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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
I've a pretty good female friend who unfortunately got a boyfriend, but she told me she's not so happy right now and well.. she likes me and thinks I'm hot. We will meet today and I know she's not strictly against having a little fun with me, ya know! I think she loves her boyfriend to no end but right now its just not a good situation for their relationship so.. I don't want to get her to do a mistake just to have fun.. What would you do T_T   | ||
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Yogurt
United States4258 Posts
pop it and drop it gun it and run it pee it and flee it? i've run dry | ||
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indecision
Germany818 Posts
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KlaCkoN
Sweden1661 Posts
Didn't like that answer? Ok, do you know the boy friend? If not you can probably fuck her without beeing tooo much of an ass. Though considering she loves him (or so you say) she will feel horrible about herself and then blame it on you, making you loose a friend. Or she will will break up with him anyways and be all depressed about it (and blame it on you). She could also I guess become all into you cause you guys had so awsome sex. Great. But wait you aren't seriously going to consider a girl who cheats on a boy she supposedly "loves" as girl friend material right?. So you reject her, again causing her to hate you because now she broke up with her great boyfriend for an asshole that doesn't even like her. Ehm bottom line is if you are going to mess with a girl with a boyfriend, fucking don't do it with a friend _nothing_ good can come out of it (imho) Now go answer my physics blog :p :p | ||
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Agavond
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SK.Testie
Canada11084 Posts
Regardless, keep your dignity and live a life of no regrets. Don't bang someone even when they are asking for it when it is going to needlessly hurt someone else. This guy'll get hurt by this girl eventually, but atleast you won't be the source. However if you're in a situation where you value sex that much or find banging a chick to be a scarce commodity and really want it, do it. You can do it guilt free to an extent anyway as she's initiating. I'd tell her if she wants it she'd better break it off with this guy because you have your own reasons you know? If you want to do it enough, your mind will come up with enough logical reasons to hit it convincing you it is ok. Even if it isn't. I wouldn't, but you can. | ||
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Agavond
448 Posts
On September 01 2008 17:40 MYM.Testie wrote:+ Show Spoiler + It means she isn't really into her relationship and wants to bang you. (Or she's looking for a way out of her relationship). She might tell her boyfriend she loves him but if she's pulling shit like this she probably has no clue what love is. Regardless, keep your dignity and live a life of no regrets. Don't bang someone even when they are asking for it when it is going to needlessly hurt someone else. This guy'll get hurt by this girl eventually, but atleast you won't be the source. However if you're in a situation where you value sex that much or find banging a chick to be a scarce commodity and really want it, do it. You can do it guilt free to an extent anyway as she's initiating. I'd tell her if she wants it she'd better break it off with this guy because you have your own reasons you know? If you want to do it enough, your mind will come up with enough logical reasons to hit it convincing you it is ok. Even if it isn't. I wouldn't, but you can. In all of its pity/moral crap, this girl is whore-ish and quite frankly it's a waste of time for the soon to be ex-boyfriend to continue this relationship. You can't turn a ho into a house wife. Besides naruto likes her and wants a little fun with her so let it be (also be sure to use condoms). | ||
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Raithed
China7078 Posts
profit? | ||
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.kaz
1963 Posts
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rottedchode
United States17 Posts
On September 01 2008 18:01 .kaz wrote: Tell her to leave him if she wants you..? yea and end up with a slut until her next booty call | ||
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On September 01 2008 17:47 Sins wrote: In all of its pity/moral crap, this girl is whore-ish and quite frankly it's a waste of time for the soon to be ex-boyfriend to continue this relationship. You can't turn a ho into a house wife. Besides naruto likes her and wants a little fun with her so let it be (also be sure to use condoms). Dont call my friend a whore.. She loves her boyfriend but I made her feeling shaky. Also her boyfriend doesn't care too much about her.. at least thats what I can tell from her telling me about him. She doesn't consider me just as a sex partner more like a relationship choice :o! - - I will just wait and see what happen | ||
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lovelyrose
Canada160 Posts
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pachi
Melbourne5338 Posts
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
On September 01 2008 18:17 lovelyrose wrote: as testie said, live a life of no regrets, except you have to decide which way leads to no regrets. Hehehe gogogogo :p You have fished fish w/ a straight hook, now grab it! | ||
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Rayzorblade
United States1172 Posts
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Jizz
