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Perhaps it's my upbringing, all the D.A.R.E classes, or maybe I'm just a boring person but substance abuse just pisses me off. I hate the idea of them, I hate what it does to people, etc. Makes things difficult since I can't look at people the same when I know they use drugs. I respect them less and I question their judgment, intelligence, and general integrity as a person. Which is further complicated because I'm finding out every day that it is more prevalent than I thought. Friends I've known for awhile turn out to be users and it colors them in a different light from there on in.
I'm not sure exactly why I hate it so much either. Perhaps it's the sense of excess that I associate with it or maybe just my own insecurity about not being in control, I'm not really sure. I can sort of understand the allure but I still find myself disgusted by it. Might just be a need to feel superior to others, I've been told I can sit on an awfully high horse.
In case someone is going to ask, I've never done drugs and you could probably only fill a milk carton halfway with all the alcohol I've ever consumed for the sake of being social. So at least I'm not a hypocrite.
I'm sure I'm going to get plenty of flak for this since I seem to be in the overwhelming minority on this but I felt the need to vent. I'm boring, I know.
   
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Go smoke some weed, It'll change your whole outlook. I guarantee it =)
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if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like.
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Alcohol the cause and solution to every problem.
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you are naive and far too judgemental
with such a sheltered upbringing, though, its not really your fault. the naivety, i mean. being so judgemental is just shitty, especially since you really have no idea what you're talking about on this subject
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On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Yeah, I get that a lot. It's like telling me to find religion and saying "How can you judge until you've tried it?" You don't always need to have experienced something to disagree with it strongly. I got similar arguments when I said fraternities were trash. "You were never in a frat, you wouldn't understand" and stuff like that.
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Alcohol consumption and drug use disgust me. In fact, it actually scares me. I think I also am like you in that I don't like the fact of not being in control of what I'm doing. In general though, for some reason, I completely despise all types of drug use/alcohol use. I have only tasted a few sips of champagne when I was really young, but other than that haven't drank or done any drugs.
Also, I despise smoking. I just look down on anyone who smokes or drinks or does drugs. I don't know why, but I can never see a person the same way after knowing they do drugs/drink. I guess I ride on a high horse too.
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I feel you man. Usually nobody convinces anyone else of anything online regarding this subject, but my advice to you is to just try to be a tad less judgmental but feel free to continue living your life the way you want (without trying shit).
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Alcohol is cool. You should try. White porto ftw.
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On February 17 2009 12:51 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: you are naive and far too judgemental
with such a sheltered upbringing, though, its not really your fault. the naivety, i mean. being so judgemental is just shitty, especially since you really have no idea what you're talking about on this subject I'd like to say I know as much as you can without trying it or doing extensive study on the subject. Not the utmost informed of course, but not completely in the dark either. I did a fair amount of reading and I've been around tons and tons of people using a number of substances over the years.
I feel my reasons for not doing it myself are valid but my utter hatred for the use of the substance by others I understand to not be completely rational. It's something of a gut feeling I can't quite explain. Which is a reason why I don't get in people's faces about it, lest I come off as a fanatic.
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drugs aren't much worse than the countless other cycles of attachment people get in. I'd rather be a crackhead hurting myself and maybe 1 or 2 other people along the way than a big businessman using thousands of people below me to slowly leak money from the system, or a politician lying to the public and sending soldiers to their deaths.
also lumping all intoxicants together as "drugs" is incredibly naive. pretty much anything a person puts in their body is going to change their mindstate in some way.
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On the other hand, although I disagree with you OP, I do sympathize with you. I really hate when people try to act cool by bragging about how much they drink or drugs they do. I think that stuff is fun, but it's not really something to brag about.
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I'm seriously blowing smoke at your blog right now. Smoke from marijuana cigarettes.
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travis, where was your 10k?
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On February 17 2009 13:00 Phyre wrote: I feel my reasons for not doing it myself are valid but my utter hatred for the use of the substance by others I understand to not be completely rational. It's something of a gut feeling I can't quite explain. Which is a reason why I don't get in people's faces about it, lest I come off as a fanatic.
There is a word for this, it's "prejudice". It is the result of ignorance - a lack of understanding.
I am not trying to insult you, we all have our prejudices. But it's definitely nothing to be proud of; it is a vice.
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Basically, drugs are an escape, just like reading a book or watching a movie. Only when you do drugs you're the protagonist. And just like it wouldn't always be sweet to be Harry Potter, sometimes its not all that great to be on drugs. Some people see drugs as an excuse to be assholes. "I was drunk, so it doesn't count". They are actually assholes when they're sober too. Other people actually do experience a very real personality change when on drugs. They should not do drugs.
If you don't want to do drugs, hopefully nobody is forcing you. Just know that you only live once, and everything is alot more fun when you're under the influence. What are you afraid of?
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On February 17 2009 13:03 HeadBangaa wrote:travis, where was your 10k? 
i think it was the seeking religion thread hehe.
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One thing about anti-drug sentiment I might be able to understand is the implication of potentially shady contacts associated with an illegal drug user. This holds true in the majority of instances regardless of their drug of choice.
However, you may want to think about why you're so against their actual use. Are you against the use of all illegal drugs equally? What about legal drugs (caffeine, alcohol, nicotine)? Where do you draw the line, and why exactly? It may interest you to know that Carl Sagan regarded marijuana as an intellectual and creative stimulant, and used it for those purposes. Richard Feynman also refers to using marijuana in his book Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman. There are many additional examples which may easily be found. Surely, such luminaries as these had some idea of what they were doing?
There are a lot of reasons to have negative feelings towards drugs - they do a lot of bad things to a lot of people. However, it is rare to find something that is negative through and through, and it is always extremely dangerous as well as positively pedestrian to level uniform hatred at the entirety of a broad phenomenon.
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you can hate on drugs all you like, just don't be one of those faggots who calls the cops on kids and there's no problem :D
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On February 17 2009 12:55 GrayArea wrote: I think I also am like you in that I don't like the fact of not being in control of what I'm doing. It's a pretty ignorant stance to blatantly say that alcohol(I can't say anything about drugs since I haven't tried them) causes you to lose control of what you are doing. Oh sure it CAN cause you to lose control of yourself, some people even enjoy getting that shitfaced. If you exercise self restraint in drinking in the first place it is a completely legit experience, you don't lose control of yourself at all.
Have you never actually consumed alcohol before? I would think that you should know this already if you had. There's no way you are going to lose control of your actions after one beer. For most people it would take many more than one.
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On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Most juries couldn't judge murderers then.
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that's a really really stupid comparison
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On February 17 2009 13:20 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: that's a really really stupid comparison qft.
i smoke weed on a daily basis but not into much else. maybe a little molly here and there but thats it. gotta have respect for those who smoke and those who dont. l0l
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On February 17 2009 12:56 micronesia wrote: I feel you man. Usually nobody convinces anyone else of anything online regarding this subject, but my advice to you is to just try to be a tad less judgmental but feel free to continue living your life the way you want (without trying shit). I think this is about where I am. I drink casually with friends but I don't try to get drunk. Even if they're shitfaced, I can usually have almost as much fun without going that far. I grew up in Ann Arbor so I'm pretty indifferent towards weed and I'm plenty familiar, but I won't smoke and I stay away from people that are annoying when high, which is a lot of them. Nothing like having a meaningful conversation with someone who forgets it immediately.
Straight edges unite
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On February 17 2009 13:07 Freyr wrote: One thing about anti-drug sentiment I might be able to understand is the implication of potentially shady contacts associated with an illegal drug user. This holds true in the majority of instances regardless of their drug of choice.
However, you may want to think about why you're so against their actual use. Are you against the use of all illegal drugs equally? What about legal drugs (caffeine, alcohol, nicotine)? Where do you draw the line, and why exactly? It may interest you to know that Carl Sagan regarded marijuana as an intellectual and creative stimulant, and used it for those purposes. Richard Feynman also refers to using marijuana in his book Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman. There are many additional examples which may easily be found. Surely, such luminaries as these had some idea of what they were doing?
There are a lot of reasons to have negative feelings towards drugs - they do a lot of bad things to a lot of people. However, it is rare to find something that is negative through and through, and it is always extremely dangerous as well as positively pedestrian to level uniform hatred at the entirety of a broad phenomenon.
Depends what you mean by "against" all drugs. If someone let me pick one drug to remove from the planet I'd certainly pick the one that is doing the most "damage." I also don't hold a weed user and a cocaine user in the same light.
Legal "drugs" such as the ones you mentioned I treat somewhat differently. Alcohol has very noticeable effects on people and as such I do lump it almost with some of the illegal drugs like weed. Actually, it's my understanding that alcohol can actually be considered more dangerous than weed. Caffeine I find to largely negligible, as far as I can tell it is doing no serious harm in the sense that it is cheap, doesn't pose horrific health risks, and doesn't really change it's user. Nicotine, or more specifically cigarettes, I dislike for different reasons. They're being stupid because I know and they know it is killing them. The effects are drastic, understood, and universally known to be dangerous by anyone even remotely intelligent. At least in the US anyway.
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There are lots of reasons to be concerned about drugs, but you (the OP) don't appear to know any of them. The scary part is how drugs affect your brain, not how they make you feel or the recreation in general. It's just that it's hard to teach little kids neuro-science so they can make informed choices about drugs.
It's really a social issue, and it's more complicated than people just being stupid. More often people don't know what they're doing to themselves until it's too late. It's a sad state of affairs that's more deserving pity than disdain.
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On February 17 2009 13:26 Mindcrime wrote: I love drugs.
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well you seem very self aware, thats always good
i cant tell you how to get over your judgmental nature but im sure you'll figure it out.
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anti-drug/cig/alc "hate" from young people comes from their indoctrination as a youth via the media and school systems. kids are flat out lied to, bottom line.
there are ways to abuse or misuse anything, whether negative or positive. you can smoke weed because its fun, or because your life sucks. choice is yours ultimately.
as a child i was extremely anti until i started growing up and experienced new things. richard rodriguez says "as adults we are embarassed of our childhood fears."
lastly, most people that i have met at social gatherings that dont drink are usually people i dont want to be around to begin with, namely that they arent very sociable.
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On February 17 2009 13:30 esla_sol wrote: anti-drug/cig/alc "hate" from young people comes from their indoctrination as a youth via the media and school systems. kids are flat out lied to, bottom line.
It's always the media's fault. Seriously, I don't think this is it
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On February 17 2009 12:55 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Yeah, I get that a lot. It's like telling me to find religion and saying "How can you judge until you've tried it?" You don't always need to have experienced something to disagree with it strongly. I got similar arguments when I said fraternities were trash. "You were never in a frat, you wouldn't understand" and stuff like that.
You're right. You're gonna get a lot of potheads responding here, I don't know what you expected.
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On February 17 2009 13:19 Avidkeystamper wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Most juries couldn't judge murderers then. The difference is quantitative rather than qualitative. Of course I've never murdered someone, but I've hurt people before, and I know what death means, so I can imagine what it's like to hurt someone until they die. Whereas if you've never altered you mind with drugs, there's just no comparison. I guess the closest you could come would be like drinking a lot of coffee... but coffee is completely the opposite of alcohol.
Imagine if a 10 year old said "I've never even masturbated, but I think that sex sounds terrible." How the eff would he know?
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On February 17 2009 13:18 SmoKing2012 wrote: you can hate on drugs all you like, just don't be one of those faggots who calls the cops on kids and there's no problem :D seriously these people are so gay
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I think travis said it best....
It's definitely a prejudice rather than being naive
There's no question in my (or anyone else's i'm sure) mind that being entirely drug, alcohol, smoke-free is the healthiest way to go. But living life isn't about what you're supposed to do, it's about the shit that you see and do on the way.
I've done a variety of drugs, I drink and I smoke cigarettes, just the latter two now and I honestly feel that I'm better for it, kind of like a been there, done that, type of deal. I've no desire to smoke weed or do any other type of drug other than to go outside with my Coors Light, spark up a Marlboro No. 27 and enjoy the winter sky :p
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"not being in control"
lol 13 year olds
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Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin.
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On February 17 2009 13:36 Quesadilla wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 12:55 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Yeah, I get that a lot. It's like telling me to find religion and saying "How can you judge until you've tried it?" You don't always need to have experienced something to disagree with it strongly. I got similar arguments when I said fraternities were trash. "You were never in a frat, you wouldn't understand" and stuff like that. You're right. You're gonna get a lot of potheads responding here, I don't know what you expected. I was just venting but since people are responding I'm finding the various explanations and arguments interesting.
@Aux1: Of course. If someone else wants to smoke up or something it's none of my business. Unless they want to be obnoxious in which case they have it coming. I've got plenty of friends that have used drugs in the past, never ratted anyone out yet.
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On February 17 2009 13:37 Luddite wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 13:19 Avidkeystamper wrote:On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Most juries couldn't judge murderers then. The difference is quantitative rather than qualitative. Of course I've never murdered someone, but I've hurt people before, and I know what death means, so I can imagine what it's like to hurt someone until they die. Whereas if you've never altered you mind with drugs, there's just no comparison. I guess the closest you could come would be like drinking a lot of coffee... but coffee is completely the opposite of alcohol. Imagine if a 10 year old said "I've never even masturbated, but I think that sex sounds terrible." How the eff would he know? I think Avidkeystamper's post is correct, since any 10 year old human can still form a rational or irrational opinion based off of what experiences he or she has had in regards to the topic, in this case sex, from any indirect sources, e.g. a movie. Your statement makes it sound as if nothing can be formulated without prior experience, yet your example seems contradictory. Creating a posteriori knowledge about murder by hurting people is similar to how the 10 year old can formulate his or her own opinion based upon gained insights, no?
Edit: Typo. =(
Edit 2: This isn't very coherent...I think, in short, what is the difference between formulating an opinion of murder based off of hurting people and formulating an opinion of sex based off of similar indirect exposures?
Edit 3: Edited the main reply, for clarity, and hopefully, for coherence.
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On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. i think its safe to say most people who do any kind of drug here smoke weed, which, let's be honest doesn't ruin many lives.
edit: unless you're one of those dumb people who call weed the "gateway drug"
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On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. You know, that reminds me of something else. Wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of my dislike for drugs stems from the fact that many of my friends stopped being able to have fun doing things without drugs or alcohol. It got weird trying to hang out with them and far less enjoyable to me. I guess I missed late night video gaming and such.
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On February 17 2009 13:50 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. You know, that reminds me of something else. Wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of my dislike for drugs stems from the fact that many of my friends stopped being able to have fun doing things without drugs or alcohol. It got weird trying to hang out with them and far less enjoyable to me. I guess I missed late night video gaming and such. See, that's pretty understandable. Have you at least tried to hang out with them while they're doing that stuff? It's probably a bit harder with drinking, but it's not like people do anything spectacular that you can't be a part of when they're getting high, and it's not like they're that far out of it. You can just sit there and laugh at the stupid shit they say.
If they're cool people, they'll probably still want to hang and hopefully aren't retarded when they get fucked up.
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This debate reminds me of some sort of special Olympics debate, even if u win and we are all low life drug addicts. Your still retarded.
