EPTTrue love and sexual desire - Page 2
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oneofthem
Cayman Islands24199 Posts
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
On May 20 2007 05:24 mrdx wrote: Whenever I'm truly in love with someone, all my sexual desires are instantly turned off. Porn doesn't work (while just before I'm in love, even a cheap porn could usually turn my horny self on in < few secs). Kisses, hugs, touches, and sometimes even oral don't work either. Basically I don't want to have sex with the one I truly deeply love. Have you ever experienced this problem? Or, should I see this as a problem? Is it because I'm Asian? Please feel free to share your thoughts.  Are you both happy and feel no regrets that the sexual desire isn't there? Then there is no problem. | ||
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
Anyway, there are 3 types of girls in this world for me: 1. girls u wanna fuck 2. girls u wanna protect from being fucked 3. girls u wish would fuck off. | ||
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BaconatedGrapefruit
41 Posts
On May 20 2007 05:24 mrdx wrote: Whenever I'm truly in love with someone, all my sexual desires are instantly turned off. Porn doesn't work (while just before I'm in love, even a cheap porn could usually turn my horny self on in < few secs). Kisses, hugs, touches, and sometimes even oral don't work either. Basically I don't want to have sex with the one I truly deeply love. Have you ever experienced this problem? Or, should I see this as a problem? Is it because I'm Asian? Please feel free to share your thoughts. Not to sound offensive, but when someone who sounds as young as young says "WHENEVER I'm truly in love," it really makes it seems like you've never been in love. Maybe English isn't your first language, and you are just mistranslating "like" or something, but most people would be lucky to "truly love" one person in their lifetime, and usually people aren't mature enough to love until their mid-20s or so. Just warning you to use your words more carefully, or they'll lose their meaning. Think about it. How much will saying "I love you" mean to your wife if she knows you think you've loved 8 people before? Not that much. And yes, when you truly CARE about someone, it isn't uncommon for your real feelings to overwhelm the lust you would normally have for her. If you're like 35-40, I take back what I say, but otherwise I think you're exaggerating. | ||
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SuperJongMan
Jamaica11586 Posts
No desire at all? Not even a smidgen? Not even a quick clean shower fuck? O come on.. You don't really love her then, you idolize her. EDIT - Seriously try the Shower one -_-;; I.. do not understand. | ||
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larra
Germany44 Posts
I come from the same country as you, and I know you're only 22 or so. I can think of 2 answers : 1.Like grapefruit said, you've never been in love. 2.You've experienced impotence a tad sooner than others. | ||
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
Whatever now, do u really feel like jerking off all the time ? And if u don't have any regrets on it, chill off, there's no problem. Oh and something really important: + Show Spoiler + HOME FUCKING KILLS PROSTITUTION !!! | ||
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Q~Bert
United States670 Posts
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ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
On May 20 2007 10:10 Q~Bert wrote: Wow you are gonna have a serious problem when you get married. I hope you truly love a fat ugly bitch who can't get any from anyone else otherwise she is gonna leave your no putting out ass i think he's just at the stage right now where he respects her boundaries because he loves her. The sexual desire will probably come after marriage etc. Not even marriage per se, just that it's not there right now. | ||
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gulii
Sweden2792 Posts
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FirstBorn
Romania3955 Posts
On May 20 2007 10:22 gulii wrote: I wanna fuck everybody. (not ahk) gay. | ||
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dropthesky
Canada285 Posts
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Flaccid
8907 Posts
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brian
United States9641 Posts
but yeah, like someone else, the girl im dating turns me on just by looking at me. its actually annoying sometimes. | ||
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Silent_Marine
Vietnam281 Posts
 You do what you think it's right to your gf  . But I like to keep "that" until marry | ||
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Pressure
7326 Posts
On May :43 ilovezil wrote: Actually, I know exactly what the OP is talking about. Perhaps it's because the girls that I tend to like are the "cute" type instead of the "hot" type, but when I really start liking a girl, I become like that. I don't have the sexual desire, but rather, I want to make her happy. Bleh...whatever. Means nothing from a guy who has no female interaction T_T. Anyway, there are 3 types of girls in this world for me: 1. girls u wanna fuck 2. girls u wanna protect from being fucked 3. girls u wish would fuck off. 4. 13 year old boys u wanna fuck hmm? | ||
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gulii
Sweden2792 Posts
How come? I meant girls. | ||
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CapO
United States1615 Posts
On May 20 2007 09:43 ilovezil wrote: Actually, I know exactly what the OP is talking about. Perhaps it's because the girls that I tend to like are the "cute" type instead of the "hot" type, but when I really start liking a girl, I become like that. I don't have the sexual desire, but rather, I want to make her happy. Bleh...whatever. Means nothing from a guy who has no female interaction T_T. Anyway, there are 3 types of girls in this world for me: 1. girls u wanna fuck 2. girls u wanna protect from being fucked 3. girls u wish would fuck off. same thing for me , ilovezil ya, there are girls i just wanna protect them from bad things. i wanna make them happy and stuff. sex could make her happy, but it's like you just wanna be with her and see her smile. and then, there are girls u just wish to fuck really hard. | ||
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WiSaGaN
203 Posts
And you love this girl very much, so you unconsciously do not want this evil thing happened in your girl friend. The best way to solve this is to get rid of the "evil" side of sex, and make you both believe that sex is something good and not to yourselves' value but also in moral standard. Hope this could help you. | ||
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bine
United States2352 Posts
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