EPTJudge beats daughter for using the internet - Page 79
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HeroCommanD
England33 Posts
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imperator-xy
Germany1377 Posts
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Egyptian_Head
South Africa508 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:21 riverkim09 wrote: It's been proven that as children age, they see corporal punishment as being less and less frightening. They know that they just take hit, wait, then everything is back normal. Destroying the object that caused the wrongdoing inthe first place tends to have bigger effect. That is an argument against regular corporal punishment. You say they get used to it. Why not just no more then 5 times in there life. When they try make a Molotov cocktail and throw it at a gas station that kind of thing (True Story) | ||
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Molu
Sweden42 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:14 Digitalis wrote: I mean if she just bent over like her father told her to she wouldn't have got it that bad. I know its a natural reaction to resist it, but since she taped this I assume she got beat regularly. This video isn't that bad. Some factors that would elicit our pity more so than another video of a beating would be the fact that she was a female child, her resistance in the form of her screams, which pissed her father off even more. Basically just re imagine this video with a male child who just bent over the bed and took it and we could have been spared this whole dramatic event. Are you actually fucking being serious right now? BOTH her parents are fucking abusing her with physical manhandling. And you're saying she should get on her stomache and take it? I say she should get to her feet, get her knife and kill that fucking wanking pathetic excuse of a "father." That's not a father, that's a psychopathic criminal that is,. | ||
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Manit0u
Poland17546 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:30 Molu wrote: The fucking mom joins in and spanks her aswell. Oh my fucking god. These parents should be locked up, key threwn away and this daughter should come to a family that's loving. This is fucking sickening and disgusting, some of the worst shit I've seen. That this girl doesn't run away from home / absolutelly manhandle her parents is wierd. Hopefully she contacts me, I'll help her with both of those. That just made me so god damn pissed off, ARGH This girl is now 23 years old and living on her own. She waited 7 years to upload this video. | ||
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metbull
United States404 Posts
The Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) (42 U.S.C.A. § 5106g), as amended by the CAPTA Reauthorization Act of 2010, defines child abuse and neglect as, at minimum: - 1) "Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation"; or 2) "An act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm." Are some of you people watching this and thinking, "I bet he's hitting her with a Nerf belt" or "That's got to be really really soft leather, cause she doesn't look hurt at all." Just because it was done to you doesn't mean that it is ok for everyone. I was punished with a belt from time to time. Not like this though. It's not your fault someone treated you this way. And it's not your fault for being made to believe this ok by your guardian. This was clearly a case of child abuse. And if you have/were/or are going though a situation similar to this please talk to someone. It is not ok for any human to treat another human in this manner. | ||
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Brosaurus
United States12 Posts
On another note, the reason she uploaded the video now was because her father wanted her car back. Probably the one HE bought her. She threatened to upload the video and he didn't care, because he didn't think it was bad. Lastly, why are people lashing out against corporal punishment but then turning around and saying that the father should get the shit kicked out of him. I find that weird. | ||
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Paperplane
Netherlands1823 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:46 Brosaurus wrote: Why is everyone getting worked up. I know it's hard to understand, but it's a cultural thing. I seriously don't see anything wrong with that video. I understand how someone who never experienced that would be upset but based on that video, it's not that bad. Now he may be a terrible parent, but I don't think that video is enough proof. On another note, the reason she uploaded the video now was because her father wanted her car back. Probably the one HE bought her. She threatened to upload the video and he didn't care, because he didn't think it was bad. Lastly, why are people lashing out against corporal punishment but then turning around and saying that the father should get the shit kicked out of him. I find that weird. Being a cultural thing doesn't make it immune to criticism. | ||
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1sd2sd3sd
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Serthius
Samoa226 Posts
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Buffy
Sweden665 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:46 Brosaurus wrote: Why is everyone getting worked up. I know it's hard to understand, but it's a cultural thing. I seriously don't see anything wrong with that video. I understand how someone who never experienced that would be upset but based on that video, it's not that bad. Now he may be a terrible parent, but I don't think that video is enough proof. On another note, the reason she uploaded the video now was because her father wanted her car back. Probably the one HE bought her. She threatened to upload the video and he didn't care, because he didn't think it was bad. Lastly, why are people lashing out against corporal punishment but then turning around and saying that the father should get the shit kicked out of him. I find that weird. Usually dodge these topics like the plague, but you find it what took place in the clip ok ? How can beating a family member with a belt be seen as cultural ? Seem more like lack of being a normal person more then anything, sure everyone has gotten some punishment from their parents that was painful in some way. But thats just overboard on so many levels. | ||
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Molu
Sweden42 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:46 Brosaurus wrote: Why is everyone getting worked up. I know it's hard to understand, but it's a cultural thing. I seriously don't see anything wrong with that video. I understand how someone who never experienced that would be upset but based on that video, it's not that bad. Now he may be a terrible parent, but I don't think that video is enough proof. On another note, the reason she uploaded the video now was because her father wanted her car back. Probably the one HE bought her. She threatened to upload the video and he didn't care, because he didn't think it was bad. Lastly, why are people lashing out against corporal punishment but then turning around and saying that the father should get the shit kicked out of him. I find that weird. Sure she got beat up as a child, her parents were terrible and hit her repeatedly with a belt because she's on the internet, and she gets no support what so ever from anyone, when she's being fucking manhandled for a long time in her own home. But he did buy her a car, so I guess it's all fine. You, sir, are hopefully trying the most disgusting troll I've heard, or I'm afraid for people you meet if you think this kind of treatment is okay. | ||