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On February 17 2009 13:56 Elementy wrote: This debate reminds me of some sort of special Olympics debate, even if u win and we are all low life drug addicts. Your still retarded. nobody is debating anything
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On February 17 2009 13:56 Elementy wrote: This debate reminds me of some sort of special Olympics debate, even if u win and we are all low life drug addicts. Your still retarded.
hey you're 13 years old or really really ignorant
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On February 17 2009 13:55 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 13:50 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. You know, that reminds me of something else. Wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of my dislike for drugs stems from the fact that many of my friends stopped being able to have fun doing things without drugs or alcohol. It got weird trying to hang out with them and far less enjoyable to me. I guess I missed late night video gaming and such. See, that's pretty understandable. Have you at least tried to hang out with them while they're doing that stuff? It's probably a bit harder with drinking, but it's not like people do anything spectacular that you can't be a part of when they're getting high, and it's not like they're that far out of it. You can just sit there and laugh at the stupid shit they say. If they're cool people, they'll probably still want to hang and hopefully aren't retarded when they get fucked up. Yeah, I've hung out with them on quite a few occasions when they've been either drinking or smoking. Honestly, its somewhat entertaining at first to laugh at some of the stupid things they do. When they get high, all they want to do is sit around in a stupor. When they drink they either just sit around and drink or play beer pong. After the first few times it just isn't as amusing and gets boring. While they may find something random like an object in the room or a certain phrase utterly hilarious I obviously don't. And I'm not sure I want to alter myself so that I do.
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On February 17 2009 14:33 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 13:55 Jibba wrote:On February 17 2009 13:50 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. You know, that reminds me of something else. Wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of my dislike for drugs stems from the fact that many of my friends stopped being able to have fun doing things without drugs or alcohol. It got weird trying to hang out with them and far less enjoyable to me. I guess I missed late night video gaming and such. See, that's pretty understandable. Have you at least tried to hang out with them while they're doing that stuff? It's probably a bit harder with drinking, but it's not like people do anything spectacular that you can't be a part of when they're getting high, and it's not like they're that far out of it. You can just sit there and laugh at the stupid shit they say. If they're cool people, they'll probably still want to hang and hopefully aren't retarded when they get fucked up. Yeah, I've hung out with them on quite a few occasions when they've been either drinking or smoking. Honestly, its somewhat entertaining at first to laugh at some of the stupid things they do. When they get high, all they want to do is sit around in a stupor. When they drink they either just sit around and drink or play beer pong. After the first few times it just isn't as amusing and gets boring. While they may find something random like an object in the room or a certain phrase utterly hilarious I obviously don't. And I'm not sure I want to alter myself so that I do. if you don't want to be high or drunk with your friends just make new friends who don't smoke or drink, it must be excruciatingly boring to be sober around people who aren't
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On February 17 2009 14:38 Aux1 wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 14:33 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 13:55 Jibba wrote:On February 17 2009 13:50 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 13:44 SerpentFlame wrote: Assuming most of you are under 30, wait until you turn 55 when all the associated health problems kick in. You might be singing a different tune =P, and trust me, I've seen enough families to know that it's not pleasant.
Anyways, I think we should give the OP a little more respect. The OP mentioned how he knew people who do substance abuse, which is certainly a fair reason to dislike the whole joint in general. A smoke now and then might not be the know-all end-all horror, but abusing drugs definitely destroys its fair share of lives (I at least have my share of friends who got into it and are pretty much lost in life forever), although it's not a fair way to characterize everyone who does alcohol or smoking.
Its' one thing to do drugs by yourself and another to get others into doing drugs (like getting friends over for a smoke), and that line can get pretty thin. You know, that reminds me of something else. Wouldn't be surprised if a good deal of my dislike for drugs stems from the fact that many of my friends stopped being able to have fun doing things without drugs or alcohol. It got weird trying to hang out with them and far less enjoyable to me. I guess I missed late night video gaming and such. See, that's pretty understandable. Have you at least tried to hang out with them while they're doing that stuff? It's probably a bit harder with drinking, but it's not like people do anything spectacular that you can't be a part of when they're getting high, and it's not like they're that far out of it. You can just sit there and laugh at the stupid shit they say. If they're cool people, they'll probably still want to hang and hopefully aren't retarded when they get fucked up. Yeah, I've hung out with them on quite a few occasions when they've been either drinking or smoking. Honestly, its somewhat entertaining at first to laugh at some of the stupid things they do. When they get high, all they want to do is sit around in a stupor. When they drink they either just sit around and drink or play beer pong. After the first few times it just isn't as amusing and gets boring. While they may find something random like an object in the room or a certain phrase utterly hilarious I obviously don't. And I'm not sure I want to alter myself so that I do. if you don't want to be high or drunk with your friends just make new friends who don't smoke or drink, it must be excruciatingly boring to be sober around people who aren't That's asking a lot lol. At least in Canada, it's completely a drug culture. It's easier to ask people to hang out and not do drugs with you once in awhile than to find the 1 in 1000 people who stay away from them completely.
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i accidentally the whole bottle am i going to die
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i hate weed cuz it makes my brain move faster than my body.
and so i start thinking in all these weird circles and whattheFUCK i start thinking of some weird shit and then i tell myself to move my hand and there's like a 4 second delay!
seriously, being high is like playing with bad lag.
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Heh. DARE. So useless. I recall most studies essentially say DARE does not work.
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Phyre, I have a similar amount of experience with drugs and alcohol, and I used to feel the same way you do about drugs. Then I realized that marijuana is actually a wonderous plant which can do a lot of good, and the drug war is not about public health but a number of other things.
Now I don't think drugs are fundamentally a bad thing. I think before I was biased was not coming to my own conclusions about it. That does not mean I think people should do drugs, generally they shouldn't.
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I don't drink or smoke anything, but a lot of my friends do. I just never really had the desire to do them. I don't really mind when my friends drink and smoke and such, although yeah, sometimes when they get really high they get BORING AS FUCK.
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I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. That coupled with the idea that drugs are sort of the epitome of peer pressure makes me really disrespect people who use them.
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On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP.....I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. I think I see a problem with your statement
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On February 17 2009 15:38 CDRdude wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP.....I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. I think I see a problem with your statement 
i would hardly consider agreeing with a single person "following the crowd."
anyways, i've never done drugs and i never really plan to, but i really didn't see any difference in my friends behavior when they started smoking weed. most of my friends do and they haven't really changed at all. and i really couldn't care less if they do/don't, as long as they don't do anything dumb while they are high.
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On February 17 2009 13:46 Descent wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 13:37 Luddite wrote:On February 17 2009 13:19 Avidkeystamper wrote:On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Most juries couldn't judge murderers then. The difference is quantitative rather than qualitative. Of course I've never murdered someone, but I've hurt people before, and I know what death means, so I can imagine what it's like to hurt someone until they die. Whereas if you've never altered you mind with drugs, there's just no comparison. I guess the closest you could come would be like drinking a lot of coffee... but coffee is completely the opposite of alcohol. Imagine if a 10 year old said "I've never even masturbated, but I think that sex sounds terrible." How the eff would he know? I think Avidkeystamper's post is correct, since any 10 year old human can still form a rational or irrational opinion based off of what experiences he or she has had in regards to the topic, in this case sex, from any indirect sources, e.g. a movie. Your statement makes it sound as if nothing can be formulated without prior experience, yet your example seems contradictory. Creating a posteriori knowledge about murder by hurting people is similar to how the 10 year old can formulate his or her own opinion based upon gained insights, no? Edit: Typo. =( Edit 2: This isn't very coherent...I think, in short, what is the difference between formulating an opinion of murder based off of hurting people and formulating an opinion of sex based off of similar indirect exposures? Edit 3: Edited the main reply, for clarity, and hopefully, for coherence.
would you trust a 10 year old's opinion on a murder case? because that's a much more apt analogy for someone who has never had any personal experience with these substances talking about them or being judgemental toward people who use them
no one is pretending he's incapable of having an opinion
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i should probably write a book one day about my experiences back home it wasnt like in the US. When you got blazed, you were really badass not too many drug users at the time, especially potheads. It was fun exploring whole new world, probably some of the best years of my life. I felt like i was becoming a part of something huge, whole new culture around here its so common - probably a pure choice of preference. Some get shitfaced, some smoke, some do coke - casual shit. Still i imagine when youre young the rush and enthusiasm is comparable no matter where you from. Youre eating the forbidden fruit after all i ended up having to quit everything - i dont even smoke cigs anymore( used to be 1-2 packs of reds daily) Just drinking beer/rum etc goodness it came to the point where i had to stop, my mind was fucked up. Ive done about everything, besides the heavy shit, but ended up tripping out every time i smoked weed. When you have to quit you will, there was no addiction. I'm sure many people on this forum going through same routines as i did, maybe not that intensive the only question left whether i regret it or not. I guess i am pretty fucked up for the rest of my life( nothing visible, just my own feeling) But it was probably worth it T_T
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On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. That coupled with the idea that drugs are sort of the epitome of peer pressure makes me really disrespect people who use them.
this is also a sheltered, naive opinion
it's not healthy to meet things you don't understand with contempt
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Perhaps it's my upbringing, all the media, or maybe I'm just a boring person but black people just piss me off. I hate the idea of them, I hate what they do to people, etc. Makes things difficult since I can't look at people the same when I know they're black. I respect them less and I question their judgment, intelligence, and general integrity as a person. Which is further complicated because I'm finding out every day that it is more prevalent than I thought. Friends I've known for awhile turn out to be black and it colors them in a different light from there on in.
I'm not sure exactly why I hate them so much either. Perhaps it's the sense of excess that I associate with them or maybe just my own insecurity about not being in control, I'm not really sure. I can sort of understand the allure but I still find myself disgusted by them. Might just be a need to feel superior to others, I've been told I can sit on an awfully high horse.
In case someone is going to ask, I've never done a black person and you could probably only fill a milk carton halfway with all the caps I've popped in asses for the sake of being social. So at least I'm not a hypocrite.
I'm sure I'm going to get plenty of flak for this since I seem to be in the overwhelming minority on this but I felt the need to vent. I'm boring, I know.
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hating drugs has nothing to do with being original. In reality, 95% of those people are some home-grown, carefully raised individuals, who probably werent as outgoing as the rest. There is no concept in this when you are 15, probably just the fear/unwillingness to do thing out of the ordinary. You probably know a lot about the harm that "drugs" do, but most of you will start drinking sooner or later. And in no way pot is worse then alcohol, esp when you drink to get drunk. I totally respect the cleanliness and i must say i was just like that until i turned 16 and started hanging out with more people/visiting more places. It seemed relatively harmless and i was always for new experiences, so i did it. Like i said, next few years were pretty awesome haha
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On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^
Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy.
Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it.
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On February 17 2009 15:51 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: it's not healthy to meet things you don't understand with contempt
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On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. That coupled with the idea that drugs are sort of the epitome of peer pressure makes me really disrespect people who use them. It's kind of like saying you don't play basketball because other people think it is fun.
People think starcraft is fun, do you play that? I bet you are just a square.
On February 17 2009 15:55 SpiritoftheTunA wrote: In case someone is going to ask, I've never done a black person and you could probably only fill a milk carton halfway with all the caps I've popped in asses for the sake of being social. So at least I'm not a hypocrite. I lol'd.
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On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Just lace your weed then so its more fun
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You shouldn't mix pills and alcohol, I'd assume the same goes for weed and whatever I might lace it with. I've scientifically deduced that alcohol + weed = vomiting.
And why lace the weed when I can just do a better drug to begin with?
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if you don't want to do drugs, then don't do them if you want to do drugs, you're acting with risks, but that's your problem as long as you don't crash into my car because you're drunk, then whatever man do your thing
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you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
Weed without excess really is just like snacking on a few crisps. Heroine addiction is like an obese person stuffing themselves with cake every day. Both are unfortunate. I don't take drugs btw or smoke.
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smoke weed n listen to ur favourite music at super high volume, that will change ur mind
u havnt heard music til uve heard it smokin
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In Praise of Drug Use
I don't post a lot, but I like this particular subject. I'm a drug user. I smoke weed on a regular basis, and I have tried MDMA, LSD and shrooms. They were all to my liking. Obviously I have been drunk. I like this (alcohol) as well, but I don't like the hangover it can give you and I especially don't like how aggressive or retarded it can make you when you've had too much.
Psychoactive drugs are, I think, the most interesting. They are used in many cultures in certain rituals. The idea that is presented through this use and that I would like to defend is that in taking certain psychoactive drugs, preferably under the supervision of more experienced 'trippers', one may undergo a change in character, or rather worldview, that will often be beneficial to one's happiness and/or the pursuit thereof. For me, my first trip - shrooms - had quite an enormous effect on my outlook on life and lead me to certain insights that I am quite happy to have attained. One may argue here that it is not at all necessary to take certain psychoactive substances in order to attain such valuable insights; that one may, by reading certain books, for example, question one's outlook on life and possibly change it for the better. This argument may hold in certain cases, but in general, I think, there are but a few people who are so open-minded and critical that they will be able to subject their 'outlook on life' to scrutiny. The benefit that shrooms offer, for example (I think there are other drugs that may better serve the purpose that I have described), is that they will put the user in that place; that is, a state of perplexion, a state in which curiosity reigns, a state in which one may question one's ideals fully and perhaps search oneself for other ideals that are more fitting of a life you really want to lead. Even for very average people, psychoactive drugs may 'get the job done'. Furthermore, even for the critical intellectual that is able to subject oneself to such critical scrutiny by reading Nietzsche for example, the realization of certain ideas may not necessarily make him 'interiorize' these ideas. This is, I think, another advantage of psychoactive drugs: because the experience is so intense and because it alters one's consciousness, it is quite conducive to the interiorisation of certain ideas, certain epiphanies, if you will, that might occur during the trip. You will not only hold these things to be true and just go on living your life; you are more likely to think about these ideas in a different way and indeed to live accordingly. I believe that having an experience such as this at least once, and preferably every couple of years, is healthy and will indeed increase the chances of your leading a satisfying life.
I don't like the 'if you haven't tried it you don't know wtf you're talking about' argument. In fact, scientific tests concerning the effects of drugs consists mostly of people watching people who took certain drugs and describing/analysing their behavior. You can have a good idea of what it does to you without having tried it. However, in the case of psychoactive drugs, the usefulness of this method is questionable. You will have to listen to the stories of this drug-user in order to get an idea about what exactly it will do to you. Finally I would like to say that an anti-drug-attitude is created under social pressure and what one might call a weak form of indoctrination. Equally so, it is often peer pressure that would drive one to reject such an attitude and accept a more drug-loving-attitude. Just because peer pressure may drive you to do certain stuff doesn't necessarily mean this stuff is bad. You are formed for a large part by peer pressure (or 'social pressure' to include teachers and parents).
I could write more extensively about this stuff (MDMA for example is entirely different than LSD and shrooms. LSD again is quite different from shooms), but I think this post is already too long.
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I don't really care about drug stuff, but I have some irrational hatred toward party girls. Any girl that gets drunk and makes out with some guy at a party is dead to me.
