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On January 10 2009 04:23 fanatacist wrote:Show nested quote +On January 10 2009 04:06 Naib wrote:I pretty much just felt from quite an early age (maybe I'm just weird / fucked up, you tell!) that my only "goal in life" is to find happiness in maintaining a healthy family. Thus finding the girl suitable for that, of course  I guess it's pretty obvious what my answer to this question is, then. P.s.: Mani, I've never seen someone mix "your" and "you're" in the way you just did, only the other way around. The extra small joys of teh interwebz (not to berate you, really - I think I can feel that your post contains a LOT of anger held back[justifying the typo], which you should get props for - I don't think I could've held myself back there ) This is so true for me... The only thing I really need in this world is to spend as much of my life with the person I want to/will marry... T_T
Unless you're already dating her, that's probably not a good thing. It'll tend to make you too dependent in relationships. It's much better to find your meaning/purpose in life somewhere else, which will make you more attractive to women, and give you more to stand on in a relationship.
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On January 09 2009 18:08 iloveHieu wrote:
long distant sucks that's all I gotta say =(
my gf is in yanji, china =(
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Its awsome to have someone special and even more if she's with you I just love my girl and she loves me, i was happy before she? Yes... Do i have many worrys and presure because im with her? Yes... Do i enjoy my self and her much more than before her? Of course and i'm the happys dude on eart XD
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I've been with the same girl for 3years now and I'm better for it. I know I've changed over the years and I know she has too and I really like who I am now.
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Russian Federation4447 Posts
Depends.
If they add value, yes.
If they take away value, no.
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More enjoyable. Ups and downs, but mostly ups.
Maybe your friend has been unlucky with his girlfriends. Or perhaps he don't have any patience at all.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
Having a woman is enjoyable, but I do prefer being single at this moment.
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A person in a relationship would probably be happier since he made the choice on getting in one based on his feelings atm he did. Over time the happiness of the person depends on how well they are working together. If you put too much effort in the relationship and it fails, it could hurt you though, pretty much. I have stopped caring for myself for the past years since my relationship failed, and I can't care about other people, but again that's probably only me. She have moved on to another dude.
If you love a person it's a pretty nice thing, and I definitely would recommend getting together with that person. But know yourself first and what you can manage if it should fall apart. Im not happy atm without a gf, but again the road to my happiness it's not about getting a gf or not. I guess as many has already said happiness isn't about having a gf or not. It only boosts your ups and downs (both of them).
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Some of this shit really made me laugh, especially intrigue's post, I mean really, who the fuck is nervous about holding his girlfriend's hand? Maybe when you're 14 and you've known her for 5 days, sheesh.
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there needs to be an "always miserable" option
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On January 10 2009 03:15 KlaCkoN wrote:Show nested quote +On January 10 2009 02:33 decafchicken wrote:On January 09 2009 18:08 iloveHieu wrote:
long distant sucks that's all I gotta say =( AGREED On January 09 2009 16:18 ForVengeance wrote:
I PERSONALLY THINK CHICKS ARE 99 PERCENT IDIOTS.
I have yet to meet a girl i would deem of having common sense/ not being an airhead. All of them. Jocks/nerds/hot girls, they're all fucking airheads. Our high school valedictorian has said some of the dumbest things i've ever heard T_T I think people in general think way too highly of their own intelligence. The kind of arrogance that stems from a false sense of surpriority is rather disgusting imho. ForVengance' posts were excellent examples of this as well, I wonder what makes people act that way?
I'm not saying i'm smarter than them. A lot of girls i know have GPA/test scores that blow me out of the water. That being said, they do way dumber/more dumb shit in day-to-day life
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intrigue
Washington, D.C9934 Posts
On January 10 2009 16:13 HeadBangaa wrote:
Some of this shit really made me laugh, especially intrigue's post, I mean really, who the fuck is nervous about holding his girlfriend's hand? Maybe when you're 14 and you've known her for 5 days, sheesh.
this seems like an appropriate occasion to try out checkboxes
[ ] reading comprehension
[x] cool
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On January 10 2009 16:51 intrigue wrote:Show nested quote +On January 10 2009 16:13 HeadBangaa wrote:
Some of this shit really made me laugh, especially intrigue's post, I mean really, who the fuck is nervous about holding his girlfriend's hand? Maybe when you're 14 and you've known her for 5 days, sheesh. this seems like an appropriate occasion to try out checkboxes [ ] reading comprehension [x] cool
You need another space between the unchecked brackets.
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On January 10 2009 16:58 Azrael1111 wrote:Show nested quote +On January 10 2009 16:51 intrigue wrote:On January 10 2009 16:13 HeadBangaa wrote:
Some of this shit really made me laugh, especially intrigue's post, I mean really, who the fuck is nervous about holding his girlfriend's hand? Maybe when you're 14 and you've known her for 5 days, sheesh. this seems like an appropriate occasion to try out checkboxes [ ] reading comprehension [x] cool You need another space between the unchecked brackets.
[ ] useful
[ ] evidence of higher intelligence
[x] pretentious
EDIT: added a space for you
EDIT2: It doesn't work lol
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It enrichens your life, but can be a huge burden to freedom.
That's why I won't answer the poll, because it's somewhere in the grayzone. at least for me
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MyLostTemple
United States2921 Posts
On January 10 2009 16:23 Day[9] wrote:
there needs to be an "always miserable" option
hahaha sean you're hilarious.
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MyLostTemple
United States2921 Posts
oh and ginntonic, i agree with you 100 percent.
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After 20 years this is hard to answer ^^
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I've been in a bunch of relationships over the years. Some great ones, some OK ones, and a bad one. It's stating the obvious but the difference in how happy you are between a good and great, or a bad and OK relationship, is marked.
Being single is awesome - the last two years have been some of the best I've ever had. What's worked best for me is not wanting a relationship at all and just enjoying myself. If something does come up - like it has recently - it's gotta be so good that it makes you want to give up some of the fun shit you've been doing. You don't need a relationship to be happy, and settling for a half-assed one is worse than not having one at all.
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