EPTJudge beats daughter for using the internet - Page 58
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TheHansBecker
United States117 Posts
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peekn
United States1152 Posts
Wow well that was horrifying to watch, I didn't even get past the one minute mark. I mean I've heard of reprimanding but this is just insane, that guy is throwing his arm up and over his shoulder and laying into her. I really hope that he goes away for awhile child abuse is child abuse, children are suppose to trust their parents not get beaten by them. | ||
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Cirn9
1117 Posts
Not slapping her around and truly beating her. Maybe I'm just old and things have changed a lot, but spankings weren't anything but a fast punishment for doing something bad. Fuck, when I was little, I'd rather be spanked than grounded, because then I could go back to playing right after the butthurt wore off. EDIT: Fuck off E-sports elephant! My adblock is disabled! | ||
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Ryka
United Kingdom254 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:46 TheHansBecker wrote: So your logic is...because other people have done it, it's all right? He didn't say that at all, just that some people are getting carried away and shouldn't be so horrified. | ||
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lvatural
United States347 Posts
I'm guessing she normally turns around, then gets hit once or twice with the belt and it's over. But her actions to disregard her father despite being hit repeadetly seemed wholly with the intention of bringing out the worse beating possible for the camera. That, in itself, is pretty devious imo. But I'm not saying hitting your kid with the belt is okay or anything. Just that the video is probably much more graphic and intense than what would have normally occurred in the household. Also need some more info before condemning the man to damnation. | ||
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Ayaz2810
United States2763 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:48 Cirn9 wrote: Its just a spanking isn't it? Not slapping her around and truly beating her. Maybe I'm just old and things have changed a lot, but spankings weren't anything but a fast punishment for doing something bad. Fuck, when I was little, I'd rather be spanked than grounded, because then I could go back to playing right after the butthurt wore off. EDIT: Fuck off E-sports elephant! My adblock is disabled! I don't mind a good old fashioned spanking. That being said, no one should be beating on a 16 year old. That's wrong in and of itself. Secondly, a spanking is supposed to be about correcting a behavior. This beating was about anger. Look at how he beats her across the legs and such. And the language he and the mother use. This was not just a punishment, this was them losing control. That's not acceptable at any age. EDIT: Go go internet white knights!! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/45135221/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/ 2nd EDIT: Yes, I spank my kids. I think it's fine in extreme circumstances and in moderation. | ||
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jinorazi
Korea (South)4948 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:52 ayaz2810 wrote: I don't mind a good old fashioned spanking. That being said, no one should be beating on a 16 year old. That's wrong in and of itself. Secondly, a spanking is supposed to be about correcting a behavior. This beating was about anger. Look at how he beats her across the legs and such. And the language he and the mother use. This was not just a punishment, this was them losing control. That's not acceptable at any age. EDIT: Go go internet white knights!! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/45135221/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/ very good point. i think the problem is that the parents lost control, not the fact that she was getting spanked. | ||
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Blardy
United States290 Posts
On November 03 2011 04:01 Klondikebar wrote: If there's nothing wrong with it then why don't you do it? There's nothing wrong with driving an automatic, but I drive a standard. | ||
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PetitCrabe
Canada410 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:46 TheHansBecker wrote: So your logic is...because other people have done it, it's all right? No sorry. I am NOT saying it's alright because other people do it. Sorry, I probably wrote it wrong. I'm not taking sides and saying the dad is in his right doing this. I'm just saying, that being from an immigrant family, this is normal daily stuff, and all my immigrant friends can say this. And most of us have grown up being decent human beings without having hatred towards our parents. Do I hate my parents for bringing me up that way? No. Will I do that to my kids? NO absolutely not. | ||
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mderg
Germany1740 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:52 lvatural wrote: A part of me thinks this is much worse than what the "ordinary" beating would be in the household. She set up the webcam. She said she was doing it so that she could release it in the future. So she had a particular motive involved during the entire incident. I'm guessing she normally turns around, then gets hit once or twice with the belt and it's over. But her actions to disregard her father despite being hit repeadetly seemed wholly with the intention of bringing out the worse beating possible for the camera. That, in itself, is pretty devious imo. But I'm not saying hitting your kid with the belt is okay or anything. Just that the video is probably much more graphic and intense than what would have normally occurred in the household. Also need some more info before condemning the man to damnation. Exactly my thoughts... | ||
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Cirn9
1117 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:52 ayaz2810 wrote: I don't mind a good old fashioned spanking. That being said, no one should be beating on a 16 year old. That's wrong in and of itself. Secondly, a spanking is supposed to be about correcting a behavior. This beating was about anger. Look at how he beats her across the legs and such. And the language he and the mother use. This was not just a punishment, this was them losing control. That's not acceptable at any age. EDIT: Go go internet white knights!! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/45135221/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/ 2nd EDIT: Yes, I spank my kids. I think it's fine in extreme circumstances and in moderation. Good to know, and I agree. Thanks for the clarification (as I currently can't watch atm, nor do I feel the need to read 56 pages to try and find out) | ||