I know there is little rational reason for it, but w/e
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I dont really see the problem. If I chose to smoke some weed to get a break from the everyday life every now and then, whats wrong with that  Its not exactly harmfull to your health if you compare it to smoking a pack of sigarettes a day, like many people do.
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On February 17 2009 20:34 HamerD wrote: you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
Weed without excess really is just like snacking on a few crisps. Heroine addiction is like an obese person stuffing themselves with cake every day. Both are unfortunate. I don't take drugs btw or smoke. Which brings up another interesting point that I've thought about on many occasions. I've heard people bring up the comparison between drug use and playing video games, saying they aren't all that different. However, one obviously feels more "right" to me than the other. In theory, you could make the same comparison between reading books and using drugs.
Perhaps I'm asking the wrong people, but is it a fair comparison to make? Pretty much any "escapist" hobby compared to drug use? Again, my gut says they aren't the same but I'm fairly biased I believe.
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On February 17 2009 15:51 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote:
it's not healthy to meet things you don't understand with contempt This makes me think of ex-girlfriends more than drugs.
And thinking about ex-girlfriends makes me want to get wasted.
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On February 17 2009 20:34 HamerD wrote: you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
I think this is true. Fundamentally, a lot of the entertainment we seek are just forms of escapism. One thing that drugs might do better than video games is bring together a group of friends, since it's often a social activity (as opposed to online multiplayer or w/e).
But as such, I don't really see it as something to be glorified or defended. My experience with drug users, and especially potsmokers, is that they get super butthurt and defensive (like FakeSteve) when anyone questions the rationale behind drug use. The fact is that they are just as much guilty of having a prejudiced/biased view.
I can only imagine people getting so worked up about something that is really crucial to their lives - and if defending pot use is one of them, then perhaps pot is a bigger part of who you are than you have intended it to be.
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On February 17 2009 23:41 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 20:34 HamerD wrote: you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
Weed without excess really is just like snacking on a few crisps. Heroine addiction is like an obese person stuffing themselves with cake every day. Both are unfortunate. I don't take drugs btw or smoke. Which brings up another interesting point that I've thought about on many occasions. I've heard people bring up the comparison between drug use and playing video games, saying they aren't all that different. However, one obviously feels more "right" to me than the other. In theory, you could make the same comparison between reading books and using drugs. Perhaps I'm asking the wrong people, but is it a fair comparison to make? Pretty much any "escapist" hobby compared to drug use? Again, my gut says they aren't the same but I'm fairly biased I believe. It depends on the type of usage, for both drugs and video games. Some people do each for recreation and social activity, some people do each to escape what they hate about their lives and don't want to confront. Some people go from the former to the latter. My guess is your friends are in it for fun, but obviously I don't know.
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On February 17 2009 22:55 ManBearPig wrote: In Praise of Drug Use
I don't post a lot, but I like this particular subject. I'm a drug user. I smoke weed on a regular basis, and I have tried MDMA, LSD and shrooms. They were all to my liking. Obviously I have been drunk. I like this (alcohol) as well, but I don't like the hangover it can give you and I especially don't like how aggressive or retarded it can make you when you've had too much.
Psychoactive drugs are, I think, the most interesting. They are used in many cultures in certain rituals. The idea that is presented through this use and that I would like to defend is that in taking certain psychoactive drugs, preferably under the supervision of more experienced 'trippers', one may undergo a change in character, or rather worldview, that will often be beneficial to one's happiness and/or the pursuit thereof. For me, my first trip - shrooms - had quite an enormous effect on my outlook on life and lead me to certain insights that I am quite happy to have attained. One may argue here that it is not at all necessary to take certain psychoactive substances in order to attain such valuable insights; that one may, by reading certain books, for example, question one's outlook on life and possibly change it for the better. This argument may hold in certain cases, but in general, I think, there are but a few people who are so open-minded and critical that they will be able to subject their 'outlook on life' to scrutiny. The benefit that shrooms offer, for example (I think there are other drugs that may better serve the purpose that I have described), is that they will put the user in that place; that is, a state of perplexion, a state in which curiosity reigns, a state in which one may question one's ideals fully and perhaps search oneself for other ideals that are more fitting of a life you really want to lead. Even for very average people, psychoactive drugs may 'get the job done'. Furthermore, even for the critical intellectual that is able to subject oneself to such critical scrutiny by reading Nietzsche for example, the realization of certain ideas may not necessarily make him 'interiorize' these ideas. This is, I think, another advantage of psychoactive drugs: because the experience is so intense and because it alters one's consciousness, it is quite conducive to the interiorisation of certain ideas, certain epiphanies, if you will, that might occur during the trip. You will not only hold these things to be true and just go on living your life; you are more likely to think about these ideas in a different way and indeed to live accordingly. I believe that having an experience such as this at least once, and preferably every couple of years, is healthy and will indeed increase the chances of your leading a satisfying life.
I don't like the 'if you haven't tried it you don't know wtf you're talking about' argument. In fact, scientific tests concerning the effects of drugs consists mostly of people watching people who took certain drugs and describing/analysing their behavior. You can have a good idea of what it does to you without having tried it. However, in the case of psychoactive drugs, the usefulness of this method is questionable. You will have to listen to the stories of this drug-user in order to get an idea about what exactly it will do to you. Finally I would like to say that an anti-drug-attitude is created under social pressure and what one might call a weak form of indoctrination. Equally so, it is often peer pressure that would drive one to reject such an attitude and accept a more drug-loving-attitude. Just because peer pressure may drive you to do certain stuff doesn't necessarily mean this stuff is bad. You are formed for a large part by peer pressure (or 'social pressure' to include teachers and parents).
I could write more extensively about this stuff (MDMA for example is entirely different than LSD and shrooms. LSD again is quite different from shooms), but I think this post is already too long. What happens when the drugs disappear though, and you go thru withdrawal? And maybe your brain can never produce naturally the chemicals these drugs were replacing for so long? That's what scary about drugs... Your brain starts to think it doesn't need to produce its own chemicals to function normally, and as such when you quit drugs, you can never function as well as if you'd never done them in the first place.
Of course drugs have their place in society, and they will always be useful... But the anti-drug attitude isn't what you say it is. There's not a single parent or teacher I know who doesn't drink alcohol, or hasn't advocated it if only a little. Most North Americans have caffeine on a daily basis. As an adult, there's an immense amount of pressure to drink at any occasion, and when you choose to live your life avoiding drug use as much as possible (that is, if you had surgery you'd accept pain killers, but you wouldn't take them for fun), you end up feeling very isolated and alone, especially when you have drank a lot before. I really wish I'd understood the subject when they were teaching neuro-science in highschool, but it just didn't make sense to me, and they only did a few days on it. In retrospect it isn't that terribly complicated, but it is abstract and hard to understand when you have a million misconceptions about how the body works. As soon as I'd only began to understand it I swore off the alcohol. Understanding it more today than I did the day I quit, I realise just what parts of myself I may never get back.
It's a personal choice, and I don't say anyone who does drugs is stupid or evil. But just that people should respect that some want to utilize their bodies in different ways.
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On February 17 2009 23:52 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 23:41 Phyre wrote:On February 17 2009 20:34 HamerD wrote: you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
Weed without excess really is just like snacking on a few crisps. Heroine addiction is like an obese person stuffing themselves with cake every day. Both are unfortunate. I don't take drugs btw or smoke. Which brings up another interesting point that I've thought about on many occasions. I've heard people bring up the comparison between drug use and playing video games, saying they aren't all that different. However, one obviously feels more "right" to me than the other. In theory, you could make the same comparison between reading books and using drugs. Perhaps I'm asking the wrong people, but is it a fair comparison to make? Pretty much any "escapist" hobby compared to drug use? Again, my gut says they aren't the same but I'm fairly biased I believe. It depends on the type of usage, for both drugs and video games. Some people do each for recreation and social activity, some people do each to escape what they hate about their lives and don't want to confront. Some people go from the former to the latter. My guess is your friends are in it for fun, but obviously I don't know. They joke about not being able to deal with the daily grind without drugs/alcohol to escape it for awhile, but I think (and hope) it's more for the fun of it.
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On February 18 2009 00:26 Chef wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 22:55 ManBearPig wrote: In Praise of Drug Use
I don't post a lot, but I like this particular subject. I'm a drug user. I smoke weed on a regular basis, and I have tried MDMA, LSD and shrooms. They were all to my liking. Obviously I have been drunk. I like this (alcohol) as well, but I don't like the hangover it can give you and I especially don't like how aggressive or retarded it can make you when you've had too much.
Psychoactive drugs are, I think, the most interesting. They are used in many cultures in certain rituals. The idea that is presented through this use and that I would like to defend is that in taking certain psychoactive drugs, preferably under the supervision of more experienced 'trippers', one may undergo a change in character, or rather worldview, that will often be beneficial to one's happiness and/or the pursuit thereof. For me, my first trip - shrooms - had quite an enormous effect on my outlook on life and lead me to certain insights that I am quite happy to have attained. One may argue here that it is not at all necessary to take certain psychoactive substances in order to attain such valuable insights; that one may, by reading certain books, for example, question one's outlook on life and possibly change it for the better. This argument may hold in certain cases, but in general, I think, there are but a few people who are so open-minded and critical that they will be able to subject their 'outlook on life' to scrutiny. The benefit that shrooms offer, for example (I think there are other drugs that may better serve the purpose that I have described), is that they will put the user in that place; that is, a state of perplexion, a state in which curiosity reigns, a state in which one may question one's ideals fully and perhaps search oneself for other ideals that are more fitting of a life you really want to lead. Even for very average people, psychoactive drugs may 'get the job done'. Furthermore, even for the critical intellectual that is able to subject oneself to such critical scrutiny by reading Nietzsche for example, the realization of certain ideas may not necessarily make him 'interiorize' these ideas. This is, I think, another advantage of psychoactive drugs: because the experience is so intense and because it alters one's consciousness, it is quite conducive to the interiorisation of certain ideas, certain epiphanies, if you will, that might occur during the trip. You will not only hold these things to be true and just go on living your life; you are more likely to think about these ideas in a different way and indeed to live accordingly. I believe that having an experience such as this at least once, and preferably every couple of years, is healthy and will indeed increase the chances of your leading a satisfying life.
I don't like the 'if you haven't tried it you don't know wtf you're talking about' argument. In fact, scientific tests concerning the effects of drugs consists mostly of people watching people who took certain drugs and describing/analysing their behavior. You can have a good idea of what it does to you without having tried it. However, in the case of psychoactive drugs, the usefulness of this method is questionable. You will have to listen to the stories of this drug-user in order to get an idea about what exactly it will do to you. Finally I would like to say that an anti-drug-attitude is created under social pressure and what one might call a weak form of indoctrination. Equally so, it is often peer pressure that would drive one to reject such an attitude and accept a more drug-loving-attitude. Just because peer pressure may drive you to do certain stuff doesn't necessarily mean this stuff is bad. You are formed for a large part by peer pressure (or 'social pressure' to include teachers and parents).
I could write more extensively about this stuff (MDMA for example is entirely different than LSD and shrooms. LSD again is quite different from shooms), but I think this post is already too long. What happens when the drugs disappear though, and you go thru withdrawal? And maybe your brain can never produce naturally the chemicals these drugs were replacing for so long? That's what scary about drugs... Your brain starts to think it doesn't need to produce its own chemicals to function normally, and as such when you quit drugs, you can never function as well as if you'd never done them in the first place. Of course drugs have their place in society, and they will always be useful... But the anti-drug attitude isn't what you say it is. There's not a single parent or teacher I know who doesn't drink alcohol, or hasn't advocated it if only a little. Most North Americans have caffeine on a daily basis. As an adult, there's an immense amount of pressure to drink at any occasion, and when you choose to live your life avoiding drug use as much as possible (that is, if you had surgery you'd accept pain killers, but you wouldn't take them for fun), you end up feeling very isolated and alone, especially when you have drank a lot before. I really wish I'd understood the subject when they were teaching neuro-science in highschool, but it just didn't make sense to me, and they only did a few days on it. In retrospect it isn't that terribly complicated, but it is abstract and hard to understand when you have a million misconceptions about how the body works. As soon as I'd only began to understand it I swore off the alcohol. Understanding it more today than I did the day I quit, I realise just what parts of myself I may never get back. It's a personal choice, and I don't say anyone who does drugs is stupid or evil. But just that people should respect that some want to utilize their bodies in different ways.
In my post you quoted I was talking about a single trip, or multiple trips spread out over a lifetime (like once a year maybe). Your argument is valid, I think, in the case of serious addiction to certain drugs, like MDMA for instance. I don't really think of MDMA as a psychoactive drug, it's more of a party drug. If you only trip once or maybe twice a year, using a non-addictive psychoactive drug, this objection most likely does not hold.
To be clear, when I was talking about an anti-drug-attitude, I was actually referring to the OP. I didn't say anything about people who never drink a drop of alcohol ? I'm actually not sure what exactly it is you're saying in the second paragraph? You wish you had never drank alcohol because it causes brain damage? I agree that it's a personal choice. However, I do think the benefits of certain psychoactive drugs are often underrated or denied.
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On February 17 2009 13:27 Sanity. wrote: +3
I can't believe I hadn't seen this blog. There is some good points here and there. I myself am a user of weed and alcohol but began a weed user. Now I smoke like two-three days a month(weekends) but am drinking several times a week now. I have used almost every drug out in this world and even abused (meth) for several months which was the ugliest shit I would ever introduce to anybody. I have had my share of friends in the passed that would use either just alchy or either just be that stoner or even be the speed freak. I myself would rather be with the friends that just got high off weed or any other psychoactive drug then be with the friend that was totally drinking 24/7 even thou now I do both. Everyone has there own perspective in drugs and with people using drugs. Drugs I believe can effect everyone differently as stated previously. I wanna go on with this but mostly all the good points have been pointed out already.
If you don't enjoy being around users then find yourself a new set of friends. Although it sounds easier being said then done I am sure you can find non-users that like to play video games and having all nighters playing and/or w/e else you do for fun. Or even better yet find yourself a local AA/NA group with young adults. I am sure they will befriend you once you tell them your hate for drugs.
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On February 18 2009 00:28 Phyre wrote: They joke about not being able to deal with the daily grind without drugs/alcohol to escape it for awhile, but I think (and hope) it's more for the fun of it.
I'm not sure there is a difference between doing something because it's fun and doing something because you want to escape the daily grind. The grind is, by definition, things that aren't fun. So when you do something that is fun, you're escaping the grind.
I like the fact that you can acknowledge that your judgment of others for their choices is irrational. Tolerance is one of the more important skills you can learn in life, and it seems like you're on that path. Judge not, lest ye be judged.
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On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it.
I'm 20... And FYI I will never do a drug in my life, not even alcohol.
And I really don't get why everyone is so defensive about them taking drugs. Every drug user just seems so insecure when the topic comes up. I did happen to be a person with a very safe upbringing. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new. I live and breathe consistency.
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On February 18 2009 05:14 NatsuTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new.
now this is stupid for SOO many reasons you won't try new foods? you won't try a new brand of clothes? you won't date a different type of girl? or what if you haven't dated a girl yet, you won't date anyone?! you won't try driving a new car? you won't fly abroad to visit a new country?
