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BalliSLife
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MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
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Velr
Switzerland10800 Posts
On December 23 2008 16:53 Spenguin wrote: Is this supposed to be helpful in anyway? Why should you care what they think anyway? Just chill and not get defensive because I think their getting a kick out of stirring you up, just say no and be cool. Yeah, let's be totally helpful like you: Oh, your friends have no idea and don't respect your way of live... Probably your friends just pick on you... Probably your friends are not homophob but just think you’re a faggot... Be true to yourself and stand for your Ideas and feeling!s... Wew... Thanks to your post we all know you that good that we can with 100% accuracy say that your not gay but your friends are idiots and you should go on with whatever you like.. Love and flowers for everyone... Bullshit. He get's picked, he obviously is fritghtened by it and comes to cry on TL.net to check if he's normal... I mean... ewww... | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
step one, leave hot chick porn on your computer in obvious places (especially lesbian porn) and just to be sure make your homepage http://totallyteen.com step two, get a chick pregnant (nothing says 'i'm not gay' more than knocking up some fine asian honey) step three, I assume you are asian so don't eat with chopsticks anymore. Use your bare hands, real men use their bare hands for everything. step four, whenever any of your friends start callin you gay back hand him and uppercut his nuts. Immediately say "I'm gay, I just wanted to caress your face and touch your ballsack." step five, whenever you go anywhere, go to the garage and put grease or whatever on your arm or something. This shows that you are a rebel. step 6, do not eat any phallic foods. If you must eat them, make sure you rip it into tiny pieces that in no way shape or form resemble a penis (remember you don't use silverware anymore, use your hands.). step 7, beat the shit out of your father in front of everyone and then steal his wife away from him and disappear into the sunset, never to be seen again. | ||
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Xela
Canada203 Posts
just kidding  just bear them, if you really aren't gay, then things will sort out whenever you get a GF. | ||
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
If not, just come out of the closet, who cares | ||
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koreakool
United States334 Posts
On December 23 2008 16:53 Hyperbola wrote: Best way to deal with it is to divert their attention with something like: "Why are you constantly asking me if I am gay? Are you getting your hopes up? lol. Sorry, I don't roll that way pal." Better to take the offensive in the situation, if you keep playing defensive you will be fine at first but then you wont get to expand and they will just run you over. Starcraft analogies, woo! I think they're just curious to know... if you just show them your pr0n collection and/or begin to do more manly things(eat steak, drink beer, watch football, etc.) then I'm sure they'll back off, because if you act like them and they call you gay, what would they call themselves? | ||
GTR
51492 Posts
On December 23 2008 17:18 CharlieMurphy wrote: Ok here's what to do: step one, leave hot chick porn on your computer in obvious places (especially lesbian porn) and just to be sure make your homepage http://totallyteen.com step two, get a chick pregnant (nothing says 'i'm not gay' more than knocking up some fine asian honey) step three, I assume you are asian so don't eat with chopsticks anymore. Use your bare hands, real men use their bare hands for everything. step four, whenever any of your friends start callin you gay back hand him and uppercut his nuts. Immediately say "I'm gay, I just wanted to caress your face and touch your ballsack." step five, whenever you go anywhere, go to the garage and put grease or whatever on your arm or something. This shows that you are a rebel. step 6, do not eat any phallic foods. If you must eat them, make sure you rip it into tiny pieces that in no way shape or form resemble a penis (remember you don't use silverware anymore, use your hands.). step 7, beat the shit out of your father in front of everyone and then steal his wife away from him and disappear into the sunset, never to be seen again. my god you suck so badly | ||
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zobz
Canada2175 Posts
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Falcynn
United States3597 Posts
On December 23 2008 17:33 zobz wrote: but more likely than not they'll just call you gay and continue to laugh.You should, instead of trying to convince your friends that you're not gay, try to convince them that their opinion is based on stereotypes, including your lack of a girlfriend, that you simply may or may not be gay, and that in the case that you are gay you simply don't know it yet so any coaxing of theirs won't have any effect. They should aknowledge that it's at most a matter of self discovery which takes time, and that they may very well be making a big deal out of nothing and failing to respect your true heterosexual effeminate self. | ||
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Myrmidon
United States9452 Posts
I've known flamboyant and not-so-"gay" guys that came out of the closet, others that were actually straight, and still more that remain in question. Out of my closer circle of friends there was a guy Steven who we thought might be gay, but we didn't really press him over it. It didn't cross my mind usually. Not a big deal. On his end he dated a girl or two, and then he eventually came out of the closet. It might be worth mentioning he told some girl(s) we were friends with first rather than the guys. As for why your friends are making a running joke out of the matter, what's really the problem here? Does it really bother you? I'd just go with the flow and pretend to hit on them whenever somebody makes a comment about how gay you are. (edit: actually now that I think about it, once or twice one of my friends was wondering if I was gay, so I did really start caressing some other guy in response. Or a flamboyant shake of the hair, w/e. It's good for a couple laughs.) Whatever fits your mood works. In the meantime since you're an actor you should read/watch Angels in America if you haven't already. Quality stuff. | ||
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FrEaK[S.sIR]
2373 Posts
I just learned not to give a fuck. People will think what they think. There is little you can do to change that. I chose to embrace it. Now I get a lot of attention from girls for the simple fact that I identify with them in a lot of ways. | ||
Klogon
MURICA15980 Posts
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jjun212
Canada2208 Posts
On December 23 2008 17:44 Myrmidon wrote: Well it looks like your explicit questions weren't answered much, so... I've known flamboyant and not-so-"gay" guys that came out of the closet, others that were actually straight, and still more that remain in question. Out of my closer circle of friends there was a guy Steven who we thought might be gay, but we didn't really press him over it. It didn't cross my mind usually. Not a big deal. On his end he dated a girl or two, and then he eventually came out of the closet. It might be worth mentioning he told some girl(s) we were friends with first rather than the guys. As for why your friends are making a running joke out of the matter, what's really the problem here? Does it really bother you? I'd just go with the flow and pretend to hit on them whenever somebody makes a comment about how gay you are. (edit: actually now that I think about it, once or twice one of my friends was wondering if I was gay, so I did really start caressing some other guy in response. Or a flamboyant shake of the hair, w/e. It's good for a couple laughs.) Whatever fits your mood works. In the meantime since you're an actor you should read/watch Angels in America if you haven't already. Quality stuff. Yea, it was a scene that was done in one of my classes. I didn't do the scene but another actor buddy of mine did it real well. Thanks | ||
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AttackZerg
United States7465 Posts
Caring and/or being sensitive to it is the part that confuses me. Since I was just being wacky/wild or whatever I never gave a shit and didn't realize until after that fact that certain friends thought that. Funniest diss a friend ever said to me. "Dude, fucking stop, everytime your here I can feel you trying to telepathically suck my cock" He said that to me while we were smoking a blunt on the way to a party, about an hour into the party I was making fun of him for being puertorician and he made a short joke and then I said that same thing back to him and everybody roffled. True story. | ||
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dongfeng
731 Posts
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Vasoline73
United States7815 Posts
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EmeraldSparks
United States1451 Posts
INSTAWIN. | ||
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
+ if your trying to be a bit more manly, overly worrying is a more feminine trait, so just chill down. | ||
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