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On May 21 2007 00:50 Hot_Bid wrote:Show nested quote +On May 21 2007 00:28 WhatisProtoss wrote:
(1) Can we stop using the word "fuck" in regards to sex? What the fuck is wrong with you people? It's some kind of game? Or are you guys all so good at fucking/banging girls?
(2) I know many guys, including myself, who have felt that way about a girl. It's a stage that some people go through. I know that it comes from you having a bad feeling about sex because you think it's demeaning. It's not. As long as the feeling is right and you care about her, sex is an important and trusting activity between the two of you. for (2), that feeling goes away really fast. i mean, for ilovezil or mrdx or whoever gets these kind of feelings for "cute" girls, don't you just feel urges after periods of time? i mean do you just go home and jerk off or whatever after hanging out with this girl? you can't just go weeks or whatever without ever having an orgasm if you're seeing her right? and for (1), "fuck" and "bang" are necessary because they express a complete different meaning than "make love" or "have sex with." the connotation is more raw, its more primal, its more sexual and dirty, it's less candlelight and music and more bathroom stall or tabletop. i don't see what's wrong with people using that word if their intent is to convey a certain meaning. certainly not censoring it altogether which is what you're suggesting, that's kind of ridiculous.
(1) If he loves this girl, I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be using "fuck" or "bang." Don't try to justify such words.....
(2) What did you just write? I don't understand what you said. I think it's an attempt to agree with me.... but you just didn't read my post carefully enough. It's just a stage that certain guys go through. He just has to realize that sex isn't such a demeaning activity and you should be able to do it easily with the girl you like.
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On May 21 2007 00:51 fusionsdf wrote:
WiP always makes thread entertaining.
Like a really active ganfei
Thank you. Except I don't know who ganfei is.....
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Braavos36400 Posts
i read your post fine. i do agree with you about that, i was just bringing up a point about simple sexual desire in guys and how its difficult to suppress for long periods of time. i was asking a question and trying to figure out how guys with those feelings release their sexual desire. is it just turned off? do they find other outlets?
(2) What did you just write? I don't understand what you said. I think it's an attempt to agree with me.... but you just didn't read my post carefully enough.
is the "what did you just write?" really needed
as to (1), i don't see how that opinion has any bearing on how other people use the words and whether they should stop using them altogether, or how them using those words say anything about this statement:
On May 21 2007 00:28 WhatisProtoss wrote:
(1) Can we stop using the word "fuck" in regards to sex? What the fuck is wrong with you people? It's some kind of game? Or are you guys all so good at fucking/banging girls?
you're basically suggesting people stop using "fuck" in general to describe sex, because why? what's wrong with it?
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I'm saying, stop using it here because this guy has no intention of "fucking" this girl.
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Braavos36400 Posts
well that's different than "stop using it in regards to sex". your post was unclear. it seemed like you were advocating dropping the use of the word to describe sex in general.
if thats what you truly meant then why add the stuff about it being a game or "you guys all so good at fucking/banging girls"
i don't see how their usage of "fuck" has any implications for how they view sex in general or how "good" they view themselves at getting sex
as i explained before "fuck" and "bang" have different meanings than "make love to"
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Braavos36400 Posts
and this guy will have intentions of fucking this girl... eventually.
would it be insulting to her if he went around bragging about how he likes to fuck her? yes.
but if he loves her will he truly want to fuck her? definitely. if he doesn't its not a good, healthy relationship.
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You try too hard to annoy me. Too hard to the point where almost every sentence of yours contains "fuck" in it just because I disapproved of people using it. Keep trying.
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Braavos36400 Posts
On May 21 2007 01:08 WhatisProtoss wrote:
You try too hard to annoy me. Too hard to the point where almost every sentence of yours contains "fuck" in it just because I disapproved of people using it. Keep trying.
i am not trying to annoy you. fuck is a word that implies primal, instinctual, raw sex. it and the urge to have it is needed, at least sometimes, in a healthy relationship.
you also said you only disagree with the terms usage with regards to the actual guy having sex with his girl, but in reality that relationship just needs some good fucking, not "making love" or whatever.
i used the word for a reason, for its meaning, it's not to annoy you. honestly, it wasn't. you should try actually reading the post i made instead of seeing it as an attack on yourself. not everything revolves around your personal character, i was making a point about his relationship and the usage of the word.
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If this guy does love her.... and makes the decision to have sex with her... he certainly won't think of it as "fucking" her. He'll want to "make love" to her. Like you said, "fucking" is something that's primal and raw. Sex doesn't have to be that way, and I'm sure this guy doesn't want it to be.
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i prefer the word fuck to sex; sex sound so machine like, automatic, while in fuck there is at least desire.
i think in a love based relationship both stages should be present: the making love one and the abstinence; alternate one with the other.
if you don't abuse masturbation, those it will come on and off naturaly.
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Braavos36400 Posts
On May 21 2007 01:28 WhatisProtoss wrote:
If this guy does love her.... and makes the decision to have sex with her... he certainly won't think of it as "fucking" her. He'll want to "make love" to her. Like you said, "fucking" is something that's primal and raw. Sex doesn't have to be that way, and I'm sure this guy doesn't want it to be.
i agree with you that it doesn't have to be that way.
but it also doesn't have to always be "making love."
sometimes you want to cuddle and hold your girlfriends hand and kiss under the moonlight.
sometimes you want to rent a cheap hotel room and just go at it all night.
one is making love, one is fucking, both are OK to do to your girlfriend.
primal, raw sex is fine for couples, i'd even say its healthy. not all the time, but sometimes.
people always say the best sex couples have is the kind they have right after an argument, and its because they're both angry and just release that energy that way. its "fucking" in the pure sense of the word.
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You just say the same thing over and over again. Idiot.
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Braavos36400 Posts
On May 21 2007 01:37 WhatisProtoss wrote:
You just say the same thing over and over again. Idiot.
i think my point was perfectly valid, this is a completely unnecessary flame.
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that is a love quarrel; just kiss and make up it's all a matter of perspective;
yes, people are diferent.
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I'm not angry. I'm just tired of responding to the same post, rephrased.
Why are you so angry, Dronebabo? You like to try and ban me? Or complain to me to other members? It's not even about the thread to you. It's about trying to flame me.
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Cayman Islands24199 Posts
hahaha, this is clearly srs business. chill out.
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Actually, I didn't respond to the bitching you've done to the other members about me. I was just rephrasing what you wrote, and substituted "Dronebabo" for "Whatisprotoss."
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