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On February 18 2009 05:02 Rho_ wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 00:28 Phyre wrote: They joke about not being able to deal with the daily grind without drugs/alcohol to escape it for awhile, but I think (and hope) it's more for the fun of it. I'm not sure there is a difference between doing something because it's fun and doing something because you want to escape the daily grind. The grind is, by definition, things that aren't fun. So when you do something that is fun, you're escaping the grind. I like the fact that you can acknowledge that your judgment of others for their choices is irrational. Tolerance is one of the more important skills you can learn in life, and it seems like you're on that path. Judge not, lest ye be judged. There's recreation time, and then there's just avoiding responsibilities. Hardcore gaming/drug use falls under #2.
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On February 18 2009 05:45 KOFgokuon wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 05:14 NatsuTerran wrote:On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new. now this is stupid for SOO many reasons you won't try new foods? you won't try a new brand of clothes? you won't date a different type of girl? or what if you haven't dated a girl yet, you won't date anyone?! you won't try driving a new car? you won't fly abroad to visit a new country?
No, I try things when I know I'm going to like them. If I have any doubts I don't try something. Which is why I find drug use to be completely irrational. How can you not have doubts about trying something like that. I'm not stupid man, I enjoy my life a ton more than most of the people on this site seem to.
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On February 18 2009 06:03 NatsuTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 05:45 KOFgokuon wrote:On February 18 2009 05:14 NatsuTerran wrote:On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new. now this is stupid for SOO many reasons you won't try new foods? you won't try a new brand of clothes? you won't date a different type of girl? or what if you haven't dated a girl yet, you won't date anyone?! you won't try driving a new car? you won't fly abroad to visit a new country? No, I try things when I know I'm going to like them. If I have any doubts I don't try something. Which is why I find drug use to be completely irrational. How can you not have doubts about trying something like that. I'm not stupid man, I enjoy my life a ton more than most of the people on this site seem to. yawn
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On February 18 2009 06:03 NatsuTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 05:45 KOFgokuon wrote:On February 18 2009 05:14 NatsuTerran wrote:On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new. now this is stupid for SOO many reasons you won't try new foods? you won't try a new brand of clothes? you won't date a different type of girl? or what if you haven't dated a girl yet, you won't date anyone?! you won't try driving a new car? you won't fly abroad to visit a new country? No, I try things when I know I'm going to like them. If I have any doubts I don't try something. Which is why I find drug use to be completely irrational. How can you not have doubts about trying something like that. I'm not stupid man, I enjoy my life a ton more than most of the people on this site seem to.
What is irrational is avoiding new experiences just because there is a possibility you will not enjoy them.
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I completely disagree. I'm happy the way I am, let's keep it that way. I'm not as close-minded as my above post may have led you. I tried a food I've never heard of before the past couple weeks. I talk to different people, with different opinions. And pretty much anything Kofgokuon mentioned.
Let's put it this way. A lot of people in this forum seem to have a lot of hate/disrespect for emo kids for w/e reason. The same answer you use to describe that can be said for my distaste for drug users.
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On February 18 2009 05:56 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 05:02 Rho_ wrote:On February 18 2009 00:28 Phyre wrote: They joke about not being able to deal with the daily grind without drugs/alcohol to escape it for awhile, but I think (and hope) it's more for the fun of it. I'm not sure there is a difference between doing something because it's fun and doing something because you want to escape the daily grind. The grind is, by definition, things that aren't fun. So when you do something that is fun, you're escaping the grind. I like the fact that you can acknowledge that your judgment of others for their choices is irrational. Tolerance is one of the more important skills you can learn in life, and it seems like you're on that path. Judge not, lest ye be judged. There's recreation time, and then there's just avoiding responsibilities. Hardcore gaming/drug use falls under #2.
You can do anything too much. Working is responsible, but there are people who work way too much.
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On February 18 2009 06:41 NatsuTerran wrote: I completely disagree. I'm happy the way I am, let's keep it that way. I'm not as close-minded as my above post may have led you. I tried a food I've never heard of before the past couple weeks. I talk to different people, with different opinions. And pretty much anything Kofgokuon mentioned.
Let's put it this way. A lot of people in this forum seem to have a lot of hate/disrespect for emo kids for w/e reason. The same answer you use to describe that can be said for my distaste for drug users.
How do you feel about caffeine? Alcohol?
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I already mentioned I'll never touch alcohol. As for caffeine, I don't touch coffee and I'm trying to really cut soda out of my life. It's a bit harder with soda because it's apparently the only thing worth drinking at fast food places. So yea, the only thing I will ever take even remotely considered as a drug is soda 2-4 times a week and maybe some advil like once a blue moon.
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well you're just a regular boy scout aren't you?
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I'm not meaning to come off as being stuck up or better than anyone. Sorry if anyone is offended. I just have my own values which aren't really based off of anything concrete.
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On February 18 2009 07:09 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm not meaning to come off as being stuck up or better than anyone. Sorry if anyone is offended. I just have my own values which aren't really based off of anything concrete. What's the point in advertising the fact that you make arbitrary decisions lol? I mean, you could at least pretend it's not just because you listened when people said 'just say no to drugs."
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Guys.
Premarital sex is a sin.
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On February 18 2009 06:03 NatsuTerran wrote:Show nested quote +On February 18 2009 05:45 KOFgokuon wrote:On February 18 2009 05:14 NatsuTerran wrote:On February 17 2009 16:04 Osmoses wrote:On February 17 2009 15:17 NatsuTerran wrote: I'm just like the OP. I pretty much hate drug usage for no apparent reason. I think a big part of it is the fact that I am a completely original person who doesn't follow the crowd. Oh just you wait until you get out of high school and realize you are neither original nor outside the crowd, it'll be wonderful ^^ Of course, when you're done crying you will be the first to start inhaling gaseous happy. Anyway, as far as weed goes, it's a pretty boring drug imo, it just makes you slow and stupid. I dunno why the rappers keep singing about it. Not only that, but I am extremely closed off to any new experiences. I simply hate trying anything new. now this is stupid for SOO many reasons you won't try new foods? you won't try a new brand of clothes? you won't date a different type of girl? or what if you haven't dated a girl yet, you won't date anyone?! you won't try driving a new car? you won't fly abroad to visit a new country? No, I try things when I know I'm going to like them. If I have any doubts I don't try something. Which is why I find drug use to be completely irrational. How can you not have doubts about trying something like that. I'm not stupid man, I enjoy my life a ton more than most of the people on this site seem to.
NO MAN NO MAN NO MAN NO MAN NO MAN blahblahlk
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most people are willing to take some risks in life but w/e, if you're happy, go with it
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On February 18 2009 07:37 koreasilver wrote: Guys.
Premarital sex is a sin. Are you trying to insinuate that the reasons for not doing drugs are the same as not having premarital sex? That you've cleverly showed us the light by saying if we don't care about premarital sex, we shouldn't care about drugs either? Your wit astounds me! :O
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I honestly cannot even tell where the discussion is going anymore. People are getting defensive over the mildest things I say.
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marrying your high school sweetheart lines up very nicely with the whole boy scout routine.
i'm not even gonna lie, there was a time in my life where i was just like you, going NO man get that away why would i want to poison my body!! after all they told me in health about one marijuana cigarette being worse than smoking a whole pack of tobacco cigarettes!! i was an uptight shit for brains kid and i know i would not get along with who i was then if we were to meet in some science fiction fantasy world. not until i inhaled the fumes of a little itty bitty burning piece of plant did my mindset alter entirely. same with doing mushrooms. i recommend both
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First of all, I never mentioned any nonfactual information used by DARE or w/e. I never claimed to have knowledge about it in the first place. Secondly, I just REALLY hate the whole drug culture. That is my main reason. It isn't that I think I will die at age 30 if I touch marijuana. I just cannot stand the people who use drugs, in much the same way I cannot stand religious people.
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On February 18 2009 07:55 NatsuTerran wrote: First of all, I never mentioned any nonfactual information used by DARE or w/e. I never claimed to have knowledge about it in the first place. Secondly, I just REALLY hate the whole drug culture. That is my main reason. It isn't that I think I will die at age 30 if I touch marijuana. I just cannot stand the people who use drugs, in much the same way I cannot stand religious people. look up the definition of prejudice please
you're the type of atheist that makes atheists look as bad as evangelicals
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On February 18 2009 07:55 NatsuTerran wrote: First of all, I never mentioned any nonfactual information used by DARE or w/e. I never claimed to have knowledge about it in the first place. Secondly, I just REALLY hate the whole drug culture. That is my main reason. It isn't that I think I will die at age 30 if I touch marijuana. I just cannot stand the people who use drugs, in much the same way I cannot stand religious people.
dude do you know how ridiculous that sounds?
do you know how many different types of people there are that use drugs?
male, female. black white asian mexican etc young old fit and strong fat and lazy intellectuals dumbasses crackheads. potheads. doctors. pharmacists. philosophers. musicians list goes on and on.
all in all you're saying that you can't stand like... half the people in the U.S? If not more?
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OK, I'm done with this thread. No, I am not the type who picks fights with xtians and I am certainly not prejudiced against them based on their beliefs. I just don't have any better way of explaining myself. I'm not a hateful person at all. I'm jsut having a really hard time defending myself in this thread and I'm saying things that come out wrong. I'm done here.
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well please don't be offended natsu. you seem like a nice guy to me.
it's no big deal if it is hard for you to quite pin down what your stance is.
but if you want to just stop that is fine as well
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While I have you guys on the topic, I've got another question for you guys that use drugs. If you ever had a child what would your stance on drug use for them be? Logically, if you guys think it's just fine for your own personal use then you should have no problem with your kid doing the same at a similar age. However, I've heard of plenty of people that are all for sex but once they have a kid it's like the rules completely change so I'm curious if any of you have a similar mindset.
Just a random thought that I was thinking about when reading over some of the responses.
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On February 17 2009 17:08 Osmoses wrote: You shouldn't mix pills and alcohol, I'd assume the same goes for weed and whatever I might lace it with. I've scientifically deduced that alcohol + weed = vomiting.
And why lace the weed when I can just do a better drug to begin with? Getting twisted is amazing, you're crazy
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On February 18 2009 11:40 Phyre wrote: While I have you guys on the topic, I've got another question for you guys that use drugs. If you ever had a child what would your stance on drug use for them be? Logically, if you guys think it's just fine for your own personal use then you should have no problem with your kid doing the same at a similar age. However, I've heard of plenty of people that are all for sex but once they have a kid it's like the rules completely change so I'm curious if any of you have a similar mindset.
Just a random thought that I was thinking about when reading over some of the responses. My stance on this might change when i actually have a kid, but right now i feel like as long as my child was taking care of their responsibilities(school etc) i would be kind of hands off. Obviously as long as they werent getting into any kind of trouble, or harming other people
Edit: this mostly pertains to alcohol and weed outside of that i might have to put my foot down.
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I can promise you one thing, death will take us all I can promise you one thing, you will die alone
We're all going to Hell, we may as well go out in style Death is a promise, and your life is a fucking lie
I've said it before, and I'll say it again If you think you're alive then you're better off dead
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On February 18 2009 12:07 feathers wrote: I can promise you one thing, death will take us all I can promise you one thing, you will die alone
We're all going to Hell, we may as well go out in style Death is a promise, and your life is a fucking lie
I've said it before, and I'll say it again If you think you're alive then you're better off dead
Haha... no.
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I can understand why someone would be completely against using drugs themselves, but as how someone could be so against anyone using them confuses me a little? The vast majority of drug users aren't really causing harm to anyone besides themselves, if that. Maybe there are people that are significantly harming others, but do they "ruin it" for everyone?
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Hey phyre, if that's how you feel then thats that. No need to hate tho : <
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On February 18 2009 07:37 koreasilver wrote: Guys.
Premarital sex is a sin.
lol
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Drugs have been compared to SC, but there's a lot of evidence to show drugs are far more addicting? I know enough people to know that some are completely addicted to the hookah (FAR more than any anime or SC freak is) and basically wither without it, and after they took pot, don't show up to school as often and ditch days (there's plenty of scientific evidence to show what it does to your brain, in terms of destroying drive and shrinking your penis). Yes its not totally attributed to pot, but its still a piece of the pie.
As for contempt for something you've never tried, there's enough science to show that it's bad for you, and that should be enough (marijuana is definitely bad for you, and all pro-marijuana studies (not many of which of course, are really conducted in the US) only argue that marijuana "isn't as bad as cigarettes, which is of course, still up for scientific debate). I'm pretty sure the OP's not contemptuous of druggies because he's never tried drugs before, as anti-drug hate isn't about how high you get or how enjoyable it is.
Still stand by what I said earlier about when you turn 50, you might be singing a different tune (a lot of people's arguments seem to stem from the idea that weed is harmless, but a trustworthy citation would be needed for that; I don't think I need to spam this thread with all the anti-marijuana news).
And also, a lot of people seem to be making the argument "everybody does it", at which of course, the inevitable "jumping off the cliff" argument would arrive to refute it.This may or may not be a valid comparison, but you guys have got to give better reasoning than a simple overgeneral one-line sentence to exonerate drug culture.
If anything, a fairer comparison for drugs should be made between drugs and World of Warcraft (this comparison is still not entirely fair, since WoW doesn't bring as major of physical and biological change about, and doesn't get you as high).
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Life is a bitch then you die so fuck the world and lets all get high
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On February 18 2009 15:13 SerpentFlame wrote: Drugs have been compared to SC, but there's a lot of evidence to show drugs are far more addicting? I know enough people to know that some are completely addicted to the hookah (FAR more than any anime or SC freak is) and basically wither without it, and after they took pot, don't show up to school as often and ditch days
this has much more to do with them that it does with pot
(there's plenty of scientific evidence to show what it does to your brain, in terms of destroying drive and shrinking your penis). Yes its not totally attributed to pot, but its still a piece of the pie.
are you being serious?
As for contempt for something you've never tried, there's enough science to show that it's bad for you, and that should be enough
enough for what? there's evidence that shows that running is bad for you. there's evidence that shows that getting over 8 hours of sleep is bad for you. there's evidence that shows that getting under 8 hours of sleep is bad for you. there's evidence that shows that lots of things are bad for you. it's very easy to come up with evidence to support a stance - especially when the studies involve the psyche/health. the vast majority of these studies are just seeking to substantiate a pre-made claim.
(marijuana is definitely bad for you, and all pro-marijuana studies (not many of which of course, are really conducted in the US) only argue that marijuana "isn't as bad as cigarettes, which is of course, still up for scientific debate). I'm pretty sure the OP's not contemptuous of druggies because he's never tried drugs before,
you obviously know what you are talking about, using such descriptive words as "bad" over and over.
as anti-drug hate isn't about how high you get or how enjoyable it is.
really. so enjoyment isn't important? what exactly is important in life, do tell.
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On February 18 2009 15:14 CaucasianAsian wrote: Life is a bitch then you die so fuck the world and lets all get high
I WENT TO HIS CONCERT :D:D:D:D
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fyi, most people smoke weed or drink so you must hate a lot of people.
