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On July 13 2005 20:31 1337 wrote: or he is smarter than u....
Agreed. It's always smarter to do nothing and:
1. let him get away without punishment for one of the worst crimes possible. 2. as NewbSaibot said, let him attack another victim.
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On July 13 2005 20:40 Legend wrote:Agreed. It's always smarter to do nothing and: 1. let him get away without punishment for one of the worst crimes possible. 2. as NewbSaibot said, let him attack another victim.
So going to prison for murdering someone is a better alternative?
hello?
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Going after the rapist hunting him down/beating/killing w/e doesn't work in real life, this isn't a movie, you'll end up getting in trouble.
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On July 13 2005 20:54 Stat.Quo wrote: Going after the rapist hunting him down/beating/killing w/e doesn't work in real life, this isn't a movie, you'll end up getting in trouble.
I like all the kids that get their ethics/morals and sense of retribution from movies though. Because, you know. It always works out in the end.
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*cups hands over ears* lalalalalalalalalallaallalalalalalalalalalal
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I dont know dude your outlook on the whole thing seems pretty fucked up to me. Still I guess having your g/f raped must fuck you up in the head a littil too, and debating about your outlook on life not really the point. Anyway you dont have to kill the guy if u know who did it but a nice ass kicking with a bat is in order. you'll get probation if its your first crime I bet given then curcuimstances. Also for the love of god go to the cops if you have not done so yet. Even if she asks you not too. You cant let whoever did that to her do it to some other girl. She will thank you in the long run.
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On July 13 2005 20:59 InToTheWannaB wrote: Anyway you dont have to kill the guy if u know who did it but a nice ass kicking with a bat is in order. you'll get probation if its your first crime I bet given then circumstances
CAN U SAY ASSAULT WITH A DEADLY WEAPON WITH POSSIBLE INTENT TO KILL???? ARE U OUT OF U R FUKING MIND??? thats not just probation, thats 5-10 years. and fuck the circumstances, vigilantes fry 2. BTW it would sound retarded saying oops i didnt mean to hit him in the head. can u say law suit??? medical bills?
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On July 13 2005 20:46 Teroru wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2005 20:40 Legend wrote:On July 13 2005 20:31 1337 wrote: or he is smarter than u.... Agreed. It's always smarter to do nothing and: 1. let him get away without punishment for one of the worst crimes possible. 2. as NewbSaibot said, let him attack another victim. So going to prison for murdering someone is a better alternative? hello?
Nope, I never said that that was the best idea, but doing nothing is at least as bad.
Taking into consideration both your own well being and what he deserves, you should make it your first and foremost goal to get him life in prison.
OP: Instead, you have the "It's all cool, man" attitude.
In fact, from your attitude, it seems as if you raped someone and are posting it from another perspective... I don't know though.
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Thats what cops are for.... use your tax money...
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I dunno what I'd do.. honestly. But I think both women and men should be taught self defense rather then be victims. Here in the NL people simply die because they don't know how to fight, a year or 2 ago we had some dude smashed to death with a helmet and recently some other dude got beat'n to death in a cafe. This is only the stories you see on TV, and if both of these guys knew how to fight... I'm sure they'd still be walking this earth today; on the other hand, they would be jailed for punching their attackers:S Normally self defense is key to anyone's survival anywhere.
As for the church thing... There was a russian who said it best: "religions are opium for society". It's basicly the same as getting here on coke or weed or whatever, it won't solve her problems nor fully heal it.
I dunno if anyone else has it, but for some reason I've developed a sense that alerts me in case of possible danger. This sense never betrayed me a single time and thanks to that I've been able to save my own neck nummerous of times.
On the other hand, I know a girl that lives across the street and she told me even on the sight of a Marokkan(here in the NL they're troublemakers) or anyone else with lightly tinted skin color she wants to run them over with a car, beat the shit out of them and possibly kill them. The reason was simply because these people are responsible for what happens to a lot of women here in the NL, they get abused by them.
Most important things is that both you and she learns from what happened, what exactly went wrong and how to counter such things happening. Otherwise your own children will make the same mistake and get raped aswell...