Australia224 Posts
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TheTyranid
Russian Federation4333 Posts
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On September 01 2008 19:00 TheTyranid wrote: It all depends on how pretty she is. Can you post a pic of her? If not then just give me a ranking on a scale of 1-10. Not perfect body, but she's really cute. I'd say 7 | ||
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indecision
Germany818 Posts
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TheTyranid
Russian Federation4333 Posts
On September 01 2008 19:24 G.s)NarutO wrote: Not perfect body, but she's really cute. I'd say 7 Imo 7 is a borderline number. Ideally I'd only go for 7.5 or higher but hey if you are attracted then go for it. If by fun you mean a one night stand and she is ok with it then that is one of the more harmless things and the best option. Just make sure you don't make a deep connection so she doesn't get torn between you two. | ||
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Nyovne
Netherlands19129 Posts
Thats my 2 cents :p. | ||
Daigomi
South Africa4316 Posts
On September 01 2008 19:38 Nyovne wrote: Never ever even touch the subject of doing something romantic/sexual with a person in a relationship. Thats my 2 cents :p. I agree, people complicate their lives by doing things that are borderline OK or borderline wrong. In all honesty, your life won't greatly be improved by having a once off romantic/sexual thing with her, unless you want to go into a relationship with her which means she would have to dump her boyfriend first. Keep it simple, if she wants a relationship she can dump her boyfriend, if she wants sex she can either dump her boyfriend or you can get it somewhere else. | ||
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St3MoR
Spain3256 Posts
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punt
Singapore50 Posts
at least the both of you will know your respective stands regarding the issue.. if it looks it might get awry just bail but in a manner that is as nice as possible since she's a good friend.. | ||
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XCetron
5225 Posts
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FreeDoM[YA]
Canada855 Posts
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Mandalor
Germany2362 Posts
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prOxi.swAMi
Australia3091 Posts
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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funkie
Venezuela9374 Posts
It's kind of like "karma". Don't do bad things to others, and bad things won't happen to you. ;P GL in whatever you decide though. | ||
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funkie
Venezuela9374 Posts
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nA.Inky
United States794 Posts
Every relationship has difficult moments. Its inevitable. So think about how you would want your partner to be in that situation, and think about how you would feel if you were the boyfriend in that situation. Of course, I'm not telling you what to do. It's just something to think about. | ||
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[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
On September 01 2008 23:40 [X]Ken_D wrote: G.s)NarutO, what do you ultimately want from her in the long term? Relationship | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On September 01 2008 23:35 nA.Inky wrote: A question to ask might be: If I were seeing a girl, would I feel ok if her and some other guy had sex just because we are having problems? Granted, if she slept with you or messed around with you, that's at least partly her decision, and her responsibility, but would you want to be helping her to cheat on her boyfriend? Would you like it if someone helped your girlfriend cheat on you in times of relationship trouble? Every relationship has difficult moments. Its inevitable. So think about how you would want your partner to be in that situation, and think about how you would feel if you were the boyfriend in that situation. Of course, I'm not telling you what to do. It's just something to think about. Oh so well put. | ||
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
On September 01 2008 17:40 MYM.Testie wrote: It means she isn't really into her relationship and wants to bang you. (Or she's looking for a way out of her relationship). She might tell her boyfriend she loves him but if she's pulling shit like this she probably has no clue what love is. Regardless, keep your dignity and live a life of no regrets. Don't bang someone even when they are asking for it when it is going to needlessly hurt someone else. This guy'll get hurt by this girl eventually, but atleast you won't be the source. However if you're in a situation where you value sex that much or find banging a chick to be a scarce commodity and really want it, do it. You can do it guilt free to an extent anyway as she's initiating. I'd tell her if she wants it she'd better break it off with this guy because you have your own reasons you know? If you want to do it enough, your mind will come up with enough logical reasons to hit it convincing you it is ok. Even if it isn't. I wouldn't, but you can. On September 01 2008 23:35 nA.Inky wrote: A question to ask might be: If I were seeing a girl, would I feel ok if her and some other guy had sex just because we are having problems? Granted, if she slept with you or messed around with you, that's at least partly her decision, and her responsibility, but would you want to be helping her to cheat on her boyfriend? Would you like it if someone helped your girlfriend cheat on you in times of relationship trouble? Every relationship has difficult moments. Its inevitable. So think about how you would want your partner to be in that situation, and think about how you would feel if you were the boyfriend in that situation. Of course, I'm not telling you what to do. It's just something to think about. I agree with both of these.  I dont think its worth it if she's will to cheat because shes have relationship troubles. That shows some more into her character. You think there are people with some decent moral grounding in the world and wouldnt help her cheat in troubled times? You bet. Id take the higher route though. If she wants to mess around then have her break up with the bf and then you can see whats up. Until then no..dont you dare taste the forbidden fruit O_O. | ||