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I was always afraid of the idea that different drugs would shrink my brain/genitalia. I gotta protect my investments ya know (especially the latter XD)
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Its hard to get an erection when your wasted but doing drugs doesn't shrink your dick.
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On February 18 2009 16:24 feathers wrote: fyi, most people smoke weed or drink so you must hate a lot of people.
you really think most people smoke weed regularly? Maybe a significant fraction have TRIED it once, but it's not like most people get high on a regular basis (more than once a year)
alcohol, depends on how much you're talking about. Casual drinking maybe
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On February 18 2009 16:24 feathers wrote: fyi, most people smoke weed or drink so you must hate a lot of people. I don't hate people that use drugs, I've got a number of friends that make regular use of weed for example. Rather, I hate what it does to people, the culture behind it, etc. as I mentioned in my first post. I respect them less and I look at them differently but I certainly don't hate them as a person.
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I dont really give a shit about poeple who take anything harder than coffee, as long as either, they stay away from me or it doesnt affect me in any way, unlike cigarette smoke.
Though i do believe that doing drugs is the most pathetic attempt at being happy.
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Drugs killed layne staley : ' (
Whateva floats your canoe though.
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Eh, there's really only 3 ways to escape from your problems in the real world:
1) Experience them so much that you become desensitized to it 2) Try to face them head on 3) Drugs
Idk, but it seems like drugs are the easiest way...
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It gets sooooo better after you cross the line
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From personal experience I find drugs to be the most pathetic form of escape. The only purpose for drugs I would even consider is for medical use. Now, I have had family members and friends that have done a wide range of drugs and none I see fit to be socially accepted. Like the few that don't fuck yes the horse I ride on is high. I am glad I do ride on this horse. No I am not shetlered and naive on this subject. The world is going into a shit hole. :/. Maybe being raised by my conservative grandparents while my parents went off and did drugs at "social" gatherings made me this way.
Drinking is different. I have no problem with people drinking its the people that get shit faced drunk and then ask you the next day, "Hey man what happened last night?" that bother me. Control yourself and grow up a little. :/
Ill read up more and what not. Im off to class though sooooooooo BBL
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On February 26 2009 03:45 ZeeTemplar wrote: From personal experience I find drugs to be the most pathetic form of escape. The only purpose for drugs I would even consider is for medical use. Now, I have had family members and friends that have done a wide range of drugs and none I see fit to be socially accepted. Like the few that don't fuck yes the horse I ride on is high. I am glad I do ride on this horse. No I am not shetlered and naive on this subject. The world is going into a shit hole. :/. Maybe being raised by my conservative grandparents while my parents went off and did drugs at "social" gatherings made me this way.
Drinking is different. I have no problem with people drinking its the people that get shit faced drunk and then ask you the next day, "Hey man what happened last night?" that bother me. Control yourself and grow up a little. :/
Ill read up more and what not. Im off to class though sooooooooo BBL
good point, but I think its logical for drugs to be the worse/most pathetic form of escapism since it's the most extreme form (physical-wise, from a chemical point of view)
Alcohol and weed are not that bad, but they can often lead to stupid shit. Basically you have to be mature about it, and you'll be in control, even while drunk.
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On February 26 2009 03:59 minus_human wrote:Show nested quote +On February 26 2009 03:45 ZeeTemplar wrote: From personal experience I find drugs to be the most pathetic form of escape. The only purpose for drugs I would even consider is for medical use. Now, I have had family members and friends that have done a wide range of drugs and none I see fit to be socially accepted. Like the few that don't fuck yes the horse I ride on is high. I am glad I do ride on this horse. No I am not shetlered and naive on this subject. The world is going into a shit hole. :/. Maybe being raised by my conservative grandparents while my parents went off and did drugs at "social" gatherings made me this way.
Drinking is different. I have no problem with people drinking its the people that get shit faced drunk and then ask you the next day, "Hey man what happened last night?" that bother me. Control yourself and grow up a little. :/
Ill read up more and what not. Im off to class though sooooooooo BBL good point, but I think its logical for drugs to be the worse/most pathetic form of escapism since it's the most extreme form (physical-wise, from a chemical point of view) Alcohol and weed are not that worse, but they can often lead to stupid shit. Basically you have to be mature about it, and you'll be in control, even while drunk.
And you about summed it up haha.
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On February 19 2009 04:04 Pwntrucci[sR] wrote: Drugs killed layne staley : ' (
Whateva floats your canoe though. It did indeed :-(
But one could argue that it made the music too.
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On February 26 2009 03:45 ZeeTemplar wrote: Drinking is different. I have no problem with people drinking its the people that get shit faced drunk and then ask you the next day, "Hey man what happened last night?" that bother me. Control yourself and grow up a little. :/
There was a documentary on norwegian TV, where they put some scientists, and some famous doctors from the biggest hospital in norway in a hotel room for a couple of days.
Their assignment was to debate which drug they would allow for use if all drugs including alcohol was already banned. Alcohol wasnt even considered, while weed was highly suggested.
I dont understand how people can say that all drugs are bad, and drinking is a somehow better.
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On February 19 2009 04:04 Pwntrucci[sR] wrote: Drugs killed layne staley : ' (
Whateva floats your canoe though.
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Physician
United States4146 Posts
The foundations of life is chemistry, so how can one really hate drugs? And hate is such a strong word! You sure you mean't hate?
There is a myriad of medications, drugs, that are useful and many that can alter your mind in one way or another. There are some substances that can alter your mind or not depending on you own biological condition and not the drug per se. There are many drugs made by your own body that can alter how you see things and even alter your mind like the best of drugs out there - so how can one truly hate drugs?
Even though my personal philosophy is consider my mind a sanctuary - I avoid anything that harms it or alters it's efficiency/workings in any way - I still don't really hate drugs. I do consider drug addiction shameful and with it most forms of loss of self control too - but I suspect this has to do more with my own learned, and adopted, value system than any real universal moral issue. I do pity some drug addicts. I have no pity though for the sort that goes around harming themselves and others over and over - but hate them? In the vast majority of examples a drug addict is but a poor excuse for a human being but to be human is to err. I consider myself incapable of falling in such steps but who knows? Change circumstances a little and you'd be surprise how weak our metal can be lol.. Disdain for self inflicted injury for the sake of superficial motives? Disdain for weakness or stupidity? Maybe man, but hate drugs? Or drug addicts? Nah.. I definitively have nothing against drug use if there is no significant injury to the user or the society he lives in.
There far worse things in this world to use as an excuse for when you fall prey to the one emotion that never gives and only takes. Hate is far worse than any drug you will ever encounter, and it's just as phuking addictive as the worst of them.
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“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
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Physician
United States4146 Posts
hawk just owned the thread : ) - (& me lol) yoda is always right (he is not Christian though, phuck salvation through suffering lol)
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Sticking every drug under the same umbrella as though they are all the same is rather onerous to me. Alcohol is a dangerous drug that makes people aggressive and irrational, has a lethal dose uncomfortably close to its effective dose, has tremendous health consequences and is highly addictive. Marijuana hasn't been proven to have any health detriments despite tons of governemnt funding specifically looking for those dangers, it makes its users docile and easy to deal with, has no lethal dose and nothing besides an ill defined "Psychological addiction".
I get upset that the law and DARE and all the other propaganda refuses to recognize the difference between drugs that are truly harmful and those that are pretty much safe. Anybody who isn't inebriated by the propaganda can see that alcohol is a much worse and more dangerous drug than is Marijuana. Yet Alcohol can be purchased in every convenience store while Marijuana is banned under schedule I which even worse, disingenously claims no medical benefit. Similarly under Schedule 1 are the psychedelics Psilocybin, LSD, DMT and others, all of which have no effective lethal dose and can be considered non toxic. They are the only known cure for cluster headaches and for combating an array of psychological disorders (anxiety, OCD, PTSD, even addiction) they blow the legal alternatives out of the water. Marijuana is by far the most cost effective and useful drug in combating the effects of chemotherapy (it replaces a whole battery of drugs that have who knows what kind of interactions and long term health damage, and does it better than that battery).
So you and you're irrational viewpoint contribute to the proganda, the lack of willingness to open our eyes and be reasonable about what is a dangerous drug and what is not.
Furthermore it's dangerous. A teenager who finds out that his school and his government have flat out lied to him about the dangers of Marijuana is liable to believe that everything the anti drug people told him was bullshit. Then they get into Cocaine and heroin - the actual dangerous drugs.
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You realise alcohol being a terrible drug doesn't prove marijuana is a good one? It might seem hypocritical, but it's more complicated than that. It's harder to suddenly make a widely used drug illegal, if it used to be legal. That doesn't mean we should suddenly legalize drugs that are equally or less dangerous than alcohol.
Marijuana hasn't been proven to have any health detriments despite tons of governemnt funding specifically looking for those dangers Do you check with them often? I don't know about it's effects on the brain (really, altering your brain frequently in any way isn't exactly safe), but I know for sure than inhaling smoke isn't healthy. You'll still get crap building up in your lungs.
http://www2.canada.com/saskatoonstarphoenix/news/national/story.html?id=615ccf67-664b-445e-8104-a85d226d4959
The link between marijuana use and schizophrenia is generally accepted in the psychiatric community. The problem is that the vulnerable population -- mostly teenagers -- generally isn't eager to absorb the message.
I'd say that's a health detriment. It says it's linked to people already vulnerable, but how many people check whether they're vulnerable or not? And how many brain dead potheads have I met? You can say there's 'nothing that proves marijuana is detrimental to health' all you want, but I think that's more because research hasn't had long enough. You can't do long term research in under a decade. Just like a person seems relatively normal after drinking daily for a year, you can't say the impact won't be noticeable in another decade.
Brain chemistry is complicated... It's your choice if you want to take the risk, but you should know it's a risk. To say it's completely safe is just hilariously naive.
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The link between marijuana and schizo is pretty clear, however it as far as I know, it doesnt make you go schizo, it just makes it happen faster. In other words, if you get it from smoking, you would get it at a later stage in live anyway.
I cant back this up though, its just what I've read on several websites.
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On February 27 2009 23:35 Epicfailguy wrote: In other words, if you get it from smoking, you would get it at a later stage in live anyway.
That's what several studies have indicated. But most journalists/people/politicians spin it as WEED MAKES YOU CRAZY! When, in reality, you'd have to be a dormant whacko to have it happen in the first place
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On February 27 2009 23:35 Epicfailguy wrote: The link between marijuana and schizo is pretty clear, however it as far as I know, it doesnt make you go schizo, it just makes it happen faster. In other words, if you get it from smoking, you would get it at a later stage in live anyway.
I cant back this up though, its just what I've read on several websites.
the link is basically that something like 10% of the population has dormant schizophrenia and marijuana can bring it out
generally if you've smoked weed for a few months and you haven't gone crazy, it's not possible for you
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also lol at everyone who thinks 100% of drug users are just doing so to forget problems
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Im starting to think that its brought it out in me :-/ Thats the only reason I've read up on these things, couse now I've started to hear shit. It isnt comming right out of the blue though, its like when im lying in bed at night, and the fridge starts making this low buzzy sound, it sounds like someone whispering or sometimes screams really low...This is the only sympton I've got though, so its probably nothing, but still a bit scary :S
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MyLostTemple
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On February 28 2009 02:49 Epicfailguy wrote: Im starting to think that its brought it out in me :-/ Thats the only reason I've read up on these things, couse now I've started to hear shit. It isnt comming right out of the blue though, its like when im lying in bed at night, and the fridge starts making this low buzzy sound, it sounds like someone whispering or sometimes screams really low...This is the only sympton I've got though, so its probably nothing, but still a bit scary :S
your weed is laced with pcp. yes i'm serious. get a new dealer. do you smoke brown or green stuff?
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:o
I smoke brown now, and I've done it for the past 4 months.
Edit: I read about it and yeah, it sounds reasonable but none of my friends have complained about similar effects..then again I never told them so who knows :D
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MyLostTemple
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I feel the need to post on this blog.
I've tried several drugs ranging from, class A to class C, and i am happy i've done so. drugs have had an incredible positive impact on my life and i have no regret engaging in such behavior. obviously some people use drugs to escape their problems; but people use all sorts of stuff to escape their problems whether that be drugs, starcraft or building miniature trains in their basement. Responsibility is what should be preached, not fear mongering on a bunch of chemicals you can put in your brain. i had a semester in college where i was trying every drug imaginable and still getting a 3.4 gpa, tutoring philosophy, competed on the A team in parliamentary debate raping some ivy league schools, Working out 3 days a week, finishing with B as protoss on iccup (not my best but it was busy that semester), and had an academic journal asking for one of my papers to be published. i think i has more to do with the biology of the person and the attitude they take towards life.
To an extent i sympathize with the OP. I was once a strait edge kid who didn't even drink coffee. I thought my brain was pure and nothing should taint it. Believe me when i say i was very proud of my stance against any and all forms of intoxication. But eventually i realized that many Americans and others in the world grow up with puritan values, they grow up with this general belief that excess or intoxication of any form is a bad thing, whether that be food, sex, drugs or time in front of your computer. I'm sorry but i really just don't buy this philosophy any more. I'm not going to sit around living life with a seatbelt, helmet, protective eye-wear, a life vest and water wings on. i'm a sentient being that will die in under a 100 years and i'm going to taste the fruits of life while i'm here--not hate on things i'm too scared or uncomfortable to try. there will surely be some good and some bad experiences with anything, but i guess that's what comes with the territory
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On February 28 2009 03:26 Epicfailguy wrote: :o
I smoke brown now, and I've done it for the past 4 months.
Edit: I read about it and yeah, it sounds reasonable but none of my friends have complained about similar effects..then again I never told them so who knows :D
brown weed is much more likely to be caked with PCP than green weed. your dealer is selling some bad stuff. just switch and the effects should go away. i've seen similar complaints from tl.net users and it's always brown shit laced with pcp that they're smoking.
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I envy you. I stayed clean for a long time in my life. Drugs are one of many weaknesses. If you can stay clear of them, respect to you. But don't you have your own weaknesses?
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man i can't remember if i posted in this thread already but i LOVE smoking weed
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Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5
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MyLostTemple
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On February 28 2009 07:14 Navane wrote: I envy you. I stayed clean for a long time in my life. Drugs are one of many weaknesses. If you can stay clear of them, respect to you. But don't you have your own weaknesses?
were you asking me this?
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You are a very naive person, drugs tend to mimic already existing chemicals in the body, no one ever died from smoking weed. While some drugs are worse than others, it is dumb so lump them all in together. Stop looking down on other people because they know how to have a little fun, in short dont be a lame judgmental prude.
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On February 28 2009 09:02 Hypnosis wrote: Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5 It's natural and normal to judge and be interested in your fellow man's behaviours, not a character flaw. I believe it's intrinsic to every human being to feel a sense of duty to help their fellow man. Whether they're actually helping, or they just think they are, is irrelevant... I'm just trying to say it's normal to be concerned with the behaviour of the people who surround you.
You can judge alcohol and any other drug if you've never tried it before. That's a really silly thing to say. No one is saying these drugs won't make you feel good. They're judging whether or not that's such a great thing.
