I havent been to one with a stripper but I wouldnt want one to be there personally.

I don't look at other girls because I am happy with my long time girlfriend and would prefer to hang out with my friends than have a stripper. For me personally im not into that kind of thing but its up to the person about to get married and the person organizing the party to know whether a stripper is ok for them or not.

At the very least let everyone know so that anyone uncomfortable with the stripper being there can go off to another room and do something else just because strippers involve a certain element of personal choice and preference as to whether they are ok or not.

Sworn

Canada920 Posts

June 26 2011 19:15 GMT

#106

Ok if your going to get a stripper you need NEED to put out the money for a good one. Don't go out and get some skanky ass gross one your going to need to put some effort into it. Also Yes you need a stripper personally I prefer one that dresses up like a cop old but good.

Weson

Iceland1032 Posts

June 26 2011 19:17 GMT

#107

Yes it is. It's his last big party before "game over". If you know he likes strippers good. If you know he doesn't like strippers it's your duty as a brother to mess with him and get at least 3.

Well that's just what i think.

DoomsVille

Canada4885 Posts

June 26 2011 19:19 GMT

#108

Has your brother been to strip clubs before? Does he enjoy them?

If so, then yes get a stripper. There's nothing wrong about doing it. It is tradition. It really is a good way to send a man off into wedlock. And you guys seem like you're going to party hardcore all weekend, so a stripper seems to go well with that.

I've only ever been to 1 bachelor party without strippers (out of like 5) and it was still a lot of fun (obviously chilling with your buddies is going to be a good time no matter what). But I feel like strippers is a bachelor party tradition that shouldn't be broken unless your brother is really opposed to it..

FireS

Romania415 Posts

June 26 2011 19:20 GMT

#109

is it ok to invite stripper at HSC ?

Magenta

Sweden113 Posts

June 26 2011 19:20 GMT

#110

please, could someone tell me why you guys think its ok with strippers?

Its a degrading job and it is based on an old idea that women are nothing but looks. How can you think thats just fine?

I would be more ok with it if there where more male strippers and if it was just as ok for woman to hire a stripper, but honestly i dont think its a good way of looking a humans.

tube

United States1475 Posts

June 26 2011 19:27 GMT

#111

wait whats the point of a stripper
get really horny.. and then what? you're going to cheat on your fiance?

MetalMarine

United States1559 Posts

June 26 2011 19:28 GMT

#112

Hell yea it is okay! Get at least 5 of them, make sure you have tons of blow too

Hittegods

Stockholm4641 Posts

June 26 2011 19:29 GMT

#113

Yes, but I wouldn't want to go to one where there was a stripper.

Sinensis

United States2513 Posts

June 26 2011 19:37 GMT

#114

Yes, it is actually encouraged from my understanding.

opsayo

591 Posts

June 26 2011 19:40 GMT

#115

if you ask this then you have no idea what women actually do at bachelorette parties

and dont believe what they say either

EG.lectR

United States617 Posts

June 26 2011 19:40 GMT

#116

If your brother loves his wife, then no it's not appropriate. I pity the wives (future and existing) of so many of the posters on this thread.

dcemuser

United States3248 Posts

June 26 2011 19:42 GMT

#117

No, it is most definitely not appropriate, but most people are going to do it anyway.

Morbidius

Brazil3449 Posts

June 26 2011 19:44 GMT

#118

Everyone says you need a stripper before you lose your freedom, but why are you getting married if you see it as losing your freedom then?

sefio

103 Posts

June 26 2011 19:48 GMT

#119

Isn't it like a custom to go to a strip club as part of the party?

MadMushroom

Netherlands15 Posts

June 26 2011 19:50 GMT

#120

On June 27 2011 02:32 caruso wrote:
A friend of mine owns a and works in bar with a pretty much only female demograpic and he gets laid with a bride-to-be at least once a month.

Somehow this really makes me sad, if true, to think that people who are about to be married would so easily cheat on their "beloved" mere days before their wedding, but hey, not much surprises me anymore these days.

As for the stripper, I would say no, I wouldn't want to remember my last hours of "freedom" by a unknown woman stripping which she does for a living.