What is Rape? - Page 4

On August 23 2012 21:08 tsango wrote:
Slightly off topic but this thread got my thinking that its funny feminists so openly criticise society for objectifying women and cite so many examples where they're hard done by. When it comes to rape, the law seems to favour women because society as a whole seems to think the only way a man can be raped is by another man - thus the law being anti-male.
And seriously, how often do you hear of men claiming women raped them? I bet you it happens though

On August 23 2012 21:08 tsango wrote:
Slightly off topic but this thread got my thinking that its funny feminists so openly criticise society for objectifying women and cite so many examples where they're hard done by. When it comes to rape, the law seems to favour women because society as a whole seems to think the only way a man can be raped is by another man - thus the law being anti-male.
And seriously, how often do you hear of men claiming women raped them? I bet you it happens though

On August 23 2012 21:12 Shiragaku wrote:

Although I do believe that women are not 50 percent equal in society overall, there are some aspects of law which favors them. Rape of men by women is not common, although it happens and sadly, those cases are often not taken seriously due to a double standard because when you hear of reverse rape, it is usually a sexual fantasy.

If you want to criticize women for having too much power (although I do not believe it to be exactly true) try criticizing divorce law, domestic violence, and the draft rather than rape because the statistics are against you and you will get nowhere.

On August 23 2012 21:24 kokomojowelieole wrote:


LOL, it's funny how few guys trust the legal system and ignore a pre-nup. Everyone who thinks men and women get equal protection under the law, wait until the wife's attorney alleges domineering, anti-social behavior, binge-drinking (where legally 4 or more beers is binge drinking), online gambling (even if it is $50 per year on pokerstars), etc.

On August 23 2012 21:21 kokomojowelieole wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAKL3Og-zGc

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On August 23 2012 21:26 ragz_gt wrote:


Sounds like someone had a bad one...

On August 23 2012 21:28 Shiragaku wrote:

I do not mean to criticize the video, but I really wish people would start taking male on male rape seriously. The fact that prison is still a funny topic, even in television is a bit disturbing. Although I do not know anyone males who have been raped, I read up on it quite a bit and it is really traumatizing and rather common. And I have not been raped, I have been molested by a guy before and it is not pleasant or comical in any way. The irony was, that the guy was incredibly homophobic.

On August 23 2012 21:30 kokomojowelieole wrote:


Comedy is meant to be offensive to some people. Otherwise we are stuck with politically correct & crappy comedians who can't make jokes about race, sex, smokers, pedofiles, gay butt secks rape, etc.

On August 23 2012 21:25 Grumbels wrote:
Some people think that if you get a girl drunk and then take her home and have sex with her when she passes out then it's not rape. Or if she agrees to kissing and touching before. Or if she was flirting with you. Or if she agreed to sex before, but not this time. Or if she had an orgasm during being raped (strangely this happens). Or if she gets pregnant after rape. Or if she is not emotionally broken afterwards. Or if she didn't struggle against the rapist during the rape. Or if she was wearing seductive/revealing clothing. Or if she was "asking for it". Or if she agreed to go to some party and "should have known" what would happen.

No person with good intentions needs ever worry about accidentally raping a girl, that's just ridiculous. This does not mean that all forms of rape have equal consequences, are equally destructive and equally horrible. But they are all bad and that should be the first step. There is no difference between rape and 'rape-rape' and legitimate rape is a ridiculous combination of words.

On August 23 2012 21:08 tsango wrote:
Slightly off topic but this thread got my thinking that its funny feminists so openly criticise society for objectifying women and cite so many examples where they're hard done by. When it comes to rape, the law seems to favour women because society as a whole seems to think the only way a man can be raped is by another man - thus the law being anti-male.
And seriously, how often do you hear of men claiming women raped them? I bet you it happens though

On August 23 2012 16:05 JustPassingBy wrote:
I prefer Sweden's definition, however I do not see how Assange could be sued for that, he neither forced them nor threatened them.

edit: On second thought, the mentioning of "threat" might be redundant, since if you threaten somebody into doing something, you force them into doing it.

On August 23 2012 21:39 Ludwigvan wrote:

I don't agree. I am 6 feet and 3 inches and sarcastic. Is it easy for me to see if someone is scared of me? No. Do people tell me if they don't agree? No, they are often afraid, if they see me and don't know me. How should I know, if nobody tells me? It's something that I learned over a long period thinking about how people see me. The intention alone is really not always enough. In my case it is a lot of experience too. It's just so hard to understand what impression people get of you. I am convinced that it can happen, that you later realize, that you raped a girl. Maybe you misinterpreted her not willing as lust. Not every girl will scream as shit and beat you. Some might think: "I have no chance anyway, so don't defend, just wait until its over."

Well-intentioned is the opposite of good. XD

On August 23 2012 18:59 Arevall wrote:


Forced vaginal intercourse or a comparable sexual act, which is carried out by assault or threat of violence.

Have fun in prison dude.