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Last year, I lived with a fucking stoooner...owned two roor bongs, and was baked 24/7. He tried to sling, but ended up smoking half his shit, so was perpetually poor anyway.
This year, one of my roommates was similar (though didn't sling), but also had a looong history of drug experimentation ranging from everything from E to heroin...he had a lot of interesting stories to tell about the Swiss and French drug scenes...haha. A few weeks before he moved out, he and my other roommate got into coke and meth as well.
My other roommate is now a meth addict.
We are all smokers. We all drink often too...
CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY.
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Physician
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This reply goes mainly to counter balance Tasteless post, who because of who he is, might have a greater influence on others than he might actually ever believe but it also goes to anyone else reading that might be pro-drug use or might have seen my first post as not anti-drug. I just have to be the obnoxious adult in this one even though I understand were his coming from.
There are several caveats no one is mentioning that I wish to add to the unsuspecting reader.
"dude don't be a wuz, experiment once everything!"
- some drugs will cause permanent damage and give you absolutely nothing for it. Sniff glue and your IQ will drop ten points forever after a few uses, your coordination and reaction time will be hurt for life.. and if your unlucky many years later a doctor will have to explain to you why you kidney function sucks or you now have a liver tumor..
"woo hooo had a great time for few hours at a rave and it really opened my mind but paid for it for years after!"
- some drugs cause no meaningful harm, but unless you are making them yourself or growing them yourself YOU WILL NEVER REALLY KNOW WHAT OTHER CRAP THEY COME WITH drug makers in general don't give a hoots ass about minor contaminants that can be very harmful.. ...there is one that sometimes shows up in ecstasy and meth that will give you 100% chance of getting Parkinson later on in life (and early too).. etc.. Is it worth the risk?
why the phuck can't I function without my adderall? what twitch? oh that had it since I was young.
- many drugs have very different effects on the developing mind than on the already developed mind. Very little research has been done on the subject for obvious reasons and what little animal research has been done on the matter, in general drugs that affect the mind can be more harmful or the changes they can can cause tend to be less reversible on the developing minds than on the adult minds. Which do what and which are more dangerous? Do your own research! But not on yourself lol.. So if your mind if you are under 19 and you haven't tried drugs, stay clean for you own good, there is a whole life ahead to phuck yourself up lol..
- there is such a thing as an addictive personality, in fact there are a couple of genes already associated not only with addictive personality but also with specific drug addictions - which is why even if you are responsible and an adult you can end up ruining your life if you just "try" or "experiment" with drugs - in other words by the time you find out you probably had the wrong gene your screwed. From this perspective if you balance all the risks, on health and the legal ones that are sometimes just as important, you might as well do yourself a favor and avoid drug use of any kind. I include alcohol too here that happens to have a well proven and unfortunate genetic predisposition in some people, no matter how superior or disciplined they see themselves etc..
- then there is people whose mind is not in the best shape to start with, i.e. those battling depression, ocd, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders etc.. recreational drugs in some of these cases just end up with one dead dude or their conditons simply worsen until they end up in prison or in an institution. You say evolution at work? Wait till it's you brother or family member..
The choices we make as we grow up can have dramatic effects on us. One wrong choice and bye bye good life and sometimes you can even forget ever getting a chance to taste life properly. If you stay free of drugs, you can enjoy life fully while at the same time avoid many health and legal hazards associated with drugs that can only pull you down. We can't avoid everything that is bad and we can't live in fear about this or that BUT WE DEFINITIVELY AVOID stuff that we seen phuck up people over and over. Work in any ER and you will realize the other side drugs not many see. Its phucking sad to see young people die or end up with fried brains..
The "recreation" in recreational drugs in general is WAY over-valued and over-hyped. Many are outright unpleasant and some can only do their thing after habitual use. I haven't seen also no one even consider or add up the financial costs they carry. Save your money for better more meaningful things in life and you will be better off.
In other words the benefits of not using recreational drugs far outweighs the little benefits you might find in them.
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Physician
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translation of my replies + Show Spoiler +don't hate, don't do drugs : ) peace out
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On February 28 2009 10:02 Chef wrote:Show nested quote +On February 28 2009 09:02 Hypnosis wrote: Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5 It's natural and normal to judge and be interested in your fellow man's behaviours, not a character flaw. I believe it's intrinsic to every human being to feel a sense of duty to help their fellow man. Whether they're actually helping, or they just think they are, is irrelevant... I'm just trying to say it's normal to be concerned with the behaviour of the people who surround you. You can judge alcohol and any other drug if you've never tried it before. That's a really silly thing to say. No one is saying these drugs won't make you feel good. They're judging whether or not that's such a great thing.
Yes but to be utterly opposed to something without fully investigating why people do drugs and without doing them yourself is just ignorant. It is obviously an ideal STRONGLY pushed into phyre by his parents or maybe he just never was part of the party scene in college/high school and never got accustomed to drinking/smoking weed and whatever else. I was not really into the big party scene but I have done my fair share of drinking and smoking and I can tell you it is not that bad if you balance it with responsibility. Sometimes if you are not a part of something you lean towards hating it. It easy to say you hate something but harder to say you really like it. If you haven't tried it then you clearly do not have a basis. And just from "seeing other people" do drugs (which i doubt you have actually experienced first hand from what I read. By first hand i mean you have been to lots of parties with drugs users, friends who do drugs and do drugs yourself.) you can't have a truly strong basis. Have people in your life ACTUALLY ruined their lives from drugs?? If not your argument is unfounded as I said before.
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a good counter post physician =]
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On February 28 2009 12:52 Hypnosis wrote:Show nested quote +On February 28 2009 10:02 Chef wrote:On February 28 2009 09:02 Hypnosis wrote: Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5 It's natural and normal to judge and be interested in your fellow man's behaviours, not a character flaw. I believe it's intrinsic to every human being to feel a sense of duty to help their fellow man. Whether they're actually helping, or they just think they are, is irrelevant... I'm just trying to say it's normal to be concerned with the behaviour of the people who surround you. You can judge alcohol and any other drug if you've never tried it before. That's a really silly thing to say. No one is saying these drugs won't make you feel good. They're judging whether or not that's such a great thing. Yes but to be utterly opposed to something without fully investigating why people do drugs and without doing them yourself is just ignorant. It is obviously an ideal STRONGLY pushed into phyre by his parents or maybe he just never was part of the party scene in college/high school and never got accustomed to drinking/smoking weed and whatever else. I was not really into the big party scene but I have done my fair share of drinking and smoking and I can tell you it is not that bad if you balance it with responsibility. Sometimes if you are not a part of something you lean towards hating it. It easy to say you hate something but harder to say you really like it. If you haven't tried it then you clearly do not have a basis. And just from "seeing other people" do drugs (which i doubt you have actually experienced first hand from what I read. By first hand i mean you have been to lots of parties with drugs users, friends who do drugs and do drugs yourself.) you can't have a truly strong basis. Have people in your life ACTUALLY ruined their lives from drugs?? If not your argument is unfounded as I said before.
tl;dr but this right here gots me LMAO!
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MyLostTemple
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hey good post physician. i actually agree with a lot of the stuff you said although not all of it, at least not philosophically. i have definitely crossed paths with a lot of fuckups who are either completely irresponsible or biologically prone to fuck themselves over and it really is a depressing thing. judging from my own experience less than 1 out of every 4 people are actually responsible, biologically sound and/or emotionally stable enough to deal with the ups and downs of anything past weed and alcohol; but then again there are tons of people who can't even handle themselves on alcohol alone. the bottom line is that drugs are absolutely not for everyone, but not inherently evil either.
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On February 28 2009 12:52 Hypnosis wrote:Show nested quote +On February 28 2009 10:02 Chef wrote:On February 28 2009 09:02 Hypnosis wrote: Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5 It's natural and normal to judge and be interested in your fellow man's behaviours, not a character flaw. I believe it's intrinsic to every human being to feel a sense of duty to help their fellow man. Whether they're actually helping, or they just think they are, is irrelevant... I'm just trying to say it's normal to be concerned with the behaviour of the people who surround you. You can judge alcohol and any other drug if you've never tried it before. That's a really silly thing to say. No one is saying these drugs won't make you feel good. They're judging whether or not that's such a great thing. Yes but to be utterly opposed to something without fully investigating why people do drugs and without doing them yourself is just ignorant. It is obviously an ideal STRONGLY pushed into phyre by his parents or maybe he just never was part of the party scene in college/high school and never got accustomed to drinking/smoking weed and whatever else. I was not really into the big party scene but I have done my fair share of drinking and smoking and I can tell you it is not that bad if you balance it with responsibility. Sometimes if you are not a part of something you lean towards hating it. It easy to say you hate something but harder to say you really like it. If you haven't tried it then you clearly do not have a basis. And just from "seeing other people" do drugs (which i doubt you have actually experienced first hand from what I read. By first hand i mean you have been to lots of parties with drugs users, friends who do drugs and do drugs yourself.) you can't have a truly strong basis. Have people in your life ACTUALLY ruined their lives from drugs?? If not your argument is unfounded as I said before. Something just doesn't sit right with me concerning this notion that I can't be opposed to something without trying it. I can be opposed to murder, stealing, rape, and any other number of things without trying it myself.
As for were my opinions on drugs come from, it certainly isn't from my parents. While they don't drink or do drugs they also never ever discouraged me from doing so. They trust my judgment with regards to things like these, perhaps because I have such a hard line stance on these things. I wasn't part of the party scene really although the few parties I've been to ended up being some of the wilder ones I've been told. I had some friends in college though that got high practically every day so I'd like to say I'm fairly familiar with at least weed and alcohol. Honestly though, I can't really tell you where this disdain for drugs comes from exactly.
People in my life that had their lives ruined by drugs? My roommate in college was generally considered a complete weirdo or downright retarded by most people that met him initially, albeit a likable weirdo. He lacked any form of common sense in the vast majority of cases (he microwaved a light bulb, in my microwave...). However, when he applied himself even a little bit he was a genius. The guy took tests while drunk and/or stoned with no studying aside from look over his notes the day before and somehow got A's. Obviously insane potential. However, his aspirations were nothing more than to earn just enough to smoke weed all the time and live in a crappy dump of an apartment. He dropped out of school and worked as a chimney sweep for his father's company. Felt very disappointed honestly, he was a great guy and clearly was very smart.
I found out many months later that his girlfriend cheated on him and dumped him in short order. Al of a sudden he wasn't happy with life anymore or something. Dropped drugs completely, went back to college and started kicking ass getting straight A's in everything.
So technically his life wasn't ruined by drugs, but I believe he was very close. Probably not entirely the drug's fault, it rarely is I believe, but I don't think anyone can discount the role of drugs in his brush with failure.
On February 28 2009 09:02 Hypnosis wrote: Anyone who has a really strong "dislike" or hatred towards what others are doing has some major character flaws. Why does it bother you so much that OTHER people do drugs? It is an unfounded argument and it shows that you lack self confidence because you are worried about other people. And im 100% sure that you cannot judge drugs like weed and alcohol if you have never tried them. Very ignorant blog.1/5 Just no. I fail to see how I lack self confidence of all things just because I'm disgusted by other's use of drugs. Again, I feel I can judge just fine without actually indulging. If you were to make an argument at all, you could pick on judging other's in general and I might be more inclined to agree with you that it's not something you should do lightly or even make a habit of.
On February 28 2009 09:51 mog87 wrote: You are a very naive person, drugs tend to mimic already existing chemicals in the body, no one ever died from smoking weed. While some drugs are worse than others, it is dumb so lump them all in together. Stop looking down on other people because they know how to have a little fun, in short dont be a lame judgmental prude. Perhaps I am naive, but not horrifically uninformed. I'm no expert but I've done my fair share of reading on weed and I'm well aware of the near impossible chance of over dosing on it.
@Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
@Physician: I think I agree most with what you've written, it does make a lot of sense. I'd say my present perception of my opinions are most heavily influenced by your post. Makes me feel like a lot of my hatred is perhaps misdirected.
Edit: Now you've got me thinking... given a drug that does no harm to the user and none to the society surrounding the user would I still be as strongly opposed? I want to say no, but I'm still thinking about it.
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The issue with conflating murder and drug use is that they're of different moral varieties. Most drug use doesn't directly harm other people. It may do so indirectly through the dealers/suppliers or whatnot, but so does buying cell phones and tennis shoes. Most people that do X are only affecting themselves, whereas the crimes you mentioned all clearly have another victim involved.
I'm not explicitly supporting the harm principle because I do think there is some room for government intervention, especially when it comes to public health problems (look at opium did to China in the 19th century), but don't judge them in the same category of "wrong" as those other crimes.
It's also very obvious what the effects/consequences of those other actions are but it's not so obvious when it comes to drugs, so you need to get your information right which is extremely hard to do on the internet, and with stupid adults (any American in their 50s was probably blazing up in the 60s/70s, inclduing your parents) talking about gateway drugs, etc.
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On February 28 2009 11:48 Physician wrote: This reply goes mainly to counter balance Tasteless post, who because of who he is, might have a greater influence on others than he might actually ever believe but it also goes to anyone else reading that might be pro-drug use or might have seen my first post as not anti-drug. I just have to be the obnoxious adult in this one even though I understand were his coming from.
There are several caveats no one is mentioning that I wish to add to the unsuspecting reader.
"dude don't be a wuz, experiment once everything!"
- some drugs will cause permanent damage and give you absolutely nothing for it. Sniff glue and your IQ will drop ten points forever after a few uses, your coordination and reaction time will be hurt for life.. and if your unlucky many years later a doctor will have to explain to you why you kidney function sucks or you now have a liver tumor..
"woo hooo had a great time for few hours at a rave and it really opened my mind but paid for it for years after!"
- some drugs cause no meaningful harm, but unless you are making them yourself or growing them yourself YOU WILL NEVER REALLY KNOW WHAT OTHER CRAP THEY COME WITH drug makers in general don't give a hoots ass about minor contaminants that can be very harmful.. ...there is one that sometimes shows up in ecstasy and meth that will give you 100% chance of getting Parkinson later on in life (and early too).. etc.. Is it worth the risk?
why the phuck can't I function without my adderall? what twitch? oh that had it since I was young.
- many drugs have very different effects on the developing mind than on the already developed mind. Very little research has been done on the subject for obvious reasons and what little animal research has been done on the matter, in general drugs that affect the mind can be more harmful or the changes they can can cause tend to be less reversible on the developing minds than on the adult minds. Which do what and which are more dangerous? Do your own research! But not on yourself lol.. So if your mind if you are under 19 and you haven't tried drugs, stay clean for you own good, there is a whole life ahead to phuck yourself up lol..
- there is such a thing as an addictive personality, in fact there are a couple of genes already associated not only with addictive personality but also with specific drug addictions - which is why even if you are responsible and an adult you can end up ruining your life if you just "try" or "experiment" with drugs - in other words by the time you find out you probably had the wrong gene your screwed. From this perspective if you balance all the risks, on health and the legal ones that are sometimes just as important, you might as well do yourself a favor and avoid drug use of any kind. I include alcohol too here that happens to have a well proven and unfortunate genetic predisposition in some people, no matter how superior or disciplined they see themselves etc..