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GrimReefer
United States442 Posts
i was spanked and whatnot as a child. my dad's wedding band is very wide and he had this uncanny way of pinching my bottom lip against my teeth. if i talked with my mouth full, he'd give me a quick ninja like backhand to the mouth. never that hard, it was the ring that sucked. if i saw it coming and moved or flinched i still usually got hit, but my dad still wanted to get me in the mouth "properly." i quickly learned to take the first lick and get it over with. If i lied my dad would spank my butt. if i squirmed or tried to get away the blow would still land and my dad would still want to get a proper spanking accomplished. i quickly learned to take the spanking and get it over with. The girl in the video protested the punishment the entire time, further enraging her dad. she received several extra blows because she wouldn't let him hit her in the butt. it could be said that a majority of the blows to her legs were from disobedience in the moment, not just from her downloading illegal software. a majority of the blows are heard and not seen. have you ever doubled your belt over in your hands and snapped it against itself? it's a loud scarey sound. have someone snap the belt and you put your hand in the loop, it doesn't hurt at all. the sound is from the leather slapping against itself. we have no idea how how much physical damage was actually caused by her father. several of the swings may have hit the bed or been glancing blows. also, generally getting hit with a doubled over belt hurts far less than getting hit with a wooden spoon, paddle, and often times a hand. HOWEVER, he definitely crossed the line with the verbal abuse. after discipline should come teaching and love. her father did neither of these. i love the posts from people wanting to beat this man up for what he did. a little tooooo ironic, yeah i really do think. | ||
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Paperplane
Netherlands1823 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:52 lvatural wrote: A part of me thinks this is much worse than what the "ordinary" beating would be in the household. She set up the webcam. She said she was doing it so that she could release it in the future. So she had a particular motive involved during the entire incident. I'm guessing she normally turns around, then gets hit once or twice with the belt and it's over. But her actions to disregard her father despite being hit repeadetly seemed wholly with the intention of bringing out the worse beating possible for the camera. That, in itself, is pretty devious imo. But I'm not saying hitting your kid with the belt is okay or anything. Just that the video is probably much more graphic and intense than what would have normally occurred in the household. Also need some more info before condemning the man to damnation. The girl is devious for getting beaten, right. She WANTED to get beat up so she could release the video. Poor ol' dad... A parent doesn't do this to a child. Period. No excuses. | ||
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TheHansBecker
United States117 Posts
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JL_GG
Canada249 Posts
this is a judge rly??? jesus hell | ||
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Kazeyonoma
United States2912 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:48 Cirn9 wrote: Its just a spanking isn't it? Not slapping her around and truly beating her. Maybe I'm just old and things have changed a lot, but spankings weren't anything but a fast punishment for doing something bad. Fuck, when I was little, I'd rather be spanked than grounded, because then I could go back to playing right after the butthurt wore off. EDIT: Fuck off E-sports elephant! My adblock is disabled! spanking with a leather belt, hitting her legs and arms? i don't think so. hitting her repeatedly despite her crying for him to stop? coming back in AFTER it had stopped to say "I AINT GOT MY LICKIN' IN YET" and continuing to beat her again? Yeah... just a simple spanking. watch the video man, this shit is sick. also, spanking is very clearly defined it's open palm, small taps to the bottom of a child. Not with an object, not with swinging force, not on the legs arms, or face (he threatens to hit her in the face). | ||
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Quotidian
Norway1937 Posts
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FaZe
Canada472 Posts
I think a better question is "Is there a better way to teach right from wrong?" I would argue that there is. My parents never beat me. They are my friends, and I have grown up to be a successful, productive member of society. Most parents who beat their children are doing it because they lack the mental capacity or open mindedness to realize that there are better ways to teach lessons. | ||
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Egyptian_Head
South Africa508 Posts
On November 03 2011 06:54 jinorazi wrote: very good point. i think the problem is that the parents lost control, not the fact that she was getting spanked. Pretty much. If you cannot remain calm then this kind of discipline really is not something you should be doing. | ||
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bRuTaL!!
Finland588 Posts
http://www.aransascountytx.gov/courtatlaw/ N E W S R E L E A S E County of Aransas, 301 N. Live Oak, Rockport, Texas 78382 Aransas County Judge C. H. "Burt" Mills, Jr., 361-790-0100 FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE November 2, 2011 ARANSAS COUNTY, TEXAS - Judge Burt Mills has today announced that Aransas County is aware of the video posted on YouTube regarding County Court-at-Law Judge William Adams, and the matter is now under review by the Police Department. Please refrain from communication with County offices or the Sheriff's Department on this matter until the review has been completed. Calls, emails, and faxes only create disruptions for other ongoing county business. The public's cooperation would be most appreciated. | ||
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