EPTanyone who says being alone for your whole life improves the quality of your life is seriously disturbed and should possibly seek help
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PobTheCad
Australia893 Posts
anyone who says being alone for your whole life improves the quality of your life is seriously disturbed and should possibly seek help | ||
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Naib
Hungary4952 Posts
On January 10 2009 04:27 GGQ wrote: Unless you're already dating her, that's probably not a good thing. It'll tend to make you too dependent in relationships. It's much better to find your meaning/purpose in life somewhere else, which will make you more attractive to women, and give you more to stand on in a relationship. I feel like I do, otherwise I wouldn't be dating her. Why would I?  I can only start a relationship with someone if I can imagine living my whole life with her - in fact, whenever I got attracted to someone I felt that way, no matter how screwed up this may sound it works for me. And obviously this doesn't mean that I rush things when I'm single. My eyes were open, yes, but that's that. It's not like you need to be depressed if at a given moment you're not working on your life's goal (meeting that special One), there are other things you can enjoy. | ||
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NotSupporting
Sweden1998 Posts
On January 10 2009 17:40 GinNtoniC wrote: It enrichens your life, but can be a huge burden to freedom. That's why I won't answer the poll, because it's somewhere in the grayzone. at least for me My opinion exactly. | ||
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NastyMarine
United States1252 Posts
OF COURSE life is more enjoyable with female company! | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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LordWeird
United States3411 Posts
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DwmC_Foefen
Belgium2186 Posts
So it's more a question on wether want to have a girlfriend or not. I like having a girlfriend but then again I'm someone who needs people around me I think :p FFS just have women in your life and if you want to try for something more with someone just try... who cares if it goes wrong You're not 12 yo are you? You can both be reasonable | ||
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
On January 11 2009 01:29 Rekrul wrote: Having women in your life. Woah I don't think anyone expected this... | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
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stenole
Norway869 Posts
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haduken
Australia8267 Posts
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MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
On January 11 2009 13:24 haduken wrote: More enjoyable for me. But that is mostly because of my personality. I don't go out that much, don't really socialize or try to keep a circle of friends, i just stay home and work on my own hobbies. Having a girl that understand that and is the same as you helps a lot because you are never lonely ~_~ and it also makes other people who diss you because you are a geek to shut up lol. How do you find those girls? | ||
cgrinker
United States3824 Posts
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tegg
United States33 Posts
So yea, I guess it just comes down to what one's perception and expectations of a "relationship" are. For reference though I put less fun edit- I don't see how people equate not being married or in a long term relationship to being completely alone, that is a gross generalization on their part and denies the existence of friendship. | ||
GHOSTCLAW
United States17042 Posts
You look really hard, make friends inside of the same activities, and then hope for the best. some parts luck, some parts skill. | ||
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Guybrush
Spain4744 Posts
On January 10 2009 16:23 Day[9] wrote: there needs to be an "always miserable" option You have no reason to be miserable though. I think you're an awesome guy, and we have tons of common interests. In fact when I read your interview I was like "fuck, this guy is exactly like me WTF?" Cheer up man!I have a girlfriend, but I was very happy before I met her too. As others we have our ups and downs, but we both know our weak and good sides, and accept them. If you are too selfish you wont work in a relationship, hence you will most likely not be as happy as you were when you were single. I think this poll is so individual though. Theres no "correct" answer on the question. Those who are in a good relationship or has been in a good relationship will say "more enjoyable", while those who have been or are in a bad relationship will say "less enjoyable". Those who havent been in a relationship can't really answer because they wont know because they havent tried. I have friends who say they felt it was "less enjoyable", but I think they will change their opinion when they get older/less selfish, and/or find a better partner in life. That doesnt mean I think there arent some people who will enjoy life more without a girlfriend, because Im sure there are some who will. And Im not saying it's because they are too selifsh. It might be a reason though. | ||
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MrOwMrOw
New Zealand48 Posts
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KOFgokuon
United States14912 Posts
god damnit. | ||
ManaBlue
Canada10458 Posts
He'll get over it. | ||
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blind3x3
United States49 Posts
its like being being bipolar, when u feel things are going good with the one you love, you couldnt possible be happier, but when a break up happens, or when u cant see that person, or are in a fight with them, you are at you're ultimate low. The more plummets you face in the relationship, all it means is that you are getting close to the end of the ride (drawing closer to a break-up). | ||
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