- then there is people whose mind is not in the best shape to start with, i.e. those battling depression, ocd, schizophrenia, anxiety disorders etc.. recreational drugs in some of these cases just end up with one dead dude or their conditons simply worsen until they end up in prison or in an institution. You say evolution at work? Wait till it's you brother or family member..
The choices we make as we grow up can have dramatic effects on us. One wrong choice and bye bye good life and sometimes you can even forget ever getting a chance to taste life properly. If you stay free of drugs, you can enjoy life fully while at the same time avoid many health and legal hazards associated with drugs that can only pull you down. We can't avoid everything that is bad and we can't live in fear about this or that BUT WE DEFINITIVELY AVOID stuff that we seen phuck up people over and over. Work in any ER and you will realize the other side drugs not many see. Its phucking sad to see young people die or end up with fried brains..
The "recreation" in recreational drugs in general is WAY over-valued and over-hyped. Many are outright unpleasant and some can only do their thing after habitual use. I haven't seen also no one even consider or add up the financial costs they carry. Save your money for better more meaningful things in life and you will be better off.
In other words the benefits of not using recreational drugs far outweighs the little benefits you might find in them.
You make a few good points here, though quite obvious. Sometimes the risk or damage involved in drug use definitely outweighs the benefits, and multiple lives have undoubtedly been ruined by irresponsible drug use. I would just like to say that you seem to be overlooking certain effects of certain (psycho-active) drugs that range, I claim, beyond mere 'recreation'. Proper use of certain psycho-active drugs, taken, preferrably, under the supervision of more experienced trippers, may truly expand one's mind and thus greatly increase one's quality of life. I made a big post earlier in this thread where I argued for this.
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I think Physician would say that even experienced trippers can't help you with your body's chemistry. Some people don't suffer long term problems, others do, EVEN if taken in a proper manner. This is mainly for the psychoactive stuff, not for weed.
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I hate people who murder others, but I've never killed anyone before...doesn't mean I can't judge. In the same way, I generally dislike people who do drugs, even if I've never tried them. Sure, the stuff makes you hella high, and it may be awesome, but as stated before in the thread the negatives outweigh the positives in a lot of cases and I don't feel that it's worth the risk to get caught up and take the risk.
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On March 01 2009 03:57 Jibba wrote: I think Physician would say that even experienced trippers can't help you with your body's chemistry. Some people don't suffer long term problems, others do, EVEN if taken in a proper manner.
Well there's a lot of difference between drugs. I was talking about shrooms/LSD/ maybe ayahuasca. Shrooms are really safe, unless you're allergic or something. I guess the argument does apply to LSD to an extent, although it's a lot safer than MDMA/XTC/Coke etc, as far as the objection that it might contain unhealthy stuff it's not supposed to contain is concerned. If you're not getting it from a stranger, the odds are really small that there's something in it. Most LSD is just a piece of paper (that was soaked in liquid LSD), so there's no real reason for dealers to put shit in it that's not supposed to be in it, whereas with coke for example, it increases the quantity. So as far as shrooms are concerned, the odds are usually really small that it's bad for your health, and the possible benefits such a trip may have (increasing your quality of life by changing your outlook on things - I talked about this in a previous post in this thread) can be quite great.
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As long as your responsible and level headed then there's no problem in doing (most) drugs. Weed can be smoked pretty much everyday and it won't have any long term effects, others such as LSD, MDMA, DMT, cocaine should be done less often but still should cause no problems for an individual of sound mind and body. Most of the people who go too far with it and let it ruin their lives would probably just end up doing the same thing with drink or something else if they had no access to drugs.
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MyLostTemple
United States2921 Posts
On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt, but i think you missed the point of my argument, i'll admit my analogy wasn't great though. I wear a seatbelt because if i crash in a car i wont flight through the windshield. i don't get some kind of rush or release by not wearing a seatbelt, i don't gain new forms of experience that are beneficial to me in some way either.
The only point in physicians post i completely disagreed with was his claim that the recreational use of drugs was over-hyped. my usage of drugs, particularly psychedelics, has drastically improved my views on art, philosophy, love, friendship, my role in the world and my views on nature. obviously upers and downers can also give people good experiences or no one would do them but people can also be grossly irresponsible with things like this which is why they aren't for everyone.
it sounds like your just a person who behaves very conservatively and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. however you shouldn't hate other people for the life choices they make, they're just people. if you really hate drugs like weed that much then you should probably have the same problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication.
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United States22883 Posts
On March 01 2009 06:29 MyLostTemple wrote:Show nested quote +On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt Liar!
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MyLostTemple
United States2921 Posts
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On March 01 2009 06:29 MyLostTemple wrote:Show nested quote +On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt, but i think you missed the point of my argument, i'll admit my analogy wasn't great though. I wear a seatbelt because if i crash in a car i wont flight through the windshield. i don't get some kind of rush or release by not wearing a seatbelt, i don't gain new forms of experience that are beneficial to me in some way either. The only point in physicians post i completely disagreed with was his claim that the recreational use of drugs was over-hyped. my usage of drugs, particularly psychedelics, has drastically improved my views on art, philosophy, love, friendship, my role in the world and my views on nature. obviously upers and downers can also give people good experiences or no one would do them but people can also be grossly irresponsible with things like this which is why they aren't for everyone. it sounds like your just a person who behaves very conservatively and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. however you shouldn't hate other people for the life choices they make, they're just people. if you really hate drugs like weed that much then you should probably have the same problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication. Just to be clear, I don't believe I said anywhere that I hate the people that do drugs. I may pity some, be disappointed at others, or even just be indifferent in some cases. I take that on the case to case basis. I believe my stance was that I hate what it does to people, the mindset and culture that follows it, etc. I've been giving it a fair amount of thought though after reading through this thread a few times and I'm finding that perhaps I was too much of an... extremist perhaps? I'm rethinking a lot of things. I'm standing firm that I'll never try the stuff, but yeah, re evaluating a lot.
Why should I have a problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication if I hate weed though? I'm not sure I understand what you're getting at.
One other thing I was thinking about, where do you guys stand on cigarettes? Most of the drug users here have been using weed as an example citing that it's not harmful and thus not that bad. However, cigs from what I understand are 100% linked to lung cancer and a number of awful ailments as well as being horrifically addictive. Seems all around pretty bad. Do you condone it's use in the same way?
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Sorry Phyre i lost my train of thought, I was really high when i wrote those replies sorry.
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On March 01 2009 14:19 Phyre wrote: One other thing I was thinking about, where do you guys stand on cigarettes? Most of the drug users here have been using weed as an example citing that it's not harmful and thus not that bad. However, cigs from what I understand are 100% linked to lung cancer and a number of awful ailments as well as being horrifically addictive. Seems all around pretty bad. Do you condone it's use in the same way?
The pros for cigs I can think of are: 1. Some people find them relaxing. If it helps you relax and think, great, but there are some heavy cons so you need to weigh the two. 2. It's a good social tool. Cig breaks are great for gathering with other smokers and having nice conversations. Obviously, this doesn't apply to everyone, but I've heard a lot of previous smokers saying that they missed the social aspect. Another social reason is that it's cool in many parts of the world and can help you fit into social groups.
The cons: 1.Cigs are really bad for your health 2. Cigs cost a lot 3. Cigs are addictive
That's all I can think of but I've never smoked cigarettes. My opinion.
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United States22883 Posts
4. They make your clothes smell like shit 5. You become reliant on them to feel relaxed
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On March 01 2009 14:19 Phyre wrote: One other thing I was thinking about, where do you guys stand on cigarettes? Most of the drug users here have been using weed as an example citing that it's not harmful and thus not that bad. However, cigs from what I understand are 100% linked to lung cancer and a number of awful ailments as well as being horrifically addictive. Seems all around pretty bad. Do you condone it's use in the same way?
I smoke weed but I don't smoke cigs. I don't think the statement that weed isn't harmful is accurate, but I do think it's less harmful than cigs. For me, the risk/benefit ratio with weed is good, with cigs it's not cause they don't offer a real benefit for me. I don't like how they taste and/or smell, so there's just no real satisfaction there, whereas weed makes me happy and chill out.
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On March 01 2009 06:40 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On March 01 2009 06:29 MyLostTemple wrote:On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt Liar!
rofl how did i miss that
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On February 17 2009 23:51 naventus wrote:
But as such, I don't really see it as something to be glorified or defended. My experience with drug users, and especially potsmokers, is that they get super butthurt and defensive (like FakeSteve) when anyone questions the rationale behind drug use. The fact is that they are just as much guilty of having a prejudiced/biased view.
I can only imagine people getting so worked up about something that is really crucial to their lives - and if defending pot use is one of them, then perhaps pot is a bigger part of who you are than you have intended it to be.
i liked what you said here. ive been smoking pot for the last six months heavily, with cigs as well, and where instead of coping with my problems with positive action, i resort oftenly to smoking pot, being around friends and forgetting my worries. i think that centers around the nature of the drug, not the drug addiction, as pot causes apathy. but to quit, even though im having apathy issues? i find myself thinking that i couldnt, or that i dont want to.
to get a bigger picture, though, i think pot has done some amazing things for me. im a cartoonist, and some of my best works are done on pot (my site: mechomics.blogspot.com). pot had made experiences i've had with my friends more vivid and alive.
side note: knowing what i know now about pot, if someone asked me "should i do it?" my response would be yes, but make sure you arent doing it more than a couple times a week. what is fucked up about drugs is most people i know that did them regularly or semi-regularly have a story where drugs had taken over. im writing my story right now, where im really starting to feel the negatives of pot but yet im clinging on to it like white on rice. in the future, when ive hit bottom and worked it out, i hope i could offer additional insights.
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MyLostTemple
United States2921 Posts
On March 01 2009 14:19 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On March 01 2009 06:29 MyLostTemple wrote:On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt, but i think you missed the point of my argument, i'll admit my analogy wasn't great though. I wear a seatbelt because if i crash in a car i wont flight through the windshield. i don't get some kind of rush or release by not wearing a seatbelt, i don't gain new forms of experience that are beneficial to me in some way either. The only point in physicians post i completely disagreed with was his claim that the recreational use of drugs was over-hyped. my usage of drugs, particularly psychedelics, has drastically improved my views on art, philosophy, love, friendship, my role in the world and my views on nature. obviously upers and downers can also give people good experiences or no one would do them but people can also be grossly irresponsible with things like this which is why they aren't for everyone. it sounds like your just a person who behaves very conservatively and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. however you shouldn't hate other people for the life choices they make, they're just people. if you really hate drugs like weed that much then you should probably have the same problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication. Just to be clear, I don't believe I said anywhere that I hate the people that do drugs. I may pity some, be disappointed at others, or even just be indifferent in some cases. I take that on the case to case basis. I believe my stance was that I hate what it does to people, the mindset and culture that follows it, etc. I've been giving it a fair amount of thought though after reading through this thread a few times and I'm finding that perhaps I was too much of an... extremist perhaps? I'm rethinking a lot of things. I'm standing firm that I'll never try the stuff, but yeah, re evaluating a lot. Why should I have a problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication if I hate weed though? I'm not sure I understand what you're getting at. One other thing I was thinking about, where do you guys stand on cigarettes? Most of the drug users here have been using weed as an example citing that it's not harmful and thus not that bad. However, cigs from what I understand are 100% linked to lung cancer and a number of awful ailments as well as being horrifically addictive. Seems all around pretty bad. Do you condone it's use in the same way?
the point i was making was that anti-depressants and bi-polar meds are drugs just like pot. in fact many people have negative side effects from anti-depressants and bi-polar meds. why are you generalizing "bad drugs" to be everything that's illegal besides alcohol. many prescription meds (like xanix or adderall) can have great utility but also can lead to dependence and abuse.
i'm really curious exactly how your friends are behaving on weed and alcohol because it's quite possible your friends specifically are just really annoying or retarded when they do this stuff. maybe they're completely irresponsible or juvenile.
what is this "drug culture" you're talking about? you've thrown that word around like there's some overarching scene that drug users categorically fit into; and further more, what "mind set" are you talking about? by "mind set" do you mean the attitude drug users have towards their lives and drug use? because if that's what you're talking about i don't think there's some super category that all these people fit into. It just sounds like you're stero-typing things. like i said; I'm under the impression this has more to do with your friends and how they behave on alcohol and pot, yet you seem to be shifting the dislike onto the drugs themselves.
Do your friends pressure people who can't handle much into getting way to drunk and becoming sick? do they sit around drawing dicks on people who pass out? are they the kind of guys who try to get girls way toooo drunk and rape them? Do they use alcohol or weed as some mechanism to abuse power over other people? I can think of a few assholes in college who did stuff like that but at the end of the day those kind of people are just the wrong people to hang out with. Is that the culture you're talking about? If it is then i'm not surprised you would jump to the conclusion of hating drugs. If this isn't the type of behavior you're seeing, what is it exactly that they're doing that upsets you to this degree??
On the subject of cigs; obviously they can lead to lung cancer and are addictive, actually much more addictive than many other drugs. I have smoked for several years, although very VERY lightly. sometimes i don't smoke for an entire month. People who smoke know exactly what they're doing to their bodies, it's a life style choice. it doesn't mean it's bad, it can just be very unhealthy but it's only 'all around bad' if you are judging based on physical health.
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intrigue
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these threads all turn out the same, so i really just skimmed the ten page thread - apologies, this is probably a redundant post.
however, i must point out how obviously senseless and narrow-minded it is to judge your friends based on drug usage. here are people who by definition you enjoy the company of, who you have found some value in through personal experience and are presumably the same now, except with the fact that they do drugs. really, people you trust. on the other hand, you have zero experience with drugs beyond what's been force-fed to you. true, they are NOT to be taken without regard for consequence and many are indeed simply stupid, but this does not mean that everything you have only read about is precise.
do you see where i'm going with this? let your friends influence your opinion on drugs, not the other way around. i don't mean 100% one way or another, just find a balance.
my view on drugs is that lsd/weed/shrooms are all around the same 'level' as alcohol, the choices being personal preference and cost. cigarettes are super frustrating but i still have one very occasionally, they're just really really nice sometimes.
also, please be careful with being 'disappointed' in or having 'pity' for otherwise normal people who enjoy recreational drugs, because it is a grave injustice and insult to be judged by someone who knows so little. it is absolutely fine to be clean, no big deal, but sitting on a little pedestal and saying things such as 'i will never try drugs' makes you very dangerously sheltered. there is a reason they are so popular, and while that is never a strong argument, you cannot go the other way and assume these people are simply weak and flawed to 'fall' to drugs.
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Valhalla18444 Posts
On February 17 2009 23:51 naventus wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 20:34 HamerD wrote: you need to realise that you can change your outlook on drugs, and your position. Drugs are just escapism. So are video games. There's no difference. Repeatedly taking drugs and repeatedly playing games for long stretches of time are virtually identical as addictions, drugs just go a step further, but that's just what the person is doing to themselves.