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8Pylon
United States223 Posts
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
However, if you just planned on getting together with her for a fling over the course of a few weeks, then go for it. She might cheat on you, but at least your heart was not a part of it, just your body. Ive been in your situation, and I have found that once someone cheats, it's usually on their mind again, because they already know what they are doing, and how to do it. My advice....Just dont get hurt or played. | ||
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Phyre
United States1288 Posts
I've always had the notion that if you truly love someone you will put their well being before your own. If she's having a difficult time with her current boyfriend, probably what she needs more than a one night stand and a storm of drama is a good friend. You run the risk of getting stuck in that "friend" role, but do what is best for her if you really care about her. | ||
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[X]Ken_D
United States4650 Posts
The timing seems about right so go for it. Hopefully she will have the courage to leave her boyfriend. Her boyfriend, from how you describe, isn't someone that she will be with the rest of her life anyways. Convince her that. Just don't get stuck in the middle if she doesn't leave immediately, emotionally hurt. Good luck. | ||
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LastWish
2013 Posts
Havwe decided to not to do it, my consciousness did. But it also regreted not doing it since they broke up like month after it and it changed alot after it and never had the opportunity again. Your case may be different, but once you refuse a girl it makes things different. Try to make her for yourself only. | ||
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LastWish
2013 Posts
On September 01 2008 23:14 funkie wrote: Don't do something to her, that you wouldn't want done to your GF in the future or something. It's kind of like "karma". Don't do bad things to others, and bad things won't happen to you. ;P GL in whatever you decide though. I disagree on this, I feel like I have not done many bad things but sometimes life just gives back nothing good in return. More than often the cunning ones, and those who don't give shit about good and bad live life to full. | ||
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JudgeMathis
Cuba1286 Posts
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hymn
Bulgaria832 Posts
I am only telling this cause my current relationship started this way. 2 years ago. I am still dating this girl. And no, I don't really care if she is fucking other guys. Everyone is free to do whatever he or she wants. I can't judge people. p.s. I am happy like a pedophile in a kinder garden. | ||
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Scorpion
United States1974 Posts
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Frits
11782 Posts
Think about it. Would you want a relationship with a chick that cheats on her boyfriend? Fuck no man, | ||
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Frits
11782 Posts
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Nyovne
Netherlands19129 Posts
On September 02 2008 06:30 Frits wrote: Also this is how I think this will turn out: She comes over, naruto tries something, she gets offended and leaves, end of story. Correction, she tries to leave, he pulls out his fucking big ass Frostmourn replica and rapes her at sword point. ROAARRRRR!!! Btw gl Sylvanoface, if I ever turn out to help someone cheat on her boyf, I sure as hell wont start a relationship with a cheater :p. Cheats once, cheats more often. At least thats what I believe :p. | ||
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NarutO
Germany18839 Posts
She will come again today.. Thanks everyone ^.^! Yes Nyovne, I put my sword in her pussy-.- really deep. Nyovne you are crazy^^ | ||
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fight_or_flight
United States3988 Posts
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EpiK
Korea (South)5757 Posts
On September 01 2008 18:47 Jizz wrote: FE into her natural. (if you know what i mean) this post is so perfect for you tl id | ||
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Nyovne
Netherlands19129 Posts
On September 02 2008 15:52 G.s)NarutO wrote: Update: We didn't do anything, but talk and I think it was a good choice! We also talked about cheating- -.. etc! She will come again today.. Thanks everyone ^.^! Yes Nyovne, I put my sword in her pussy-.- really deep. Nyovne you are crazy^^ AND NOW WE ARE ONE!! ROOOAARRRRR!! | ||
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Rus_Brain
Russian Federation1893 Posts
 P.S. Just the advice for the topicstarter. No time to read all the comments, sorry, pls. | ||
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