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Kukaracha
France1954 Posts
On November 04 2011 05:54 Paperplane wrote: Why is everyone getting worked up. I know it's hard to understand, but it's a cultural thing. I seriously don't see anything wrong with that video. I understand how someone who never experienced that would be upset but based on that video, it's not that bad. Now he may be a terrible parent, but I don't think that video is enough proof. On another note, the reason she uploaded the video now was because her father wanted her car back. Probably the one HE bought her. She threatened to upload the video and he didn't care, because he didn't think it was bad. Lastly, why are people lashing out against corporal punishment but then turning around and saying that the father should get the shit kicked out of him. I find that weird. The father clearly has no problem with not only whipping her, but (and this is his quote) 'whipping her into submission", humiliating his daughter almost in sadistic way. Traditional whipping would be a certain amount of whips, then it's over. My parents used to get that, it would be something like, OK, you've fucked up, stay still, it's 15 hits. But this guy goes on and on and ON and ON like it was a party or something. He leaves when he's bored of it. Not because she cries more, she had already been crying for 15 minutes, no, and not because the punishment was done - did he even count the whips? - no, he just stopped because he felt like stopping. If you have done so much research about this case, then how come you don't mention his wife left him because of his abusive personality? I don't have anything about corporal punishment if the kid has really fucked up badly (which is not really the case here, but whatever). But you do it and you stop. The man wants to "HUMILIATE THAT BITCH" and make her feel like a crawling worm who spits blood out of each one of her pores. That's hate and sadism. | ||
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Nash
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On November 04 2011 06:05 Molu wrote: Sure she got beat up as a child, her parents were terrible and hit her repeatedly with a belt because she's on the internet, and she gets no support what so ever from anyone, when she's being fucking manhandled for a long time in her own home. But he did buy her a car, so I guess it's all fine. You, sir, are hopefully trying the most disgusting troll I've heard, or I'm afraid for people you meet if you think this kind of treatment is okay. Fighting against windmills again, I see. | ||
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scribe123456
United States43 Posts
Lets say your are caught downloading music from pb or someplace illegal, and you are taken to court and the judge fined you .$54,000 OR 17 swipes from this guy here.... is there anyone here who would not take the 17 swipes? I would. (this girl was downloading pirated music). | ||
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Clouttt
United States33 Posts
**Not to mention, for the eight-hundreth fucking time, SHE IS A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD GIRL WITH A MENTAL HANDICAP. He is fucking FULL SWING beating her dude. over some fucking music on the internet. if you think this is acceptable, i really very sincerely hope you're sterile, because you are not fit to be a parent. | ||
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urashimakt
United States1591 Posts
On November 04 2011 06:43 scribe123456 wrote: Just a thought: Lets say your are caught downloading music from pb or someplace illegal, and you are taken to court and the judge fined you .$54,000 OR 17 swipes from this guy here.... is there anyone here who would not take the 17 swipes? I would. (this girl was downloading pirated music). I don't agree with the way he went about discouraging her from pirating, but the title of the thread and even some news sources are even more appalling to me. She was punished for stealing, not for using the internet in the Deepest South. On November 04 2011 06:51 Clouttt wrote: ^People like you seriously shouldn't even post in this thread. Okay, so the girl made a mistake, thus that justifies the Father's actions? If you've even read pieces of this thread you should see how many times its been said, its not the fact that she received corporal punishment, its the manner in which its delivered, and how malicious and aggressive the Father is. He's not teaching a lesson or disciplining the kid, he - is - ABUSING her. This is a scarring and traumatic experience, and this very obviously is not a first time thing or anything of that nature. Who the fuck has never downloaded some illegal music in their lives? I can't think of anyone i know personally, in my age group atleast. So you don't think you would have resentment towards your parents, if they went through your kazaa files when you were in 8th grade, and then beat the shit out of you for it? you're an idiot. You're overreacting. He has a point, the way this story is being presented is absolutely misleading and pirating is a crime with a hefty possible punishment. I have downloaded copyrighted materials and yet I still understand that. We can all see that the beating this father gave his child was definitely severe, and many believe far too severe. That's still no reason to misrepresent the truth just to pile it on the guy. He should be punished for what he's actually done, not what we've exaggerated him to have done. He beat his daughter for stealing, not using the internet. | ||
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Bigtony
United States1606 Posts
On November 04 2011 06:43 scribe123456 wrote: Just a thought: Lets say your are caught downloading music from pb or someplace illegal, and you are taken to court and the judge fined you .$54,000 OR 17 swipes from this guy here.... is there anyone here who would not take the 17 swipes? I would. (this girl was downloading pirated music). There is a difference between just getting spanked/caned/whatever X number of times (not this video), and someone beating you in a fit of rage (this video). | ||
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aaronlolol
134 Posts
Another thing to keep in mind is spanking and BEATING are two different things. I know friends from home that were BEAT as children. Like bruised and smacked around, even bruised on their face and etc. That girl was not BEAT, she was spanked really harshly which I still don't agree with at her age. While I do feel bad for this girl and this father of hers seems like a total piece of garbage, think of this too. If it was a boy getting beat, 90% of us would see it from a totally different eye and not even shed a metaphorical tear. Just the same way that yes, girls being sexually abused is AWFUL but when 4 girls physically sexually harass a boy, everyone just turns a shoulder and charges don't get pressed. I really hope this girl goes on to succeed in her life and gets away from her father, and I hope she can get over this event as well. But really, it is not like she was beaten into a pulp and it's not the worst thing out there. God bless and godspeed to her and her mother though. That dude is a piece of trash. Also for those of you that are shitting on her mother, please take 30 seconds and go read the description of the video on YouTube. It specifically says that her mother is hardly to blame because of her abuse and manipulative father, so if you don't really know the story don't shit on the mother. Yeah she was in the wrong as well but her husband probably told her that he would beat her if she didn't talk down to and beat the girl as well. | ||
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