I think this is true. Fundamentally, a lot of the entertainment we seek are just forms of escapism. One thing that drugs might do better than video games is bring together a group of friends, since it's often a social activity (as opposed to online multiplayer or w/e). But as such, I don't really see it as something to be glorified or defended. My experience with drug users, and especially potsmokers, is that they get super butthurt and defensive (like FakeSteve) when anyone questions the rationale behind drug use. The fact is that they are just as much guilty of having a prejudiced/biased view. I can only imagine people getting so worked up about something that is really crucial to their lives - and if defending pot use is one of them, then perhaps pot is a bigger part of who you are than you have intended it to be.
you are making really wierd conclusions, based on the things i actually say
i care more about helping kids grow up than whether or not anyone smokes pot or what they think about it, which i really don't give a shit about
you are skimming my posts, noting a tone of dissent, and throwing me into the same classification as everyone else who doesn't share your skewed views on casual drug use
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Norway28582 Posts
some drugs are bad some are good some people can take drugs and do fine others get totally consumed by them generalizing drugs or drug-users is very unwise..
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On February 17 2009 12:55 Phyre wrote:Show nested quote +On February 17 2009 12:48 Luddite wrote: if you've never tried it, you really can't judge since you have no idea what it's like. Yeah, I get that a lot. It's like telling me to find religion and saying "How can you judge until you've tried it?" You don't always need to have experienced something to disagree with it strongly. I got similar arguments when I said fraternities were trash. "You were never in a frat, you wouldn't understand" and stuff like that.
Because of my fraternity, I do more charity work in a week, than you've done in your life, I guarantee this.
PS I'm high as fuck
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On March 02 2009 15:41 MyLostTemple wrote:Show nested quote +On March 01 2009 14:19 Phyre wrote:On March 01 2009 06:29 MyLostTemple wrote:On February 28 2009 14:36 Phyre wrote: @Tasteless: That's cool and all that you were able to do so much whilst making use of a variety of drugs, but as I believe you already mentioned, I don't think most people are capable of doing the same. You're probably more the lucky/stronger minority than the majority.
You do bring up an interesting point though about not living life with a seatbelt, helmet, etc. This may be another reason I feel the way I do, but it's my nature to be as safe as possible within reason. I'm not what you'd call an adventurous person, I seek predictability and consistency in most aspects of life. So in terms of approaching life with protection, other may be wearing a seatbelt or a helmet but I'm bringing a tank. At least in mindset, not always in practice. Might explain a few things. For the record though, please don't confuse being safe with living a sheltered life.
Just out of curiosity though, do you wear seatbelts then?
yeah i always wear a seatbelt, but i think you missed the point of my argument, i'll admit my analogy wasn't great though. I wear a seatbelt because if i crash in a car i wont flight through the windshield. i don't get some kind of rush or release by not wearing a seatbelt, i don't gain new forms of experience that are beneficial to me in some way either. The only point in physicians post i completely disagreed with was his claim that the recreational use of drugs was over-hyped. my usage of drugs, particularly psychedelics, has drastically improved my views on art, philosophy, love, friendship, my role in the world and my views on nature. obviously upers and downers can also give people good experiences or no one would do them but people can also be grossly irresponsible with things like this which is why they aren't for everyone. it sounds like your just a person who behaves very conservatively and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. however you shouldn't hate other people for the life choices they make, they're just people. if you really hate drugs like weed that much then you should probably have the same problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication. Just to be clear, I don't believe I said anywhere that I hate the people that do drugs. I may pity some, be disappointed at others, or even just be indifferent in some cases. I take that on the case to case basis. I believe my stance was that I hate what it does to people, the mindset and culture that follows it, etc. I've been giving it a fair amount of thought though after reading through this thread a few times and I'm finding that perhaps I was too much of an... extremist perhaps? I'm rethinking a lot of things. I'm standing firm that I'll never try the stuff, but yeah, re evaluating a lot. Why should I have a problem with anti-depressants and bi-polar medication if I hate weed though? I'm not sure I understand what you're getting at. One other thing I was thinking about, where do you guys stand on cigarettes? Most of the drug users here have been using weed as an example citing that it's not harmful and thus not that bad. However, cigs from what I understand are 100% linked to lung cancer and a number of awful ailments as well as being horrifically addictive. Seems all around pretty bad. Do you condone it's use in the same way? the point i was making was that anti-depressants and bi-polar meds are drugs just like pot. in fact many people have negative side effects from anti-depressants and bi-polar meds. why are you generalizing "bad drugs" to be everything that's illegal besides alcohol. many prescription meds (like xanix or adderall) can have great utility but also can lead to dependence and abuse. i'm really curious exactly how your friends are behaving on weed and alcohol because it's quite possible your friends specifically are just really annoying or retarded when they do this stuff. maybe they're completely irresponsible or juvenile. what is this "drug culture" you're talking about? you've thrown that word around like there's some overarching scene that drug users categorically fit into; and further more, what "mind set" are you talking about? by "mind set" do you mean the attitude drug users have towards their lives and drug use? because if that's what you're talking about i don't think there's some super category that all these people fit into. It just sounds like you're stero-typing things. like i said; I'm under the impression this has more to do with your friends and how they behave on alcohol and pot, yet you seem to be shifting the dislike onto the drugs themselves. Do your friends pressure people who can't handle much into getting way to drunk and becoming sick? do they sit around drawing dicks on people who pass out? are they the kind of guys who try to get girls way toooo drunk and rape them? Do they use alcohol or weed as some mechanism to abuse power over other people? I can think of a few assholes in college who did stuff like that but at the end of the day those kind of people are just the wrong people to hang out with. Is that the culture you're talking about? If it is then i'm not surprised you would jump to the conclusion of hating drugs. If this isn't the type of behavior you're seeing, what is it exactly that they're doing that upsets you to this degree?? On the subject of cigs; obviously they can lead to lung cancer and are addictive, actually much more addictive than many other drugs. I have smoked for several years, although very VERY lightly. sometimes i don't smoke for an entire month. People who smoke know exactly what they're doing to their bodies, it's a life style choice. it doesn't mean it's bad, it can just be very unhealthy but it's only 'all around bad' if you are judging based on physical health. I don't take issue with anti-depressants and bi-polar meds when they are used for medicinal purposes to help someone that needs it to function. In terms of effect, they may be very similar to something like weed or any number of other recreational drugs. However, the difference to me is in their use. There have been many studies (or so I'm told) that say weed can have some great benefits for people with certain medical conditions (I think someone said cancer of some sort) and I'm all for that. It crosses the line from altering your brain chemistry because you felt like it to needing it simply not to be in pain all the time or to function at a somewhat normal capacity. As you mentioned, some of these medicines have their downfalls but I assume that the ailment they are trying to deal with outweighs these hence the continued use.
The "drug culture" and "mindset" that I refer to are the recurring characteristics I tend to see in a lot of drug users. The stereotype perhaps. However, I don't believe I said anywhere that all drug users subscribe to the "drug culture and mindset" that I mentioned. Some do, some don't. I dislike the ones that do. For example, I hate the "frat boy culture/mindset" which I suppose could roughly translate to the "frat boy stereotype". Doesn't mean I hate all fraternity members or that all fraternity members fit the stereotype. My father is/was a member.
As for my friends, they're pretty benign when they're high. More so than when they are drunk. They basically just sit around in a room and laugh at anything. They most definitely don't do any of what you mentioned. I don't think they are a danger to anyone besides maybe themselves, not even much of that depending on who you trust with regards to health risks. It's hard to pin down exactly what it is that makes me dislike them when they do this. It was brought up earlier, but perhaps it has something to do with feeling left out. I have no intention of doing drugs, most of them respect that and don't push it on me, but in the end we don't hang out as much as we used to. It bothers me that they seemed to only really be having fun when they are drunk or high and it wasn't always like that. I even tried hanging out in the room while they were getting high and it just wasn't the same for obvious reasons. Conversations just aren't as interesting and if they are, it's for entirely different reasons. So perhaps it's just I feel left out. Sort of like when a few friends of mine joined fraternities and stopped hanging out with non-greek life people, the weed smokers and drinkers just split off into their own exclusive groups. Not sure, but I'll give it more thought. Upon initial reflection, I feel that I may be acting somewhat selfishly. Like I said though, I'm giving it more thought and seeing where it leads me. No conclusions thus far.
On cigs, that's what I meant when I said "all around bad". I was strictly referring to health stuff. I was just curious to see if people still felt the same about a drug that has well documented, known severe health risks since most people kept making statements about weed's safeness to, I assume, put drugs in a nicer light. Never thought to ask about that perspective so I find it interesting to read the different viewpoints.
@Intrigue: Just as I may sound condescending towards drug users, I find that they tend to be similarly condescending. Even before I voice my opinion in some cases. Things like "you have zero experience with drugs beyond what's been force-fed to you" and "it is a grave injustice and insult to be judged by someone who knows so little" I find to be somewhat condescending myself. Something that many drug users seem to assume when confronting someone that is against their hobby is assume that everything we know about drugs is "force fed" or government propaganda of some sort. Totally dismissing the possibility that they have done a fair amount of reading from both sides. Claims that non-drug users are naive and "know so little" generally aren't too far behind. Somehow, I have a feeling you didn't intend this to be offensive though so I try not to take it as such. Thanks for your input.
@PanN: I did a fair amount of volunteer teaching of my own for quite awhile (years), so I'd be interested to see your numbers and hear about what you did. I know there has been a fair amount of assuming going on, myself included, but you seem quite foolish to make such a direct and specific accusation when you know so little about myself. That said, the world can always use more volunteer work so kudos to you.
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Actually, I think I've come to something of a conclusion. It's not 100% conclusive since I don't really fully understand it all but it's something I think I can live with.
The more I think about things the more I find I hate things. Lots of things. At least with regards to drugs, I'm finding too many question marks in my own reasoning, places where I can't explain why I feel the way I do. I've always valued the ability to be logical, and feeling something for no reason and worse so, acting on it isn't logical. So it only makes sense to resolve to not be so judgmental and hate without good reasoning. At least enough reasoning to explain one's emotions to a satisfactory level which I have thus far failed to do with regards to the drugs that don't have obvious reasons to hate such as simply being deadly.
The next time I feel the disgust and hatred I've mentioned before, I intend to really give it a thorough analysis to better understand my reasons. Hopefully to come to a better, more complete, conclusion.
Still not taking drugs, ever. Thanks TL, gave me a lot to think about.
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Valhalla18444 Posts
well drugs are obviously not for you, so avoid them. i don't think you'd enjoy what they do to you
the condescending attitude of people on the other side of the coin is just a natural reaction to statements like the ones in your OP. check this out:
"i hate starcraft. i've never played it, but i've seen my friends play it, and they say stupid shit like 'gee gee'. I will never play starcraft and tend to look down on those who do'
seems kind of silly, doesn't it? on top of that, because of the subject matter we're talking about here, you are basically calling casual drug users on TL degenerate scum. it's really not fair to assume things about you either, but this really is exactly what programs like D.A.R.E. promote in people (as an example, tbh i don't think anyone took dare seriously), so that's where it comes from. it simply isn't a reasonable conclusion to come to if everything is based on your own experiences, so 95% of the people who are so firmly anti-drug really just don't know what they're talking about, or have really boring friends. the other 5% are people who have lost friends to heroin ODs or come from a family of crack dealers, shady stuff that can and should give you a negative viewpoint on the subject
just boils down to what i said initially, it's unhealthy to meet things you don't understand with contempt. whether i smoke pot or you smoke pot has nothing to do with it. i'd never jump out of a fucking airplane with a rag in a backpack, but i'm not going to condemn skydivers
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Valhalla18444 Posts
Also, after reading your further posts I think a lot of your views on pot are pretty justified given your circumstances. I think you'd have an entirely different opinion if you were hanging out with the people i hung out with back home - people who get up and have fun, write music, play video games, or just sit around and shoot the shit when they smoke weed. nobody wants to just sit on the couch and laugh when we were hanging out
i guess i mean that while pot does enable you to enjoy doing nothing, you have to be sensible enough to know that doing something is far more fun, just like it is when you're sober
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On March 03 2009 14:33 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: the condescending attitude of people on the other side of the coin is just a natural reaction to statements like the ones in your OP. check this out:
"i hate starcraft. i've never played it, but i've seen my friends play it, and they say stupid shit like 'gee gee'. I will never play starcraft and tend to look down on those who do'
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=87968¤tpage=4#63
i was hoping to get more of a response =/
oh well
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Valhalla18444 Posts
hahaha i missed that
its a little extreme though
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On March 03 2009 14:33 FakeSteve[TPR] wrote: well drugs are obviously not for you, so avoid them. i don't think you'd enjoy what they do to you
the condescending attitude of people on the other side of the coin is just a natural reaction to statements like the ones in your OP. check this out:
"i hate starcraft. i've never played it, but i've seen my friends play it, and they say stupid shit like 'gee gee'. I will never play starcraft and tend to look down on those who do'
seems kind of silly, doesn't it? on top of that, because of the subject matter we're talking about here, you are basically calling casual drug users on TL degenerate scum. it's really not fair to assume things about you either, but this really is exactly what programs like D.A.R.E. promote in people (as an example, tbh i don't think anyone took dare seriously), so that's where it comes from. it simply isn't a reasonable conclusion to come to if everything is based on your own experiences, so 95% of the people who are so firmly anti-drug really just don't know what they're talking about, or have really boring friends. the other 5% are people who have lost friends to heroin ODs or come from a family of crack dealers, shady stuff that can and should give you a negative viewpoint on the subject
just boils down to what i said initially, it's unhealthy to meet things you don't understand with contempt. whether i smoke pot or you smoke pot has nothing to do with it. i'd never jump out of a fucking airplane with a rag in a backpack, but i'm not going to condemn skydivers
-sigh- people that use rugs are so condescending. After all that had been said it is sad to say my opinion of TLers that use drugs is just not to high anymore. It sucks but it is what it is.
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The effect of drugs on people only reflects their real nature. Drugs cant turn you into someone you're not (contrary to popular opinion) they just lower your inhibitions and stimulate you to action. No, I'm not advocating the use of drugs, I'm just saying, what a person does while under the effect still depends on the person. I've tried LSD once, admittedly a long time ago, and frequently smoke weed. I don't think I've changed at all, and neither do my friends, most of whom don't partake in drug use. The way I see it, its just a way to derive more fun and enjoyment from your daily life
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United States22883 Posts
While I have no issue with decriminalizing weed (I don't smoke), here's an issue for those who do smoke to think about. People who mass produce weed aren't druggies, they're capitalists and since there is no FDA standard, they're using a lot of chemicals to increase their profits that you're probably not aware of. There's LOTS of pesticides (especially with hydroponics), growth agents, things to artificially increase THC levels, etc. and you're smoking it.
When the studies are done, they're using medical marijuana which has guidelines for how it has to be produced, but with stuff on the street, you're ingesting a lot of unknown chemicals that the research doesn't account for. Just be aware of that.
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i smoke weed about two or three times a school week but, that is my limit and i refuse to break it. but i dont like to be judged just because i like to smoke, and have NEVER been in trouble with the law, and NEVER been caught by family, *knocks on wood* but you cant judge people for what they like to do if its not out of control.
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