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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
Firebolt145
Lalalaland34507 Posts
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On February 06 2014 17:42 Firebolt145 wrote: 'Hey, just wondering if we're still on for X? Cheers' doesnt that sound desperate should i ask if its just a one night thing too and then if she says yes move on? | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
You have a date in a few days, just ask a confirmation (or information about it). A simple "Hey we have a date saturday right" is fine. Call her directly. Don't bring awkward stuff in it just be excited to meet again. If she says no and doesn't want to reschedule, you'll know. should i ask if its just a one night thing too and then if she says yes move on? Nope, awkward, put pressure on her and insecure. | ||
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kaykaykay
Singapore637 Posts
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:16 rezoacken wrote: It only sounds insecure to me if you ask someone if youre a couple or not (whatever that means in people heads), That's what girls do with me all the time (or used to do) and it fucking annoyed me (and nowadays it is "will we get married ?" and it still annoys me). I'd carry on just as normal (that is if you yourself want more than a one night stand). You have a date in a few days, just ask a confirmation (or information about it). A simple "Hey we have a date saturday right" is fine. Call her directly. Don't bring awkward stuff in it just be excited to meet again. If she says no and doesn't want to reschedule, you'll know. Nope, awkward, put pressure on her and insecure. Do I take an ignore/no real answer/seemingly bullshit answer as a fuck off? Like she went from being super sweet in messages to, "my dad is kinda mad but i hope we can hang out soon maybe" to not talking to me at all :< I don't like the concept ofbeing one night standed by a female, especially one i tried to get to go out with me for liek a year -_- | ||
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Acrofales
Spain18442 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:39 kaykaykay wrote: So how exactly do you survive a shit test? Eat lots of lavender? | ||
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34507 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:05 arb wrote: doesnt that sound desperate should i ask if its just a one night thing too and then if she says yes move on? Anything sounds desperate if you are out to convince yourself you sound desperate. If you ask it as a simple 'yes/no' question and don't overreact or overthink it, it'll be absolutely fine. | ||
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Ghostcom
Denmark4783 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:39 kaykaykay wrote: So how exactly do you survive a shit test? You walk away and find a legitimately nice girl instead. | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:49 arb wrote: Do I take an ignore/no real answer/seemingly bullshit answer as a fuck off? Like she went from being super sweet in messages to, "my dad is kinda mad but i hope we can hang out soon maybe" to not talking to me at all :< I don't like the concept ofbeing one night standed by a female, especially one i tried to get to go out with me for liek a year -_- Can't help you there buddy. There is nothing more to say until you actually talk to her. You'll analyze it when that's done there is no point imagining things before hand. | ||
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Overpowered
Czech Republic764 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:39 kaykaykay wrote: So how exactly do you survive a shit test? Ignore or "Agree and Amplify" - blow it into hilarious proportions. "Do I look fat?" "Now that you mention that... how the hell did you fit through the door?" Dunno, just make fun of it and don't let it bother you. Best served with shit-eating grin. If the girl is not insecure, you can also try looking serious for maximum hilarity. | ||
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
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Steins;Gate
1422 Posts
On February 07 2014 01:30 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Max awko between math girl and i atm. why? | ||
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
Edit: i think shes just not interested. Oh well | ||
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Steins;Gate
1422 Posts
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Ghostcom
Denmark4783 Posts
On February 07 2014 03:14 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Mixed signals bro, plus me overthinking things That is the point where you ignore all the "no" signals and just dive in based on all the "yes" signals. | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
On February 06 2014 18:39 kaykaykay wrote: So how exactly do you survive a shit test? absolve yourself of all pua brainwashing and don't worry about it at all | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
On February 07 2014 03:18 Ghostcom wrote: That is the point where you ignore all the "no" signals and just dive in based on all the "yes" signals. never ignore "no" signals | ||
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Ghostcom
Denmark4783 Posts
Nah, better to stay in the "I don't know if she is in to me or not - oh god she looked at me, she loves me; no wait now she is talking to Dan, she hates me - FUCK DAN" mode. | ||
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
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dravernor
Netherlands6192 Posts
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