf.
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote:
My only question is...
What map was it on?
nice one!
Back on topic, how did she get raped? I'm willing to bet a lot of money it was because she was extremely drunk at a party and someone took advantage of that. It could also be because she was willing and she didn't want to hurt your feelings because when you found out she was cheating on you, she made up some story. It's really hard to give sympathy to this story because there is no information provided at all. We simply know she got raped, but how she got raped is still unclear. Was she partly to blame? Or did someone just totally abuse her? It's more fulfilling to give empathy to someone who died and took a bullet for some kids than it is to someone who died OD'ing on drugs.
Anyway, I hope she straightens out her life and that this experience doesn't haunt her for the rest of her life or cause her life to go downhill. Much love to you and your girlfriend.
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On July 13 2005 18:46 Legend wrote:Show nested quote +I don't feel like bad because, my perception of life is that people get what they deserve, and I'm not saying she deserved it, but she was definetly caught off-guard, and well I think when you are a beautiful woman like she is, you always have to be on-guard, simple things: lock the door, never go through dark alleys, etc, you know what I mean. Of course I don't feel good at all. Either you are making this whole thing up, or you are an evil person. I'll go with the first, because I don't see how anyone could not care that his girlfriend got FUCKING RAPED (you even sound content about it). Meh, everyone is different. He is taking the calm route. I'm sure he cares, but he just doesn't want to complicate things further or something like that. Anyway, that really sucks man.
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I almost felt like making a joke asking whether he disconnected before typing out but I decided not to because I felt bad  .
Just do regular stuff and try to live normally.
edit: well I did anyway, but not as bad
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fuck it, there is no use, he's making this up
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