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Really sorry about what happend.. though my girlfriend wouldn't appreciate starting a thread like this if she was in her situation.. Forget about the guy at the moment... you can kill him later on.. you should focus on comforting your girlfriend and ease her pain...
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I second chris's post about how complicated this issue is, but I want to make it clear how different this situation is from the perspective of someone who's been raped. It's not something you can really grasp thinking about it hypothetically, because it incites such complex and often contradictory emotions. Essentially being tortured in a way that you associate with "feeling good" or, if you're a person who believes in romance, that you associate with love and honest interaction etc., is impossibly hard to deal with.
Try to keep in mind that what she's feeling can range from guilt and self-loathing to intense fear or powerlessness, to anger and hatred.
And don't be worried if your feelings are complicated as well: what happens to me alot at least is that I recognize that a particular situation is supposed to be emotional in a particular way, and that often nullifies my own emotional response. For example, if someone i sort of know dies, its not unlikely for me to acknowledge the expectation of sadness before I have the chance to really feel sad. The problem, though, is that then you feel inauthentic, insensitive or uncaring for not having the predicted response, which just complicates things further. Keep in mind that there is no "wrong" way to feel; just make sure for the sake of your relationship that you stay completely honest and put her safety first.
Especially in a circumstance where the rape was caused by her putting herself in a dangerous situation, the guilt associated with rape can often drive rape victims to put themselves in dangerous situations again. It's my experience with a good friend of mine who was raped that she was much less equipped to fight off rape once she had been raped (at a young age), to the point where she couldn't even withstand strong sexual advances. People would start to touch her at a party, and she would freeze up and be unable to tell them to stop.
Keep honesty and saftery paramount, and have confidence in yourself, because rape happened to your girlfriend and therefore to you, its not something that was a result of anything you did. I know for sure that people don't "get what they deserve," because often the best, most incomprehensibly beautiful personalities have the most unfortunate circumstances I've seen.
Good luck, and don't think that it's hopeless.
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yeah it never hurts to learn a bit of self defense
not even physical but psychological self-defense
start spitting out your saliva, convulse, tell them that you have an STD, pretend like you're mentally deranged, start to possibly urinate and do anything else disturbing...
even if they know you personally and are "pretty" sure you don't have an STD or not mentally deranged, your actions will likely defer an attack... helpful but not foolproof, since attackers of this kind are highly unpredictable, illogical, and unreasonable to deal with.
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sad that this happened, and sad that you posted this here
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On July 13 2005 21:28 Raidern wrote: sad that you posted this here
no it isn't
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On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote: My only question is...
What map was it on?
(2)MyBed.scx
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On July 13 2005 21:30 TreY wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2005 18:20 gg_hertzz wrote: My only question is...
What map was it on?
(2)MyBed.scx
ROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOFL
edit: best ever?
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On July 13 2005 21:04 1337 wrote:Show nested quote +On July 13 2005 20:59 InToTheWannaB wrote: Anyway you dont have to kill the guy if u know who did it but a nice ass kicking with a bat is in order. you'll get probation if its your first crime I bet given then circumstances CAN U SAY ASSAULT WITH A DEADLY WEAPON WITH POSSIBLE INTENT TO KILL???? ARE U OUT OF U R FUKING MIND??? thats not just probation, thats 5-10 years. and fuck the circumstances, vigilantes fry 2. BTW it would sound retarded saying oops i didnt mean to hit him in the head. can u say law suit??? medical bills?
That's why you kill him, and dispose of the body.
You get a beat up car, and drive it across the state border, making sure no one can trace that back to you. Pull all his teeth, and keep them (this is necessary, because someone might find them there, then you're in trouble). Take a few gallons of gasoline with you, as well. Drive out to a fairly remote area, and light the car on fire. His body will burn, and so will the car, effectively destroying all evidence against you.
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On July 13 2005 18:58 Legend wrote: i actually think he raped someone
I was thinking exactly the same thing
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How do u get home? u burned the car
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